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Re: Help! I Am Going Back To Nigeria To Find A Wife! by ghostmist: 9:35pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
Ichliebedich:Ja, ich liebe dich so sehr. wie geht's? sprechen sie Deutsch? |
Re: Help! I Am Going Back To Nigeria To Find A Wife! by armyofone(m): 9:41pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
Going to marry at home...just set your priorities right and have low expectations. Don't go marry because you are looking for someone to pick up after you or carry house chores on her head, or be a breeding machine, while taking nursing school courses per your request and holding part or full time job. |
Re: Help! I Am Going Back To Nigeria To Find A Wife! by Dyt(f): 9:46pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
Sisisioge Potentials plenty ooo You don see one wey you fit like? |
Re: Help! I Am Going Back To Nigeria To Find A Wife! by InvertedHammer: 9:52pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
manny4life:/ It was a fantasy in the 1990s with many scars afterwards just the same way some parents still shun intertribal marriages. Many Nigerian women are now marrying oyibo sef. A lot of men married to impress their parents and not for love. A lot of women married for migration and not for love. At the end, divorce rate skyrocketed because there was no foundation ab initio. \ 2 Likes |
Re: Help! I Am Going Back To Nigeria To Find A Wife! by Nobody: 9:53pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
Utchgirl: Lol. Jesus is Lord. Never thought I would ever see something like this. Desperate girls of Nairaland. 1 Like |
Re: Help! I Am Going Back To Nigeria To Find A Wife! by Humblea(m): 9:56pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
Wise decision. Welcome home |
Re: Help! I Am Going Back To Nigeria To Find A Wife! by Nobody: 9:56pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
Dyt: Sis, be sincere to yourself. Everyone knows that you are this sisisioge. You are seriously trying to get the op to notice you. 1 Like |
Re: Help! I Am Going Back To Nigeria To Find A Wife! by Nobody: 10:00pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
Utchgirl: Fresia01: agesron: esumo13: freecocoa: Desperate girls of Nairaland. A stranger comes online and says he lives in the UK and you all are already getting wet. Have some decency 2 Likes |
Re: Help! I Am Going Back To Nigeria To Find A Wife! by sisisioge: 10:03pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
Avalon316: Oga, don't get it twisted mehn...by the way, u are making me popular |
Re: Help! I Am Going Back To Nigeria To Find A Wife! by hola20: 10:03pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
ibx1976: Agreed. But it's both ways. It's hard getting to meet anyone who shares the same values. It's not just the guys. |
Re: Help! I Am Going Back To Nigeria To Find A Wife! by Dyt(f): 10:06pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
Avalon316: Has your balls suddenly shifted ways? I troubled the Op back in the year 2011 I am a proud mother and taken all around |
Re: Help! I Am Going Back To Nigeria To Find A Wife! by chrisj2(m): 10:06pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
armyofone: I don't understand! The post is full of holes... Why have low expectations? What is that bit about carrying house chores on her head And as for taking nursing course or holding part or full time jobs - what is wrong with that? In the UK and probably in Nigeria, it will be hard to be one-salary family unless the breadwinner is mega loaded. It should be about partnership and having more or less the same vision - a good strong and tight family and very good prospects and future for their offsprings; not showing off, keeping up with the Jones and worrying too much about satisfying relatives in Nja and elsewhere. If he finds the person for himself then he also has to work hard at making the whole thing work because you cannot bring someone from Nja and expect that person not to live like most people do in the UK - as long as it is sensible and not antagonistic then it should all be fine. In the Uk, the man cannot get away with abusing the woman or expecting her to work as a quasi-housegirl or baby making machine as you put it; she will soon leave or throw the man out... 1 Like |
Re: Help! I Am Going Back To Nigeria To Find A Wife! by sisisioge: 10:06pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
Dyt: Wowzerful! I'm so gonna read every single post in here ...you are making me popular babes. |
Re: Help! I Am Going Back To Nigeria To Find A Wife! by Mcowubaba: 10:08pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
agesron:Wat about me Is it because I am in Gabon, I will go to London 1 day ooo 1 Like |
Re: Help! I Am Going Back To Nigeria To Find A Wife! by grandstar(m): 10:08pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
