Toks2008:


Nice question.

The issue of a man cheating will forever be a pain in the minds of many ladies but I'm so so sorry to tell you this truth that submitting to your husband is unconditional.

In submittion you can table your grievances and the fact that your hubby cheats on you is not a ground for disrespect. If you want to leave the union because of that then it's your choice but that must not make you disrespect him.

Your husband is your lord.

CindyeMerAld:

your husband is your lord??,u ve got to be kidding me...
i pity ur wife..

theEYe21:
How does a woman say no in a submissive way?

Bluehawk:
by saying yes

ItsQuinn:
Submissive woman = slave woman

Dictionary meaning:
SUBMIT: accept or yield to a superior force or to the authority or will of another person.

SLAVERY: Lack of free will

The submissive wife can make an opinion but can't make a decision, only the superior male or the authority is allowed to make a decision even though it doesn't favour the submissive wife. The submissive wife has no right to do otherwise when the superior has already made a decision whether she likes it or not. This means the submissive wife is stripped off her free will but not her freedom of speech. So tell me, how is being submissive different from being a slave when there's no free will?

ItsQuinn:
You can only find a submissive slave woman in Nollywood, Bollywood and Hollywood movies, in your dreams and your imagination. Realistically they don't exist, if you're waiting to find one, you will wait for all eternity. Like I said, the bible is unrealistic!

ItsQuinn:
even though she doesn't like it? ....so you are saying no freedom of speech?

ItsQuinn:
even though she doesn't like it? ....so you are saying no freedom of speech?

Toks2008:


Being submissive is not tantamount to slavery.

You can maintain your stand all the way in a submissive manner.Its about humility.

ammyluv2002:
Yes! It does make sense, but wives should submit fully to their husbands according to the bible principles. My husband cannot tell me to sleep with his friend & you expect me to submit fully

ammyluv2002:
Yes! It does make sense, but wives should submit fully to their husbands according to the bible principles. My husband cannot tell me to sleep with his friend & you expect me to submit fully

ItsQuinn:
so she's allowed to do otherwise when her superior makes a decision in a submissive manner?

Toks2008:
THE SUBMISSIVE WOMAN

Most ladies spend so much time and energy preparing for a wedding ceremony but very unprepared for just one condition responsible for a formidable union called SUBMISSION.

The modern day woman has allowed sophistication as a result of sound education and several other factors to make her see herself as equal to a man hence finds it difficult to be extremely submissive and this is one of the triggering factors for a break up. Being fully submissive to your man is one of the greatest secret to longevity of any romantic affair so Lets see what the Quran and Bible has to say concerning the act of submission from the woman.

Al-Tirmidhi 3272 - "When Allah's Messenger was asked which woman was best he replied, 'The one who pleases (her husband) when he looks at her, obeys him when he gives a command, and does not go against his wishes regarding her person or property by doing anything of which he disapproves'."

Ephesians 5:22-24 :Wives, submit to your husbands as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything.

No woman has any business with marriage or any serious romantic affair with a man until she is ready to "submit,honor,respect,reverence her husband to the maximum level just as she will respect the lord.Show me a submissive woman and I will show you a peaceful and lasting union.Being submissive does not mean you should obey your man blindly or go against the commandments of GOD neither does it make you a zombie or a mindless person but it means being meek,humble and serene even when you disagree with your man as many times as possible.Believe it or not,no matter how many relationships you get involved in,you will always have issues if you don't learn how to submit yourself to your man.

And as the man,for whatever reason you choose to marry that lady, if you are not ready to love that woman with her imperfections and without exception with behavior worthy of respect and esteem, always seeking the best for her with an attitude of loving-kindness all the days of your life please don't propose marriage to her.

GOD commands the man to love the wife and the wife to submit to the husband. Refusal to do this is rebellion against GOD himself.By loving your wife you are honoring GOD and not doing your wife a favor and by submitting to your husband, you are demonstrating an act of obedience to GOD and not to your husband.

I hope this makes sense.

ItsQuinn:
You can only find a submissive slave woman in Nollywood, Bollywood and Hollywood movies, in your dreams and your imagination. Realistically they don't exist, if you're waiting to find one, you will wait for all eternity. Like I said, the bible is unrealistic!

ammyluv2002:
Yes! It does make sense, but wives should submit fully to their husbands according to the bible principles. My husband cannot tell me to sleep with his friend & you expect me to submit fully

nma24:
Are you married?

Rafsbeat:
I understand what you are thinking another scam lol well am not that cheap want to make money for a life time with just a 1000 naira I dont talk much... http:///hk28vlo

ammyluv2002:
Yes! It does make sense, but wives should submit fully to their husbands according to the bible principles. My husband cannot tell me to sleep with his friend & you expect me to submit fully

ItsQuinn:
even though she doesn't like it? ....so you are saying no freedom of speech?

CindyeMerAld:

your husband is your lord??,u ve got to be kidding me...
i pity ur wife..

Taryur3:

You are on your own.no sensible husband will tell you that.

hardbody:


Sure. But you can submit partially

Berbierklaus:




[i]Is anyone else seeing the contradictions in these posts? all in one breath .

You people do not even realise that y'all have painted our God as an Unfair God with all these baldadash and contradictions/confusions

The God I serve is not unfair nor confused[/i]dear you can't question GOD...he wrote the bible He is full of mystery..his ways are not fully understood by we the mere mortals...he gave the manual for marriage in that passage....

eyinjuege:


Loving your wife is unconditional.

You skipped vs 25 of Ephesians 5, where husbands are required to love their wives even as Christ loved the church giving up his life for her.

You cannot love your wife like Christ loved the church or even love her like you love yourself if you cheat on her.

Doing so means you will also not mind her cheating on you... vs 28

Being the head as a man means you set the examples in your own home. It's not a matter of do as I say but don't do as I do.
Actions speak louder than words by the way, so all this talk that I love my wife, I respect my husband is all wash... Let us see it!!
Words mean nothing anymore in our society.