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Re: This is the type of woman every man loves to marry. by Nweike1: 5:41am On Sep 30, 2016 |
Toks2008:You've said it all 3 Likes |
Re: This is the type of woman every man loves to marry. by SirVintageCock: 5:56am On Sep 30, 2016 |
You are recanting on the main point of your post. You wrote about EXTREME SUBMISSION and you are here talking about women having her own opinions and "she can reject any decision she doesn't agree with but then, it depends on the manner she does that". What bullcraps? That is not even submission talk more of the EXTREME one you are referring to . Extremely submissive women you are writing about are zombified women with no say on any issue, women that jumps when their partner talks, roars and shouts, women that ain't got say on any issue, your typical oh yes!! member, the slave labourer in your plantations cos you can't have her disagreeing on any of our decisions. Who the fuc.k is she, a woman you married with your own money, damn it ![]() I have read the original post and comments and I wouldn't want to marry a zombified woman. I want to leave behind a woman who knows how to make a constructive decision and can think constructively when I am not around not someone that will depend on me for decisions or keep on second guessing and polishing her opinions before PRESENTING IT to her HUSBAND in a RESPECTFUL manner until it is too late to be useful. Your writeup is 95% impracticable unless you are living in limbo where the ideal has overran reality. Toks2008: 5 Likes |
Re: This is the type of woman every man loves to marry. by Nobody: 5:57am On Sep 30, 2016 |
I still belive that wives should respect their husbands and be submissive. Unfortunately, the power of such submission lies In the hands of the husband who must first love the wife as Christ love the church. That's why I love matured men who understands the philosophy of "Do to others what you want them to do to you". You can't disrespect your wife and expects her to be submissive. The world is changing already, men now wants women to contribute both financially and otherwise to the home, and some women who are ambitious will find it difficult being submissive. Personally, I also demand respect from my man and sometimes I enforce it ,dammit! Finally, I believe there are men that naturally commands submission from their wives because they play their roles well.It just comes flawlessly. A wise husband don't have any business with a wife who doesn't submit. 3 Likes |
Re: This is the type of woman every man loves to marry. by pepigeorge(m): 6:01am On Sep 30, 2016 |
asuo27: if u submit fully to your husband, he won't cheat on u 3 Likes |
Re: This is the type of woman every man loves to marry. by zub(m): 6:01am On Sep 30, 2016 |
Nice one. Buh is this practicable in our present world today? 1 Like |
Re: This is the type of woman every man loves to marry. by misspicy(f): 6:02am On Sep 30, 2016 |
hardbody:I wish I was that woman ![]() I reject people like Toks2008 in Jesus name 6 Likes |
Re: This is the type of woman every man loves to marry. by histemple: 6:02am On Sep 30, 2016 |
Diplomaticbeing: You could have made your points without this unwarranted attack on the OP. If you think you are more knowledgeable, why not educate the house rather than this uncivil conduct? From what I read, the OP merely expressed what he knows, perhaps based on experience or research. 3 Likes |
Re: This is the type of woman every man loves to marry. by Princedapace(m): 6:03am On Sep 30, 2016 |
Berbierklaus: Pls, I want to ask u one question... If God allows u to b tempted and u passed thru harsh dificulties, will u stop submitting to Him? That is why the OP said submission is unconditional. Look...this is how it is but we as humans have edited a lot from the scripture to meet our personal needs. But deep down our heart, we know the truth. It is a two way thing, yes, love and submission. But I'm sure the op wrote this becus wives are having issues with the word " submission" even under the love of their hubby. So many women are indirectly being taught not to submit to hubby.. I know what I'm saying...they beliv it is master servant like. These days...u see wives making rules any how within the family. So...I think the op wanted to address that. Submission may sound ugly to women but that is the truth and that is the only way there can be happiness in the marriage.. This is why the submission was compared to that expected of the church to Christ. No matter the trial, troubles, pains, temptations etc u are expected to submit to Christ. If the comparison is anything to go by...it is means that no matter what your hubby does to u, u are expected to submit to