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| I Think My Wife To Be Is An Ogbanje by akwashimanok: 2:36pm On Sep 29, 2016 |
she is beautiful intelligent and charismatic. knew her for about 2 yrs before we started dating. i love her so much and i am sure she loves me too. am 30 and she is 27. she is very short tempered,gross mood swings,extravagant,selfish and greedy. above all this things i still love her. i am not sure if she cheats on me that only God know. but if she actually does. i dont want to know... i am the best guy she has ever dated as she just cannot live without me. atleast she says that alot. but the problems and backwardness she brings into my life is worrisome.she creates problems and when i react she would say i raise my voice at her or i am simply dating her because she is sickle. i lover her beyond all of these. attimes she stares at me in the middle of the night when am asleep.i noticed it trice whenever i wanted to change sleep position .it scares the heck out of me sometimes..she is very educated but unemployed. she cares so much about money. i have spent so much on her but she doesnt appreciate it at all. i have tried to let go of the relationship but she doesnt wanna let me go.i reported this issue to a man of God who said i should bring her for deliverance but she doesnt wanna go cos she thinks i am marely accusing her. plus she cannot allow just any man touch her in the name of prayers.nairalanders i beg of u... i am helpless in this situation. what are ur tots on this issue. i swear to God that i mean every word in this writeup. help a brother as i will be glad. P.S forgive my bad english as many tots are running tru my head. 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: I Think My Wife To Be Is An Ogbanje by Nobody: 2:44pm On Sep 29, 2016 |
I dunno watz obanje but lemme call smellinganus  he can surely relate to this...  1 Like |
| Re: I Think My Wife To Be Is An Ogbanje by DeLioncourt: 2:51pm On Sep 29, 2016 |
bro... this one is strong ooo. I know what it's like to want to let go but not be able to. Truth is, there may nothing wrong with her (spiritually)..she may just be weird. However, given the behavioral characteristics you have mentioned, I don't think your love is in the right place. Think about what you want in a family ooo..not what you see now. Dyu want a family where your kids watch y'all fight and curse at each other? You've known her long enough to know whether there is hope to change at least some of her bad attributes.. so it's up to you bruh. And when people always try to turn the table, (you bring up something and they accuse you of accusing them) there's always something fishy going on. So be careful bro. From all you have said, My spider sense tells me she's shady. 9 Likes |
| Re: I Think My Wife To Be Is An Ogbanje by Nobody: 2:59pm On Sep 29, 2016 |
TrapQueen77: Menhh! this una love self! me i neva love b4 so i no no wetin i go say! |
| Re: I Think My Wife To Be Is An Ogbanje by Nobody: 3:02pm On Sep 29, 2016 |
Eaa247: u must be still very young... |
| Re: I Think My Wife To Be Is An Ogbanje by Nobody: 3:08pm On Sep 29, 2016 |
Staring at you in the middle of the night means she's admiring you. I love doing it sometimes when a beautiful girl is sleeping beside me. But I'm handsome too 1 Like |
| Re: I Think My Wife To Be Is An Ogbanje by Nobody: 3:08pm On Sep 29, 2016 |
Lemme collect this space sha, but sorry i don't know what to tell you  |
| Re: I Think My Wife To Be Is An Ogbanje by Nobody: 3:09pm On Sep 29, 2016 |
TrapQueen77: nope! my beautiful daughter i am an old man! a grandpa who sees love as mystery 2 Likes |
| Re: I Think My Wife To Be Is An Ogbanje by akwashimanok: 3:09pm On Sep 29, 2016 |
DeLioncourt:walahi bro am am very sure am in a deep shit...if this is my destiny then am in trouble |
| Re: I Think My Wife To Be Is An Ogbanje by Nobody: 3:10pm On Sep 29, 2016 |
Me too I can't go for prayers in any kind of church because there are too many fake pastors these days. Does that make me an ogbanje? |
| Re: I Think My Wife To Be Is An Ogbanje by Antina(f): 3:17pm On Sep 29, 2016 |
