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Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by vivaciousvivi(f): 7:41am On Sep 27, 2016 |
Cutehector:Clearly u failed to grasp the content of my comment. Dude, nevermind. I refuse to argue pointlessly. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by Lankaline(m): 7:42am On Sep 27, 2016 |
nma24: STFU,,,any guy walking away cos of that don't love yu,,,yu people are so funny,,,if reverse was d case,,maybe she found out the guy s having issues with his reproductive system and probably cant impregnate a woman for that particular time and opens up to the girl,,the girl wont even think twice,,best thing Keep yur secrets,,some ppl are barren today,,cos they probably didnt reveal their past or problems to their intended spouse!!,,if they did,,they person might have walked out Be able to differentiate love and common sense 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by bilulu(m): 7:42am On Sep 27, 2016 |
Cutehector:if had given birth to d child its still ur likes dat will gossip her round d whole village...... Nigeria n backward mentality |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by Cutehector(m): 7:42am On Sep 27, 2016 |
Lankaline:thank u very much for this! They know demselves. All of them.. infact some girls who live just next door to me in d lodge where I stay, one exposed her friend dat she committted abortion. Omo na so I pursue all of them comot ffrom my room.. Oya Oya vamoose. I unfriend all of them sharpaly.. |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by mradjoy(m): 7:43am On Sep 27, 2016 |
Joavid: You're too harsh on that young woman, you'll never know how painful it is if you've never been there before! |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by Cutehector(m): 7:44am On Sep 27, 2016 |
Joavid:I don't care if she is fertile or not! She made a choice, and she should face the consequences of her choice period! Tell me if u would ever forgive ur man if he impregnates another girl.. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by Nobody: 7:47am On Sep 27, 2016 |
ItsQuinn:U had better be joking. |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by Nobody: 7:49am On Sep 27, 2016 |
ItsQuinn: U had better be joking. Don't live this kind of life u just typed here. Hoha! |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by Wolfbrother(m): 7:50am On Sep 27, 2016 |
Cutehector: Are you living in a dream world? or do you not know men and what they do? Cutehector: Typical african response, please dont raise your children this way , and as for God , i'm sure he has forgiven her a very long time ago 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by ussy09(m): 7:51am On Sep 27, 2016 |
fullofregrets:is even possible that the fault is from him babe relax n tank God for u hav bin saved. |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by Nobody: 7:52am On Sep 27, 2016 |
Joavid: My dear no one should build a marriage on pretense and falsehood. Trust me she did nothing wrong in opening up to the man. So quit with the blames. |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by ubiR(f): 7:53am On Sep 27, 2016 |
even if he comes back to you, take a walk. You know y? he will frustrate you in that marriage when babies don't come. Even if they eventually come, he will hunt u with your past. pls move on, he isnt for u. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by Lexusgs430: 7:53am On Sep 27, 2016 |
fullofregrets: Some secrets are better left untold and unsaid |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by tenifayo1994(m): 7:54am On Sep 27, 2016 |
Cutehector:thank u my bro. why must innocent man suffer for some1 else misdeed. who knows wether during those period she decided to venture along this destructive path there were friends that adviced her against it but........ now she want to play the guilt card nd na this kind thread u go c dem female acting all emotional. if a man is not willing to take responsibility for hos action dont open ur leg for him or atleast use protection, simple |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by frankells(m): 7:54am On Sep 27, 2016 |
Some things are better not said! Learn your lessons dear |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by Nobody: 7:55am On Sep 27, 2016 |
Joavid:Luckily for me, I don't have secrets that will cause problems for me later in life. |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by Danfuster(m): 8:00am On Sep 27, 2016 |
sexymoma: Seems you know this dude so well... He be acting like a fück boy, he thinks he knows it all. Yet Homer Simpsons brain is bigger than his. |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by Nobody: 8:00am On Sep 27, 2016 |
Thank God for this thread, I'm really learning alot. It must continue being on my followed topics. |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by IyfeNamikaze(m): 8:03am On Sep 27, 2016 |
KevinDein: oga one very important thing I just learnt from this thread is that 90% of the girls here have done an abortion at least 2 times. 4 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by CAPSLOCKED: 8:05am On Sep 27, 2016 |
HardMirror: BUT SHEY THE GUYS ARE IN CHARGE OF MAKING THE GIRLS PREGNANT? IF AS A GUY YOU DON'T DEPOSIT THAT FLUID IN YO GIRL THERE AIN'T NO WAY SHE GONNA GET PREGNANT IN THE FIRST PLACE. AND EVEN IF THERE'S A MISTAKE DUE TO YOUR OWN CARELESSNESS AND SHE GETS PREGNANT, IF YOU TELL HER TO KEEP IT, THAT YOU'RE READY TO TAKE THE RESPONSIBILITY... FOR REAL, NO SANE GIRL WILL THINK OF KILLING AN UNBORN CHILD. WHEN POINTING FINGERS, WE ONLY LOOK AT ONE SIDE. BE BLAMED THE GIRLS FOR BEING RAPED, FOR BEING SINGLE, FOR BEING BARREN, FOR GETTING MOLESTED, FOR GETTING PREGNANT,... FOR EVEN BEING LADIES IN THE FIRST PLACE. HABA IS THE LOAD NOT TOO MUCH ALREADY? 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by chudez0147(m): 8:07am On Sep 27, 2016 |
