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Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by battleaxe: 4:42am On Sep 27, 2016 |
goldedprince: Did you think her past was worse than yours? Wild orgies would be a no no for most people. Would it have been acceptable to you if she had only done 'bad' things similar to yours? Or you're looking for a completely clean female with no past? |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by sekundosekundo: 4:49am On Sep 27, 2016 |
rebella: From today you are my friend. Pls try to educate girls and ladies on relationships, a lot of them are completely lost. How can a man told you to get pregnant before he can marry you and you call that love. 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by ayamAgenius: 4:55am On Sep 27, 2016 |
Cutehector: I tire o... Tho I'm curious to know whatever happened to her aborted baby dadi? |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by Akinaukwa: 4:57am On Sep 27, 2016 |
Abortion is a terrible sin. Please ladies in the house try and avoid abortion, i hate it. But then for the lady, if you have prayed for forgiveness move on, a better offer is coming. . 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by Nobody: 4:59am On Sep 27, 2016 |
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Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by AngelAhnie(f): 5:05am On Sep 27, 2016 |
Cutehector:Does abortion stop someone from having a child? How come some that married as virgins are still not pregnant? |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by trapQ: 5:06am On Sep 27, 2016 |
No you have not. Go read psalm 51 read it times over, meditate on it. Keep repeating the first line "have mercy on me oh God in the name of Jesus" continuously. Do it with all your heart too. Its not enough to just say God I'm sorry for a crime as big as murdering a human cuz that's what abortion is. fullofregrets: |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by telemapreye1(f): 5:07am On Sep 27, 2016 |
sexymoma:I wonder why she opened up sef Never tell guys about your past life but dem no go hear |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by placeofallure(f): 5:17am On Sep 27, 2016 |
fullofregrets: People say heartbreak o easy, they can't all be liars. So I know it may be painful but there's nothing you're missing about him that you cannot see elsewhere. Just like rebella said, you should be thankful that this incidence though unpalatable as it may seem, is an eye opener for you. Why in heaven's name would a man who has pledged love for you place you on a condition of no pregnancy, no marriage? There are couples who are both okay medically but infertile who are doing fine. Talking hormonal imbalance, are you menstruating? Is it regular? Do you have hair on your face like a man's? This is not anything drugs cannot correct. Remember to pray for your own man who will care less whether you're mother Abraham or not. The love of no man is worth your life, be wise. Best wishes. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by richidinho(m): 5:20am On Sep 27, 2016 |
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Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by richidinho(m): 5:21am On Sep 27, 2016 |
fullofregrets: Pm me lets worship together this sunday, thank me later |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by trapQ: 5:24am On Sep 27, 2016 |
This must be someone from the pedophile religion. Thank God you said the bolded; everything else is invalid. Emu4life: 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by trapQ: 5:29am On Sep 27, 2016 |
Where the fvck did you get the bolded? From the thrash can? lonelydora: 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by miltonchux(m): 5:29am On Sep 27, 2016 |
Cutehector:That is not God's way, his thought are not our thoughts. My sister you don,t need all that deserve God mercy, he is ever forgiven not because of our works or fasting. He is faithful and merciful |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by FreeSpirited: 5:35am On Sep 27, 2016 |
Cutehector:baba what are you saying?.....so na God block her womb ba? |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by Slickchuma1: 5:37am On Sep 27, 2016 |
sexymoma: Gbam....you hit the nail on the head 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by ZeeAfrica(f): 5:41am On Sep 27, 2016 |
U r nt de problem here, he is. De reason he asked u to have a baby first, is becoz he was trying to test if he can have a baby wit u, coz in de past, he has been trying to impreginate other girls n it never worked. Even wer he is going, he is gona ask her for a baby n dey r not gona concieve. Yo womb is perfectly fine babe, n yo real husband is on his way n his gona give u kids. Leave dis maga alone, he is barren n does nt even know it yet. Advice him to seek medical help, bt i doubt if it will help him. Coz its over for him. Just watch n see. Den wen all dis happened, pm me to thank me for knowing wat de future holds for both of u |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by dfrost: 5:44am On Sep 27, 2016 |
