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Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by metallisc(m): 11:58pm On Sep 26, 2016 |
zemaye: it is always important to speak out and come forth with the truth about your past to your partner and let them make the choice to stay if they want to and face any problems that will arise from his/her past actions. anything built on lies and deception will never last or stand the test when the time comes! |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by mrLhanray(m): 12:01am On Sep 27, 2016 |
Senorprinz: The lord said go ye and multiply. Populate and start a family. So babies are the fruits of marriage. #fact Be realistic 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by goingape1: 12:02am On Sep 27, 2016 |
JerryTemi:you preach from a religious aspect and only sighted the woman's side (probably because you see it from her perspective because she said her story) do you know how many abortion she must have done? maybe god was protecting the man from her!. so don't say what you don't know. by the way! I'm not a sinner because Jesus talketh all our sin to the cross. this just show that you are not a strong believers and not reading ya bible. well keep praying ignorant for what he has already conquer. #you shall know false prophet by there words never surprise 4 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by lakefist(m): 12:03am On Sep 27, 2016 |
fullofregrets: Seriously not being pregnant cud just be something simple as 'PID' mostly caused by toilet disease. Go and do the test and get treated, u will tank me later. BAck to the topic ur bF is immature period. |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by justmenoni: 12:04am On Sep 27, 2016 |
cutehector the professor, but wait English sef no be our mother tongue na, op u sef for write in pidgin english or your native language sexymoma: |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by Bassurge: 12:04am On Sep 27, 2016 |
My sister, you did the right thing. Have no reqrets; if he's truly yours, he'll surely come back. |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by Nobody: 12:08am On Sep 27, 2016 |
Felicity2:Please try to connect with her so you have a chat with her over the phone. |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by teemy(m): 12:09am On Sep 27, 2016 |
fullofregrets:by the way not all men are keen on the baby part as long as their partner is happy. you know by how untraditional he is. |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by Illstillkill(m): 12:09am On Sep 27, 2016 |
if you had told him before now this wouldn't happen,gals and secrets
if you had told him before now this wouldn't happen,gals and secrets |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by tiny78(m): 12:13am On Sep 27, 2016 |
[b][/b] Harrisee:Believe me if you were a virgin, that guy wouldn't give you that condition. ..exactly my thought 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by Aboki4inside(m): 12:14am On Sep 27, 2016 |
fullofregrets:If God has not come to the world to condemn, who is he to judge?.. From the points you've given its obvious he's not a Christian so I'd advice you let him go.. He should be lucky that you were truthful, there are some cases where the individuals have children for someone else but they still love one another. My advice, MOVE ON and STAY STRONG and please prayerfully choose your partner.. I'd also advice you to be plain and truthful always and not when pressure comes . |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by 2odd(m): 12:17am On Sep 27, 2016 |
Like seriously, lets not apportion blames here,not every man can withstand it. Its logical thinking ,he want u to have a baby ,u guys tried all to no avail ,he later found out u had an abortion , my sis u cant blame him,i think u should have to him from onset. If he want to stay he stays , secrets destroys, pls dont take the advice of keeping mum pls. But hey don't worry abt a thing cos every little thing is gonna b alright . |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by Nobody: 12:17am On Sep 27, 2016 |
fullofregrets: Please don't do anything careless. Just pull yourself together. Somebody out there really understands what you feel right now ; he also cares. You're still precious and I will certainly love to contact you later in the day. |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by 2odd(m): 12:17am On Sep 27, 2016 |
Like seriously, lets not apportion blames here,not every man can withstand it. Its logical thinking ,he want u to have a baby ,u guys tried all to no avail ,he later found out u had an abortion , my sis u cant blame him,i think u should have told him from onset. If he want to stay he stays , secrets destroys, pls dont take the advice of keeping mum pls. But hey don't worry abt a thing cos every little thing is gonna b alright . |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by goingape1: 12:22am On Sep 27, 2016 |
Harrisee:thank you! to be honest even me too won't want to marry a woman who committed murder (abortion) no past is hidden! one way or the other the guy will peradventure know and let say you hid it and you marry him (just as how many women are telling you that you should have hide it) if the guy later find out did you think he will still love you and stick with you? it really pains me why women don't think at all. I have seen cases like this and those men will hate there wife to the core which will lead to maltreating her and many do divorce that instant. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by adedayoa2(f): 12:29am On Sep 27, 2016 |
Cutehector:Maybe the woman wey abort cuz of the guy never still born for her own home. Abortion these days no be like those days, Women wey commit am these days dey born. Make God help person ni A friend that did 7 before marriage dey born anyhow. So my dear I'm not here to ask if your womb Don commot, mbaa, but I know you will definitely get married. |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by Nobody: 12:29am On Sep 27, 2016 |
bettercreature:Thank God I'm one of the 2% 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by adedayoa2(f): 12:35am On Sep 27, 2016 |
