kowalsky:


Get out of dat relationship fool!!

i finding it so disturbing when guys act that way, it's so baffling, funny enough some guys will agree to that, trust me 2 months into the relationship they start acting wired.ladies that believes in non sex please keep it up no man is worth the stress, so if u as a lady is destined to date 4 men b4 marriage you will sleep with all b4 the main man? looking at it from the other hand a man has noting to lose. and please it's not as if your keeping it for the main man, your doing it because of the love and respect you have for God and yourself like i said before no man is worth the stress.

cozy7:
I hardly comment on NL, but I'll take an exception this time. Let me be as blunt as possible, if a guy truly loves u and u tell him no sex, he'll wait. If he doesn't, then his not yours. I've dated my baby for abt 3 yrs, she come over, kisses n all, but I've never seen her undies. I'm not desperate bcoz I no I'm serious with hee. We plan settling down next year. I ALWAYS hv d urge, but I've constantly chose to put our future above my emotions. A popular saying goes "if u can get d milk for free, y buy d cow"....I hope u no what that means! Be patient, you true man will come. Shalom!

When he comes and agrees then after seeing the undies trouble comes and they separate

I am currently in my 1st and no sex relationship for barely more dan a year nw. Am 28 she is 26. We both are virgins, been friends for more than 12 years nw and are more than ever resolved to keep it that way until we get married hopefully next year. We both have similiar stories as both our families have some really awful history of unhappy family life, parental breakups and spousal abuse which we hopeful plan to avoid first by staying away from sex while we are still dating and not married yet. A no sex relation can work it all depends on the mind set of both parties involved

Missmossy:
Naturally everything in life is about choices and in long run every of our choices would surely tell on our future. The significance of sexual purity cannot be overemphasized. Each person to his own decisions.

Its not by a man 's effort being chaste only God makes it possible, moreover we are all humans prone to sin. So that extra factor coupled with being determined and making your NO capital NO and your YES same too as i was taught in secondary school some years ago makes it work.

I'm not a pastor and i won't preach to anyone. I know whatever you sow that you shall reap it has been so right from the days of Adam and Eve.

Bonne nuit

Miss Mossy, just tell us if you are or not and stop this sermon already

ruksylaser:
Truth be told, it's never really easy especially when the two of you spend more time with each other. Guys will always be guys in the sense that he might agree to no sex and would be bleeping someone else. Nonetheless, they're few guys out there that can really stick to that

True like the guy above who claims he has friends with benefit but agreed to no sex with his gf

2dugged:
I can actually, but choose not to punish myself, I have actually dated guys without having sex,only realized that while I was keeping myself, they were busy doing muemuesugbe with other girls

You see it @ruksylaser

I'm currently in one....


















But we've fvvked like plenty times this month alone

ireneony:
I doubt if there's anyone in a relationship without having sex.
i have never met a guy that doesn't want sex in a relationship.

This happened one time..a guy asked me out and i told him i only do relationships without sex.
he was very blunt. .he said" for this town ..for Nigeria. .this kind tin still de happen"
here i was thinking he's the kind of person that does believe in a "without sex relationships" because of his innocent face.

The only time i see or hear WTHOUT SEX RELATIONSHIP is online stories and how ladies turned down men that practice without relationship, I'm like wowwww. Sometimes I'm like how come i don't see this kind of men.

This brings me to my question, how many of you are strictly in a relationship without sex, and how do you cope with the temptations?

Share your experience! !!

I was in a "non penetrative" sex relationship for 6 years but full of oral but no penetration and I was cool with that.

The point is that there is really nothing like no sex relationship because MouthAction usually comes up at least in a mild way talking about smooching and curdling and some even fngr and do anal.

Yes I can do a no penetrative sex but I don't know if I can do without touching her at all and the period of no sex must be truncated with marriage in less than a year...I have gone past the age of long courtship.

