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Re: This is the type of woman every man loves to marry. by mhizcovy(f): 7:20am On Sep 30, 2016 |
Toks2008: toks n his endless theoretical lectures... well iv a little modification or more or less of a counsel sef..pls wen ur married..lovv ur wife first ..not just romantic one alone..develop loyal lov for her n watch her reciprocate by bin submissive.u people should stop watering down on the gravity of adultery. it is a big SIN.d only scriptural ground for divorce ..cheating by either of d spouse is sooo UNACCEPTABLE .gracias 4 Likes |
Re: This is the type of woman every man loves to marry. by Gratefulheart93(f): 7:20am On Sep 30, 2016 |
uzolexis: Thanks sis..this toks sounds so much like my ex-fiance..I am happy i left him...i couldnt cope with his too much rules and regulations like i was a slave 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: This is the type of woman every man loves to marry. by Nobody: 7:22am On Sep 30, 2016 |
SirVintageCock:Well said!. |
Re: This is the type of woman every man loves to marry. by uzolexis(f): 7:23am On Sep 30, 2016 |
ElsonMorali: The fact that a woman has a say in the home does not make her contentious. God bless my parents and pls God give me a man like and better than my Dad. The way my Dad respects my mum, the way he regards her opinion and she reciprocates this as well. They make maor decisions together and one party does not agree with something, the other party does not go ahead with it, they argue about issues and my Mum is allowed to express her displeasure even shout sometimes and my Dad has never raised a finger on her cos of that or treated her less than she desrves and they make up almost immediately after. So, I have seen and lived in a loving home with loving Parents where the wife is treated as an equal partner in the relationship so I know what it means so all this poo you guys are saying here makes no sense to me at all. 1 Like |
Re: This is the type of woman every man loves to marry. by missslimfit(f): 7:28am On Sep 30, 2016 |
LynnPetra:You are blessed! thats d point right there, noone should enforce submission on a woman simple becos he married her, dats crap. love your wife unconditionally and she wud forever respect you, it wud come naturally. no one is saying a man shouldnt be d head.. dat had already been certified, but that doesn't mean he a "LORD" for wat? if a man is nt illiterate ,den he shud know that wen u work in Union with ur wife, seek her opinion about something, his marriage wud be blessed. pls Toks ders no such tin as extreme submission and lordship in marriage. Don't enforce ur ideas on odas 2 Likes |
Re: This is the type of woman every man loves to marry. by vicktee: 7:28am On Sep 30, 2016 |
[center][/center][quote author=Berbierklaus post=49370962] [b]Grandpa no one asked you for your life history,so please relax and take to corrections. ![]() if You were my husband/boyfriend,I would have told You to "shutup and listen" I said "Relax" coz You are my grandpa ![]() Now to the argument You both are having,Everyone has an opinion,trust me I have come to understand You and your writeups,(You are only been realistic while most of us are striving to be idealistic).The challenge is finding a balance because all these rules and regulations for marriages and relationships are unique to every relationship,some men don't take NO,no matter how submissive the wife is(been realistic,I'm sure You will agree with me) and some men are in awe or their wives and a very agressive NO will do the trick(I'm been realistic),so the problem I have with most of your rightups is that "they are not a standard for relationships,coz every relationship is unique" but from your tone of words,You type like that's all that should be done because it is in the "BIBLE" forgetting that even Jesus said in "MARK 2:27" The sabbath(law) was made for man not man for the sabbath(law), meaning most of this bible injunctions can be used uniquely not universally. (I hope You know what happened in that verse and why he made that statement?). secondly,I want to say I agree with your rightup once again,although it is a little bit flawed "to me". Any idiot can see the emphasis You made on "WIVES SUBMISSION" I think its good but I also think it would have been appropriate if You emphasized as much on the "HUSBAND's LOVE". (I think this is where most relationship experts get it wrong). Now lets use the scripture You qouted as an example,did You realise that Ephesians 5:33 has two parts(part A and B) Did You realise that part A was talking to the husband? Ephesians 5:33 However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself Did You realise that the bible spoke to the husband first? That tells You that Submission is "EARNED" so its flawed for You to say "THE BIBLE SAID THAT THE WIFE MUST BE SUBMISSIVE TO HER HUSBAND NO MATTER WHAT" because grandpa,the bible has put an unspoken condition in that verse,(You can't respect/submit to your abusive father,You "FEAR" him,likewise if You say wives should be submissive unconditionally,You are only telling her to "FEAR" him,that is not submission according