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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 8:16pm On Aug 31, 2016 |
HARDDON: Know what she is doing to u now? It Is called basic law of Economics! the scarce d commodity, d higher d value/ price. The more she ignores u, the more needy u'd get, d more needy u get, d farther u drive her off! Now get up on ur feetz $older! Dust urself up n start ignoring her too! Bliv me, if she has any feelings 4 u, she wud soon start calling....which u must ignore. While @ it, meet other ladies wit these drills ! Sense Pill 60: U r too handsome n special to be toiled with! Don't hesitate to let go any gurl that is not worth it 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 10:10pm On Aug 31, 2016 |
my quote from another thread SENSE PILL 61: Gurls wit attitudes r d most cheaply plucked fruits since blackberry evolved n became a phone. THEY r d most lonely, most misunderstood, most bf abused Gurls on planet earth! N most creamy, financially stable n absolutely endowed ladies, GOT ATTITUDES! Aint nothing u got they want..... just ur Warmpt But bliv me, u cannot attain d peek of woman perfection scrubbing scraps with chickens! 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by elkon(m): 11:50pm On Aug 31, 2016 |
what's up..bro.. Please I need ur advice on dis..I don't know If I was d one having dis problem or nt..Please I don't even know what wrong with me..im physically okay.. toning chocolates skin. . etc. ever since my ex nd I split up I find it difficult to get a gal. my problem is whenever I saw a girl dt I like I used to be scared or afraid to approach dem.or.let m say I don't know what to say to dem... am some kind of guys dt was endowed with swag..Please help ooo.. which rituals do ii need to perform. . |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Bodmas94(m): 3:12am On Sep 01, 2016 |
Hey, harddon..... I wanna commend you for the great job you've been doing here.....your ship hasn't lost steam at all...... I want to know your thoughts on how to go about bursting the brains of girls who want to pretend that they are pious which I know it's not totally true cos they are human.....and not some form of robots.....I recently met a girl on whatsapp who alleges to be one of them.....she rebuffs every kind of sassy and flirty conversations between us (as recommended by you)...she tries to act prude.....she is always like "please change topic"....... any suggestion as to what I should do..... 1 Like |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by berbz(m): 5:33pm On Sep 04, 2016 |
HARDDON:I'm impressed... we really need to talk. Can I get ur digit on whatsapp please |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by berbz(m): 5:36pm On Sep 04, 2016 |
HARDDON:thanks so much... |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 7:04pm On Sep 07, 2016 |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Nobody: 8:44pm On Sep 07, 2016 |
Harddon well done. How do you keep yourself safe?apart from using protection do you sometimes reject some 'offers' because you are not sure of the person? Even though I use protection sometimes I get scared. 1 Like |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 9:48pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
Chiscomax: From ur lines, i can easily tell u run out of steam most times wen u chatting wit her. N den u go asking them BORING QUESTIONS. That aint gud. Wen u notice u running outa arsenal, take a walk. Btw, Said it a zillion times, dont pipe down when wit a nu one! U can ignore her tru d day n only chat wit her a lil @ night n make sure to end the convo wit gtg now, duty calls. Or u cn ignore her for a day, but worever u do, apply wisdom 2 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 9:54pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
elkon: D only ritual u neeed to perform , is a reading ritual. The answer u seek r in d pages. Read from d first page. We dealt wit how to approach ladies already 1 Like |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 10:16pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
Bodmas94: Just like u cant use d recipe of preparing egusi for okro, u hv to learn how to adapt these drills as situation warrant. U can only catch a thief by behaving / talking like one. Go figure 1 Like |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 10:31pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
Principe: Ofcos! Im not sure of them all! Infact, d most beautiful ones, the ones that tends to make guys go numb n lose their tongues, r d ones u should watch out for! Imagine me, after blowing this hawt , tall ,innocent looking, fair, creamy, well endowed tin, she go teling me about d fact that she has dated this rugged music artist b4! Here iS a strong word of advise: if u r scared , dont go in. Besides, we r here to help u find d one for u, not to turn u into Some gigalo . 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 5:58pm On Sep 13, 2016 |
HARDDON: She wasnt as jelos n surprised as her gurls. Told her i needed some lin, she asked about d size( now here is d deal, this was meant to be a surprise package, n while we were having pne of those sweet nothings moments, bae had told me 38" with an alphabet attached) I promptly told d madam cup 38". She went on to ask about d what d letter was, i didnt know cos bae didnt say! To ease tins, she asked if it was a small 38 , mid or big 38, i had no idea but i used d law of visualization n picked mid 38. She showed me a wide range of them, i felt em then finally coughed out 12k for 1. Pant"s elastic, so no worries bout that. |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 6:06pm On Sep 13, 2016 |