[color=#006600][/color]

Jarizod:


Wow..am happy for y'all

Be smart tho..some random brother out there might be giving her the konnddo on a daily..

Guy's and dis notion sef ....u will be suprised by some ladies

I am in one and this is our 2nd year since we started ....there are guys that respect the decision of their partner, relationship isnt all about sex....And I ain't SU...So don't tag me one

I m into one also, she says no sex and i agreed thinking she might change later and have sex but still stuck. There was a time i was checking her whatapp , i saw a chat, She was jokingly demanding 50k frm 1 of her freind for she to entertain him u knw.. i jst dont knw what she's up to. does that mean she been having sex with some 1 else?

ILAB:
when I hear pple say it's impossible to have a r/ship without sex I jst laff at such.............it is very possible dear,i hear some pple saying can a gal b in a r/ship without asking for money? yes..........Dis is me,i have been in a r/ship with my man for 6yrs+,i av neva ask him for moni (coz datz not ma policy),he got no job,we are in a distance r/ship most atimes,i av neva cheated on him(coz I cherish clear conscience) and we are in a r/ship of no sex till marriage. seriously is working out despite d temptation,fights,quarrels I have neva given up on him or his dreams coz I knw d best is yet to come.the secret is we put GOD first,respect ourselve n help resist d temptations.........Some might say how are you sure he is not cheating or will dump you...D truth is I hate listening to things dat is negative to my believe,I blive he is not cheating on me and all I say GOD unto thy hands I commit my r/ship n life.What eva life holds 4 me I will embrase it joyfully

If truly.....kudos.
Trust me. U will reap what u sow.

Girl ,let me tell u. maintain ur stand and u will get d best.But above physical keep ur thought pure. Even if he cheat on u..u will eventually get better deal.
Be positive!

astarotte:


How you go take know say the girl na virgin

Bro na by faith o.
On a serious note I can order for a medical check up if in doubt.
Problem is once the son of man is in love, I take everything she says hook, line, and sinker.
No wonder they say love and trust go together.
Personally I can never lie to a girl I want to marry and don't expect to be lied to in return.

ireneony:
I doubt if there's anyone in a relationship without having sex.
i have never met a guy that doesn't want sex in a relationship.

This happened one time..a guy asked me out and i told him i only do relationships without sex.
he was very blunt. .he said" for this town ..for Nigeria. .this kind tin still de happen"
here i was thinking he's the kind of person that does believe in a "without sex relationships" because of his innocent face.

The only time i see or hear WTHOUT SEX RELATIONSHIP is online stories and how ladies turned down men that practice without relationship, I'm like wowwww. Sometimes I'm like how come i don't see this kind of men.

This brings me to my question, how many of you are strictly in a relationship without sex, and how do you cope with the temptations?

Share your experience! !!

how can I be in a relationship without checking what u'v got under ur undies,, do I know if the so calld guy or lady is an hamaphrodite, my dear, If I want to marry that's even when I will test run ,, if you can go for a medical test to know ur genotype, blood group n even hiv status for both parties to b sure of them selves, wat is wrong with sex because that can also lead to an infidelity marriage when u discover that ur partner can not perform, human being can b very deceptive n wicked,, I don't want to hear stories at the night of the wedding...

segcymoor:


If truly.....kudos.
Trust me. U will reap what u sow.

Girl ,let me tell u. maintain ur stand and u will get d best.But above physical keep ur thought pure. Even if he cheat on u..u will eventually get better deal.
Be positive!

Bros this your prayer comforts my soul.
She cheated like there was no tomorrow. Problem is, I have been waiting for the better deal for almost a year now. Does anyone know how long I still gonna wait or if the deal got stuck on the way?.

