[b][/b]Please note that you can avoid adultery, it is within your power to do it, if you really mean it. Carelessness is one of the major causes of extra-marital affair, not the devil as people always claim when they fall into error. Hence following simple rules here listed, you will never fall into adultery.

1: Never make anybody of the opposite sex your best friend with whom you share intimate discussions, especially about your marriage.

2: Never be with anybody of the opposite sex at the time your spouse must never know you are there.

3: Never talk evil about your spouse in the presence of anybody,they will know that you are not happy in your marriage and may take advantage of that by showing you fake care and give you what you think you lack with your Spouse and destroy you.

4: Be proud to use your wedding ring outside, let people know that you are married and proud to be.

5: Never visit a website that you will not be proud to tell your children and wife/ husband that you visited.

6: Avoid keeping secrets from your spouse, EXTRA-MARITAL AFFAlRS thrive in secrecy.

7: Avoid confiding in the people of the opposite sex, there should be somebody of your sex that you can talk to, don't dig the grave of your marriage with your mouth.

8: Avoid collecting unsolicited gifts and favour from the opposite sex. They may ask for unwholesome favours in return - they are not Father Christmas.

9: Avoid thinking that anybody is better than your husband or wife, you don't know what their spouses are enduring at home; don't be deceived, what you are seeing outside may just be a facade (i.e. smokescreen). Grass seem to be greener on the other side of your fence because it is far from you.

10: Divert all your sexual fantasy towards your spouse. He or she is planted in your life to satisfy you and keep you holy.

11: Always remember that whatever a woman or man has in his or her body (which you are lusting after), YOUR SPOUSE HAS IT TOO and they are not different from each other; it is only faces (external) that may be different it is the same content.

12: Deal with any sexual thoughts that is not directed towards your spouse; kill it before it kills you. Sexual errors do not begin in the bedroom,it begins in the heart.

13: If you are finding it difficult to deal with your lust, find a mature christian you can confide in and let the person pray with you and counsel you. Don't die in silence.

14: Before traveling have sex with your spouse and put your mind to it that YOU WILL NOT have sex with another person until you come back; such decision may save your life and destiny.

15: Men, avoid looking at the front and back sides of ladies and imagining what is in there; it is stupid, childish­ and dirty to do that; it is called lust. What is there (in another woman that you are lusting after), is not different from what your wife has; drink from your own well, don't be stupid sir.

16: Walk in company with good and Godly men/women; if you keep company with an adulterer you will become adulterous.

17: Discuss your sexual desire with your spouse and let it be met at home - within the confines of your marriage; don't hunt for something that will hunt you later and hurt you deeply tomorrow. Eat your own pie, it is the best.

18: Fill your heart with the Word of God always,this will not give lust a chance in your mind.(Please read Philippians 4:.

19: Memorize and always remember Proverbs 6:32-33. "But whoso committeth adultery with a woman lacketh understanding: he that doeth it destroyeth his own soul. A wound and dishonour shall he get; and his reproach shall not be wiped away".

20: Always count the cost of adultery, not just the pleasure percieved; imagine the shame on being discovered, the loss of integrity, the pain caused your loved ones - your wife/­husband, children, friends and above all GOD the almighty.

21: Always remember that the enjoyment, pleas­ure and thrills that associated with actual sex is not up to 30 minutes - it can not be more, but the implication of an infidelity can ruin all that you stand or toiled for and even your eternity.

BE FAITHFUL TO YOUR SPOUSE,YOU WILL BE GLAD YOU DID.

Gbam! I stand with faithful couples, God bless them

Marriage is Honourable and the Bed undefiled but Whoremongers and Adulterers God will JUDGE.

LadyMercedes:
Also, avoid getting third parties involved in your private marital issues.

Tomorrow, they'll come to Nairaland and open a senseless thread about how people are "stealing" their spouses ACROSS THE CONTINENT.

People who have extramarital affairs know all these rules,the thing is that when devil wants to do his work anything is possible.

There are some men and boys who just carry around a devilish spirit that will make any woman fall for their tricks