Cutehector:
oh, so the man now should be d suspect.. u ladies are just smth else.. someone committed an abortion, the man now is to be blamed for her silly mistakes in the past.

Pls clap for yourself. Why not commit an abortion?

nma24:
Going through an abortion is just being practical... Any guy who walks just because of that does not truly love you. Well, True love is even scarce these days

Cutehector:
whch one is gbege? U want d innocent man to not have kids? Pls abeg. She understands that it's all her fault so she shouldn't act all surprised he left.

Lankaline:


Haha,,,laugh wan kill me die,,,the guy walked away,,she will definitely get someone who will marry her,,love her,,but some guys can't stand it,,can remember during ma 4th year in school,,how i found out a certain gf of mine have had an abortion,just 2weeks before visiting me,yet if yu see the way this girl attacks me for talking or chatting with another girl ehh!!,,i was shocked shaa,,tried to continue,,but its difficult,,coudn't imagine it,,had to break up tha shit!!

Joavid:


really though? what's the level of your education?

i doubt you're intelligent.

a man telling you to get pregnant before marriage is a huge red flag.

you telling him you've had an abortion(especially as you still fertile and healthy) is just dumb.

At this point, focus on building yourself and your self esteem.
Any woman who wants to commit suicide because a man left her is swimming in low self esteem.

Joavid:


No. she will have children cos she is fertile. and if it ever proves difficult, there's something called IVF.

ItsQuinn:
Now you've learnt your lesson, next time you would keep your mouth shut ....just move on abeg, you spoilt what you had by yourself

ItsQuinn:
Now you've learnt your lesson, next time you would keep your mouth shut ....just move on abeg, you spoilt what you had by yourself

Cutehector:
lmao... I don't think he'd have left if he asked another woman in his past to commit abortion...

Cutehector:
Pls shut up and ask God for forgiveness!

fullofregrets:




my dear , you are right ,
we learn everyday ,
sometimes in just a hard way ,
I just wish he can give me chance to make things right again , but he refused to hear my pleas, he said he's fed up , and ready to find another girl , and impregnate her , well I can only wish him luck , am not bad either , God will surely send my own husband and children my way , I moved on already ,

Joavid:


really though? what's the level of your education?

i doubt you're intelligent.

a man telling you to get pregnant before marriage is a huge red flag.

you telling him you've had an abortion(especially as you still fertile and healthy) is just dumb.

At this point, focus on building yourself and your self esteem.
Any woman who wants to commit suicide because a man left her is swimming in low self esteem.

fullofregrets:
I am feeling so devastated right now , my fiance is leaving me , cause I open up to him , that I once had an abortion .
my fiance and I already meet with our parents , he asked of my hands in marriage, and I accepts , we have been to our parents house , but there's an issue in my side , my father don't was not really good with it , cause of cultural differences, but later agreed we can go ahead with it , so my fiance tells me I need to get pregnant , so that we will do the marriage , I agree to that , but it isn't forthcoming , so I started remembering my past , when I had an abortion , so I opened up to him cause of the love we and trust I shared with him , I have carried out possible best, I am okay but some hormonal challenges , after a month he text me , that he's no more interested in the relationship , i am full of regrets right now , I don't know what to do

Cutehector:
whch one is gbege? U want d innocent man to not have kids? Pls abeg. She understands that it's all her fault so she shouldn't act all surprised he left.

Joavid:


whatever rocks your boat.

I encourage you to take your advice dear, and see how Lilly levered Nigerian men are.

sexymoma:
If na another person type wetin u type so.. u go cut im balls

KevinDein:
bro, I'm having goose bumps reading the comments from the ladies on this thread. They obviously see nothing wrong in living a very promiscuous life and having tones of abortions. They talk about abortions as if it the same thing as going to the salon and having your hair done. Totally remorseless. They bring all sorts verses from the Bible to justify the rubbish they do forgetting the same Bible outrightly condemns sex outside marriage.

Bro, after this thread I fear girls more. Omo, I fear them die.

HardMirror:

Because most of them here supporting the girl have all done abortion. In fact all of them. See their stuupiid comments. So they want the guy to marry liability. Mumu girl

BUT SHEY THE GUYS ARE IN CHARGE OF MAKING THE GIRLS PREGNANT?