HARDDON: Only for me to pick out d perfect moment to surprise her n i also ended up been surprised! Told her i got a surpris for her, then Blindfolded her, undressed her which she was nervous about but i calmed her nervers. Started with d panties, it fitted her nicely. Told her to raise her hands, she obliged, in a jiffy, i strapped d bra on, only to notice d tin was like half cut even b4 dey discovered half cut. 60% of d B00bs where out! N nothing i did cud help. In my disappointment, by now she was lololing cos i was struggling to tuck d gurls in, i removed d blindfold. She loved colour n d feel , but it was way too small ![]() 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 9:36pm On Sep 13, 2016 |
HARDDON: Id usually skip kissing, use other modes to achieve my aim |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by DavidTheGeek: 9:30am On Sep 14, 2016 |
HARDDON:Other modes? Please give example |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by benjsniper33: 3:12pm On Sep 16, 2016 |
Hello my dear HARDON, I need your help more than EVER, I feel I am trapped, confused and cornered or even controlled, This is how I feel but I am not really sure . My self-esteem, respect and independence is at stake here. HARDON I need your help, candid advice and brutal solution to my predicament . This is my story. When I was in 100 level, I was serious-minded, focused, determined and studious, all I did was come into the lecture room and leave immediately after lectures without having to stick and hang around. My colleagues made lotsa friends but not me, I made only a friend on my class , I am on good terms with people but I prefer my solitary self and my only friend. Although I am not topping my class but out of almost 150 students in my level I am in no 1-5. When a lecturer asks a question that is very complicated that no one in class can solve or answer I rise to the occasion and most of the times I am always providing answers although not all. There is this girl that always crush and trip on my then, she is always wanting to be with me, sit with,e, talk to me, hear from me she tells me all about herself , her parents ,the position she is , her family and almost everything about herself etc in short she is always all over me BUT I didn't give her an ounce of attention , I treated her like she was just a piece of distraction, I didn't just give her any chance or attention , she wasn't on on my head that time, I was just focused But she was persistent till 200level first semester when i think she gave up, we do see in class but I don't just care bout her. She ceased talking to me her body language was like she is hating me, she hisses each time I pass by and she kinda gets irritated when I passes by but deep deep down I later got to know she was dying for me but hates the way I don't even notice her. Then after 300level first semester exams a friend of mine who noticed the "chemistry" went to meet her and was like " Bae, why is it that you and benjsniper ain't cool like before, you guys don't really talk again, why? " at that moment I happened to pass by then he summoned me to come which I did. Then he started interrogating me and the Bae and he was trying to make us come together and yes it worked! And I responded well to her surprise, I told her I didn't intentionally want her to feel unwanted, that she shouldn't think that way blah blah blah blah. Although I didn't envisage a relationship, I only wanted to make peace but the re-Union rekindled her feelings and she was once again all over me, the next day she came to me and requested for my phone number which I gave her, she told me she would like to see me after our last paper, she kept calling me on and on again and again. In short we met after exams and we clicked this time I responded well and gave her attention. We started getting intimate BUT we never had sex. She loves and respect me, she loves being around me she tells me she cares a lot about me , when I call her to come over she comes without excuses , she sacrifices her plans just to show up in my apartment and I appreciate her and I am sometimes rigid but i am also gentle and I am getting to like her, love her , enjoy her company, I tell that I like her but I am kinda always shy to say I love her , she has told me she loves me like 5 times now, something which she hardly does to someone. But HARDON I Nurse some measure of fear cos she is beautiful and she has guys on her, she puts her phone in flight mode when she's with me, she tells me the guys who are in her, sometimes she shows me their pictures, she has a lot of guy friends that I do not know, she talks to them flirts with them, visits them and sometimes they take her out. There was an occasion when I saw her enter an eatery with a guy she didn't see me then I called her to ask where she was she told me she is in an eatery, I asked "with who" she said she is alone. I kept quiet till now. She's very cool with me, but the way and manner in which she talks to me now reflect that the affection has kinda reduced , she still tells me she loves and miss me but I have a strong hunch that she is double dating if not triple dating. And funny, this is the time I am getting serious with her, I am having feelings for her and it's like my world will crumble if i don't hear from her. She respects me but these days she is becoming bold to subtly disregard me. Hardon I need your help here cos I don't wanna loose her, even if I do at last I want to have my confidence, manliness,respect and focus. Help me HARDON HELP!! |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Nnamsco4real: 5:50pm On Sep 16, 2016 |
