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Did I go too far with my actions? by uyiekpen26: 2:56pm On Sep 19, 2016 |
Myself and this particular girl have been dating for quite sometime (let's say like 2yrs) now. This is someone I do everything for. I pay for the house she's currently living in, send her money for her upkeep, paid some of her fees in school and once in awhile take her on some of my trips within and outside the country. I've noticed that most times when I call her in the evenings she's never with her phone and she doesn't even pick when I call. I thought maybe she's reading or something. So I don't usually bother to ask her. At some point I noticed some strange behaviors in her. This was someone who was never a club person and all of a sudden she started clubbing and smoking shisha. I confronted her and she said it was just once but I kept quiet. So I decided to do a little investigation without her notice. So I called her one day and a guy picked up and asked who I was. I ended the call and decided to pay her a surprise visit. As soon as I entered, I saw a guy on boxers and singlet sitting on her bed and as soon as she saw me she almost developed high BP. But I pretended like nothing was happening and told her I just came to check up on her. I left her house that in anger. I went straight to the bank the following week I opened an account for her and closed the account. I stopped with immediate effect the visa processing I was doing in her name. Burnt all the clothes I bought for her from dubai recently and gave all the jewelries I bought for her too to one of my neighbors. I told the landlord to issue a quit notice to her in the house she currently stays. I'm supposed to be renewing the rent by October 17. I'm equally thinking of coming to remove everything in that same house by the weekend with some mobile policemen. As for the school fees she can forget about it. She will have to source for that herself. Just yesterday she and some of those her useless friends and family members have been disturbing my phone begging. Saying I'm taking things too far. 21 Likes |
Re: Did I go too far with my actions? by westlee(m): 3:07pm On Sep 19, 2016 |
bro's mi, you nefa hear this word "these holes ain't loyal?? you better forget her and her useless friends, else OYO 20 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Did I go too far with my actions? by uyiekpen26: 3:10pm On Sep 19, 2016 |
westlee:Bros now I know better. This is someone I picked up from the gutter and cleaned up. Now she's saying it was the bad advice her friends gave her. I've told her I'm not interested. She will eat sand. 16 Likes |
Re: Did I go too far with my actions? by Nobody: 3:15pm On Sep 19, 2016 |
uyiekpen26:How far is too far? You didn't. 30 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Did I go too far with my actions? by uyiekpen26: 3:17pm On Sep 19, 2016 |
Julian08:thanks bro. Girls don't deserve anything good. As we speak she's even calling now. I've told her to go and meet that guy I saw in her house that day. 23 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Did I go too far with my actions? by abokibuhari: 3:18pm On Sep 19, 2016 |
God bless you bro, you just made my day sire. more grease to your manhood after recession fear WOMEN 63 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Did I go too far with my actions? by Sbsex: 3:19pm On Sep 19, 2016 |
U avnt done anytyn far, if I we're u I will do sametyn. It shows she Dos nt worth it. A lot a out der who need Dis same chance BT here she is she missused it. Abi bro u no da strave her? 11 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Did I go too far with my actions? by uyiekpen26: 3:20pm On Sep 19, 2016 |
abokibuhari:thanks brother. Even the phone she's been using to disturb me was bought by me. I'm going to collect everything including the phone and everything in that house. After all, I bought them with my own money not hers. 12 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Did I go too far with my actions? by uyiekpen26: 3:22pm On Sep 19, 2016 |
Sbsex:funny enough we dey strave well but women can never be content. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Did I go too far with my actions? by Sbsex: 3:22pm On Sep 19, 2016 |
[quote author=uyiekpen26 post=49496397] thanks brother. Even the phone she's been using to disturb me was bought by me. I'm going to collect everything including the phone and everything in that house. After all, I bought them with my own money not hers.[/quo Sure, if u can collect dat bra and pant too. Some gels don't just worth it, Aldo nt all. 6 Likes |
Re: Did I go too far with my actions? by Sbsex: 3:24pm On Sep 19, 2016 |
uyiekpen26: Dat means say d gel no like bed na gutter she like abeg make she go back her gutter 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Did I go too far with my actions? by abokibuhari: 3:25pm On Sep 19, 2016 |
uyiekpen26:baba, leave that phone make she use for remembering you. most babes no get joy at all, I dated one but later found it that she was dating someone even before i asked her out. I almost wept 15 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Did I go too far with my actions? by Terryindeed: 3:26pm On Sep 19, 2016 |
