dollyjoy:
To be frank, i prefer masturbation to having sex with a partner i don't see a future with.

Thank God for your life op

but why babe,you are to pretty for that,mention me so we can hook up,u will never regret this.try it

dollyjoy:
Are there no demons present when you have sex with someone you are not married to because i know you are not chaste and even if married must have done it before tying the knot.

Fornication and masturbation are biblicaly WRONG, however, people should be left to do what they believe in irrespective of religious inclination.

Only God should do the judging

abeg,i nø judge u o,i never judge anybody,who am i to judge? And i never said there are no demons present when one is having sex with someone hes not married to...like u rightly posit,all sexual acts,apart from acts between married couples, are wrong and we must preach against it as its done against other sins. Preaching against something bad aint judging.
And when u say i aint chaste and must have 'done it',u're being judgemental...cos u dont even know if i am a virgin,not as tho that matters.
Look,tell anyone u know who indulges in the act to flee. The urge to mastubate is a demon,an evil spirit...worse thing is that it comes along with other associate demons. Dun mean2 scare u o. Hagd.

So in your opinion one who got lung cancer from smoking is in no position to advice youths on the dangers of smoking?

dollyjoy:
this is very myopic.

If you are not a virgin, i will advice you to shove this advice down your ass.

Lol....legit ignorance

geronimoedeh1:

it doesnt affect girls lik it does to guys

Stalker365:


No You don't..you can't prefer rubber to the real deal

wagbayi, are u going my way?let me carry u

Well, I write just to encourage the op for writing. You can say false or whatever. Just watch it my friend if you are in it. For me is now a matter of destiny. I have now enough reasons to quit. I have stopped now for a while and no going back. So if you think is not destroying and you can manage it especially for men then you know. ofcourse it can save you from other harmful alternatives. See you at the top.

dollyjoy:
To be frank, i prefer masturbation to having sex with a partner i don't see a future with.

Thank God for your life op

not only that masturbation saves one from contacting HIV and other sexual related illness before marriage.

Lady, no one was judging and if anyone did it was you. Saul was a bad guy but God turned his heart and he later became Paul and spread the gospel. You should quit making people feel they don't deserve to be heard because of what you perceive their past to be.

dollyjoy:
Are there no demons present when you have sex with someone you are not married to because i know you are not chaste and even if married must have done it before tying the knot.

Fornication and masturbation are biblicaly WRONG, however, people should be left to do what they believe in irrespective of religious inclination.

Only God should do the judging

Troll. Long as you keep trolling, I will troll you.

dollyjoy:
Ok.


Don't forget to pick that same slot for the spirit of fornication to leave you.


you are welcome.

Preach!!!

Justiceleague1:


abeg,i nø judge u o,i never judge anybody,who am i to judge? And i never said there are no demons present when one is having sex with someone hes not married to...like u rightly posit,all sexual acts,apart from acts between married couples, are wrong and we must preach against it as its done against other sins. Preaching against something bad aint judging.
And when u say i aint chaste and must have 'done it',u're being judgemental...cos u dont even know if i am a virgin, not as tho that matters.
Look,tell anyone u know who indulges in the act to flee. The urge to mastubate is a demon,an evil spirit...worse thing is that it comes along with other associate demons. Dun mean2 scare u o. Hagd.

trapQ:


Troll. Long as you keep trolling, I will troll you.

You can only troll who gives you attention, am not game

Op the masturbation also affected your writing right?
Rubbish

trapQ:
I totally understand you. But blind people will keep arguing. Masturbation is one of the worst sins. Its too dangerous.

yes,it falls under inniquity (secret sin)..very dangerous. God likened saul's disobedience and stubborness and rebellion to some terrible sins-idolatory,witchcraft and INNIQUITY (sodomy,bestiality,MASUBATION,homo,lesbo,3somekinikon,etc). God simply destroys any and every act He never ordinated or programmed in man.. The ordination of God concerning sex is between a MARRIED MAN AND WOMAN. Every other ordination and programme comes from the devil,the liar. Remember how he twisted God's command to adam and eve concerning the same death.....