benjsniper33: First Rule: Love God with all your Heart. Secondly, respect women and don't love; your days shall be longer. You are becoming needy and she knows it. She is toying with your life (emotions) and you are showing it. A man loves with his head and he must be logical in reasoning. Sit down, reflect and find other girls; flirt around brother and hide your feelings. Give the relationship a break in your mind and pursue another girl/woman. You WILL NOT die. You need the girl more than she needs you, making the relationship disastrous. 10 Likes |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by WackyJ1(m): 6:24pm On Sep 16, 2016 |
benjsniper33 Yes She is a pretty girl and she is most likely double dating. She has lied to you and showed you that, that is the normal type of behavior among young pretty girls. They like to have fun, be with different guys who give them attention and make them laugh and make them feel good about themselves. And this girl is getting comfortable with you and that is why she is returning to her old habits or should I say normal habits. Familiarity things. What you should do. Familiarizing yourself with other girls will do you good in helping you to get your mind off this girl but without doing the following things, you will find that your progress is slow. 1. Your mentality: Tell yourself she doesn't love you because she doesn't. Many young girls don't know what Love is, love for them is just infatuation. Love is not infatuation, love is commitment. This girl has shown that she is not willing to be commited. Fun is of a greater priority for her. Never believe her from now on when she says she loves you, no matter how much it appears to show on her face and no matter how much you want to believe it because of how good it makes you feel. You will not die without her. Yes this is a truth that you must force yourself to accept. Your self worth is not tied to her and if she moves around with other guys, it does not mean that those guys are better than you. This leads to number 2. 2. Starve the feelings you have for her. Feelings need to be fed and nurtured either through the other person's actions or through your own personal self delusion. Number 1 will end the self delusion while this particular point deals with her actions. Decide not to call her or pick her calls for a day or two. This will be painful for you to do because of your feelings for her and because of the anxiety about her activities that will happen, but no pain no gain. The pain must correspond to the pleasure you felt or feel, whenever she kisses you or tries to please you. Like an addict going off his medication, you must Starve off the source of these feelings for you to be free. Go without her company for a while, tell her you're busy, do some stuffs alone, don't see her for a while. You can even make it that you saw her only once in a week. 3. Self Esteem comes from within: It's called Self-esteem not Other-esteem. Encourage yourself. Make sure your thoughts always have a positive view about you. Remind yourself of your abilities and what you have accomplished so far. From what you have said here, you're going to graduate with a very good result, don't let this stop you from that. Pick up a hobby or something that can fetch you money, learn it and success from it will boost your ego. Never compare yourself to other people or other guys that she might be going out with. Never let yourself do that. 4. Other girls: Have female friends. But only after you have done numbers 1 - 3. They help distract you and give your someone to talk to. I hope I have helped in whatever way I can. 28 Likes |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by WackyJ1(m): 6:30pm On Sep 16, 2016 |
HARDON. Well done on this thread. I haven't gone through all the pages but I follow and keep it as sort of a reference thread. I noticed that many of the words you use or lines involve having a teasing mentality. I'm not really too good with that, I end up sounding serious or generic or I don't want to tease in an area that will offend the lady, especially If it's a lady that I don't know before. If I get comfortable with the lady I can be quite funny but being funny and teasing in the first convo is not really easy. Any pointers? |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 9:15pm On Sep 16, 2016 |
benjsniper33: D bolded n one thing that is not expressly stated here, are d genesis of ur woes B4 i say any thing, i have a question : Who proposed d no sex move? Obviously NOT U right? 1 Like |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by DaCharis2016: 7:13am On Sep 18, 2016 |
HARDDON: |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by okwypascal: 10:54pm On Sep 19, 2016 |
Boss boss, after u na u o Help alert, I still av this approaching problem but after she is gone I start reoccuring what I should av said. But am good with my oldchicks in the same dept or fac. But the one on the road, bank, eatery that's my p |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 5:46pm On Sep 20, 2016 |
DavidTheGeek: skip that.... ![]() use the touchables to invite the untouchables |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by codedprince20(m): 10:41pm On Sep 20, 2016 |
