Dump her asap,in fact never ever make a mistake of marrying a non virgin .

asuo27:
This kind advice. Not cool.

How are you?

EWAagoyin:
please bear with any blunders im nt myself currently thanks.
we started dating early this year and everything was going on well between us, well i planned making her my wife and i asked about her, she told me about many attempts of rape towards her because she lives in a house with many relative boys but told me non of the attempts was sucessful which she said she is still a virgin, fast forward yesterday i discovered she wasnt a virgin but was now telling that one of the guy succeded in penetrating her bt nt for long, i feel used and disgusted your advices is needed please.

Sounds like you are a F'ing hypocrite. You talked about marrying her because you thought she was a virgin but before you married her, you had sex with her to find out she wasn't a virgin . Now you don chop finish and want to run suddenly her virginity is an issue while you found out she wasn't a virgin by having sex with her. jeezzz awon omo keke re yi

Laveda:
Hmmmm

She didn't tell you the day she was raped?
And she told you that just yesterday?

Hmmmm

Cc: skarlet

Hmmmm
All i smell is lies

Aderola15:

You don't get it, she lied and made him believe she was intact until they had sex. Why lie in the first place

I got his point dear. We all love to know the truth an feel cheated when lied to. And I kind of understand what he might be feeling. Often, the lies get mixed up with the truths till we find out. The lady had her reasons for lying to him- probably to keep the whole thing going. But unfortunately for her, she's now lost or about to loss her guy. She's probably regretting that now. Do you think it's proper or perhaps, do you think theirs any point in hammering on the lie?

Julian08:

How are you?

Good n you?.

That's why there is something called forgiveness. Be angry with her. Even stop being your normal self with her for sometime. Just to make her know she hurt u. If she values you, she would be truly sorry and you would see it. Then forgive her. Such is life. In marriage she would hurt you more than this sef. Shit happens. And u would have to forgive her. So start learning to be selfless. Marriage is two good for givers living together.

Julian08:

I got his point dear. We all love to know the truth an feel cheated when lied to. And I kind of understand what he might be feeling. Often, the lies get mixed up with the truths till we find out. The lady had her reasons for lying to him- probably to keep the whole thing going. But unfortunately for her, she's now lost or about to loss her guy. She's probably regretting that now. Do you think it's proper or perhaps, do you think theirs any point in hammering on the lie?

Thanks for getting the point about hammering on the lie, it depends on how we take being deceived. I for one won't hammer on it but it's over . If you can't trust me enough to tell me what has happened to you in the past, carry your love and go

But you need to know why she lied...ask her and tell her to tell you the truth..maybe you have always told her somewhere along the line that it's a virgin you wana marry, and she liked you so much and was scared to say the truth...because she felt she may loose u. If that's the case, reassure her and tell her she shouldn't have done that because this lies hurts you more. It's her, her personality you love. Not her virginity status

asuo27:
Good n you?.

Good too.

To me I guess u av to check it ur self first. Penetrate and knw how tru d road is.

If it nt normal u can give here a red

fumisko:
But you need to know why she lied...ask her and tell her to tell you the truth..maybe you have always told her somewhere along the line that it's a virgin you wana marry, and she liked you so much and was scared to say the truth...because she felt she may loose u. If that's the case, reassure her and tell her she shouldn't have done that because this lies hurts you more. It's her, her personality you love. Not her virginity status

god bless u thanks 4 the advice

skarlett:


Hmmmm
All i smell is lies

everything u read up there happened 2 me less than 24hrs ago and are all true no lie ma

EWAagoyin:
everything u read up there happened 2 me less than 24hrs ago and are all true no lie ma

Okay sir

EWAagoyin:
please bear with any blunders im nt myself currently thanks.
we started dating early this year and everything was going on well between us, well i planned making her my wife and i asked about her, she told me about many attempts of rape towards her because she lives in a house with many relative boys but told in penetrating her bt nt for long, i feel used and disgusted your advices is needed please.
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lol! this is one of the most hilarious mentions I have ever had.