Good morning all. I've read all the comments posted so far and I couldn't help but feel pity for the poor soul. To the OP, you've done your part by telling him. The first step to repentance is confessing and telling the truth. You've told him the truth, let him live with that. But have you repented? I'm not really sure because you even had sex with him in order to concieve. Who even told you to have sex before marriage? Some will come for my head but the truth is that its wrong. You don't need it to prove anything. About committing suicide, someone already said it all. It is a selfish act. The life you have is not even yours but God's. Pull yourself together. It's not easy. I have seen what a broken heart can do so be careful. If you have a confidant, discuss with him or her. Lastly, as much as possible, avoid bringing your personal issues to social media because it's full of cyber bullies. Ciao! 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by canDy4eva(f): 5:47am On Sep 27, 2016 |
Hu dey chase u Must u drag for d position of ftc Cutehector: |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by soloroyality(m): 5:52am On Sep 27, 2016 |
ItsQuinn: her pass life spotted. U no wan change kwontinue. |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by canDy4eva(f): 5:58am On Sep 27, 2016 |
Will u keep quiet?? jamalnation: 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by soloroyality(m): 6:04am On Sep 27, 2016 |
That ur man is not yet serious. I have seen someone who had a girl friend desperate the fact she's her customer were he normal have sex paid know that he is not the only person that have sex with her, but he full in love and marry her. |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by sunnyside16(m): 6:04am On Sep 27, 2016 |
Yea, you had an abortion doesn't conclude your womb was destroyed I think. The fault could be from him who knows. The truth is always bitter but better. Let him be and just pray. It hard I understand but you can't force him, time will heal your pains. |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by canDy4eva(f): 6:05am On Sep 27, 2016 |
Weda u ki yasef or nt u hv bleeped up n all I will advice is dat u fix it, ok? MOVE ON! Beta days head! Goodluck... fullofregrets: |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by Sonyking(m): 6:12am On Sep 27, 2016 |
Hmm such is life |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by bmeworld(m): 6:15am On Sep 27, 2016 |
fullofregrets:Pls don't God has a better plan for u |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by ChrisGnarly: 6:15am On Sep 27, 2016 |
Some u typing trash here will surely do d dsame thing d guy did!! (That's why we shld be very careful d type of life we live) no body wants to cary a problem he does nt know about!! Some laddies sometimes think that its all about "now" they keep on living I don't care life- I think this will serve as a good lesson to some laddies!! ( Maybe d guy himself) its nt a flexing type or maybe too, bt all I know " in this life, there is no sin without a reward, what goes around around come around, anything goes up must surely come down. That's why we shld be careful d life we live at any point in time!!! D soul that sin shall die, nt d other way round |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by HardMirror(m): 6:18am On Sep 27, 2016 |
fullofregrets:I can bet my two balls on it, you have chronic inferiority complex. You obviously see the guy as ur only hope in life. Perhaps he has small money and u don't havw any, cos I don't understand why u wld rush to want to get pregnant for him. What if at the end he also asks you to abort? I have no pity for u. |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by Nnemuka(f): 6:20am On Sep 27, 2016 |
no man is worth having an unprotected sex with..... worst is having an abortion. Sorry, move past your mistake already. we all make mistakes at one point in our life but my dear life goes on. forgive yourself and be more careful next time. |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by Sese2(f): 6:27am On Sep 27, 2016 |
bloomstar:hmmmm did she said that she's baren? She's not barren, its just some hormonal reactions,when she's been thoroughly examined and given the right medications she will take in.and from the side of that guy,he should be appreciative that the gal loves him enough to open up to him.what if she kept quiet?we are all sins u knw |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by Emu4life(m): 6:27am On Sep 27, 2016 |
trapQ:Lol! Funny comment. Its obvious to all dat xtianity always bend to d will of man. infact, it came after Jesus...so u even have GUTS to say peadophile religion? Well, let me reserve my Comment cuz i dnt wanna HURT even a FLY DZ morning...but my comments ar true, u can go any lenght to confirm. SHALOM |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by HardMirror(m): 6:28am On Sep 27, 2016 |
ZeeAfrica:Lol Look at them consoling each other. I hope she won't finally commit suicide when the guy marries with children and she is still single. Lol |
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