James is a master degree holder but he doesn't have a lucrative job to cater for himself talk less to satisfy his girlfriend financial needs. His C.V has travelled the length and breadth of Nigeria, literally begging for a lucrative job, doing the rounds of all employment agencies but all to no avail.
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Sandra who is desperate to get married left James for another guy who happened to be doing pretty well financially.
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James was heart broken, he wept, begged Sandra and try all he could to savage and patch the crack on his relationship with Sandra; all his efforts were futile.
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Few months later, Sandra new boyfriend was
killed and his gang were arrested by the Police for armed robbery. Investigation by the Police later proved that Sandra supermarket which his new boyfriend opened for her happened to be the armoury of her boyfriend and his gang.
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Sandra is not aware of what her boyfriend does for a living. All she cares about is the money that's spent on her.
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Sandra was arrested, charged to court and
sentenced to jail for a crime she never
committed.
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This is not a fictional story but a real life story.
Many innocent girls and guys has been sentenced to jail for crime they have no clue about just as Sandra.
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A girl will be dating a guy and she won't bother to ask or investigate what's the source of her boyfriend livelihood. All she cares about is the money, gifts and goodies she receives from her boyfriend.
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While I was still serving at the divisional level as a young Police officer, I can recall vividly that a young girl was sentenced to 12 years
imprisonment because two stolen phones were recovered at her possession.
This young girl boyfriend is a kidnapper and the owners of the two phones recovered at her
possession were killed by her boyfriend and his
gang. Her lawyer couldn't help her from going to jail. As I'm writing this now, that girl is still serving jail term.
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If you are dating a guy, nothing should stop you from asking your boyfriend about his source of income. If he's being smart and not willing to open up to you, make sure you try to investigate his source of livelihood yourself. Or better still, try to visit his place of work if need be and also know the kind of people he moves around with. Too many innocent girls and guys are in jail today for crime they never committed.
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Girls, be careful with whoever you're dating. And guys be careful with people you make friends with. Be very sceptical with gifts your so called boyfriend gives to you. Many of these gifts maybe be stolen gifts and if recovered at your possession, it will take divine help if any exist to vindicate you from going to jail.
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Don't be deceived by those flashing stuffs some guys throw at you. Most times, these guys use you as a pun to ease their operation. Always try to investigate what your friends do for a living.

Nice article

Thks dear. I will marry a guy that i weathered d storm with jare, You really never can tell with some of dis rich guys.

nwasinachi:
Thks dear. I will marry a guy that i weathered d storm with jare, You really never can tell with some of dis rich guys.

Are you serious,?

protegesol:
Are you serious,?

Yes now, why should i joke about it?

Oga pack well joor

We should all be careful

nwasinachi:
Yes now, why should i joke about it?

Your kind is rare.

protegesol:

Your kind is rare.

abi ooo