OP, so because she stares at you at the middle of the night has qualified her to be ogbanje, pls don't look for what is not lost, I think u need to sit and get ur fact right, are u concerned cos she stares at u at the middle of the night or because of her behaviour? Sometimes when u love someone, u even go as far as watching over them while they are sleeping, she might not be sleeping when u saw her too and chooses to stare at you. To me, ur explanation does not qualify her to be an ogbaje. "She won't allow anyone touch her all in the name of prayer" why do they need to touch her before they can pray for her? I see all these as an excuse, might be cos u are fed up already. |
| Re: I Think My Wife To Be Is An Ogbanje by Adeinfo: 3:18pm On Sep 29, 2016 |
Wow! congrats bro, an ogbanje, excellent protection from other witches and powers inclusive... Did I typed that?.... ;DWow! congrats bro, an ogbanje, excellent protection from other witches and powers inclusive... Did I typed that?.... |
| Re: I Think My Wife To Be Is An Ogbanje by Richy4(m): 3:19pm On Sep 29, 2016 |
What you just summarised up there was her being a woman... Do not waste your time or your man of God's time.. she was just being a woman.... As for her looking at u in the middle of the night...., Have u ever thought about how amazing u are? U over looked all her nonsense and still take care of all her needs..she can't possibly imagine how lucky she was.. ...With all those crap u mentioned, if it was me we would have been history long time... Beside if any guy finds a lady that loved him and pick up all his bills, trust me they will not sleep at night, i for one won't mind staring from 11pm to 1am.. because that was a jackpot..what u are bro is a jackpot.. every reasonable girl would wake up and make sure she was not dreaming. . 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I Think My Wife To Be Is An Ogbanje by DeLioncourt: 3:20pm On Sep 29, 2016 |
akwashimanok: we create our own destinies bro. Snap out of it and bounce if your gut tells you to. The usual fears are that you may not be able to find someone you love that way...but f*ck it... do what is best for you. Make her understand why you have to end it.. or do like some sharp guys. become an asshole. give her the impression that you aren't faithful anymore... start silly fights over nothing... until she gets fed up and quits by herself. That way you don't break her heart and you're off the hook. [size=13pt]I just hope she's not on nairaland...if not, next week we'll have to advise her on how to get her husband to be back. [/size]  2 Likes |
| Re: I Think My Wife To Be Is An Ogbanje by firstking01(m): 3:29pm On Sep 29, 2016 |
Why do i have this feelings that i 've read a post like this before here huh?? |
| Re: I Think My Wife To Be Is An Ogbanje by Akanbibabatunde(m): 3:30pm On Sep 29, 2016 |
This one is strong  "eleyi gidi gan"Ummh...bring the holy water  "egbe omi mimo wa" ...Oya ma brother, eemh wait let me ask IFA * runs outta thread* Before them use ogbanje koboko on me.. |
| Re: I Think My Wife To Be Is An Ogbanje by SmellingAnus(m): 3:30pm On Sep 29, 2016 |
TrapQueen77:ogbanje is someone that has a spiritual connection that could come from the marine kingdom... Such persons may usually be very pretty and light skin and also shot tempered... Etc... |
| Re: I Think My Wife To Be Is An Ogbanje by Nobody: 3:32pm On Sep 29, 2016 |
what if you are actually your problems |
| Re: I Think My Wife To Be Is An Ogbanje by Nobody: 3:36pm On Sep 29, 2016 |
Eaa247: hahahahha... OK..... |
| Re: I Think My Wife To Be Is An Ogbanje by AbdulAdam56(m): 5:43pm On Sep 29, 2016 |
Ogbanje  |
| Re: I Think My Wife To Be Is An Ogbanje by Taiofil(m): 6:17pm On Sep 29, 2016 |
Hmmm op ooo.... I mean d qualities u used to qualify her are quite heavy.. The combination is like a ticking bomb about to explode...they are not good at all... Buh it seems she as some qualities u lyk about her dats why u r stil wif her. About the staring tingy call her and ask her wen her mood is light n good and speak generally abt wat u dislike abt her. Buh u need to put in a matured manner sha.. Use ur 6 to table the matter... buh as for me does qualities are not it so i cnt marry her. Buh plss do you... Dnt do wat others say... Follow your mind and common sense and pray. Best of luck! 1 Like |
