Your topic should be "why does my gf act so stupid because I showed a little jealousy?"
Because you are experiencing it or your friend is doesn't mean all girls are like that.

Drew0:



It doesn't sound healthy but we are very happy.

I don't av to explain anything to u.

Bye.

Not asking for explanations, just saying you shouldn't say things in anger that will hurt another person. Next time count to 10 when angry.

rosy1992:

Exactly what I'm saying I would also get jealous if I was in your shoes but that shouldn't trigger mistrust or argument .

Thanks dear, I appreciate.

JustHere2Observ:
Your topic should be "why does my gf act so stupid because I showed a little jealousy?"
Because you are experiencing it or your friend is doesn't mean all girls are like that.

What is your point? From your perspective, is it truely stupid? Be specific

OdikwaRisky:
Okay, jealousy was allowed. It was only natural for you to feel a bit spiffed about the whole *Facebook* incident . I'm sure if the reverse was the case, your girlfriend would have blown the roof.

But abeg, don't use your girlfriend's action to judge all girls. You and other guys on this thread. If you were unfortunate enough to have dated a girl with "halved-brain", that was your bad luck. Not all girls would act in that manner.

Thanks, I respect your comment.

Swizdom:


What is your point? From your perspective, is it truely stupid? Be specific

There are 2 sides to the story, she might just have been tagged in the picture by the guy meaning she may have not posted it.
You might have actually over reacted and showed a lot more jealousy and accused her or insinuated she is cheating prompting her response.

So the way you reacted to the issue I.e. your so called little jealousy might have prompted her so stupid behavior.

If you have an itch and scratch gently you get relief, but if you scratch vigorously you get a painful sore.

JustHere2Observ:


There are 2 sides to the story, she might just have been tagged in the picture by the guy meaning she may have not posted it.
You might have actually over reacted and showed a lot more jealousy and accused her or insinuated she is cheating prompting her response.

So the way you reacted to the issue I.e. your so called little jealousy might have prompted her so stupid behavior.

If you have an itch and scratch gently you get relief, but if you scratch vigorously you get a painful sore.

She posted it herself. I didn't over react nor suspected her. I only told her that it looked somehow having our pix on her fone and not uploading it but instead uploading a colleague's pix.

When I was in the game, it was as simple as ABC what I would have done. I wouldn't have told her anything, but would have made her jealousy rise more than 100%, but this was someone I wana settle down with, and i wouldn't even imagine I played games with her. It was just a matter of " Do to others how you want them do to you." She even insinuated I was making a mountain outta nothing and it could force her keep things to herself.

I wanted her to understand that jealousy was normal as far as it wasn't overly reacted. All I wanted her was to shut up and only convince me it was nothing. She lost my respect.

Swizdom:


She posted it herself. I didn't over react nor suspected her. I only told her that it looked somehow having our pix on her fone and not uploading it but instead uploading a colleague's pix.

When I was in the game, it was as easy as simple as ABC. I wouldn't have told her anything. I would have made her jealousy rise more than 100%, but this was someone I wana settle down with, and i wouldn't even imagine I played games with her. It was just a matter of " Do to others how you want them do to you." She even insinuated I was making a mountain outta nothing and it could force her keep things to herself.

I wanted her to understand that jealousy was normal as far as it wasn't overly reacted. All I wanted her was to shut up and only convince me it was nothing. She lost my respect.

Well wish you the best sha.

Drew0:



My current gf, wen we quarrel I insult her wen am really angry but she has never replied any

Respect#.

Respect u say? I laugh in Swahili
Maybe because she hasn't seen any guy that adores her and won't insult her when they quarrel that's why she is still with you.
I hope she sees one soon because she doesn't deserve someone who insults her at any slight provocation.

rosalieene:

Respect u say? I laugh in Swahili
Maybe because she hasn't seen any guy that adores her and won't insult her when they quarrel that's why she is still with you.
I hope she sees one soon because she doesn't deserve someone who insults her at any slight provocation.

Ok.

rosalieene:

Respect u say? I laugh in Swahili
Maybe because she hasn't seen any guy that adores her and won't insult her when they quarrel that's why she is still with you.
I hope she sees one soon because she doesn't deserve someone who insults her at any slight provocation.

You girls are just funny. What does "adore" even mean to you girls? When we guys show too much love, You girls see us a weakling and not man enough. When we act like we don't care, you complain and probably look for avenues or reasons to cheat.

The guy you quoted only states what works for him and you should respect that. Chicken brains, in my opinion, are what some girls have.

My ex will tell me that i should trust her, that i shouldnt be jealous, but then i will see you with other guys chit chatting, and you expect me not to get jealous?? nah!! Even though I trust you, having guys as friends is a no no, cos they always have ulterior motive... omo, na so i pack my bags before someone come shatter small wey remain for my heart, and to avoid stories that touch..


Once you get jealous over a lady, dont let it show, cos they will feel you're insecure and they are special, And they will spite you the more.. All hail naija girls...

what if your guy don't show any jealousy, wen things like that happen,even when you answer another guy call,or do anything u suspect he supposed show jealous but he don't,and when u discuss about it,he will only say,"he don't act so becus he don't want any quarrel to come up,pls what do u guy think about this guy,

kathyann:
what if your guy don't show any jealousy, wen things like that happen,even when you answer another guy call,or do anything u suspect he supposed show jealous but he don't,and when u discuss about it,he will only say,"he don't act so becus he don't want any quarrel to come up,pls what do u guy think about this guy,

Babe, if he still cares and shows you love , fine, don't look for answers on here cos people's comment will disrupt your thoughts about him... You know who you're dating, thats all i can say...

kathyann:
what if your guy don't show any jealousy, wen things like that happen,even when you answer another guy call,or do anything u suspect he supposed show jealous but he don't,and when u discuss about it,he will only say,"he don't act so becus he don't want any quarrel to come up,pls what do u guy think about this guy,

Maam, Jealousy is good in a relationship, a healthy jealousy. He may be annoyed but doesn't know how to speak out. In my own case, I had to let down my ego to speak out. Guys don't normally say it cos it looks like we are weak, and most girls tend to abuse it when they know it is a guy's weak point.

Don't blame your friend and quit making him feel jealous cos one day, just one day, he will leave you, for everything you put him through. Pls, stop putting him in a condition to feel jealous, I beg you.

Hmm

hmmm! my brother, the best way to have known that she was in to anther relationship was her reaction and only ur quest to know who was on dat pix has proved that.
pls learn to console ya self b 4 u get hurt.

manson5011:
hmmm! my brother, the best way to have known that she was in to anther relationship was her reaction and only ur quest to know who was on dat pix has proved that.
pls learn to console ya self b 4 u get hurt.

Even from experience, and psychologically, defaulters always pick offence immediately something comes up to rebuff any claim one must have on them. You are right bro.