him. Remember....not even at gun point must u deny Christ..u still need to be loyal.. There is a reason for that comparison recorded in the bible..if u understand the true nature of submitting to God.. U av no excuse as a wive not to submit to ur hubby.. What I tell women is to pray hard not to marry bad hubby becus too much powers and authority were given to men by the creator... I also tell them that if they av issues wit that...they can question Eve, their mother who brought that pronouncement against them... Remember when God said to Eve when she sinned "for this, ur husband shall rule over u" that statement changed everything...I know is painful...but this is just the truth. As for me... I will try as much as possible to allow my wife to have little space to be her self too.. It is just about marrying a good man. 3 Likes |
Re: This is the type of woman every man loves to marry. by elektra(f): 6:05am On Sep 30, 2016 |
Laido: 1st Wife: Submissive Husband: Marries second wife. So much for the blissful marriage toks2008 promised submissive wives. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: This is the type of woman every man loves to marry. by babie78: 6:05am On Sep 30, 2016 |
When people use Sarah as an example of a submissive wife I am always amused If you read your Bible well you will see Sarah actually ruled Abraham forget all that calling him my lord. She insisted he sleeps with his maid and she had the audacity to ask him to send his first born away and he obeyed with alacrity without asking questions. Abeg that woman was a boss 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: This is the type of woman every man loves to marry. by zub(m): 6:06am On Sep 30, 2016 |
pepigeorge:the point is every man is a potential cheat. Most women lost taste of attraction to the man after few yrs or even months after marriage. so loyalty is not enough, she needs to keep up all time. 1 Like |
Re: This is the type of woman every man loves to marry. by SirVintageCock: 6:09am On Sep 30, 2016 |
Did the Bible you keep quoting your talks also informed you about this.? If you are basing your argument from the Bible please stick to. David had a case with God after bedding Uriah's wife. It is an African man's mentality not biblical and unchristian to cheat and when you cheat you commit adultery which according to my Bible is a sin and it rubbishes the sanctity of marriage. It should not be condole by anyone. It is a breach of trust and Us men should not allow ourselves be roped into thinking that it is a way of life that is acceptable at all. Toks2008: 9 Likes |
Re: This is the type of woman every man loves to marry. by kaboninc(m): 6:12am On Sep 30, 2016 |
I align with everything Toks wrote although I share a different view about the religious aspect. Truth is every man, no matter how weak seeks for submission from his wife or anyone who's below him either in social, political or economic strata. Any man who says otherwise is just not being truthful to himself and in fact would do worse. Successful homes thrive because there's submission rooted in the lives of the spouses. Submission doesn't necessary mean slavery. Like Toks said, in today's world, due to sophistication and education, women find it hard to submit to their husbands but also expect some form of submission from others who're 'less' than them. A man submits through humility! 2 Likes |
Re: This is the type of woman every man loves to marry. by Weedcrusher: 6:12am On Sep 30, 2016 |
Toks2008: I'm not twisting your write-up bro. I understand and respect your opinion especially as some are backed up with scriptures. But what I was saying is that, I, weedcrusher, find it awkward for a woman to be overly submissive to me. I will find it inconvenient if a lady I'm supposedly dating agree to everything I say out of showing respect or being submissive to me. Respect and adore me, and I promise to reciprocate such...... 1 Like |
Re: This is the type of woman every man loves to marry. by pumpqin(f): 6:12am On Sep 30, 2016 |
Lol |
Re: This is the type of woman every man loves to marry. by kaboninc(m): 6:16am On Sep 30, 2016 |
SirVintageCock: No sir, I think you got it wrong here. His point is so simple. If you cheat on your wife, for your wife's own good and benefit, its best she walks out of the marriage than cheat on you to repay you for your fault. As simple as that. If there's a punishment for adultery, then the man should face it but still it is not a ground for disrespect nor refusal to submit. Better still if you can't submit, why still be in that relationship? 3 Likes |
Re: This is the type of woman every man loves to marry. by ElsonMorali: 6:16am On Sep 30, 2016 |