goingape1:you really don't have the right to judge humans cuz you are human. Let he who is without sin be the first to cast a stone |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by komododragons: 12:37am On Sep 27, 2016 |
adedayoa2:thank God I don mark your face! for you to say this you fit be the mother of abortion. God no go allow me see people like you marry. you even dey follows bad bad frds self. show me your frds and I shall tell you who you are. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by habsydiamond(m): 12:37am On Sep 27, 2016 |
The only sentence I can pick from what u wrote was I try to remember my past. Are u saying u have forgotten all ur past or its just a camouflage. |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by Oweku: 12:38am On Sep 27, 2016 |
Please my dear work away majestically..4 d guy 2 mke you get pregnant b4 he marries you is an insult to your person. it means he doesn't trust ur womanhood, it means he doubt weather you dn't hve a womb...bt d fact dat you hve had an abortion b4 proved dat you are a real woman. n telling him d truth is d best way out, because d broken relationship is beta than a broken marriage...bt pls ask God to forgve you..tke care. |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by mrjojo: 12:39am On Sep 27, 2016 |
sexymoma:Trust me, being open is sure the best way in a serious relationship, some people can't handle their partner's past, they shouldn't be blame for that. @op simply moveon, and hopefully you will find someone who xcan accept your past |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by goingape1: 12:41am On Sep 27, 2016 |
adedayoa2:who is judging humans? what did Jesus tell the woman? go and sin no more! don't use a verse to suit you. 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by goingape1: 12:44am On Sep 27, 2016 |
habsydiamond:lolzzz. what I do know is that a woman can't do an abortion once! it is either from 3 and above. she must have been doing it before she started thinking of settling down. karma is just obeying his law 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by Toks2008(m): 12:45am On Sep 27, 2016 |
fullofregrets: I once created a thread that love does not exist and i get justified each day. I am not patting you on the head for having an abortion in the past but if the guy truly desires you, he won't break up with you cos of this. 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by Nobody: 12:56am On Sep 27, 2016 |
Thank you very much! A round of applause to you pippimp: 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by Aboki4inside(m): 1:02am On Sep 27, 2016 |
ItsQuinn:Oh so which do u think would be more hurtful, hearing a partner's past from a third party or from the partner him/herself... This is why a lot of relationship/marriages don't last |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by paschu: 1:03am On Sep 27, 2016 |
Forget the dude. Making pregnancy a precondition for marriage shows that he was not in love with you. No, he did not leave you because of the abortion. He left you because he pressumed that you won't translate into an efficient baby factory. Move on already please. Otherwise, except you're 50+, the fact that you stooped that low to accept the crap from him makes me speechless. fullofregrets: |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by Aboki4inside(m): 1:03am On Sep 27, 2016 |
pippimp:Oh so which do u think would be more hurtful, hearing a partner's past from a third party or from the partner him/herself... This is why a lot of relationship/marriages don't last |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by CrocodileTears: 1:09am On Sep 27, 2016 |
1. You had unprotected se*x and abortion(s) now you are shedding CrocodileTears. 2. You did not marry the guy(s) u had abortion(s) for cos he(there) might be married, does not like u as a wife, or he is not a husband material or is not ready or u don't even know them or several other variables. 3a. You can not get pregnant for now cos 80% chance due to your past life. Karma is a bitc*h 3b. You should thank God you don't have HIV/Aids 4. You did not let your greatest secrets out to your fiancée until it was difficult to get pregnant or may be he found out from the Doctors report or he confronted you to confess or he asked God to exposed you to him or you confessed under duress or willingly. 5. You want to kill yourself(another sin) after killing your baby(s) how many life's do u want to take. 7. You came to Nairaland with @fullofregret to find a way out. 8. Your story does not show that you are sorry for your past, it shows that you are full of regrets for letting one of your secrets out. 9. You did not show remorse or repentance on your abortion(s) rather you are full of regrets for letting one of your greatest secrets out 10a. Your are selfish and self centred and have not used your case to advise other Nairaland sisters. 10b. Will you advise your son (if he was born) or brother to marry someone like you. 10. sotto voce: “Every saint has a past and every sinner has a future.” Oscar Wilde. 11. No matter your condition God can rescue you, keep praying and intensify medical procedures for child birth. 12. You need to show in your words that you are truly sorry and have truly repented. 13. You need to use your case as a turning point for other Nairaland sisters ( and brothers) and I hope we all learn from your mistakes. 14. I pray your problems come to past, you get married, have children, pursue your dreams and CrocodileSmiles. 15. I wish you Goodluck. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by MENTORCH(m): 1:16am On Sep 27, 2016 |
So you expect him to be happy and clap for you after telling him,imagine if he told you he had fertility issues and pregnancy is now difficult for you. Would you still be with him?My dear the deed has been done, you can't rewind time;just move on.Life goes on |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by lonelydora: 1:19am On Sep 27, 2016 |
goingape1: Bro, I'm married with kids already. All my sisters are happily married with kids too. Do you know how many girls out there that have done abortion? Most married couple have done that too. Go and ask your doctor, you will be shocked from what he will say. It's a normal thing for married peeps. Not saying I have done it shaa. |
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