Abeg o,make dem nø come arress me for preaching,make i gbam brake

I think OP has mistaken Masturbation for Weed

bitchcrafts:
Looking beyond your misuse of dictions and all, I dont think what was wrong with ya then was the masturbation per say, Most probably, it was a stress issue manifesting from serial restlessness , poor diet and exhaustion compounded and made easy by your joblesssness. I mean, Masturbation was never the evil , it was the accumulation of yo bad unhealthy and neurotic habits.

Tbh, Masturbation is healthy when done right (blowjobs and likes fall under it IMO). In fact, it has been found that male babies in the womb masturbate

tell me what is wrong with my diction? its just a simple formula of disseminating information to public places like Nairaland for easy understanding...when it comes to speaking English,i give it cordial polish

King137:
Well, I write just to encourage the op for writing. You can say false or whatever. [b]Just watch it [/b]my friend if you are in it. For me is now a matter of destiny. I have now enough reasons to quit. I have stopped now for a while and no going back. So if you think is not destroying and you can manage it especially for men then you know. ofcourse it can save you from other harmful alternatives. See you at the top.

just watch what, Bros? aren't youu gonna provide a link?
by the way, i noticed this is your very first post on Nairaland, Hmnn .....

I think its about time for me to ask IFA if mastubation is bad or not. Whatever IFA say I will come to my own conclusion.

bitchcrafts:
Looking beyond your misuse of dictions and all, I dont think what was wrong with ya then was the masturbation per say, Most probably, it was a stress issue manifesting from serial restlessness , poor diet and exhaustion compounded and made easy by your joblesssness. I mean, Masturbation was never the evil , it was the accumulation of yo bad unhealthy and neurotic habits.

Tbh, Masturbation is healthy when done right (blowjobs and likes fall under it IMO). In fact, it has been found that male babies in the womb masturbate

how did u come about this theory

dollyjoy:
To be frank, i prefer masturbation to having sex with a partner i don't see a future with.

Thank God for your life op

so women do masturbate ?.......kinda weird

Lol...you're very correct. I hate when people condemn others for saying masturbation is demonic when it really is.

Justiceleague1:


yes,it falls under inniquity (secret sin)..very dangerous. God likened saul's disobedience and stubborness and rebellion to some terrible sins-idolatory,witchcraft and INNIQUITY (sodomy,bestiality,MASUBATION,homo,lesbo,3somekinikon,etc). God simply destroys any and every act He never ordinated or programmed in man.. The ordination of God concerning sex is between a MARRIED MAN AND WOMAN. Every other ordination and programme comes from the devil,the liar. Remember how he twisted God's command to adam and eve concerning the same death.....


Abeg o,make dem nø come arress me for preaching,make i gbam brake

Like the people you were trolling gave you attention yh? Lmao to China

dollyjoy:
You can only troll who gives you attention, am not game

op should simply get himself girlfriend ....all this self guilt will halt

dollyjoy:
To be frank, i prefer masturbation to having sex with a partner i don't see a future with.

Thank God for your life op

Dollyjoy its like u love it

I love when people call a spade a spade.
To those saying that masturbation is healthy based on medical reports/ research you should know that there are so many things science is not 100% right/sure about.They may say it healthy today and say that it is not healthy tomorrow.This means that if masturbation works for you and does not affect you life FINE if not then bros & sis you better DESIST as soon as possible because it can really help waste your potentials in life

We are all wired differently so you should know that it might be difficult for some to practise self control.Some of us get easily addicted to things.like mastutbation,eating too much and the rest.
And lastly no matter how strong you are it causes weakness and can/ NOT WILL lead to blindness when addicted to it.
( DO YOUR RESEARCH)
I HAVE MANY PEOPLE THAT GAVE THEIR LIFE TO CHRIST BECAUSE OF THIS THING.
BUT THE TRUTH IS THAT IT IS NOT ABOUT RELIGION BUT IT IS ABOUT KNOWING WHAT IS REALLY GOOD/BEST FOR YOU.