IF AS A GUY YOU DON'T DEPOSIT THAT FLUID IN YO GIRL THERE AIN'T NO WAY SHE GONNA GET PREGNANT IN THE FIRST PLACE.

AND EVEN IF THERE'S A MISTAKE DUE TO YOUR OWN CARELESSNESS AND SHE GETS PREGNANT, IF YOU TELL HER TO KEEP IT, THAT YOU'RE READY TO TAKE THE RESPONSIBILITY... FOR REAL, NO SANE GIRL WILL THINK OF KILLING AN UNBORN CHILD.


WHEN POINTING FINGERS, WE ONLY LOOK AT ONE SIDE.
BE BLAMED THE GIRLS FOR BEING RAPED, FOR BEING SINGLE, FOR BEING BARREN, FOR GETTING MOLESTED, FOR GETTING PREGNANT,... FOR EVEN BEING LADIES IN THE FIRST PLACE.

HABA IS THE LOAD NOT TOO MUCH ALREADY?

creepsyme:
never tell a man u were raped, never tell a man u had an abortion, never tell a man u were once a prostitute, let him find out himself if he confronts u, den u may own to it.

fullofregrets:
I am feeling so devastated right now , my fiance is leaving me , cause I open up to him , that I once had an abortion .
my fiance and I already meet with our parents , he asked of my hands in marriage, and I accepts , we have been to our parents house , but there's an issue in my side , my father don't was not really good with it , cause of cultural differences, but later agreed we can go ahead with it , so my fiance tells me I need to get pregnant , so that we will do the marriage , I agree to that , but it isn't forthcoming , so I started remembering my past , when I had an abortion , so I opened up to him cause of the love we and trust I shared with him , I have carried out possible best, I am okay but some hormonal challenges , after a month he text me , that he's no more interested in the relationship , i am full of regrets right now , I don't know what to do

Lizzieo:

Talking like a saint,what about dos ladies dat did abortion for u nko?

LadyB1195:

Luckily for me, I don't have secrets that will cause problems for me later in life.

fullofregrets:
I am feeling so devastated right now , my fiance is leaving me , cause I open up to him , that I once had an abortion .
my fiance and I already meet with our parents , he asked of my hands in marriage, and I accepts , we have been to our parents house , but there's an issue in my side , my father don't was not really good with it , cause of cultural differences, but later agreed we can go ahead with it , so my fiance tells me I need to get pregnant , so that we will do the marriage , I agree to that , but it isn't forthcoming , so I started remembering my past , when I had an abortion , so I opened up to him cause of the love we and trust I shared with him , I have carried out possible best, I am okay but some hormonal challenges , after a month he text me , that he's no more interested in the relationship , i am full of regrets right now , I don't know what to do

Chubhie:

If your wife ain't a virgin, you can't be certain what went down behind your back.

You must learn to embrace those that found the courage to tell you truth.The truth can be bitter you know?

ussy09:

is even possible that the fault is from him babe relax n tank God for u hav bin saved.

fullofregrets:
I am feeling so devastated right now , my fiance is leaving me , cause I open up to him , that I once had an abortion .
my fiance and I already meet with our parents , he asked of my hands in marriage, and I accepts , we have been to our parents house , but there's an issue in my side , my father don't was not really good with it , cause of cultural differences, but later agreed we can go ahead with it , so my fiance tells me I need to get pregnant , so that we will do the marriage , I agree to that , but it isn't forthcoming , so I started remembering my past , when I had an abortion , so I opened up to him cause of the love we and trust I shared with him , I have carried out possible best, I am okay but some hormonal challenges , after a month he text me , that he's no more interested in the relationship , i am full of regrets right now , I don't know what to do

fullofregrets:
well I have done everything necessary , my
womb is okay and intact

tenifayo1994:

thank u my bro. why must innocent man suffer for some1 else misdeed. who knows wether during those period she decided to venture along this destructive path there were friends that adviced her against it but........ now she want to play the guilt card nd na this kind thread u go c dem female acting all emotional.
if a man is not willing to take responsibility for hos action dont open ur leg for him or atleast use protection, simple