Stats: 3,190,764 members, 7,941,882 topics. Date: Friday, 06 September 2024 at 03:12 PM |
Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Romance / We Met On Badoo, Can I Go Visit Him (3165 Views)
My Pre-wedding Picture. We Met On 2go / We Met On Facebook. We're Getting Married Next Month. Love Is Beautiful! / Ladies, 10 Signs A Guy Will Sleep With You When You Visit Him (2) (3) (4)
We Met On Badoo, Can I Go Visit Him by Talk2Bella(f): 8:19pm On Sep 29, 2016 |
Hi Bella, nice blog, I just want to ask you something and seek your advice. So this guy and I have been talking for a while, we haven’t met but we have strong feelings for each other, we started chatting from badoo, to whatsApp, BBM and Facebook and now he wants to meet. I trust him so I know he won’t try anything funny but the problem is he stays very far from me, he stays in another state and he has promised to send me transport fare to come see him, do you think it’s wise I go visit him first? Talk2Bella My advice for you on this will just be a short one since there have been various real life lessons on online/long distant relationships. You should ask yourself these questions if you have resolved to see him. 1. Where will you pass the night? A hotel or his place 2. How long will the visit last? 3. Will you allow any form of physical intimacy between you both should such moment arise? 4. Are you prepared for any uncertainties that may arise on the course of your visit? 5. Do You Have Vex Money? Once you have pondered on this questions, they can go a long way in helping you deduce if you really want to take a bold step in visiting him or not. Second, why doesn't he be the one to come visit you instead? Put it to him and see his reactions, if he says he can't visit then I don't think it will be wise for you to do so. Yourself worth and safety is of utmost importance in this kind of relationship and you really have to make the best decision on that. Yes, there are successful relationships that resulted from online hookups as well as unsuccessful ones; it's now up to you to choose what's best for you. Reply From Ikenna Ihekweazu {CuteHector} http://www.talk2bella.com/2016/09/hi-bella-nice-blog-i-just-want-to-ask.html
|
Re: We Met On Badoo, Can I Go Visit Him by youngberry001(m): 8:22pm On Sep 29, 2016 |
How i wish i did not comment"""oh lord ![]() 1 Like |
Re: We Met On Badoo, Can I Go Visit Him by Nobody: 8:23pm On Sep 29, 2016 |
whats the use, in the end, you will break his heart ![]() |
Re: We Met On Badoo, Can I Go Visit Him by Cutehector(m): 8:25pm On Sep 29, 2016 |
Girls, remember Cynthia Okusogu oooooooooooooooooooo ![]() |
Re: We Met On Badoo, Can I Go Visit Him by ogorwyne(f): 8:27pm On Sep 29, 2016 |
Cutehector:Just my thought too. 1 Like |
Re: We Met On Badoo, Can I Go Visit Him by Cutehector(m): 8:29pm On Sep 29, 2016 |
ogorwyne:i"ve invited some online female friends over to my place and nothing happened.. so. ![]() |
Re: We Met On Badoo, Can I Go Visit Him by NoMoreTrolling: 8:31pm On Sep 29, 2016 |
-Meet at a public Location -Pack with you a mace, a taser and a swiss army knife (or better yet, the Russian ones ![]() -Tell at least two people of your whereabouts, your destination, ETA... -Turn your phone GPS on and share the update status with the devices of the two people you told of your whereabout -Pack an emergency clicker that automatically sends a panic signal to either the police or loved ones once clicked -Be sure to put on a form fitting bullet proof vest -Pack a portable flame thrower and grenade launcher -Pack a protein bar, just incase you end up stranded somewhere 1 Like |
Re: We Met On Badoo, Can I Go Visit Him by Snapchat: 8:34pm On Sep 29, 2016 |
Have not you heard of Snapchat?? |
Re: We Met On Badoo, Can I Go Visit Him by kvngveektour(m): 8:37pm On Sep 29, 2016 |
NoMoreTrolling:as per C.I.A agent na.clapping for u 1 Like |
