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She Is Tempting Me by Nobody: 1:27am On Oct 03, 2016 |
First of all, understand that I'm in my early 30's. Three female corps members were posted to a company where I'm the head. During their service year, one of them tried very hard to date me, but I didn't give in. Along the line, I started having feelings for the one that was very modest among them, but I tried very hard to conceal it. When they left, I quickly found a girlfriend for my self in a bid to relieve me of the feelings I had suppressed. Months later, we were to hold a 7 days workshop at work, and the 3 girls said they would like to be a part of it. We allowed them, and stayed in our living quarters in the company. When they arrived, my girlfriend was with me. To my surprise, the girl I had feelings for left the following day while the others waited to the end of the program. Now after a year, without interview or whatever, management told me that one ex-corps member would resume at work the following week, and must work directly under me, so that she can fill my position in case I'm sent somewhere for higher assignment. The girl has resumed at work. The problem now is that I can't concentrate on work again, as the feelings came back in full force. This time, she is not staying for a year. How can I cope without breaking my girl's heart? Please advice me; this is a dilemma. |
Re: She Is Tempting Me by Nobody: 1:33am On Oct 03, 2016 |
It cud be juz a konji Sha... Especially when they become even more blooming tat sometimes u juz wanna robbed her azz |
Re: She Is Tempting Me by femi4: 1:33am On Oct 03, 2016 |
Just resign |
Re: She Is Tempting Me by golor(m): 1:41am On Oct 03, 2016 |
This what we see is men with zero work ethics . I so much respect men who works with ethics . Even if you wants to sleep around ,must it be someone under you? Can't you just maitain integrity and still gain relevance in your position ? I have one lecturer in my Dept ,his not a pastor nor rev. Father but the man is so ethical that no matter how beautiful or half necked a girl seems to be ,he know send you . D man is handsome and look healthy bit he seems to maitain integrity . Oga luck outside for your urge and work with ethics mbok 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: She Is Tempting Me by Nobody: 1:46am On Oct 03, 2016 |
Refuse to be tempted |
Re: She Is Tempting Me by Nobody: 1:47am On Oct 03, 2016 |
Na to dey advice hard for you abi? |
Re: She Is Tempting Me by mamaafrik(m): 3:15am On Oct 03, 2016 |
Flight07:if you are thirty and you cant do simple stuffs like dis na hin be say you no love your girl(she's just on "fipa mode",not ready for marriage and wana play "tambo tambo" wit ya work,u even lied dat she left blah bla to make it look mutual,sobongoat..... |
Re: She Is Tempting Me by Cutehector(m): 4:59am On Oct 03, 2016 |
Flight07:you high on smth? |
Re: She Is Tempting Me by Mhizjay(f): 5:29am On Oct 03, 2016 |
Your story is long oo,anyways...1.there is no way you can breakup with your gf without hurting her even if she doesnt show it..its only if she doesnt love you in the first place. 2. your gf was just like an option because you didnt confess to the girl and you also wanted the feelings to die..3. never lose an oppoturnity,the girl might have liked you then..4. friendzone the girl for a while,not for too long oo and see if the feeling is diminishing or growing(some people are just better off as friends)..see,its not like i support cheating but when you like someone just let the person know instead of dying inside...and are you sure you can cope with dating a fellow worker?#justsaying# |
Re: She Is Tempting Me by Akanbibabatunde(m): 5:45am On Oct 03, 2016 |
Flight07:ummh, eleyi gidi gan...this one is spiritual... Op, I can see a lady came and she took something out of your brain. I see you cant think straight again. Ummh... You lack wisdom at thirty, ...but the Lord pitied thee... Oya receive what is lost, receive sense and let it not depart from thee ... 1 Like
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Re: She Is Tempting Me by Boleyndynasty2(f): 6:46am On Oct 03, 2016 |
Flight07:Adult, tempt her back and stop disturbing us joor. |
Re: She Is Tempting Me by DavidTheGeek: 7:29am On Oct 03, 2016 |
Hahahaha Akanbibabatunde ! You again! Dude you're a clown! Laff wan kee me here |
Re: She Is Tempting Me by Nobody: 8:31am On Oct 03, 2016 |
golor: So you can easily conclude that someone you have never seen lacks work ethics? |
Re: She Is Tempting Me by Akanbibabatunde(m): 8:46am On Oct 03, 2016 |
DavidTheGeek: |
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