I can remember growing up and my mother telling me “Love don’t pay no bills”. This is true, but is it okay to date or marry a man just because he’s wealthy? Would you date or marry a man just because he can afford to buy you expensive gifts?

“Is it okay to be a gold digger?”

That should be the title of your thread.

It's very much ok to be a gold digger




Now go and marry Oshiomhole

am trying very hard nt 2 say anything insulting 2 u O.p

Love don't pay no bills, true. But is wealth the sole reason of relationship? In as much I support a lady seeking financial security, I do ask a question especially to ladies who do shout they can't marry a poor man. The question is what are you yourself bringing to the table as a lady? Every serious minded guys should always push this question in order to avoid leech and gold diggers. Value must be reciprocal and in measure. You can't be taking from me and not adding to me.
My Philosophy

Their is always more to a man than his apparent material possessions to love him for. Exploit his hinterland and unravel that thing to really love him for.

funny how your mum told you love don't pay the bills..is either you were in a haste to leave her presence or she forgot to tell you this, "if you work hard and make your own money, you won't need any man to pay your bills neither will you be dependent on any guy".

Y cnt u be wealthy ursef....z wealth associated with a particular gender......

Well sure, whatever rocks your boat, just be certain his source of wealth is stable and unshakeable.
As since the love is based on wealth, without wealth there will be no love.

And to you niggas, don't you date girls because she's pretty, endowed or can cook, it's the same thing.
So we shouldn't be quick to judge.

rose54321:
Well sure, whatever rocks your boat, just be certain his source of wealth is stable and unshakeable.
As since the love is based on wealth, without wealth there will be no love.

And to you niggas, don't you date girls because she's pretty, endowed or can cook, it's the same thing.
So we shouldn't be quick to judge.

Thanks so much dear

My dear there's nothing wrong to love wealth and comfort over hustling..
But when it comes to marriage, life long commitment of emotions and trust.. Marrying for wealth without having love for the other person, will eventually make you feel, u are in bondage. The wealthy husband in question might be in love with u and will want to always make luv or he might be the touchy touchy type..
Whereas u that's just with him for. Money may not want him to be all over u everytime he's less busy..
So how do u fix such scenario? Cos in reality touching u may make u feel irritated, cos all u want is wealth.. And then he will feel hurt and may end up having mistresses or even a second wife, cos hey! He can afford to.. But deep down he's not happy.. Uv end up destroying an innocent and vibrant successful guy who believes in love..
Think about it carefully, do u want to be in a loveless marriage filled with money?.

And u can actually be happy and content?
If yes? Then babe go ahead.. The journey is not long after all.

Life is all about personal choices..


For me? I can't.. I will feel am in bondage, if I don't love him.

over okay sef

See ehn if you find happiness in dating a man who's wealthy, carry on.

Amelian:
My dear there's nothing wrong to love wealth and comfort over hustling..
But when it comes to marriage, life long commitment of emotions and trust.. Marrying for wealth without having love for the other person, will eventually make you feel, u are in bondage. The wealthy husband in question might be in love with u and will want to always make luv or he might be the touchy touchy type..
Whereas u that's just with him for. Money may not want him to be all over u everytime he's less busy..
So how do u fix such scenario? Cos in reality touching u may make u feel irritated, cos all u want is wealth.. And then he will feel hurt and may end up having mistresses or even a second wife, cos hey! He can afford to.. But deep down he's not happy.. Uv end up destroying an innocent and vibrant successful guy who believes in love..
Think about it carefully, do u want to be in a loveless marriage filled with money?.

And u can actually be happy and content?
If yes? Then babe go ahead.. The journey is not long after all.

Life is all about personal choices..


For me? I can't.. I will feel am in bondage, if I don't love him.

95% of gals don't care,well half of the wealthy guys wealth stinks to high heaven but Nigeria girls don't care,even though it is risky they will still endure in pain....there are very few gals with principles,the rest na anywhere belle face.they are willing to marry a wealthy and murderous tout.

Very okay dear, if some are marrying broke guyz, I see nothing wrong in marrying a wealthy man. With or without love.

AngelAhnie:
Very okay dear, if some are marrying broke guyz, I see nothing wrong in marrying a wealthy man. With or without love.

I gat money hope you don't mind


am rich...


yawomi

robosky02:


I gat money hope you don't mind


am rich...


yawomi

Oko mi how you doing sweetheart?
Where is Blessing?

AngelAhnie:
Oko mi how you doing sweetheart?
Where is Blessing?

come over

robosky02:


come over

Send your driver
With enough cash.

AngelAhnie:
Send your driver
With enough cash.

meet me at oshodi bus stop

robosky02:


meet me at oshodi bus stop

Sorry I need a driver I don't roll with broke guys

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AngelAhnie:
Sorry I need a driver I don't roll with broke guys

coming to pick you myself in my car

cant wait for any driver to pick you

robosky02:


coming to pick you myself in my car

cant wait for any driver to pick you

Yeeeee!!!!!!! Maga don fall. Sweerie I need some....

Gold diggers should always have one thing at the back of their mind,,,, that ready made man you want, a girl was there when he was nothing... And you want to come now cos he has money?
That's why Nigerian girls keep shouting heart break..

AngelAhnie:
Sorry I need a driver I don't roll with broke guys

my sister

Cholls:
my sister

my brother

AngelAhnie:
Yeeeee!!!!!!! Maga don fall. Sweerie I need some....

its all yours

robosky02:


its all yours

Come and eat
I want to go for shopping