Flexherbal:
Why it is difficult to stop, i do not know.

of coursed its not difficult, only determination, even if pray from now till 30 years, prayer can never take it away, be self determined, Stay away from Pornography, as I alwayz tell my friends, Bad habit is like a comfortable bed of roses easy to stay on bt difficult to get out of, our brain is like a magnet, and sin is like a metal, we easily adapt it

bitchcrafts:
Looking beyond your misuse of dictions and all, I dont think what was wrong with ya then was the masturbation per say, Most probably, it was a stress issue manifesting from serial restlessness , poor diet and exhaustion compounded and made easy by your joblesssness. I mean, Masturbation was never the evil , it was the accumulation of yo bad unhealthy and neurotic habits.

Tbh, Masturbation is healthy when done right (blowjobs and likes fall under it IMO). In fact, it has been found that male babies in the womb masturbate

You're right. I only don't know about new born babies.

trapQ:
Mr ignorant... I'm not a science or medical textbook. Get a book or better still use google. Masturbation not only leads to loss of sight, it also leads to mental retardation and many more.

Don't quote me again. I won't read or reply your rude ignorant comment.

You are not a science or medical textbook but you are bold enough to make a fool of yourself on a public forum. How far can you go displaying your ignorance.






There is no longer any doubt among doctors and therapists that the supposed negative effects of masturbation are false. It is a perfectly normal and healthy form of sexual expression. Ninety-five percent of men begin to masturbate at puberty, and many continue to do so throughout life without negative consequences.
Masturbation only becomes a problem if it becomes a substitute for other forms of sexual activity.
It is important however to masturbate in a way that will help you learn how to control ejaculation so that when you do have a partner premature ejaculation will not be an issue.
No man is born with the ability to control. Controlling ejaculation is something you have to learn just as you had to learn to control your bladder as a child. We get taught to control our bladders but no one teaches us how to control ejaculation.
The American Academy of Family Physicians confirms that: “Behavioral methods are helpful for more than 95 percent of men who have premature ejaculation.” So, if you have tried “exercises” and they have not helped it is because they have not been explained properly to you. Many of the treatment programs offered online have not been written by professionals.
Do not waste time or money on sprays, vitamins, herbs, dietary supplements or drugs. This is a learning problem and these things will not help you learn to control ejaculation any more than they can help you to learn to speak another language.
There are a lot of high-priced programs advertised online but all you need is an inexpensive little book written by a doctor and sex therapist that has been used successfully around the world for more than 32 years.
It is called "Lasting Longer: The Treatment Program for Premature Ejaculation" by Dr. Sy Silverberg M.D. For more information just search for the author’s name: Dr. Sy Silverberg M.D.

Fingerprinter:

You are not a science or medical textbook but you are bold enough to make a fool of yourself on a public forum. How far can go displaying your ignorance.

PEOPLE MASTURBATE IN DIFFERENT WAYS SIR/MA
DO SOME RESEARCH.

HEFAIROHLUWA:

PEOPLE MASTURBATE IN DIFFERENT WAYS SIR/MA
DO SOME RESEARCH.

Masturbation doesn't lead to blindness. It's just like saying those that masturbate will grow hairs in their palms. They are all myths that have long been debunked by medical research. I have modified the post you quoted, see it and be enlightened.

Idiot. Masturbation is healthy. Pick up books and read. Cowshit.

Kaysalas:


just watch what, Bros? aren't youu gonna provide a link?
by the way, i noticed this is your very first post on Nairaland, Hmnn .....

Sorry,I mean it should not be frequent and watch out for the reasons to quit for good. I don't mean where to watch it please. Yes i registered because i could not resist encouraging the OP.

dollyjoy:
To be frank, i prefer masturbation to having sex with a partner i don't see a future with.

Thank God for your life op

Dollyjoy the Vaseline brand manager!!! keep it up oh.... y have a partner in the first place oga mango park kuku marry ur vaseline instead of d rebound