Re: We Met On Badoo, Can I Go Visit Him by ogorwyne(f): 8:38pm On Sep 29, 2016 |
Cutehector:Na so!!! U and dem nor read bible before dem comot? Just kidding tho. Humans are different and its difficult to tell who has good intentions, everyone should just be careful. |
Re: We Met On Badoo, Can I Go Visit Him by NoMoreTrolling: 8:39pm On Sep 29, 2016 |
kvngveektour: There is a lot of danger out there. It pays to be prepared. |
Re: We Met On Badoo, Can I Go Visit Him by Cutehector(m): 8:40pm On Sep 29, 2016 |
ogorwyne: ![]() ![]() Maybe dey wanted sex in the first place |
Re: We Met On Badoo, Can I Go Visit Him by ogorwyne(f): 8:44pm On Sep 29, 2016 |
Cutehector:Lol. U sef dull them na. |
Re: We Met On Badoo, Can I Go Visit Him by Cutehector(m): 8:46pm On Sep 29, 2016 |
ogorwyne:abi... that is why I don't want to form good guy anymore.. I take it that because you came alone, dah means u need the koko. ![]() |
Re: We Met On Badoo, Can I Go Visit Him by dopedealer(m): 8:46pm On Sep 29, 2016 |
NoMoreTrolling: Lol guy you too funny. Where she want see all this things u mention. U think say na film u de act 2 Likes |
Re: We Met On Badoo, Can I Go Visit Him by Talk2Bella(f): 8:59pm On Sep 29, 2016 |
Cutehector: was trying to remember that name |
Re: We Met On Badoo, Can I Go Visit Him by Talk2Bella(f): 9:00pm On Sep 29, 2016 |
Re: We Met On Badoo, Can I Go Visit Him by Talk2Bella(f): 9:02pm On Sep 29, 2016 |
NoMoreTrolling: hahahahahaha damn can't stop laughing protein bar? is she going camping? which country u de stay bros abeg ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: We Met On Badoo, Can I Go Visit Him by Talk2Bella(f): 9:03pm On Sep 29, 2016 |
Cutehector: hahahahahaah ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: We Met On Badoo, Can I Go Visit Him by Talk2Bella(f): 9:04pm On Sep 29, 2016 |
Cutehector: hehehehehe damn cutehector who says "the koko" anymore? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: We Met On Badoo, Can I Go Visit Him by Cutehector(m): 9:05pm On Sep 29, 2016 |
Re: We Met On Badoo, Can I Go Visit Him by Cutehector(m): 9:06pm On Sep 29, 2016 |
Talk2Bella:u see, two heads Berra dan one |
Re: We Met On Badoo, Can I Go Visit Him by Talk2Bella(f): 9:08pm On Sep 29, 2016 |
Re: We Met On Badoo, Can I Go Visit Him by Talk2Bella(f): 9:08pm On Sep 29, 2016 |
Cutehector: definitely |
Re: We Met On Badoo, Can I Go Visit Him by Cutehector(m): 9:10pm On Sep 29, 2016 |
Talk2Bella:oh lawd!!! ![]() |
Re: We Met On Badoo, Can I Go Visit Him by Talk2Bella(f): 9:21pm On Sep 29, 2016 |
Re: We Met On Badoo, Can I Go Visit Him by Nobody: 10:42pm On Sep 29, 2016 |
Cutehector:bro pls are you producing bottled water? as i saw it on that background. no offense. |
Re: We Met On Badoo, Can I Go Visit Him by NoMoreTrolling: 10:59pm On Sep 29, 2016 |
Talk2Bella: u never know men ![]() |
Re: We Met On Badoo, Can I Go Visit Him by bamisepeters(m): 11:06pm On Sep 29, 2016 |
Cutehector:for you to have remembered, you try. It is better you invite him over to avoid stories that touch the heart. I just hope the guy will not write Talk2Bella tomorrow telling us to advice him too as regards him traveling to meet her. 1 Like |
Re: We Met On Badoo, Can I Go Visit Him by Taiofil(m): 11:24pm On Sep 29, 2016 |
NoMoreTrolling: Nawa oo..nomoretrolling shey na civil war she wan go fight ni? Russian army knife, bullet proof vest, grenade etc... Ele yi gidi gan... This 1 is strong! |
Re: We Met On Badoo, Can I Go Visit Him by Talk2Bella(f): 12:49am On Sep 30, 2016 |
bamisepeters: ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: We Met On Badoo, Can I Go Visit Him by Cutehector(m): 2:39am On Sep 30, 2016 |
dancok:yes I am producing bottled water |
Two Burglars Sodomized For Five Days AfterBreaking Into The House Of agay rapist / She Opened It Widely And I Saw A Creamy Honey Pot / Green Card Marriage.
(Go Up)
Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 37 |