MVLOX:
I am currently in my 1st and no sex relationship for barely more dan a year nw. Am 28 she is 26. We both are virgins, been friends for more than 12 years nw and are more than ever resolved to keep it that way until we get married hopefully next year. We both have similiar stories as both our families have some really awful history of unhappy family life, parental breakups and spousal abuse which we hopeful plan to avoid first by staying away from sex while are still dating and not married yet. A no sex relation can work it all depends on the mind set of both parties involved

So what you are saying is that your family issues is because of they had sex?

erico2k2:

Can I ask a question, what of after 2 years of No sex dating then you got married and on the D day he could not get it up and you went to teh Doc and it was confirmed he has erectile dis function and its permanent, waht would you do??

Na one chance b dat ooo

Sincere4u:

Bros this your prayer comforts my soul.
She cheated like there was no tomorrow. Problem is, I have been waiting for the better deal for almost a year now. Does anyone know how long I still gonna wait or if the deal got stuck on the way?.

.
I don't get u
Who cheated!

There is no big deal abt sex in a relationship , sex is meant for the matuterd minds,, if u can handle the responsibilities, mind u having sex is one of the reasons why we get married so that we will not b jumping from one lady to the other,, so for u to be satisfied with wat u want to live with for the rest of ur life, from the view of a guy I will want to know her weakness on bed ,, but from the view of a lady if u can cop with a guy who can not perform at the night of ur wedding u can go ahead to wait til ur wedding night

Anyway its quite expensive n quite boring. Ask me why? Somebody is gonna me smarter than than the other.

I toasted a girl recently, she said no sex, i said no gifts either, she broke up, i said thanks, see you. After a few days, she was back. Let me tell you guys what some of these chics wont say here, if you let a girl think you will accept half of her, you will end up her mugu and will not get even a quarter. One other thing, never go through a girls whatsapp chats, that is if you want your night food to have taste at all.

segcymoor:
.
I don't get u
Who cheated!

My ex.

am in one already.. it's one year now.. it's still doesn't disturb me.. she says she wants a relationship without sex.. I accept cause I love her.. yes no sex.. with her..
but that doesn't mean I will starve of sex. till when she's ready.. no..
I get it anytime I like.. from any one around( not from hawkers equally).. it's cheap afterall..
I truly love her.. in fact.. even ready to marry her..
but meeehn ... sex starvation is dangerous.. it's has a physiological effect.. especially on those of us that have tested it already..

better for virgins than we.

I've been in a no sex relationship for 3 years plus now before I traveled.

And can vow my partner is doing same.

And the main reason is because we have fear of Jehovah God.

When Jehovah is in a relationship,its very POSSIBLE!

Am into a 4yrs relationship withot sex with my Fiancee, but u'all know "body no be firewood" I got side chicks who helps in Dealing with dat bastard(konji)

erico2k2:

Can I ask a question, what of after 2 years of No sex dating then you got married and on the D day he could not get it up and you went to teh Doc and it was confirmed he has erectile dis function and its permanent, waht would you do??

Hehehehe.

Some women do not know what they are wishing for. This kind of courtship suits impotent or 1 minute guys perfectly.

I know some cases of broken marriages under 2 years after no sex courtship.

Sexual incompatibility. Very serious matter.

No sex makes breaking up easy.....no crying of "he used and dumped me".....I can do a no sex relationship.....so I can walk out easy

it could sound funny, but i prayed for such relationship for some months, and here I am, I found one and he cares and values me beyond my imagination, and we are very much happy together, though smtyms feelings arise and been shunned, lol.

NairalandEFCC1:
big lie, nobody does it

I laugh you

Chai... Anyway from my perspective.....

Thing is....99.9% of guys want sex in a relationship....
Some luckily or unluckily meet virgin gurls who they love and are willing to marry... That's the only time both people "might not be cheating"

But as for all dese girls who have had it before and "came to a resolution" (oyo) not to do it again, and the guy knows........haha my man NO MAN will stay in that sort of relationship and stay faithful....

The only time a No-sex relationship can happen is if a virgin gurl meets a boy (virgin or not) who loves her...

Any other thing is self deception....case closed.... Thread closed