creepsyme:now that's the devil himself. |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by Lexusgs430: 8:07am On Sep 27, 2016 |
fullofregrets: Since you have been trying for kids and no luck yet. Go and perform a womb function test (hoping that the abortion as not done any lasting damage)......... |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by tosyne2much(m): 8:08am On Sep 27, 2016 |
Lizzieo:It is not the matter if being a saint... Mind you, I have never done an abortion for a lady and I don't think I will ever do 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by Lexusgs430: 8:09am On Sep 27, 2016 |
LadyB1195: Are you REALLY sure? |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by klassic(m): 8:09am On Sep 27, 2016 |
Loving someone does not mean they are perfect, it means you can look beyond their imperfections and love. One thing I have come to realise in life in sometimes when we honestly give our best but things don't work out the way we want it, it's simply because God has seen the future and it's not in our favour. So divine obstacles comes our way to scuttle it. Thank God you told him now what if it was after the wedding and two years on you are having issues getting a child, you open up and he sends you packing. Would you have preferred it. We all make mistakes and thank God you have asked for forgiveness to God whose creature you terminated and to him who ought to be your pillar. God will send a better one sooner than you think. Just ask God earnestly in prayers and hear from him. Regretting and sadness won't fix it.It's gone .Look at a brighter future and open up on time this time. So he knows the baggage you come.with . May the Spirit of the Lord Comfort you.Amen 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by Wolfbrother(m): 8:10am On Sep 27, 2016 |
fullofregrets: Go to a fertility clinic get yourself checked, you made a mistake , you are not the first to do so, honesty is always the best policy don't keep secrets in any relationship, i dont claim to speak for him but if you were earnest in your prayers you have already been forgiven, it is understandable that he left , he would feel hurt and betrayed finding something like this out so late , he would also feel afraid because he wants children, so try as much as you can not too keep any grudge towards him , the fault is not his . Happiness will come to you , the past is the past, focus on bettering yourself . |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by tosyne2much(m): 8:10am On Sep 27, 2016 |
Chubhie:This is not the matter of being discrimatory. It is just that I can't stand abortion no matter how much we try to embellish it 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by 2prexios: 8:11am On Sep 27, 2016 |
ussy09: Perfect. Someone open up to me about her past abortion: after which she met 'pregnant- before-marriage' dude and she couldnt conceive for two years, then met someone else two years after and discovered shes pregnant after two months. OP, Let the man go, or you stay fertile but barren with him for the rest of time. As a man thinketh, so he is. The next man will get you pregnant except if its visa baby (destiny child) you are looking for. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by youngibeh(m): 8:12am On Sep 27, 2016 |
fullofregrets: My dear you did the right thing. As long as you realized that what you did in the past was wrong and is ready to put things right, God will help you locate your husband who will accept you for who you are. Am married to my love who confessed to me that she had three kids i was happy to have met a sincere and hardworking lady. We got married and we are living very happily even though she has had 3 miscarriages but i took it as a plot from the pit of hell to make me regret. WE HOLD UNTO GOD THE AUTHOR AND FINISHER OF OUR FAITH. Do the same and God will see you through in Jesus Name!!! |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by tenifayo1994(m): 8:12am On Sep 27, 2016 |
some ladies will never learn. a frind of mine had a gf back then with whom he lead a couples life with in school. the ladies commited 3 abortion nd it so clear that both of them will never marry each other because of the fact that the lady's parent are not in support of their relationship. now ae have graduated nd my guy have pathed way with that lady. if that lady get marry someday nd her husband decide to leave her after he find out all she had done, am more than sure that some ladies will still point an accussing finger at the husband and the reason for that is so obivious, many of dem ladies don commit abortion. |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by Nobody: 8:13am On Sep 27, 2016 |
fullofregrets:I see nothing bad telling him ur past, in fact it is the best thing and that shows u rili love him. He's just being childish. He will come back I'm sure unless he refused to sick advice from the wise |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by klassic(m): 8:14am On Sep 27, 2016 |
tenifayo1994: Imagine. You told it's because of that? Have you ever realise that on life something's happen we have no explanation for.If na the abortion, why retired prostitute with countless abortion gets to have kids in marriages and it takes an innocent virgin 6years before kids? And by the way who told you the man is innocent? Do you know the countless aabortions other ladies might have performed for him? Nor be people dey marry retired Olosho, or marry single mum, etc. |
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