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Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by mikaael(m): 1:16pm On Sep 27, 2016 |
SAMBARRY: dnt mk him fe so bad nww |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by Miladi(f): 1:19pm On Sep 27, 2016 |
Joel3: Your pettiness is irredeemable. Where do you expect a struggling man in his present position to raise the quantity of money required to buy a land to build a house for personal use? Obviously, you're still eating mama thAnk you, else you would have known that it will be a grave mistake for him to engage in such a venture at the moment. Buying a land as a form of savings and for investment purposes is a good idea and part of proper and futuristic planning (which is part of building his business before private estate as wise people do - my postulation therein). However, my postulation is different from your myopic idea; which is buying a land and build a personal/lease house - your foremost post pointed to this. He can't afford such for now. The young man is talking about planning with what he has and earns at present. There you're making a wishful statement. . . . If wishes were horses beggars would ride. Now run along and play with your mates, because I don't join issues with anyone - least of petty people. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by jjj444: 1:20pm On Sep 27, 2016 |
the standard at which u wanna live matters... |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by Bhol28: 1:21pm On Sep 27, 2016 |
DollyParton1:You,ve just asked the most important question,If his wife to be is also on an average income life might not be too harsh for them.But if No then i,ll advise my guy to at least save for about 1yr and have an account that can be called on when child bearing finances as a family man starts coming |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by themodernman: 1:21pm On Sep 27, 2016 |
SAMBARRY: Abeg where and how i fit get that 24k/yr apartment please. |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by Nobody: 1:33pm On Sep 27, 2016 |
dfrost:oh. That will be great. Woah, I wish to know that your sister. When will you open the thread. Biko mention me oo |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by Nobody: 1:36pm On Sep 27, 2016 |
lawnreigh:you speak two langs already . You are selfish sir . I just wanna learn my first one. Im Learning online thou. We wanna create a thread |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by adetes: 1:46pm On Sep 27, 2016 |
is no more news that lagos is so expensive, so u should kno better, avoid unecessary expensive things then u r good to go |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by Laido: 1:52pm On Sep 27, 2016 |
pamelga:. well bro, you can just arrange ur self first. B4 family, don't you wanna enjoy urself as a guy? All these days of no job.. Nah part of why guys no dey live too long these days bro, too much of wahala. If your not too old. Don't rush in like that, take your time. Live well.. |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by SAMBARRY: 1:56pm On Sep 27, 2016 |
themodernman:Its in the outskirts of Lagos more like the rural side of Lagos |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by SAMBARRY: 2:01pm On Sep 27, 2016 |
mikaael:in nairaland you get all sorts. Those who will deceive you to make you feel good and Those who will hurt you with the truth but change his life for good However the ball is in ops court.it depends on what he wants. Whether to live an unplanned frustrated life where he cannot pay for what he wants yorubas say otoro biomo iya isokuso.it's never pleasant to the ears but beneficial to the life |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by themodernman: 2:02pm On Sep 27, 2016 |
SAMBARRY: Men me i no mind oh... 1 Like |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by SAMBARRY: 2:05pm On Sep 27, 2016 |
ventq:we know your type to.broke nights who will not plan their lives for a better tomorrow but will bring innocent kids into the world to suffer with you When your wife leaves you for a better man financially you will start ranting that all women like money as if the men hate money. Continue deceiving your selves.ato yin to Shioorrrr |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by ibietela2(m): 2:09pm On Sep 27, 2016 |
Joel3: Still wondering the same thing |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by SAMBARRY: 2:10pm On Sep 27, 2016 |
eyinjuege:haaaa!!! Okunrin!!! Small time you will open that smelling mouth and say I cannot allow my wife to foot the bill of the house.I am a man.I will not allow any woman to emasculate me.infact if she earns more than you and supports in the bill una go still give her wahala True dey boom Btw you're encouraging him to take his children to mushroom schools with teachers who are semi illiterates to teach his kids and learn how to cuss That's nice.iyen na da I 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by stchinedu: 2:14pm On Sep 27, 2016 |
pamelga: Yes you can marry. All you need is to be disciplined in your choices...Your choice of wife, apartment, lifestyle. Above all, starting a family is not a child's play. You will need to have an understanding with the lady you want to marry and if she works, it will be an advantage to the two of you. |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by dfrost: 2:17pm On Sep 27, 2016 |
