Hi Bella, nice blog, I just want to ask you something and seek your advice.


So this guy and I have been talking for a while, we haven’t met but we have strong feelings for each other, we started chatting from badoo, to whatsApp, BBM and Facebook and now he wants to meet.


I trust him so I know he won’t try anything funny but the problem is he stays very far from me, he stays in another state and he has promised to send me transport fare to come see him, do you think it’s wise I go visit him first?


Talk2Bella



My advice for you on this will just be a short one since there have been various real life lessons on online/long distant relationships.



You should ask yourself these questions if you have resolved to see him.



1. Where will you pass the night? A hotel or his place


2. How long will the visit last?


3. Will you allow any form of physical intimacy between you both should such moment arise?


4. Are you prepared for any uncertainties that may arise on the course of your visit?


5. Do You Have Vex Money?


Once you have pondered on this questions, they can go a long way in helping you deduce if you really want to take a bold step in visiting him or not.


Second, why doesn't he be the one to come visit you instead? Put it to him and see his reactions, if he says he can't visit then I don't think it will be wise for you to do so. Yourself worth and safety is of utmost importance in this kind of relationship and you really have to make the best decision on that. Yes, there are successful relationships that resulted from online hookups as well as unsuccessful ones; it's now up to you to choose what's best for you.


Reply From Ikenna Ihekweazu {CuteHector}


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How i wish i did not comment"""oh lord

whats the use, in the end, you will break his heart

Girls, remember Cynthia Okusogu oooooooooooooooooooo

Cutehector:
Girls, remember Cynthia Okusogu oooooooooooooooooooo

Just my thought too.

ogorwyne:

Just my thought too.

i"ve invited some online female friends over to my place and nothing happened.. so. we just jisted.

-Meet at a public Location

-Pack with you a mace, a taser and a swiss army knife (or better yet, the Russian ones )

-Tell at least two people of your whereabouts, your destination, ETA...

-Turn your phone GPS on and share the update status with the devices of the two people you told of your whereabout

-Pack an emergency clicker that automatically sends a panic signal to either the police or loved ones once clicked

-Be sure to put on a form fitting bullet proof vest

-Pack a portable flame thrower and grenade launcher

-Pack a protein bar, just incase you end up stranded somewhere

Have not you heard of Snapchat??

NoMoreTrolling:
-Meet at a public Location

-Pack with you a mace, a taser and a swiss army knife (or better yet, the Russian ones )

-Tell at least two people of your whereabouts, your destination, ETA...

-Turn your phone GPS on and share the update status with the devices of the two people you told of your whereabout

-Pack an emergency clicker that automatically sends a panic signal to either the police or loved ones once clicked

-Be sure to put on a form fitting bullet proof vest

-Pack a portable flame thrower and grenade launcher

-Pack a protein bar, just incase you end up stranded somewhere

as per C.I.A agent na.clapping for u

Cutehector:
i"ve invited some online female friends over to my place and nothing happened.. so. we just jisted.

Na so!!! U and dem nor read bible before dem comot?


Just kidding tho. Humans are different and its difficult to tell who has good intentions, everyone should just be careful.

kvngveektour:
as per C.I.A agent na.clapping for u

There is a lot of danger out there. It pays to be prepared.

ogorwyne:

Na so!!! U and dem nor read bible before dem comot?


Just kidding tho. Humans are different and its difficult to tell who has good intentions, everyone should just be careful.

Lol from the look of things, the second time I invited them over, dey didn't want to come again..


Maybe dey wanted sex in the first place

Cutehector:
Lol from the look of things, the second time I invited them over, dey didn't want to come again..


Maybe dey wanted sex in the first place

Lol. U sef dull them na.

ogorwyne:

Lol. U sef dull them na.

abi... that is why I don't want to form good guy anymore.. I take it that because you came alone, dah means u need the koko.

NoMoreTrolling:
-Meet at a public Location

-Pack with you a mace, a taser and a swiss army knife (or better yet, the Russian ones )

-Tell at least two people of your whereabouts, your destination, ETA...

-Turn your phone GPS on and share the update status with the devices of the two people you told of your whereabout

-Pack an emergency clicker that automatically sends a panic signal to either the police or loved ones once clicked

-Be sure to put on a form fitting bullet proof vest

-Pack a portable flame thrower and grenade launcher

-Pack a protein bar, just incase you end up stranded somewhere

Lol guy you too funny. Where she want see all this things u mention. U think say na film u de act

Cutehector:
Girls, remember Cynthia Okusogu oooooooooooooooooooo

was trying to remember that name

NairalandEFCC1:
whats the use, in the end, you will break his heart

and you know this how

NoMoreTrolling:
-Meet at a public Location

-Pack with you a mace, a taser and a swiss army knife (or better yet, the Russian ones )

-Tell at least two people of your whereabouts, your destination, ETA...

-Turn your phone GPS on and share the update status with the devices of the two people you told of your whereabout

-Pack an emergency clicker that automatically sends a panic signal to either the police or loved ones once clicked

-Be sure to put on a form fitting bullet proof vest

-Pack a portable flame thrower and grenade launcher

-Pack a protein bar, just incase you end up stranded somewhere

hahahahahaha
damn can't stop laughing
protein bar? is she going camping?
which country u de stay bros abeg

Cutehector:
Lol from the look of things, the second time I invited them over, dey didn't want to come again..


Maybe dey wanted sex in the first place

hahahahahaah

Cutehector:
abi... that is why I don't want to form good guy anymore.. I take it that because you came alone, dah means u need the koko.

hehehehehe
damn
cutehector
who says "the koko" anymore?

Talk2Bella:


hehehehehe
damn
cutehector
who says "the koko" anymore?

wat's d right word?

Talk2Bella:


was trying to remember that name

u see, two heads Berra dan one

Cutehector:
wat's d right word?

The D

Cutehector:
u see, two heads Berra dan one

definitely

Talk2Bella:


The D

oh lawd!!! I need to stop beeing good...

Cutehector:
oh lawd!!! I need to stop beeing good...

Cutehector:
oh lawd!!! I need to stop beeing good...

bro pls are you producing bottled water? as i saw it on that background. no offense.

Talk2Bella:



hahahahahaha
damn can't stop laughing
protein bar? is she going camping?
which country u de stay bros abeg

u never know men

Cutehector:
Girls, remember Cynthia Okusogu oooooooooooooooooooo

for you to have remembered, you try.


It is better you invite him over to avoid stories that touch the heart.

I just hope the guy will not write Talk2Bella tomorrow telling us to advice him too as regards him traveling to meet her.

NoMoreTrolling:
-Meet at a public Location

-Pack with you a mace, a taser and a swiss army knife (or better yet, the Russian ones )

-Tell at least two people of your whereabouts, your destination, ETA...

-Turn your phone GPS on and share the update status with the devices of the two people you told of your whereabout

-Pack an emergency clicker that automatically sends a panic signal to either the police or loved ones once clicked

-Be sure to put on a form fitting bullet proof vest

-Pack a portable flame thrower and grenade launcher

-Pack a protein bar, just incase you end up stranded somewhere

Nawa oo..nomoretrolling shey na civil war she wan go fight ni? Russian army knife, bullet proof vest, grenade etc... Ele yi gidi gan... This 1 is strong!

bamisepeters:
for you to have remembered, you try.


It is better you invite him over to avoid stories that touch the heart.

I just hope the guy will not write Talk2Bella tomorrow telling us to advice him to

o as regards him traveling to meet her.

dancok:
bro pls are you producing bottled water? as i saw it on that background. no offense.

yes I am producing bottled water