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Re: I by ganie(m): 11:48pm On Sep 28, 2016 |
SmellingAnus:no wonder the lady asked for you because you have the best advice for op and truth be said you just did as she said... Op,this is the best you can do try to win get her back and act very nice with the mindset of letting the relationship die and you can do this by setting a time frame for its death. I have being in such before,a relationship of five years enede without no parting words nor fight I just stopped calling and she never called back too,the separation will be two years this December. Since the stone age these hoes have never being loyal. |
Re: I by SmellingAnus(m): 4:02am On Sep 29, 2016 |
ganie:it's sad when one gets commited only to be partially dumped . Some of these girls will even go as far as cheating on you without remorse... When you catch them, they will say , they are not married so they can do as it pleases them ( just like that popular cliche... "The pussy is mine so I make the rules"... Anyway, I admire your courage for letting go. Not the easiest of things to do when you are deeply in love but sometimes it's the wisest of things to do... |
Re: I by Antina(f): 4:43am On Sep 29, 2016 |
ganie: But there is one thing u need to consider too, most girls still knw what they want, she may decided to leave when sees the relationship was making no head way. 1 Like |
Re: I by lanicky(f): 9:04am On Sep 29, 2016 |
firstking01: You want me outta here? 1 Like |
Re: I by lanicky(f): 9:09am On Sep 29, 2016 |
JeffreyJamez: Na so o. |
Re: I by jorion(m): 9:26am On Sep 29, 2016 |
SmellingAnus: one problem with this advice is that the guy might end up getting his hopes high again. just walk away now. the more time you spend with someone, the greater the bond. i have been there, done that and never doing it again. most Nigerian girls are simply incapable of loving a guy, so i don't bother myself with relationship nor invest more time into having one. |
Re: I by SmellingAnus(m): 9:32am On Sep 29, 2016 |
jorion:Although you are right but the advice never suggested he should keep his hopes high, on the contrary he should know that the relationship is already dead on arrival.... But true words from you |
Re: I by firstking01(m): 9:41am On Sep 29, 2016 |
lanicky:Yes |
Re: I by ganie(m): 9:48am On Sep 29, 2016 |
Antina:yes,and it will be a win-win situation for both of them instead of the heart break the guy would have experienced because its very obvious its d lady that is wanting to end the relationship. |
Re: I by DavidTheGeek: 10:29am On Sep 29, 2016 |
Over familiarity might be the issue. Take a break bro. Give space. No contact for sometime. |
Re: I by rosieluv(f): 10:48am On Sep 29, 2016 |
lanicky:why pet her? if she cares enough she would have called him and explain herself. why save another guys number with "honey". I dont understand what he is supposed to apologize for? its obvious the girl is in control,if he was strict i dont tink she would even try this rubbish self. Guy just man up and have a talk with her,dont pet or anything |
Re: I by queencalipso(f): 11:33am On Sep 29, 2016 |
Romanceland is definitely the wrong place to seek r/ship advice imagine the comments! How can you just conclude she has a strong connection with whatever name you saw without talking to her about it? Agreed you saw 'ME' which according to you is her ex then so what!! Does that conclude anything? She came to your house, you gave her attitude without telling her what she did/ what u saw; she went home confused, wondering what she must have done wrong. She called to confirm, you dropped the call on her again without telling what the problem is what were you expecting? For her to make a call that will be dropped or come to your place to get an attitude. She gave you the space that your attitude demanded. When you are ready to tell her what she did and talk things through, you know where to find her. Until then, don't conclude that your thinking/imaginations of her are true. Acting based on your thoughts/imaginations is the worst mistake any1 can make bcz in the end, it may turn out to be wrong. 1 Like |
Re: I by queencalipso(f): 11:38am On Sep 29, 2016 |
rosieluv: I guess you missed the part where he dropped the call on her. So how is she suppose to explain and what will she explain about when she doesn't even know what she did wrong? |
Re: I by rosieluv(f): 12:00pm On Sep 29, 2016 |
queencalipso:if she really wanted to know what she did wrong,then she would have called him back or rather go see him. |
