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Re: I Was Slapped By My Employer by jonahjegs(m): 11:38pm On Sep 28, 2016 |
People on NL are too blunt. Obviously this person is an emotional person that people find it easy to take advantage of. My advice for you is go and pack your things and leave that office, no need to beat the HM up. 1 Like |
Re: I Was Slapped By My Employer by MzPecs(f): 11:41pm On Sep 28, 2016 |
willibounce1:This is the simple truth I typed and some nairalanders wanna eat me raw. I think you understand perfectly what goes around in private schools unlike some people here who don't know jack bout what goes around there and then come here and support the OP. |
Re: I Was Slapped By My Employer by Nobody: 11:48pm On Sep 28, 2016 |
MzPecs:I followed ur points, yes it's bad for d teacher to keep malice with parents, but how can u tel d Op to go apologise after bn slapped And said she deserves it? No matter how wrong the Op was, dt slap is an assault/battery which ever The painful aspect is u're also a female, how would u feel if ur employer slap u even if u were at fault? Let's always try to empathise before we judge. 3 Likes |
Re: I Was Slapped By My Employer by MzPecs(f): 11:51pm On Sep 28, 2016 |
romeorails:I can't behave ill-mannered like she did especially in a school. Let's just say she isn't lucky with the kinda HM she has! |
Re: I Was Slapped By My Employer by Nobody: 11:52pm On Sep 28, 2016 |
Op its palpably clear that u were at fault as per Wt transpired btw u n d kid. If not, u won't kip it to urself n give us only the part that would make u the victim. How are we sure u ddnt even insult the HM or did some worse things u kept out of ur one sided story. But in all, no matter what, she has no right to slap u on whatever grounds. |
Re: I Was Slapped By My Employer by Nobody: 11:55pm On Sep 28, 2016 |
MzPecs:well! u may not, but let's forget about wht she did now. I just want u to accept dt the HM crossed the rubicon by slapping her. Dt point is Wt u seem to see nothing wrong with, meaning u can do the same if in HM's shoes? Not so 2 Likes |
Re: I Was Slapped By My Employer by eyinjuege: 11:57pm On Sep 28, 2016 |
MzPecs: Chai!!!! Slap is well deserved ke? No one has the right to raise their hands against another. If it were to be saner climes, the headmistress and the school would have been in trouble, and would definitely pay compensation. She'll also probably lose her position as the headmistress sef. Is it by force to greet someone? Is she not teaching the child what she's supposed to in school? Was she victimising the said child? If the Hm wasn't happy with her conduct, she should have terminated her appointment or suspended her, but definitely not slap her. 4 Likes |
Re: I Was Slapped By My Employer by Hawlahscho(m): 12:02am On Sep 29, 2016 |
telemapreye1: Oh! Touching!! Dear, I can feel your pain from my imagination and I must say it was not a pleasant experience but that's not to be discussed now. Abt revenge, if I were you I would forget it and leave her sch without any harm in any way. I know how difficult that can seem due to how heartbroken and cheated-on you feel but I advise, dont harm her in any form pls. I suggest leaving her a message/letter to express exactly how you feel (WITHOUT ANY IOTA OF ABUSIVE STATEMENT. NOT EVEN IRONICALLY OR SARCASTICALLY) is a good idea Then quit her job to avoid enslavement. Remember: challenges seem harder towards ending, maybe that's d circumstance that'll take you to your promise land. It is well with you my sister. Ma ronu mo o, tujuka it's for a while 3 Likes 1 Share
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Re: I Was Slapped By My Employer by Inteldeji: 12:06am On Sep 29, 2016 |
In the first place you should have pacified the parent without allowing the matter to degenerate into malice. However, the HM shouldn't have slapped you dat was totally wrong and i am vexed if nah me I go slap my own back with so much venom how I go take cry for dat kain matter. 1 Like |
Re: I Was Slapped By My Employer by AbiolaEsq(f): 12:11am On Sep 29, 2016 |
Sue the HM. I'm a lawyer. I can help you at little cost. |
Re: I Was Slapped By My Employer by hardbody: 12:24am On Sep 29, 2016 |
An0nimus: I mean no offence but i never attempt reading her posts 1 Like |
Re: I Was Slapped By My Employer by amuokuko: 12:24am On Sep 29, 2016 |
OP, u try oooooo.. Apart from Military men, armed person, no one would slap me without getting it back in double.. Even my MD, pastor would get it double. Ordinary insult moves my knuckles talkless a slap.. OP, since u need that job badly, ignore the revenge but start looking for another job cous u re on ur way out soon. |
Re: I Was Slapped By My Employer by exhibit7432(m): 12:33am On Sep 29, 2016 |
Oboy. .do whatever you will. ..but let it not get you sacked oh. ..economy hard Now |
Re: I Was Slapped By My Employer by lastpage: 12:39am On Sep 29, 2016 |