My broda please let me have her number so I can scold her for you lol..

But seriously if I were you I will forgive her for being slimy cos she definitely knew what transpered but she decided to keep that from you.

The bottom line is that if you see a lady wey don spoil small please hold her very tight cos most ladies nowadays are terribly spoilt.

my 50cents.

nma24:
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Aderola15:

Not being a V isn't the problem, lying is.

you think, is he perfect or does he want to tell me he has not lied to her before?

am not in support of her lying but all am saying is this, he should forget about it and move on or better still break up with her, if that will make him happy or resolve the issue.

Toks2008:


lol! this is one of the most hilarious mentions I have ever had.

My broda please let me have her number so I can scold her for you lol..

But seriously if I were you I will forgive her for being slimy cos she definitely knew what transpered but she decided to keep that from you.

The bottom line is that if you see a lady wey don spoil small please hold her very tight cos most ladies nowadays are terribly spoilt.

my 50cents.

Thank u very much sir

Aderola15:

Continue doing it till you get tired, then move on. Some girls are stupid

Hahan..Anti ...The bros should just quit the relationship then instead of what you advised. That way,both of them will just sulk small and move on.

schumastic:


you think, is he perfect or does he want to tell me he has not lied to her before?

am not in support of her lying but all am saying is this, he should forget about it and move on or better still break up with her, if that will make him happy or resolve the issue.

Have you ever being lied too? They dated for 7 to 8 months, and she didn't think of telling him the truth after the lies. She didn't tell him until he got to the punna and discovered it has been tampered with. I don't know how people deal with lies but when I'm in a relationship, I can't stand it. No one will have your head for saying the truth

Aderola15:

Have you ever being lied too? They dated for 7 to 8 months, and she didn't think of telling him the truth after the lies. She didn't tell him until he got to the punna and discovered it has been tampered with. I don't know how people deal with lies but when I'm in a relationship, I can't stand it. No one will have your head for saying the truth

n i asked a ?, haven't you lied to your partner before and have you seen any perfect person before in any relationship?

schumastic:


n i asked a ?, haven't you lied to your partner before and have you seen any perfect person before in any relationship?

I did once , still regretting it till date . And no, I haven't seen a perfect relationship but a relationship built on lies........ Kolewerk

Aderola15:

I did once , still regretting it till date . And no, I haven't seen a perfect relationship but a relationship built on lies........ Kolewerk

well most are built on lies either before the relationship started or along the line....why are you regretting yours

schumastic:


well most are built on lies either before the relationship started or along the line....why are you regretting yours

Looool, long story ...... So you wouldn't mind your girlfriend lying for 7-8months?

checking it closely u will find out she wasn't even raped. I really don't know what's wrong in telling your bf you are not a virgin. why lie? when you know he will find out at d marriage night if you ever get married. if I ever get into a relationship and she tells me she's a virgin and I decide to abstain with her and then on the first night of sex get to find out she's not a virgin, bro we divorcing the next working day. bullshit women.

CrazyQuinn:
She's ashamed to talk about her horrible past, try and understand

Funny....u gals love to support ya selfs ehnnn.....
Dis is dsame story a girl told my guy.. shiiii....i don't believe her.

Aderola15:

Continue doing it till you get tired, then move on. Some girls are stupid

Was he a virgin before he met her?

Antina:


Was he a virgin before he met her?

Did you read what Op typed at all She lied about being a virgin

Look, it's obvious she is lieng to u and ladies tell that lie a lot.
I know you are hurt, but I will advise you shine her Congo for the main time, then tell her your pastor is against marrying her later after you went for prayers.

This hoes ain't loyal...

If u like sit down dey think, u don't even know if she is collecting at the moment sef.

Aderola15:

Looool, long story ...... So you wouldn't mind your girlfriend lying for 7-8months?

everyone lies the most important thing is for you not to get caught...mind you, ladies are the ones who can lie the most n are good in covering up their tracks.