to the bible) Part B Ephesians 5:33 Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord Every man that loves his wife,automatically has earned her respect and submission,it is a known fact,and a man that doesn't love his wife(cheating on her "glaringly" abuse her,doesn't do his roles as a husband etc) will be "FEARED" not respected/submitted to). So grandpa,all this tunranchi is what the bible is preaching(Idealistic) not what our pastors are interpreting the bible to, not what You have interpreted the bible to,which is sadly the (realistic) point of what we have in the world today because our religious leaders have knowingly or unknowingly led some men astray by repeatedly preaching and emphasizing on "SUBMISSION" while skimming through "LOVE". The kingdom of God is a hot race,I fear for most people,as I have come to a stage in my salvation where,I read and ask the holy spirit to interpret and explain what this really means to me,instead of listening to one marriage counsel/counsellor and corrupting my heavenly journey ![]() I hope You will settle down and read my epistle,and may the holy spirit help You to realise the truth.[/b] Nice one...that was touching. 1 Like |
Re: This is the type of woman every man loves to marry. by cococandy(f): 7:29am On Sep 30, 2016 |
elektra: ![]() It's blissful as long as they get what they want. Regardless of whether their partner is happy or not. 3 Likes |
Re: This is the type of woman every man loves to marry. by jaci02: 7:34am On Sep 30, 2016 |
uzolexis: That's where they're all getting it wrong. Love is the greatest force and not submission or fear. Love can conquer even the hardest heart. When you can love your wife unconditionally just as you love and take care of your own body, there's nothing that can make that can make that woman to ever disrespect you. The reason many get it wrong is because they don't know the true meaning of love. No woman will ever insult a man who can sacrifice the last plate of food for her to eat when they have nothing at home. That's why the Lord Jesus Christ mentioned husbands loving their wives first because he knows many would pick the submissive part first. 2 Likes |
Re: This is the type of woman every man loves to marry. by Laredojohn(m): 7:37am On Sep 30, 2016 |
I took time to read the post and series of comments...both the abusive and contributory..one thing is a lot might seem to disagree with the op, some may agree, but I have learnt from all...submission...a very critical topic that many marriage counselors, pastors, ministers, individuals have interpreted in soo many ways... 2 Likes |
Re: This is the type of woman every man loves to marry. by ammyluv2002(f): 7:37am On Sep 30, 2016 |
Re: This is the type of woman every man loves to marry. by MaBuk(f): 7:42am On Sep 30, 2016 |
Op are you married and does your wife live with you ? |
Re: This is the type of woman every man loves to marry. by doveda: 7:42am On Sep 30, 2016 |
Are you saying that men do not submit to their bosses to work? A very daft comment man..... universalMan: 3 Likes |
Re: This is the type of woman every man loves to marry. by repogirl(f): 7:43am On Sep 30, 2016 |
jbonito:You've got to work for your marriage to work, that's all! Thanks for this. |
Re: This is the type of woman every man loves to marry. by ElSherriff: 7:44am On Sep 30, 2016 |
You miss the point, he didnt sound as though he had monopoly, he only showed passages from authoritative sources (the Bible and the Quran), now your postulation that love is reciprocal is not the bone of contention here, he didnt dwell on a give and take thing, he only showed what submission could earn a woman and that in my opinion maybe inadvertently earning the man's submission too! The circle starts from one point initially and if both parties do their bits, then it can be a peaceful big family circle. [s]Its me that know pass people like you shior[/s] Diplomaticbeing: 1 Like |
Re: This is the type of woman every man loves to marry. by uzolexis(f): 7:46am On Sep 30, 2016 |
jaci02: God bless you, you totally get it. The feelings should be reciprocal but the OP is insisting a wife should be submissive no matter what a husband does, that's where i disagree with him. |
Re: This is the type of woman every man loves to marry. by doveda: 7:46am On Sep 30, 2016 |
I have said it times without number that that term ‘submission' is not only derogatory but also confusing. Me, myself and I cannot be submissive (future husband take note ![]() ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: This is the type of woman every man loves to marry. by repogirl(f): 7:46am On Sep 30, 2016 |
jaci02:You make too much sense....even Christ didn't wait for the submission of the Church before laying his life for her. Christ, the head of the church conquered the Church via the greatest love, to lay down one's life for another. Therefore Men, as heads if the family should be ready to do such for their wives. ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: This is the type of woman every man loves to marry. by Laido: 7:47am On Sep 30, 2016 |
