What I am about to share here is non-fiction but real life.

I had this girl whom I dated. To be honest with you, I really love her but after 4 months she decided to end the relationship on the basis of sex because I was demanding for it or often sounded naughty while talking on phone.

But in all honesty, I really loved her. I had the most powerful, intense and high voltage but romantic kiss with her that last more than 1 hour, such that after the kiss she looked into my eyes and told me "I love you", I acted like I didn't hear her and she said, " did you hear me? I said I love" (apparently, she was speaking under the influence of kiss. The kiss was damn too powerful and till date no girl has given that experience).

I was only doing all that (demanding for sex) because I had just left a relationship where I had no sex and my ex at that time gave another guy to fork her. So out of fear and trying to be on safer side, I wanted to have sex with the girl described here because I felt it will make her stay.

She left and all along I thought she left because I was demanding sex and because she felt I didn't love her but wanted to use and dump her.

She told me she does not want date for too long and that max is 1 year and she will get married. She also painted a picture of not wanting to date anyone till she is ready.( they always sound so confidence like they know the future while in a confused state ) but I guess reality has reset that reasoning.

For more than 3 years I kept trying to resolve issues. She would yell at me, insult me, call me names, tell me not to call her line again.

This year, I tried some more (don't blame me, when I love someone I hardly give up). I brought up the issue of resolving things and it was same old story. This time around, things took another dimension as she told me she now has someone else and that I should look for some or why must it be her, is she the only girl in the world.

So I asked why didn't she give m a chance even though I had been trying to resolve issues with her but she chose to be with someone else. She told me because she does not feel anything for me and that she does not love me. I felt hurt on hearing that but I persisted.


All along I still had the image in my head that she left because I was trying to have sex with her but life later revealed to me that isn't the case.

One day we were chatting and when I told her I built a virtual property for an NGO. She asked if I was paid; I said I did it voluntarily but the VP of the NGO did send me some money from the US.

On hearing that she started laughing. She said I should stop "whinning" her ( that is deceive). It was as if I do not have such capacity to command such authority that will make someone send me money from US.

It later dawned on me that she was laughing at me because she saw me as a nobody. Out of annoyance and anger, something I hardly did, I had to show transactions I had done in the past and earned dollars so she would know it isn't something new to me.

I told her I knew she had bad image of me but I never knew it was bad as she had just revealed. Then she said NO OOO that is is not what she meant and she does not look down on anyone o. Blah blah. I said I have heard her but it does not change the fact she saw me as no good.

I said no problem and we proceeded. So I decided to test something. I told her I was around sometime and would have loved to see her but couldn't ask her. She ask why and I told her because she would say no.

She said I should have called her. So I asked her to search her conscience if she hadn't been turning me down. She said it's true but I should try that it will work this time

I weak like 7 days for this your story.

kaycexx:
I weak like 7 days for this your story.

Hehehe

She be hungry womanliness nw, whyne her, flash her cash,,,,,Bleep her as u want,,,then forget her,,,,make sure ur emmotions no overcome u ooooo

tchwww you are asking about being wicked instead of you to beg for advice on how you can stop being childish. and grow up

For the first, I requested we discuss and she agreed to listen. After much talks she was just saying she didn't know I was serious. How can someone be on your neck this long and you will think he isn't serious.


We have kept on since then and one day I asked that we resolve issues and get back, she repeated same old story. She has someone, I should look for someone else blah blah... so I angrily asked her if she hasn't had sex since she left? She said yes she had it wella (mind you, she left me for same reason)

but when she needed help as they hadn't paid them allawee, she was forced to ask from me. I gave it anyway.

Though she become less hostile but it's has something to do with recent things she has discovered about me, which is I am not what she thought I was and her changes is very inclined to money.

She is no friendlier now though.

I still sent her money last week when they still hadn't paid their allawee, on receiving it s said she owes me me hug and a kiss (guys you know what that means right ) so I asked what kind of kiss am I getting, she said official kiss.

This bring me to 2 things:

She left because cos of sex and a picture that she is not interested in relationship.

Reality: she has had it!

Let's assume she left for monetary reason, why couldn't her "someone" rescue her?

Looking at the whole thing I just feel sorry for her. Yes, I still love her and I swear I had no idea she would turn up this way.

I still know she does not love me like she said but would I be wicked to just fork to my satisfaction and withdraw thereafter?

Cc: jaybillionaire

kaycexx:
I weak like 7 days for this your story.

Bro, na so. We good as u weak.

remedick:
whatever rocks your pusssy

Stop loving a nigerian girl with all your heart, una no dey hear word

remedick:
For the first, I requested we discuss and she agreed to listen. After much talks she was just saying she didn't know I was serious. How can someone be on your neck this long and you will think he isn't serious.


We have kept on since then and one day I asked that we resolve issues and get back, she repeated same old story. She has someone, I should look for someone else blah blah... so I angrily asked her if she hasn't had sex since she left? She said yes she had it wella (mind you, she left me for same reason)

but when she needed help as they hadn't paid them allawee, she was forced to ask from me. I gave it anyway.

Though she become less hostile but it's has something to do with recent things she has discovered about me, which is I am not what she thought I was and her changes is very inclined to money.

She is no friendlier now though.

I still sent her money last week when they still hadn't paid their allawee, on receiving it s said she owes me me hug and a kiss (guys you know what that means right ) so I asked what kind of kiss am I getting, she said official kiss.

