I'm in a serious relationship with a girl of about 5months...This girl is all a man will want in a woman, I mean she's caring,beautiful,fun to be with and she has a good job but my problem wit her is that she do recieve long calls of guys in my presence and I ll be like she shld pls respect me even if she ll recieve d call,there are ways to make conversation short and allowing d callers (guys) pass thier message ina short time but for my girlfriend,its a lie o.....that's when d caller will be asking what have u eaten?, what are u doing?,any gist?...i ll be just be silent during her calls bt I just don't know what to do about d issue. ...recieving d call is not dat of an issue bt in my presence make anoda guy dey ask her about her well being do make me feel somehow. ...And she told me about a guy dat was dating her cos I was a close friend of hers and she told me she wasn't serious wit d guy even b4 we both started dating,I told her now dat we are in a serious relationship, she shld try cut anything wit d guy b4 d guy gets more emotionally involved wit her so as to avoid stories dat touch but she said d guy is going through many things dats she doesn't want to ditch him because of his problem so as not to look like someone evil,i just see say d just call lyk once in two weeks or so cos i do go through her fone sometimes.I just kept quite on dat issue but right now,I don't know what to do on those issues esp abt d calls even d guy too.
And d fact im about introducing her to my parents next month.
No vex for my English o.

Its just calls

adedammy007:
I'm in a serious relationship with a girl of about 5months...This girl is all a man will want in a woman, I mean she's caring,beautiful,fun to be with and she has a good job but my problem wit her is that she do recieve long calls of guys in my presence and I ll be like she shld pls respect me even if she ll recieve d call,there are ways to make conversation short and allowing d callers (guys) pass thier message ina short time but for my girlfriend,its a lie o.....that's when d caller will be asking what have u eaten?, what are u doing?,any gist?...i ll be just be silent during her calls bt I just don't know what to do about d issue. ...recieving d call is not dat of an issue bt in my presence make anoda guy dey ask her about her well being do make me feel somehow. ...And she told me about a guy dat was dating her cos I was a close friend of hers and she told me she wasn't serious wit d guy even b4 we both started dating,I told her now dat we are in a serious relationship, she shld try cut anything wit d guy b4 d guy gets more emotionally involved wit her so as to avoid stories dat touch but she said d guy is going through many things dats she doesn't want to ditch him because of his problem so as not to look like someone evil,i just see say d just call lyk once in two weeks or so cos i do go through her fone sometimes.I just kept quite on dat issue but right now,I don't know what to do on those issues esp abt d calls even d guy too
No vex for my English o.

I don't think she has seen serious commitment from you, so she is living her options open.
Sit down talk with her and know where she puts you. if you are not OK with your position in her life, then you treat her the way she treats you.

Mheen u gotta live dat chick alone oh nah full sign of olosho she dey show u......."if she love you why aint her stop doing shiit calling in yur presence:..


Better pack ya loads nd live b!tch alone nigga

Loyalblak007:
Its just calls

yes tho...but I feel its a sign of her not respecting me

sexy74:

I don't think she has seen serious commitment from you, so she is living her options open.
Sit down talk with her and know where she puts you. if you are not OK with your position in her life, then you treat her the way she treats you.

thanks bro, u re so on point bro....I don't knw how else I ll tell her I'm for real

youngberry001:
Mheen u gotta live dat chick alone oh nah full sign of olosho she dey show u......."if she love you why aint her stop doing shiit calling in yur presence:..


Better pack ya loads nd live b!tch alone nigga

Hmmmmm......seriously

adedammy007:
Hmmmmm......seriously

u still dey dere dey do seriousely uh.....owk kwuntinue

youngberry001:
u still dey dere dey do seriousely uh.....owk kwuntinue

lol.....u funny bro,thanks for ya advice bro

The same thing she told you about him is what she has told him about you too.. She is dating people that has problems that she cannot just ditch in their trouble times.

Sit her down, she should make up her mind so that you will also dot your Ts and Is.

adedammy007:
I'm in a serious relationship with a girl of about 5months...This girl is all a man will want in a woman, I mean she's caring,beautiful,fun to be with and she has a good job but my problem wit her is that she do recieve long calls of guys in my presence and I ll be like she shld pls respect me even if she ll recieve d call,there are ways to make conversation short and allowing d callers (guys) pass thier message ina short time but for my girlfriend,its a lie o.....that's when d caller will be asking what have u eaten?, what are u doing?,any gist?...i ll be just be silent during her calls bt I just don't know what to do about d issue. ...recieving d call is not dat of an issue bt in my presence make anoda guy dey ask her about her well being do make me feel somehow. ...And she told me about a guy dat was dating her cos I was a close friend of hers and she told me she wasn't serious wit d guy even b4 we both started dating,I told her now dat we are in a serious relationship, she shld try cut anything wit d guy b4 d guy gets more emotionally involved wit her so as to avoid stories dat touch but she said d guy is going through many things dats she doesn't want to ditch him because of his problem so as not to look like someone evil,i just see say d just call lyk once in two weeks or so cos i do go through her fone sometimes.I just kept quite on dat issue but right now,I don't know what to do on those issues esp abt d calls even d guy too.
And d fact im about introducing her to my parents next month.
No vex for my English o.

Change tactics...
Pump her with plenty money.....

Pick up your phone and also go on a talking spree with any of your female contacts. Nobody has monopoly on bullsh.it acts

agrovick:
Pick up your phone and also go on a talking spree with any of your female contacts. Nobody has monopoly on bullsh.it acts

Hmmmmm. ...me too dey reason am o....thnk bro

bamisepeters:
The same thing she told you about him is what she has told him about you too.. She is dating people that has problems that she cannot just ditch in their trouble times.

Sit her down, she should make up her mind so that you will also dot your Ts and Is.

Even at that, she might just lie to the young man about his position in her life. Such girls ehn, I treat them the way the treat me. Period!!

ok here is the deal.. Rem she is a gf..telling her to stop dating other guys will only push her away more..she picks guys calls in your presence act like you dont care...you can fake calls from girls too... Chat a lil flirty...she is dating other guys ..you too date other girls...the more girls you got ..the less fvck you give even if she receive call from her ancestors