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Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by duduade: 8:02pm On Sep 26, 2016 |
Nonsense. What happened in the past stays in the past 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by Nobody: 8:42pm On Sep 26, 2016 |
fullofregrets:"What goes around, comes around." Just go to the hospital for medical check up and pray that God gives you another man as soon as possible to wipe away your tears. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by Nobody: 9:03pm On Sep 26, 2016 |
So, you are finding it hard to conceive and you tell your boyfriend it could be due to abortions in your past and did not think he could leave? Okay, dat one dey. Do you think if you hadn't told him he wouldn't have sought out a solution to having children if it were taking too long for yo to conceive if you guys were married? I don't know about your boyfriend o, but I know that I would get someone somewhere pregnant if my wife is not forthcoming with children. I have absolutely no qualms with that, I used to berate men who would do such. Not anymore. It turns out everyone is just looking out for themselves these days. Why not I? Why not you? As someone has suggested, go do tests and see if this is as big a deal as you think it is. Better know your fate now and start liking for solutions. Nobody wants to marry a barren woman. Not saying that you're one. If you had an abortion, it means you can/could conceive. Get your shît sorted quick. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by gymnasium(m): 9:17pm On Sep 26, 2016 |
girls and abortion.....................be like bread and akara............... 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by bitchcrafts: 9:46pm On Sep 26, 2016 |
You see your life now? op,sorry im not sorry 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by CSTR2: 9:55pm On Sep 26, 2016 |
VikingsOO7:Seriously? This is a devilish advice and a wrong foundation to build a marriage on. He will find out one day, they always do, and when he does the lady would wish she never got married. I definitely won't advice any member of my family to hide stuffs like that. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by queencalipso(f): 9:56pm On Sep 26, 2016 |
fullofregrets: My dear your inability to get pregnant May not be Cz you did abortion, I have seen girls that did countless abortion yet they were able to conceive. Maybe it's due to improper timing or some homonal changes. But let me as you! Op, for how long have you been trying to conceive? How often do you have sex? How well do you know your time? Your fertility period. If you don't know your timing very well, you may have probably been having sex when you are less likely to get preggy. If this is the case, then I will suggest you master your time or or have sex everyday after your menstral cycle. Telling the truth comes with consequences negative or positive. One have to be ready to embrace whatever comes your way. Make amends and move on. Do not worry so much over your fiancé it was never meant to be. Take care of your self, seek medical solution and also pray to God. Good luck. With all the comments here, no body is considering the fact that the man may even be the one with the problem and you are here beating your self up for nothing. Op did he have him self checked also? If no, what led you to believing that you are the one with the problem? Bcz of d abortion? You see, this is why one needs to put her brain to good use. You were just focused on getting married without putting other factors into consideration. You were just desperate to get pregnant and when it's not forthcoming, you concluded its due to d abortion you did. Did you advice him to go for medical check? I guess not. You are here contemplating suicide this pain will pass like all things born of misfortune. Be strong 33 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by ExplicitContent: 10:10pm On Sep 26, 2016 |
Una dun start And so u came and open a new handle with name full of regrets Smh |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by Nobody: 10:23pm On Sep 26, 2016 |
fullofregrets:You're lucky I hope you'll find someone that loves and cares for you for who you are The good and the bad For better or for worse ** You did the right thing telling him You shouldn't hide anything just to stay in a relationship You're lucky you found out this early Everyone has things they're not so proud to admit they've done Someone that loves you will see beyond that and accept the person you've become 6 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by tosyne2much(m): 10:26pm On Sep 26, 2016 |
To be very frank and sincere, a lady who has once had an abortion is automatically a turn off for me unless I never got to know about it 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by KoldKash(m): 10:29pm On Sep 26, 2016 |
Loose lips sinks ships. 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by Nobody: 10:29pm On Sep 26, 2016 |
One of multiple consequences of premarital sex 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by FavoredGuy: 10:30pm On Sep 26, 2016 |
And why do u wish 2 make it topic of public/online discussion? Ar u sure he's not a N/lander and online too 2 conceal his identity and join in profering fake solutions 2 u? Respond now and I'll give u my candid unbiased suggestion |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by Stanbic(m): 10:30pm On Sep 26, 2016 |