This bring me to 2 things:

She left because cos of sex and a picture that she is not interested in relationship.

Reality: she has had it!

Let's assume she left for monetary reason, why couldn't her "someone" rescue her?

Looking at the whole thing I just feel sorry for her. Yes, I still love her and I swear I had no idea she would turn up this way.

I still know she does not love me like she said but would I be wicked to just fork to my satisfaction and withdraw thereafter?

Cc: jaybillionaire

*sigh* someone else said him week like 7 days on top Dis story.... But I weak like 77! Are u for real? All Dis trouble just to get kitty cat! U want my advice? She is into Ur money n I think u will lose her like Ur ex girl if u don't 'man up'... Ur just too soft abeg.....pls don't ask me what 'man up' means....

firstking01:
Stop loving a nigerian girl with all your heart, una no dey hear word

lol.. Bros, no b "with all my heart" love be this. If na that one, bros, u would have seen me taking her back.

luminouz:

*sigh* someone else said him week like 7 days on top Dis story.... But I weak like 77! Are u for real? All Dis trouble just to get kitty cat! U want my advice? She is into Ur money n I think u will lose her like Ur ex girl if u don't 'man up'... Ur just too soft abeg.....pls don't ask me what 'man up' means....

lol... nah nah nah... I have had girls since the break up. Just that my idea about her personality was wrong which current events has revealed.

Remedick, u are d type of guy dat spoil ourn names. Chai! U need 2 hot slap.
I hate it when i hear dis kind of thing, are u not a man? That bitch is not for u. Why not go look for a responsible woman.
Guy no make me vex, be a man; wake up one morning and tell her u never want to hear from her or have anything to do with her again. She has to leave ur life and stop making a mess of urself.

remedick:
lol... nah nah nah... I have had girls since the break up. Just that my idea about her personality was wrong which current events has revealed.

Correct guy! Now that u know... Please do d needful! Don't ask me what 'needful' is oo

luminouz:

Correct guy! Now that u know... Please do d needful! Don't ask me what 'needful' is oo

we dey scatter the puna baba... no time.

remedick:
lol.. Bros, no b "with all my heart" love be this. If na that one, bros, u would have seen me taking her back.

If et_all you wanna give her money do it on the basis that you tryna help her and not for her to love you.

Smallville10:
Remedick, u are d type of guy dat spoil ourn names. Chai! U need 2 hot slap.
I hate it when i hear dis kind of thing, are u not a man? That bitch is not for u. Why not go look for a responsible woman.
Guy no make me vex, be a man; wake up one morning and tell her u never want to hear from her or have anything to do with her again. She has to leave ur life and stop making a mess of urself.

it seems I didn't pass my message right based on what people are posting here.

Bro, I wise pass 3 wise men... see eh, I dey read all her lines and na me go still tell her say I know she no love me but that is after eating kpekus like isiewu and beer.

I must chop and waka. My actual question is is it wickedness on my part to treat her that way?

Yawns Story story,story story, storyyyyyyyy!

remedick:
we dey scatter the puna baba... no time.

Now there is a man after my heart! No homo!

firstking01:
If et_all you wanna give her money do it on the basis that you tryna help her and not for her to love you.

sure, not for love but to help her bro. Just that I realised she became nicer when she saw I could stand on my own.

She is now forming "seriousness" wherein I know she doesn't love me but looking for escape route.

remedick:
it seems I didn't pass my message right based on what people are posting here.

Bro, I wise pass 3 wise men... see eh, I dey read all her lines and na me go still tell her say I know she no love me but that is after eating kpekus like isiewu and beer.

I must chop and waka. My actual question is is it wickedness on my part to treat her that way?

I don't think so....after all she has been banged since 1800BC After leaving u Na!

Piercedclit:
Yawns Story story,story story, storyyyyyyyy!

so you have piercedclit?

Piercedclit:
Yawns Story story,story story, storyyyyyyyy!

I could tell u another story babe! BTW..nice nails!

luminouz:

I don't think so....after all she has been banged since 1800BC After leaving u Na!

ahan. I just play along sha. We go know how far.

luminouz:

Now there is a man after my heart! No homo!

Thank you my brother. Life isn't fair and neither should we be fair.

remedick:
so you have piercedclit?

Yea what's that

Piercedclit:


Yea what's that

yuck

firstking01:
Stop loving a nigerian girl with all your heart, una no dey hear word

Them never learn. For this Economy na 6 boyfriend to one babe and 1 sugar day to 10 babe.

remedick:
lol.. Bros, no b "with all my heart" love be this. If na that one, bros, u would have seen me taking her back.

But she doesn't want you back. Move on and stop giving her money. You are making men look bad. Next time she ask you for money tell her to come to your house and get it, try to have sex with her ( don't rape her o, no doesn't mean yes) ofcos she will refuse just give her transport money to go home . Trust me she will never ask you for money again.

remedick:
it seems I didn't pass my message right based on what people are posting here.

Bro, I wise pass 3 wise men... see eh, I dey read all her lines and na me go still tell her say I know she no love me but that is after eating kpekus like isiewu and beer.

I must chop and waka. My actual question is is it wickedness on my part to treat her that way?

its not wickedness, its unreasonable. Did she chop ur money and run away? She just doesnt deserve ur dick... U beta think

yes...it's pure wickedness.... you don't pay bad for bad brother op. inugo.....