Hello HARDDON, I have a gf have bin dating for like 4 yrs right from Uni. She's currently running her Masters while I am working already! Through out the dating period, I have endured a lot frm her which she usually comes back begging and weeping for me not to end the relationship.. Jx recently, her mother called her to come home to discuss Introduction things. Surprisingly, all she did was to tell her mother she wasn't ready for any thing as such(though she's dating one married man with 3 kids). I tried talking things through with her but she told me point blank that its better we go our separate ways! Behind my back, she's discussing with a friend of mine telling her that she's actually confused & dunno what to do. These few days, she flashes me and when I try to call her back, all she does is to end my call or switch off completely.. Pls I love her & don't want my efforts for these yrs to go jx lyk dat.. What can I do to get her back totally? Thanks alot 1 Like |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by youngfocus(m): 11:15pm On Sep 20, 2016 |
yea it bn a while dat I av been following dis treat nw I tink it testimony time.testimony time!! special numba time testimony time. I CNT imagine how my life av been in miserable in d life of women,my big tnx to hardon baba for dis life turn around for gud treat he created in dis word web of women(w.w.w)than wen am witout game wen ever I appear in front of girls like dis they already knw my motive dat is dating issue .bt nw girl ar confuse abt me due to my unpredictable and I dnt care attitude nw they ar toying around me just like suger in d mist of ant.hw can I do dat.gud sense of humor,I dnt care attitude.cos if u ar fine like man maid I does not move me u ar going to pay my money once u step at my shop,nw am having abt 8 gf DAT dey thought am dating dem nt knw am just experimental hard don dating dril in their body,attracting any girl I wnt is never my p anymore. let me just share did little tail between me and yellow pawpaw,she work into my shop and greeted gud afternun sir were am battling wit Samsung edge power switch. me_ hw can I help u, she_I wnt to repare my Microsoft touchpad sir me_Aaaah hw cum you broke touch pad like dis is there hammer in your hand am very sure wen dis phone is coming to word next time it will b running from falling into ur hand again.let me see DAT ur hand and I pick up is hand and feel it.me aaaah hw cum your hand is hard like dis did u work wit ppl pushing truck she was disgrace and she cnt even control d way she was laughing at dsame time (I was like pls dnt die here ooo ) me it will cos u 3500 she started begging and beg BT I insisted ooo it got to a stage she sais I did nt even knw girl and I said hw did she wnt me to knw a girl DAT is using man DAT is working hard phone DAT she should av been using 3310 at least she will nt av noting to complain abt and she started laughing again and she agree to pay.(I tink inside me so u av d money DAT she was demonstrating here like snake),and I collected d money. I said I will av date her nw BT she is nt just my type she is to yellow for my liking,she said and am nt to yellow ooo.dat is wat guy use to say though. nd I said u wnt to start begging me again abi OK gv me time to tink abt it and I said bye I av a lot to do.I will keep you in touch hw tins is going. BT yellow girls ar nt just my type sha. though 1 Like |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Isoni(m): 8:11am On Sep 21, 2016 |
youngfocus: I appreciate your confidence. I like the way you're taking the game to them. That way you don't need to spend to impress them. Recently, a girl I was using same drill on took me out and paid for everything cos I told her that I don't take girls out. The irony is that I met her on my church's whatsapp group. We've not met before then but she was eager to meet with me while I keep postponing her. This drill works like magic, take the game to them and play the I don't care position. 5 Likes |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by DavidTheGeek: 8:34am On Sep 21, 2016 |
HARDDON:Message well recieved ![]() |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 7:46pm On Sep 21, 2016 |
WackyJ1: you have to go tru all the pages to improve on that aspect. you start start it with the members of your family or your close friends whether male or female. what you should know is that this portion is not concocted for female folks alone. it is a way of life. guys poke fun @ each other, big brother bear in on kid sis , mum and all..... read books on humour, and how to string lines. @ bolded, if you mix the portion well, they cant but laugh even if you are insulting them. besides, the fear of not offending ladies has done more harm than gud to the male folk. $fact all the pointers you want r lined up on the pages 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by after7: 7:51pm On Sep 21, 2016 |
The is a very big thread and i certainly hope we learn from this and be a master in the game. I recommend this movie 500 Days of Summer. buy or download it. You can read more here https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/500_Days_of_Summer. It is a romantic comedy-drama story based upon its male protagonist and his memories of a failed relationship. I can relate as will other guys. Go figure 3 Likes |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Gyrados: 9:39pm On Sep 21, 2016 |
Can anyone suggest some awesome openers... I seem to have a problem there... |
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