elektra:. You know Men will always be Men , But eventually nko?? What's good will always remain what's good??. Plz ma'am. Just saw you profile and saw where you are.. Plannin to come to the states right after my degree, plz ma'am, some good tips you can actually tell me to enhance the process ?? |
Re: This is the type of woman every man loves to marry. by doveda: 7:49am On Sep 30, 2016 |
Like we don't have married men who disagree with him? Wise people don't seek advice from those that failed ventures especially not from a divorcee who has been unable to find a woman to settle down with since the divorce. ![]() How old is grandpa now?:-( kaboninc: 3 Likes |
Re: This is the type of woman every man loves to marry. by doveda: 7:52am On Sep 30, 2016 |
How old are you? KPboy: |
Re: This is the type of woman every man loves to marry. by Toks2008(m): 7:53am On Sep 30, 2016 |
CindyeMerAld: Oh my! I'm so surprised that this innocuous act of submission has become a herculean task for ladies. My simple classification is just as precise as the meaning..SUBMIT Disagree with your man in an arrogant manner and watch his reaction but disagree with him in a meek manner and he is likely to flow with you. The devil is so smart that he has complicated the simple act of submission . 3 Likes |
Re: This is the type of woman every man loves to marry. by Odunharry(m): 7:53am On Sep 30, 2016 |
misspicy:Speechless |
Re: This is the type of woman every man loves to marry. by kaboninc(m): 7:53am On Sep 30, 2016 |
doveda: Rather how old are you? 1 Like |
Re: This is the type of woman every man loves to marry. by shotin(m): 7:54am On Sep 30, 2016 |
The word 'submit' means to put oneself in
another person's hands. Chaos happens
when everyone is trying to lead at the same
time. So one person has been designated by
God (Genesis 3:16) in each family to be the
lead and the other to put themselves in the
leader's trusting hands. God has given this
role of leadership to the husband of each
wife. The wife is not less in intelligence or
talent but is weaker as a physical vessel
(1Peter 3:7).
Her role is to carry
and care for the children that will come from
this relationship. If a man loves his wife as
himself, which is what Jesus told them to do,
then it is not very difficult for the wife to
submit and trust him to make final family
decisions. In some cases when the woman
has more expertise on some issue then he is
expected to submit to her so that there is
peace in the family (see Ephesians 5). We are
NEVER to lord it over each other for any
reason (Matthew 20:25 - 26).
To be submissive is not just for females but
also for us all. We learn and grow from
talking to each other whether a husband and
wife or brother and sister or mother and
father with their children and are told to
keep a humble and contrite heart. We are to
develop relationships of trust and
confidence and respect with all men so there
is an element of submission in everything we
do. Women today have almost given up their
role as first teacher to their children and
have forsaken the role of wife and mother
for the world of work. Therefore, to
understand the meaning of being submissive
from God's perspective we must first submit
to him and do as he has instructed so that
we may all benefit from a lifetime of
blessings. 1 Like |
Re: This is the type of woman every man loves to marry. by kaboninc(m): 7:55am On Sep 30, 2016 |
repogirl: A woman who dearly loves her husband will surely submit to him 3 Likes |
Re: This is the type of woman every man loves to marry. by doveda: 7:55am On Sep 30, 2016 |
I have been looking for you ![]() Can you please send me your number? Thanks LynnPetra: |
Re: This is the type of woman every man loves to marry. by Nobody: 7:56am On Sep 30, 2016 |
Toks2008:can you please give some examples of the submissive wives in the bible so that I can read more on it, thank you ![]() |
Re: This is the type of woman every man loves to marry. by Nobody: 7:56am On Sep 30, 2016 |
Toks2008:what of if ur husband is shouting and raising his voice at u,u shld be submissive...OR what of if he wants 2 beat u,u shld submit to the beating as per goat na ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: This is the type of woman every man loves to marry. by kaboninc(m): 7:58am On Sep 30, 2016 |
doveda: It is people like you who submit the most. 2 Likes |
Re: This is the type of woman every man loves to marry. by repogirl(f): 7:59am On Sep 30, 2016 |
kaboninc:but isn't it the man who is supposed to love and the woman who is supposed to submit? |
Re: This is the type of woman every man loves to marry. by esthereyo513: 7:59am On Sep 30, 2016 |
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Re: This is the type of woman every man loves to marry. by Toks2008(m): 8:00am On Sep 30, 2016 |
mamawin: Here you are as zebudia use to say. Sometimes when i create some threads and some people just barge in to curse and attack me i just laugh calmly because i know that most people who abuse me for my no holds bar threads today will likely remember it in the nearest future. I presume you must be a very married lady because your insightful comment depicts it. Nice submission. 2 Likes |
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