Re: I by jorion(m): 1:56pm On Sep 29, 2016 |
queencalipso: aunty, forget that rubbish of talking things through. it doesn't take rocket science to understand what is going on here. imagine that your boyfriend used BUGS BUNNY to store your Number, how would you feel. things like this always have ulterior motives, be it a guy or a girl. the best the guy is going to get is a sweet lie that would confuse him further. BABA, she ain't worth it |
Re: I by youngds: 3:18pm On Sep 29, 2016 |
queencalipso: Op. You were too emotional, not patient even pretend and gathered enough evidence or better still catch her on the act before you bust the bubble, now she thinks you're been childish for your attitude & trust me it would be very difficult for you to prove a thing cos she will definitely make everything looks like it your fault. Don't ignore this above quote She knows your girl |
Re: I by queencalipso(f): 3:29pm On Sep 29, 2016 |
youngds: Exactly my point. Even if she is cheating, he can't prove it. He acted childishly and now he's killing himself over something he can't prove nor sure about. |
Re: I by jorion(m): 4:16pm On Sep 29, 2016 |
op, don't mind all these people telling you to prove the allegations. you can never catch a girl cheating except you saw her chat, you caught her red handed(and both parties must be in bed together or it can still be denied) or she tells you, and a girl will never admit except you are the side guy. if you're waiting for proof, might as well wait for Christ |
Re: I by queencalipso(f): 5:28pm On Sep 29, 2016 |
jorion: Please do not destroy someone's relationship when there can still be a chance to salvage it. What will you gain by crucifying someone on mere suspicion? Let's say he ends it bcz he feels she's cheating, he starts another one, suspects her too and walked. Pls tell me, how long will he continue? Almost everyone usually have this feeling of suspicion in a r/ship especially when your partner starts behaving strange, but is it enough to conclude there's someone else? It could be other things apart from cheating you just have to be patient enough to find out else you will end up crucifying people wrongly and punishing your self for nothing. |
Re: I by jorion(m): 5:38pm On Sep 29, 2016 |
queencalipso: when will girls stop being hypocrites. the girl damaged her relationship herself. i used to be in his shoes so i know the damage a girl like that can do. except the guy feels comfortable sharing her, he should walk away. i still have my emotional scars to prove how deadly such relationships can be.fyi, if a girl stores my name with any name that does not include Joshua, i would take a walk. |
Re: I by queencalipso(f): 5:48pm On Sep 29, 2016 |
jorion: Lollzx!! So you use you woman's shoe to judge his right?? Very funny. I have my own emotional scars too. I will refer you to my thread; letter to my ex" go read it if you have the time. But let me tell you this, using your case to judge other people is very bad, it maybe a complete different situation with same signs but that doesn't make it the same. Am didn't say she's not cheating, I only said he should get his fact right before concluding. |
Re: I by jorion(m): 5:51pm On Sep 29, 2016 |
queencalipso: na so. leave all these chronicles for david. girls can't be trusted. when i see the signs, i end it myself. leave trash for lawma. if he wants to go find the facts, he is going to get hurt much more, is that what you want? |
Re: I by lanicky(f): 7:38am On Sep 30, 2016 |
firstking01: Make me leave 1 Like |
Re: I by firstking01(m): 7:42am On Sep 30, 2016 |
lanicky:Drags her out of the thread |
Re: I by lanicky(f): 8:34am On Sep 30, 2016 |
Re: I by firstking01(m): 8:42am On Sep 30, 2016 |
lanicky:Dnt mind me jare, hw body?? |
Re: I by lanicky(f): 8:50am On Sep 30, 2016 |
Re: I by firstking01(m): 9:03am On Sep 30, 2016 |
lanicky:Me be fvcking life hard, wbu?? |
Re: I by lanicky(f): 11:42am On Sep 30, 2016 |
firstking01: Me be hugging life tight |
Re: I by firstking01(m): 12:08pm On Sep 30, 2016 |
lanicky:Egbon, i get where your driving at, you mean you 've been hugging him tight...That guy dey enjoy fa, esp with those two things in front of you pointing firmly as though it's the sword of a soldier ready for war |
Re: I by lanicky(f): 12:19pm On Sep 30, 2016 |
firstking01: Smh.. Who hugging EPP? It's life I've bn hugging not a guy.. I never even hug myself finish. |
Re: I by Peacefullove: 12:44pm On Sep 30, 2016 |
Frankraj: @ bold |
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