| Re: I Think My Wife To Be Is An Ogbanje by Nobody: 6:23pm On Sep 29, 2016 |
Dude..I doff my hat for u! she's all that and u are still with her!! ..wow! |
| Re: I Think My Wife To Be Is An Ogbanje by IncomeClass: 6:26pm On Sep 29, 2016 |
| Re: I Think My Wife To Be Is An Ogbanje by akwashimanok: 6:49pm On Sep 29, 2016 |
Taiofil:i appreciate ur matured contribution. i think i may need deliverance coz ive slept with her |
| Re: I Think My Wife To Be Is An Ogbanje by Nobody: 6:59pm On Sep 29, 2016 |
Jarizod:It is called LOVE, you cannor understand: P |
| Re: I Think My Wife To Be Is An Ogbanje by Kingzy4pep(m): 7:06pm On Sep 29, 2016 |
If truly she's an ogbanje, She'd know you brought her matter here to discuss. You both need to go for deliverance. 1 Like |
| Re: I Think My Wife To Be Is An Ogbanje by Nobody: 7:29pm On Sep 29, 2016 |
TrapQueen77:Don't laugh alone babe! |
| Re: I Think My Wife To Be Is An Ogbanje by Miladi(f): 8:01pm On Sep 29, 2016 |
@OP Whether you will acknowledge it or not, I know that you're currently undergoing some financial straits. And your long-time expectation that your wife-to-be either directly or indirectly would become a source of financial blessing to you, especially in an unfavourable situation like this, has become a mirage. Well, she's is not to blamed . . . Don't discard her because of her non financial worth at present, instead help her in anyway you could, to get something doing. Stop expecting and start to accept, okay. You need to reorient your mindset towards her; start accepting her the way she's for now and stop expecting your wishes and hope to manifest through her. More so, as you're going to be the head of your family, you really need to create a sole family life path and encrypt it - competition is only healthy when it's in accordance with your already established path, else you will be living other people's dream. Worst of it is that, even when you managed to reach the end race before the dream owner, you won't still experience internal happiness, because its not your personal ambition. There's nothing wrong with being ambitious but there's everything wrong with being covetous. Inculcate this advice and see her become less selfish, too. One who don't believe in something will fall for anything. As soon as you achieved the feats above, become altruistic towards her (like you were to her when you met her newly), then watch out for a renewed positive energy and advancement in your relationship. However, your inability to eschew your prejudice against her would only leads you into becoming more indifferent towards her and that will spell doom for you. Your relationship need a positive energy, I say, and you have the solution to recreate it. When both people in a relationship are covetous, problems are bound to be. Neither you nor your her need any spiritual deliverance. I really have more to add to all I have said above, but I'll stop here for now. 1 Like |
| Re: I Think My Wife To Be Is An Ogbanje by Nobody: 8:06pm On Sep 29, 2016 |
Aderola15:Trust me dear I do..av had my own share of experiences  Personally I can't accommodate a Lady that's greedy,selfish,short-tempered and a host of other things op listed! such relationships are a NO NO for me. |
| Re: I Think My Wife To Be Is An Ogbanje by Nobody: 8:12pm On Sep 29, 2016 |
Jarizod:Jarry my formal formal crush , I was kidding earlier actually. The relationship is a toxic one, she yaff given our dear Op efo riro  |
| Re: I Think My Wife To Be Is An Ogbanje by Nobody: 8:21pm On Sep 29, 2016 |
Aderola15: see whining kuku talk say u want make Oga Lee kee me Love is sometimes really hard..Op is obviously entangled in the spell of love..prolly d lady don put love potion for d guy food..Ife oshi!! Olorun Maje |
| Re: I Think My Wife To Be Is An Ogbanje by Nobody: 8:31pm On Sep 29, 2016 |
Jarizod:My Baeby izz nor a killer . You'll look back on the things you did or endured for love and begin to wonder if you were under a spell back then. Op should snap out of it before it's too late sha |
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