There is this guy,I know in mg neigbourhood,he recently asked me out,I really need candid opinions,I know if I agree,it would most likely need to marriage so I need to be sure,I told him to give me a week and I would get back to him,here is why need the advice,l.he is my landlords brother and though he has an apartment of his own which he chose not to rent out,u won't call him rich,he is just there,2.previously both of us were always at loggerhead before,we were bitter enemies and we dealt with each other 3.he just came out of a bitter relationship,the girl dumped him and he loved her dearly
The thing is,I won't say I love him,I don't,but I like him,he is the gentle responsible type of guy I like,who also racks sense,but the ish is that,we both are young,he is 28 and I younger by few years,so it isn't because am getting older that I am considering him,its just that with experiences around me,from my friends and relatives,I have come to realise happy marriage entails more than love,I want peace in my home,so I need a responsible guy,I am just afraid of being a second fiddle,he loved that girl,don't want to live an another girls shadow,I knew he was attracted to me even bbefore the relationship crumbled,but he was responsible enough to steer clear,so do I refuse or accept based on my reasons

Jeeezz.... I need panadol.

nma24:
Jeeezz.... I need panadol.

Tell me what to do na

Frm the word' responsible', l will say give him a trial. He is heart broken and needs a shoulder to lean-on to speed up the healing process, l think if u make yours available, he will be there for u.

Sunnymatey:
Frm the word' responsible', l will say give him a trial. He is heart broken and needs a shoulder to lean-on to speed up the healing process, l think if u make yours available, he will be there for u.

Okay,thanks for the advise,I just don't want to be hurt,when I must have fallen in love with him

Don't date him...

MBush:
Don't date him...

Care to expantiate

andergirl:
Care to expantiate

would have loved to, but lazy to type long...
Mention me somewhere sometime again, I will help...

andergirl:
There is this guy,I know in mg neigbourhood,he recently asked me out,I really need candid opinions,I know if I agree,it would most likely need to marriage so I need to be sure,I told him to give me a week and I would get back to him,here is why need the advice,l.he is my landlords brother and though he has an apartment of his own which he chose not to rent out,u won't call him rich,he is just there,2.previously both of us were always at loggerhead before,we were bitter enemies and we dealt with each other 3.he just came out of a bitter relationship,the girl dumped him and he loved her dearly
The thing is,I won't say I love him,I don't,but I like him,he is the gentle responsible type of guy I like,who also racks sense,but the ish is that,we both are young,he is 28 and I younger by few years,so it isn't because am getting older that I am considering him,its just that with experiences around me,from my friends and relatives,I have come to realise happy marriage entails more than love,I want peace in my home,so I need a responsible guy,I am just afraid of being a second fiddle,he loved that girl,don't want to live an another girls shadow,I knew he was attracted to me even bbefore the relationship crumbled,but he was responsible enough to steer clear,so do I refuse or accept based on my reasons

I dnt get . first u dnt want to date him because he might nt be rich? 2nd reason is understandable but doesn't matter 3rd reason it wud be a lil hard at frst but d relationship can still work with efforts from you both am talking from experience

andergirl:

Okay,thanks for the advise,I just don't want to be hurt,when I must have fallen in love with him

Date him and see how it goes

nma24:
Date him and see how it goes

nice advice...may your pvccy never run dry

Enuguboy4nsk:

nice advice...may your pvccy never run dry

Not funny at all...

warisogeophysics:
I dnt get . first u dnt want to date him because he might nt be rich? 2nd reason is understandable but doesn't matter 3rd reason it wud be a lil hard at frst but d relationship can still work with efforts from you both am talking from experience

Money ain't my problem,he can take care of his family when he begins one,plus I have my money too so that's not d problem,am worried,if he is coming to me for financial stability,the guy is very calculative,he can't tell me he loves me now so I can't believe it,you can't love two persons the same time,I guess both of us are going into it for calculative reasons if I choose to agree.

Enuguboy4nsk:

nice advice...may your pvccy never run dry

Irresponsible bigot

Op, you don't need any advice. You have the right answer already.

This is not the right time to have a romantic relationship with him even if you want to because you confirmed that he deeply loved his ex and was dumped by her so he's probably on rebound trying to avoid the pain of the breakup.

Give it some time, monitor him to make sure he's over his ex and if he still feels the same about you then just give it a trial but use your head.

andergirl:
There is this guy,I know in mg neigbourhood,he recently asked me out,I really need candid opinions,I know if I agree,it would most likely need to marriage so I need to be sure,I told him to give me a week and I would get back to him,here is why need the advice,l.he is my landlords brother and though he has an apartment of his own which he chose not to rent out,u won't call him rich,he is just there,2.previously both of us were always at loggerhead before,we were bitter enemies and we dealt with each other 3.he just came out of a bitter relationship,the girl dumped him and he loved her dearly
The thing is,I won't say I love him,I don't,but I like him,he is the gentle responsible type of guy I like,who also racks sense,but the ish is that,we both are young,he is 28 and I younger by few years,so it isn't because am getting older that I am considering him,its just that with experiences around me,from my friends and relatives,I have come to realise happy marriage entails more than love,I want peace in my home,so I need a responsible guy,I am just afraid of being a second fiddle,he loved that girl,don't want to live an another girls shadow,I knew he was attracted to me even bbefore the relationship crumbled,but he was responsible enough to steer clear,so do I refuse or accept based on my reasons

What later happened? Please share

storge:



What later happened? Please share

Imagine!after so many years!well of course we aren't together .

andergirl:

Imagine!after so many years!well of course we aren't together .

Thanks, was just curious... It could have not been an "of course" though... I was expecting some fairy tale news

storge:

Thanks, was just curious... It could have not been an "of course" though... I was expecting some fairy tale news

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