you've made things right by telling him the truth. if he loves u,he'll wait. afterall u are medically ok |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by teemswest(m): 10:30pm On Sep 26, 2016 |
This post is scam a lady will never post a thing like that too sensitive for insensitive nairalanders 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by KKKWHITE(m): 10:30pm On Sep 26, 2016 |
Don't move on like that try to explain more and also letting him to know that you divulge your secret to him because of love and that he should remember that what goes around comes around before taking the decision to end the relationship. |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by mixter(m): 10:31pm On Sep 26, 2016 |
All this NL babe's no get joy at all. Una just dey para. Well, I comment my reserve. Am here to learn. |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by abatobi(m): 10:32pm On Sep 26, 2016 |
let the truth be said,if the foundation is faulty or destroy what can the righteous do you had a bad past but what of the future you want to destroy now.A man who has not paid ur bride price ask you to get pregnant before marriage and you agree now that the pregnancy is not forth coming you think u sre d one with the problem due to ur past. what is wrong is wrong please,go and seek the face of the lord and pls pre marital sex is not only a sin but an everlasting problem. so dear pls cheer up there is provision at the cross for you,trust God and believe him for the best.thanks 5 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by moshino(m): 10:32pm On Sep 26, 2016 |
sexymoma: It's not the opening up that is the "Gbege", it is the unprotected sex, and hence the pregnancy and abortion that is the "Gbege". If you're not married, and you wan do, then use protection to prevent STDs, pregnancy and subsequent abortion, then there will be no "Gbege" later. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by yhuti(m): 10:33pm On Sep 26, 2016 |
He doesn't love you.... why?... because love is blind! And you told him the truth sef..... 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by Ranchhoddas: 10:34pm On Sep 26, 2016 |
ItsQuinn:I knew someone was going to say something really stupid! 7 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by holluphemydavid(m): 10:34pm On Sep 26, 2016 |
sexymoma:D girl even tried for opening up her past to d gut, I created a thread some weeks ago abt a male frd of mine who was dating a girl, dis girl had a child B4 meeting my frd and d girl didn't tell my frd abt it, unfortunately for her, my frd and d guy who she had dis child for knw dem self somewher B4, Dat was hw d whole secrets was unfolds, and dere was no way d girl cud deny it, since den, I find it so difficult to trust any girl, if dey cud keep such top secret from d one u claimed u love,........ I fear u girls enh 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by ladyF(f): 10:35pm On Sep 26, 2016 |
And he hasn't though that maybe... just maybe he has low sperm count? 5 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by Montaque(m): 10:36pm On Sep 26, 2016 |
My dear fullofregrets Life is what u make of it. Try and understand that. The issue here makes you and ur ex holding to valid points. You made mistakes before now, and ought to be forgiven, much more when u are candid. I hope you meet a man who will understand u beyond your actions. That's love for me. You ex too deserves some understanding. What I ve seen makes me think so. Exactly ur case has played out in my hood, and the guy, while in the marriage, and without the wife conceiving, it became all sorts of issue. They say the greatest agony is childlessness, that's explains the recent quest now for pregnancy before wedding. Understand ur ex. Keep a good and healthy outlook, and love urself. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by NeutralJUDGE(m): 10:36pm On Sep 26, 2016 |
ItsQuinn:I love your straight-forwardness jare...since u are not barren,,,next time close that your mouth,,you know how many girls don abort for am 4 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by Nobody: 10:36pm On Sep 26, 2016 |
fullofregrets: Some nice man will come for you. If you can be patient fine If you can I can post a way to attract your husband very fast here using traditional method |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by mohiozua(m): 10:37pm On Sep 26, 2016 |
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Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by Ranchhoddas: 10:37pm On Sep 26, 2016 |
rebella:Yes. Blame the man for not wanting to be in childless marriage! 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by Emu4life(m): 10:37pm On Sep 26, 2016 |
Am sure dis is coming from a CHRISTIAN....dey must Bleep and get pregnant b4 dey can marry..DAMN!! Dis is not JESUS' TEACHING.DIS is d WESTERN TRADITION....am nt surprised though |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by daniella04: 10:38pm On Sep 26, 2016 |
Cutehector:. I guess the guy has the right to be sanctimonious because he hasn't asked a lady to commit abortion before? |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by emperortony: 10:39pm On Sep 26, 2016 |
fullofregrets:This isn't the end, see it as a whole new beginning. Sometimes we don't know how close we are to destiny, before we start quitting. We have all made mistakes just move on. |
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