telemapreye1: I think wimps like you deserve more SLAPS to reset your brain! Omo'rele owa'gbesi (that means a child that runs home first, before knowing how to respond to a public insult on his family) When you finish crying and finish bleeding, let us know so we can tell you what to do. If na me be your Papa, l go dash you give ritualist sef! May l hear say you slap the woman back five times, make l come dey beg say na only twice you for slap am now.... God forbod, l nor born dindinrin for pikin. Lastpage! NB: No employer has the right to slap an employee, you either get slapped-back three times or you get sued for "assault". U can shove the job up ur 'you-know-what' . 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Was Slapped By My Employer by Bollinger(m): 12:42am On Sep 29, 2016 |
TheArchangel: Yes. In Nigeria, the best way to handle situations is to either go get a hired killer to finish the HM, or organize boys to go deal him, or you go find his relatives and "deal" with them etc. But, in a normal society, you call the cops. That is how it is supposed to be done. But we all know Nigeria is not a normal county is it? Everyone acts like a phucking animal. This why the HM slapped him and this is why he is considering revenge. Smh. 1 Like |
Re: I Was Slapped By My Employer by lastpage: 12:42am On Sep 29, 2016 |
AbiolaEsq: Lawyer with/without a Conscience! Do it "Pro-Bono". No advance payment. You win the case, you take a cut of the pay-out. That should be your motivation, if you know your job properly. Lastpage! 1 Like |
Re: I Was Slapped By My Employer by Bollinger(m): 12:44am On Sep 29, 2016 |
An0nimus: You never jam kingcheezypuff own. You go tire i swear. Rumor has it someone somewhere told her it's sexy. Not. 1 Like |
Re: I Was Slapped By My Employer by Nobody: 12:45am On Sep 29, 2016 |
telemapreye1:I really had to quote you op, like wtf!! U didn't slap her back Same thing happened to me years back but believe me, I made her life miserable!! |
Re: I Was Slapped By My Employer by Nobody: 12:47am On Sep 29, 2016 |
lastpage:bruh, u gat me cracking , op is one hell of a mumu 1 Like |
Re: I Was Slapped By My Employer by Nobody: 12:48am On Sep 29, 2016 |
exhibit7432:economy is hard now is not like getting a primary school teaching job bruh, jobs there are always open cos they pay the least of salaries |
Re: I Was Slapped By My Employer by lastpage: 12:49am On Sep 29, 2016 |
An0nimus: Nor be only you o, The color make me lose he-rec-tion sef! if you must attempt to be colourful, at least try and do it in a way people can actually read what you wrote! Well, she nor make sense anyway. Lastpage! 1 Like |
Re: I Was Slapped By My Employer by Nobody: 1:05am On Sep 29, 2016 |
Bollinger:haha Shut up. |
Re: I Was Slapped By My Employer by Bollinger(m): 1:07am On Sep 29, 2016 |
KingCheezyPuff: Just saying. |
Re: I Was Slapped By My Employer by diva90: 1:12am On Sep 29, 2016 |
If you had told us what the incidence you had with the kid was then we would be able to advise you better. It seems like you have some fault on your path. But then again, it's better to collect slap than to lose the job abi? |
Re: I Was Slapped By My Employer by Nobody: 1:14am On Sep 29, 2016 |
Bollinger:mmm bye |
Re: I Was Slapped By My Employer by eph12(m): 1:22am On Sep 29, 2016 |
charix:Maybe you don't know this but employers do investigate someone they're about to employ. So assuming she gets a new job and they go back to the boss that slapped her to ask about her conduct what do you think is gonna happen? |
Re: I Was Slapped By My Employer by Nobody: 1:43am On Sep 29, 2016 |
eph12:It is assumed but not always so. A similar belief is one people spread saying without an nysc certificate an individual can never get a job. Guess what? Private organizations give no consideration to nysc. So assuming she gets a new job and they go back to the boss that slapped her to ask about her conduct what do you think is gonna happen?Funny enough this goes two ways: either she loses her new job or the old boss surprisingly tells her new employer good things. |
Re: I Was Slapped By My Employer by AngelAhnie(f): 1:45am On Sep 29, 2016 |
MzPecs:The hm didn't go through anything to get those kids. The hm is very wrong in her action. She is lucky she slapped a cool headed lady. |
Re: I Was Slapped By My Employer by divinelove(m): 2:07am On Sep 29, 2016 |
telemapreye1: First things first can u do without d job ie by resigning if no leave vengeance for God. Infact go n say sorry to HM for being rude to the parent so everyone can move on. If u see d parent next time apologize to her too |
Re: I Was Slapped By My Employer by macaranta(m): 2:24am On Sep 29, 2016 |
MzPecs: Are you used to slave work? 1 Like |
Re: I Was Slapped By My Employer by Osyxcel(m): 3:27am On Sep 29, 2016 |
MzPecs: Your font color is very annoying. The HM shouldn't have slapped him/her but I guess what he did initially is very bad, that's why he cleverly left that part out... |
Re: I Was Slapped By My Employer by kindklemz(m): 4:23am On Sep 29, 2016 |
xtervaganza: Hia....there is no need insulting, somebody make a point, you disagree on it,make it known without resorting to insult. Remember, we don't all reasons alike, we are created so,thats what makes life sweet Peace! |
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