Re: This is the type of woman every man loves to marry. by victorjoe(m): 6:16am On Sep 30, 2016 |
ammyluv2002: I guess u did not read all the write up cos i know the writer surely addressed this issue. |
Re: This is the type of woman every man loves to marry. by histemple: 6:20am On Sep 30, 2016 |
Toks2008: Just to add to this beautiful piece, we actually learn more from those who failed in a venture. I understand all your points and I can identify a few comments from people who are apparently not experienced in marriage. 1 Like |
Re: This is the type of woman every man loves to marry. by ElsonMorali: 6:20am On Sep 30, 2016 |
Most people don't understand that in the scheme of things in this world, there can only be one captain in a ship. That is why there's only one steering wheel in a car for just one driver. Go figure. A wise woman will be submissive to her husband. A wiser woman will marry someone she can always respect and be submissive to and not just for money or looks. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: This is the type of woman every man loves to marry. by jonbat(m): 6:20am On Sep 30, 2016 |
ammyluv2002:u husband must be a pervert if he tries that |
Re: This is the type of woman every man loves to marry. by uzolexis(f): 6:22am On Sep 30, 2016 |
Toks2008: But there is a condition attached to it, that the husband must love his wife as he loves himself which implies things the husband knows would hurt him and wouldn't want his wife to do to him, he shouldn't do to her, I don't know why you insist on ignoring that part of the bible. 1 Like |
Re: This is the type of woman every man loves to marry. by kaboninc(m): 6:22am On Sep 30, 2016 |
Weedcrusher: Respect is submission too in a way. If she agrees to everything you say, there could be some underlying issue with her which may be due to how you respond or treat her. And when she does not agree to most of the things you say or 'instruct' her to do, you'd say she's not 'submitting' to you. 1 Like |
Re: This is the type of woman every man loves to marry. by amunekeuto: 6:22am On Sep 30, 2016 |
asuo27:what else do you want? Submit even to a cheating husband. 1 Like |
Re: This is the type of woman every man loves to marry. by kaboninc(m): 6:24am On Sep 30, 2016 |
ElsonMorali: Beautiful! Only if we knew... 3 Likes |
Re: This is the type of woman every man loves to marry. by ElsonMorali: 6:24am On Sep 30, 2016 |
elektra: Let me break it down for you dear. Marry a man you know will love you and you only. And not because he has money. Marry him because he has qualities you admire and respect. Then it will be easy to be submissive to him. 3 Likes |
Re: This is the type of woman every man loves to marry. by histemple: 6:24am On Sep 30, 2016 |
My own is; treat me right and I will treat you with all the love in my heart...but treat me bad then you will see my dark side CrazyQuinn, with this mindset I will advice you to forget about marriage because IT CAN NEVER WORK for you, trust me. 2 Likes |
Re: This is the type of woman every man loves to marry. by Berbierklaus(f): 6:24am On Sep 30, 2016 |
Weedcrusher:Weedcrusher please marry me ![]() |
Re: This is the type of woman every man loves to marry. by jeff1993: 6:26am On Sep 30, 2016 |
Toks2008:............ Bro u are correct ..... May God increase ur knowledge ...... I had an encounter wit one of d most brilliant economics of our time ....... I travelled wit my frnd to his villa ..... during d course of d travel we went to visit mrs okonjo Iweala ........ Do u knw dis woman still serves her husband food .....even as popular as she is!!! ..... even kneeling down a little when serving d food!!! ... I was so awed ...... I pray to God that women of dis generation wud take a cue from women of past generation n learn how it is done!!!!! 2 Likes |
Re: This is the type of woman every man loves to marry. by Topestbilly(m): 6:27am On Sep 30, 2016 |
ammyluv2002: Did you read the post at all ![]() |
Re: This is the type of woman every man loves to marry. by ElsonMorali: 6:28am On Sep 30, 2016 |
misspicy: So sad. Then you may never know what true love means. Ever. No man wants to may someone who drags the pants in the home with him. Read my earlier submissions maybe you'll get an insight. 1 Like |
Re: This is the type of woman every man loves to marry. by uzolexis(f): 6:30am On Sep 30, 2016 |
Berbierklaus: My dear, I don't think you know this OP. He is a known male chauvinist and any one (male or Female) who takes him serious does that at their own peril. You can try from today till eternity to make him understand that women should also be treated right cos they have feelings and are not zombies but he will never get it....ust look at my signature. 1 Like |
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