Iamhatey: I'll open it today. Will mention you immediately. |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by Joel3(m): 2:42pm On Sep 27, 2016 |
justmenoni: I am not suggesting he should build in expensive location. .. he can remain in rent and build his house somewhere. |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by Funkybabee(f): 2:46pm On Sep 27, 2016 |
some times I just sit and wonder why some guys have low IQ,because when they are in school back then.how they suffer with parents in other to finish and be a better person in life. one day they will just get a job and started looking for their own family they don't even think for one second to wait for a year so that they can treat their parents well before family stuff begin,anyway I don't kuku mind I just remembered one word says boy child is a offering for a family 1 Like |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by Franklerry: 2:57pm On Sep 27, 2016 |
When some pple are buildn their family with 30k. U just got d job. Pls do save up first. 70k is small but knw that some pple are receivn 20k 30k as salary. Plan and knw what u wnt..shalom |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by Nobody: 3:00pm On Sep 27, 2016 |
Guy don't allow pipo to deceive you oooo....If you plan yourself well you will succeed in managing that money....At least after few years dey can increase your salary or you can also change job and earn more. |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by OCTAVO: 3:04pm On Sep 27, 2016 |
Well, it's possible. That's if your wife is earning too. I will advise you not to buy a car yet, just in case you have it in mind. |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by Olumyyde(m): 3:05pm On Sep 27, 2016 |
hmmm,a lot of guys here are trying to discourage young men from getting married n be responsible. I think the only physical factor to consider here is the wife's prudence n discipline,of course after GOD'S help. Tell me,how many of such guys saying 83k or 70k is chicken change would remain a virgin at 32 as a man?think n answer yourselves..i would take my chances with GOD on my side,with diligence n prudence. December 3rd,you are invited..cheers! 1 Like |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by Joel3(m): 3:05pm On Sep 27, 2016 |
Miladi:it's very clear that you are ignorance of how a man live his live. Unfortunately you are the type of girls who lead a man into early grave so good bye. I am more wiser than the men you have been mating with. good luck. |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by Katibi1980(m): 3:09pm On Sep 27, 2016 |
yes, just commite everything in the hands of God, and pray for your real wife. not that type of materialistic who bring nothing to the table. |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by Katibi1980(m): 3:10pm On Sep 27, 2016 |
Yes, just commite everything in the hands of God, and pray for your real wife. not that type of materialistic who bring nothing to the table. |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by Hammefeez: 3:14pm On Sep 27, 2016 |
Iamhatey: Let's start start by telling me how to learn Spanish I'll be glad |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by eyinjuege: 3:19pm On Sep 27, 2016 |
SAMBARRY: Excuse you, I'm just someone who sees life as it is. I don't do all that gender battles or what not. Hardly will you see a man these days that'll refuse his wife's help in meeting the needs of the home. Women's earning power is equal if not more than the men these days in Naija, at least in the corporate world. Let's be real here and face reality. It's not all men that have good jobs. Even those with relatively good jobs don't live according to the standard they would have loved to. Who doesn't like going on holidays to exotic places? Who doesn't want their children to go to BIS? But the truth is few people can live that lifestyle. Don't be deceived that because we're all typing and chatting on the Internet that we are all on the same level. Those mushroom schools cater for a lot of children including those whose parents are on NL (until our govt can provide basic education, and increase the no of public schools primary and secondary levels) . At least the govt can put checks and balances in place to monitor those mushroom schools and the people they employ Not all NLers live abroad, or in duplexes or flats. Millions of people live in face me I slap you, and some are also on NL, some send their children to mushroom schools. Public Schools are not really bad with the staff employed, but they have poor infrastruture and we have plenty of pupils registered there. In fact, I've got some wonderful colleagues who are products of these public schools. We have some men in their 40s and 50s not earning upto the 70k, do we still ask them to wait till they hit it before starting a family ? Remember, it's not everyone that'll get that breakthrough. Like I said earlier, everyone should cut their coat according to their cloth. Some families live on the 70k 1 Like |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by omoleyeib(m): 3:27pm On Sep 27, 2016 |
pamelga:my advice, dont begin family with liability woman, 80% succesful family, all hand is on desk. Hand wash hand to make it clean |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by harshake1: 3:29pm On Sep 27, 2016 |
YES U CAN IF YOUR WIFE IS ALSO WORKING SO THAT U WONT CARRY ALL THE RESPONSIBILITIES ALONE |
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