Brother, to be honest and I repeat to be HONEST, if she's wearing the bra and pant you bought for her, please take it and burn it. Am speaking from my experience o. I forgave her the 1st time, the 2nd time she did cheated, she told me ohh ahh " that I have done my part by helping her through school, that she's been waiting for me to find her cheating. Nigga " lemme admit, I nearly drank poison o. Please am begging you with Allah, God, Jesus, don't even wait for the rent to expire, take a bus to the house and empty the house , everything you bought for her, take it to the homeless people. Finally don't forgive her, use what she has done as a motivation to leave her pennyless. A guy picked u from the scratch and build you up, all he wanted from you was faithfulness, but all you gave him was pain and betrayal. Am begging you , call me for more tips self. She deserve a bullet. Go and empty the house now. One love bro. Na only God go help us, the worst thing is that if you look closely, she cheated with someone lesser than you, someone who doesn't even have 5k in his account. 66 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Did I go too far with my actions? by uyiekpen26: 3:27pm On Sep 19, 2016 |
abokibuhari:bro I'm not going back. I've vowed to collect everything. 3 Likes |
Re: Did I go too far with my actions? by Nobody: 3:27pm On Sep 19, 2016 |
there is an adage that says "no matter how you bath and dress for a pig... it will go back into the mud you picked it up from" girls ain't loyal... and being too nice to them doesn't pay... they take it for granted....... bro.. you haven't gone too far..... 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Did I go too far with my actions? by uyiekpen26: 3:30pm On Sep 19, 2016 |
Terryindeed:God bless you my brother. I'm going there with mobile policemen on Friday to remove everything in that house. I wanted to burn them before but I'll give them to the orphanage or needy rather. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Did I go too far with my actions? by Nobody: 3:31pm On Sep 19, 2016 |
uyiekpen26:Gonna be honest with you bro. I've been dealt a very terrible card by a girl I loved very much but I couldn't bring myself to the level of wishing her anything bad. The only advice, which I have never ceased to give to people who find themselves in the sh1t I once dug myself up from, is that they shouldn't think much about it. That's the only way regret set in. Everybody is responsible for whatever he/she gets. Above all, just wish her well and get on with your life. There better and more beautiful people as well as bigger challenges ahead of you. 12 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Did I go too far with my actions? by uyiekpen26: 3:31pm On Sep 19, 2016 |
Samwell247:thanks my brother. I'm going to make sure she goes back to the street and gutter where she comes from. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Did I go too far with my actions? by uyiekpen26: 3:34pm On Sep 19, 2016 |
Julian08:God bless you my brother. The world would be a better place if they were more people like you. 1 Like |
Re: Did I go too far with my actions? by Terryindeed: 3:38pm On Sep 19, 2016 |
My brother God bless you too, please do one thing for me before you leave the house, spit on her face and walk away, don't exchange a word, don't say I have heard you, just pack everything, then when she comes to you , get hold of her face and spit on her forehead. That will make her in her life never cheat with even a dog. What I just said will follow her to her entaph (grave) . Brother Friday is too far, what happens tomorrow? Abeg I don't want u to forgive her o. 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Did I go too far with my actions? by austine4real(m): 3:39pm On Sep 19, 2016 |
lies u be must related to lie mohamed?? 5 Likes |
Re: Did I go too far with my actions? by uyiekpen26: 3:43pm On Sep 19, 2016 |
Terryindeed:I'll do that bros. I said Friday cos of my schedule. I'm not gonna exchange words with her. The presence of mobile policemen will humble her. If she tries to create any drama I'll ensure she gets arrested. 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Did I go too far with my actions? by uyiekpen26: 3:44pm On Sep 19, 2016 |
austine4real:I pity you. Smh. |
Re: Did I go too far with my actions? by debque(m): 3:50pm On Sep 19, 2016 |
u no go c any comments from them females nao ooo..... 1 Like |
Re: Did I go too far with my actions? by uyiekpen26: 3:51pm On Sep 19, 2016 |
debque:you don't expect them to. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Did I go too far with my actions? by obongtunji: 3:52pm On Sep 19, 2016 |
uyiekpen26: In my own opinion, I don't think you have to go that far. Stopping her visa, closing her account and not paying her house rent is enough punishment. I pray you get a nice lady that will treat you well, goodluck. 12 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Did I go too far with my actions? by uyiekpen26: 3:54pm On Sep 19, 2016 |
obongtunji:thanks bro. Even the phone she has been using to call me was bought by me. I'm going to collect it and everything as well. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Did I go too far with my actions? by Eleganza33(f): 4:01pm On Sep 19, 2016 |
Chai am speechless some girls go they look for this kind of man while the ones that are lucky to have them are fucking up,if she was truly a cheat op please bring her here i need to flog her well can you imagine 19 Likes |
Re: Did I go too far with my actions? by omega25red(m): 4:11pm On Sep 19, 2016 |
uyiekpen26:you did what's right. she should have the other man pay her way since he is F'ing her. Don't come here next week to tell us you changed your mind 11 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Did I go too far with my actions? by Millsz: 4:14pm On Sep 19, 2016 |
abokibuhari:hahaha.. You no well 2 Likes |
Re: Did I go too far with my actions? by Nobody: 4:25pm On Sep 19, 2016 |
Shit happens 1 Like |
Re: Did I go too far with my actions? by Nobody: 4:27pm On Sep 19, 2016 |
....... 5 Likes |
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