ozycy:

You mean he doesn't want to drink milk again? Keep putting the milk in his cereal, he haf try and ready to eat proper proper.

Charis15:
To God be the glory I delivered on the 13th September after 10years of waiting.

I just want to share my testimony to encourage someone who is going through stress in life or marriage, you are not alone. But don't give up.

I got married in 2006 at the age of 20yrs and since then nothing. In fact my in-laws said that I have destroyed my womb with abortion and lot more.

Out of desperation, i started buying all manner of baby things and at the end of the day I gave them out, I started charity works, birthdays at the orphanage etc

By January I missed my period went for test and it came out positive after years of humiliation. My sisters na so. Could have gotten everything I needed then but I said let me wait till I know the sex but before I knew the sex things were no longer as they were. 38wks I never buy anything. But I will always tell my dh don't worry the sacrifices of my past will always speak.

On the 7th I was paid 1 month in my place of work out of six months, dh got some cash. Hmmm I bought everything I needed in one day. We also kept for hospital.

Labour is a different story. Because my bags were not packed, I wasn't exercising so that the baby won't come. So I had a deep cut cos I dilated only 2cm but my cervix was open. So many things but God took control.

My baby came on hubby's birthday.

Motherhood is a whole different and lovely experience. Lord am grateful to you.

Liftedhands:
My sister I dey here o! How your side? Lioha don abandone us here I hope she and her bobo are doing ok.

Ten years ttc no be Moi Moi o! Me and lioha know that too well now it's all a distant memory.

I give God the glory on your behalf charis! Kisses to your lo.

Lateralmaths:


What works here should be understanding from both parties, he trys to understand you and you try to understand him too. Then together both of you work out something. Look for how to plan towards it for him and he should also try to make things easy for you.
Besides sex during pregnancy is beneficial to the mum,baby and the dad, knowing the benefits of sex during pregnancy makes it a win win situation for all.

a month + na wa o

Lateralmaths:


What works here should be understanding from both parties, he trys to understand you and you try to understand him too. Then together both of you work out something. Look for how to plan towards it for him and he should also try to make things easy for you.
Besides sex during pregnancy is beneficial to the mum,baby and the dad, knowing the benefits of sex during pregnancy makes it a win win situation for all.

a month + na wa o

feddy27:


Cute boy! Dis my fine baby nai u wear dis thick cloth + cap! I wee flog u o

sugah:

I just knew it was a guy that left this comment reading from phundek's response.
Oga not everyone qualifies for sex in pregnancy. Some of us are asked to abstain from it. In that instance, No sex is beneficial to mum and baby.........and eventually dad.

Anak123:
Lovely pics yesterday, though I missed most...... God bless them all.


So I've been thinking about this......

There is this dh's friend, he and his wife recently treated a std, just yesterday,( a week after treatment o) the man called my dh n was asking what he can take , that he slept with the same girl he contacted the disease from again! Ha! Excuse was he had finishe doing it before he realised . He wants to get treated before wife returns from where she travelled to.

What manner or irresponsibility is this!! Was telling dh that if it was HIV this girl wanted to donate to his family now na so dem for don carry disease...that's if dey have not sef! How much is condomd wife was not even gone for long...

I just dey pity the wife!

enque:
for me, I'd take creche at my workplace over a nanny. reason being I'm closer to my baby at the creche and I can pop in from time to time to see how he/she is doing...(I'm guessing d nanny will be staying home wt ur baby when u go to work?)

Mumtwins08:
Somebody help me ... My baby eats every 1 hour and he is always full at each feed . He's 6 weeksand exclusively breast fed .. I am getting very tired ... I resume in 3 weeks time . One more question ... Nanny or crèche at my work place ... Pls help me

Mumtwins08:


Yes they will stay at home ... The crèche it's 1 nanny to about 2 babies ,,, I just feel he won't have maximum attention .. He will be 9 weeks old

lilybestie:

no vex captain. when three older women are doing omugwo for you, na so so old fashion style o.

Mumtwins08:


Yes they will stay at home ... The crèche it's 1 nanny to about 2 babies ,,, I just feel he won't have maximum attention .. He will be 9 weeks old

Mumtwins08:
Somebody help me ... My baby eats every 1 hour and he is always full at each feed . He's 6 weeksand exclusively breast fed .. I am getting very tired ... I resume in 3 weeks time . One more question ... Nanny or crèche at my work place ... Pls help me

suzy:


Pls such friends is not healthy for ur DH. The Man in question is very irresponsible and annoying. He should sort out himself and leave ur dh alone. If he can not hold body dats his business, So annoying. Just a pity to d wife cos the man she is marrying can never change. hope he does not give d family AIDS. When he is caught now he will blame d DEVIL dat is on his own life

phundek:


ohhhhhhh,didnt even knw he is a guy oh.

feddy27:


If you av a creche at your workplace, pls go for it. Your mind will be at rest and you can always pop in to be with him. 1 nanny to 2 babies is ok. Leaving ur 9wks old for an absolute stranger to stay with at home alone is not advisable.

suzy:


just 9weeks ? where u not given maternity leave ? the baby is just too little to leave at home with a nanny. Creche nearby ur working place is the best. Hope ur office is not too far from home too. Cos driving with the baby for a long distance and with the kind of road we have in d country now. Where are ur MUm or MIL living ? they are better off wit than a nanny cos take will take more care of the baby. The Lord will help u

phundek:


Can you ask for a month with no pay at your working place cos your baby is still young abeg,and most creches dont collect babies of less than 3months unless you are lucky to find one.but i still feel a creche close to your office is better than a nanny sha.Dont be tired dear. God will give you wisdom to make the right choice dear.It is well.

Mumtwins08:


Thank u very much ...

Mumtwins08:


I don't AV a mum inlaw . My mum already spent 2 months with me in the USA . So she had to return to work . I just feel at crèche he won't AV full attention

sugah:

I just knew it was a guy that left this comment reading from phundek's response.
Oga not everyone qualifies for sex in pregnancy. Some of us are asked to abstain from it. In that instance, No sex is beneficial to mum and baby.........and eventually dad.