ibx1976: My best advise is don't make these mistakes: 1. Live a fake life Do not pretend to be what you're not. If you are cleaning toilets in the UK, let her know. If you're a doctor, let her know. If you live in a poor part of town, let her know. If it's Mayfair let her know. If there's high crime in your place, let her know. If low, let her know. Come open! 2. Let her know what to expect. Don't leave any stone unturned. For instance, tell her what £2.000 a month salary will get you there. That is May be 1.1m here, but much over there. Tell her how much rent is. What it can get. Inform her the cost of doing her hair etc. Inform her what kind of job will be available for her. Her potential earnings. Also, inform her if your job will keep you from home a lot. Come clean. The reason why I am saying this is that most Nigerians going abroad don't know what to expect especially when they see how Nigerian returnees blow cash. So when she gets there, she will be expect you're staying in a 3 bedroom flat in a posh part of town. Some don't even know poverty exist in Europe amongst whites. If she gets there and become disillusioned and feels betrayed because you did not open up, your marriage is half dead already. That's one reason many guys who come home to Pick their wives have difficulties. They loose the respect of their wives Please don't make the same mistake. it's better you're blunt and honest than suffer the consequences later. 6 Likes |
Re: Help! I Am Going Back To Nigeria To Find A Wife! by Dyt(f): 10:10pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
sisisioge: I wanna buy asoebi and eat jollof rice jor I think chrisj2 is single |
Re: Help! I Am Going Back To Nigeria To Find A Wife! by chrisj2(m): 10:12pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
hola20: Yes, it is hard especially in the UK with people spread all over the place except for Peckham - lol. Moreover, there is not that much time with people of a certain age and in certain profession. I have to say that, I do not expect all the values to be the same but certain fundamentals cannot and should not be compromised away; for him, it is overly religious types, loud and ostentatious types and people that cannot help putting their extended family in the way of getting on with their own lives and creating a great future for their own children. |
Re: Help! I Am Going Back To Nigeria To Find A Wife! by sisisioge: 10:17pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
Dyt: Hmmm... I'm so adding you to the guest list whether the bobo comes from NL or not! chrisj2? Checking him out straight up. By the way, keep the pointers coming...it makes it a lot easier cos I'm still on page one since morning Modified: The guy is abroad...too catty for across the ocean fancies |
Re: Help! I Am Going Back To Nigeria To Find A Wife! by hopeforcharles(m): 10:20pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
Justmary06:Not a bad idea as long as you are good, Meanwhile for a start email me let's start there. |
Re: Help! I Am Going Back To Nigeria To Find A Wife! by chrisj2(m): 10:24pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
Dyt: You are guys are killing me... This is so funny! I do not mind the jolof rice and even the parties but please no ASO EBI - how many will one have to buy in one's life time. I hate them! The last one I will buy will be for my mum's passing and that will be it! By the way, I have a huge extended family: many uncles and aunts on paternal and maternal side and then the cousins, the grand children, the in-laws and so on and so on. Yes, I am single, but Like I said not desperate and I am not even into having a large nuclear family: its me and mine and 2.X kids. Thank you! |
Re: Help! I Am Going Back To Nigeria To Find A Wife! by Ewuro4: 10:27pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
armyofone: Hehehe this Amy sef, wetin dem dey look for native girls before? Glorified housemaid- go nursing school-ATM don cook I don't take those kinda men serious atall. What they don't understand is home based chicks eye tear pass that 'independent' sister in diaspora. Obo n gbobo gope 1 Like |
Re: Help! I Am Going Back To Nigeria To Find A Wife! by Dyt(f): 10:30pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
Re: Help! I Am Going Back To Nigeria To Find A Wife! by chrisj2(m): 10:31pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
sisisioge: What guest list? I will be in Nja on gardening leave from January 2016 - for a few months at the start then may be more if I do not get too bored or fed up of the family and the village life in Ogun State. But I am definitely going native and am looking forward... Like I said, just to get the Nja vibes back. Now time for bed - early start for me... Good night all! |
Re: Help! I Am Going Back To Nigeria To Find A Wife! by Ewuro4: 10:32pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
Avalon316: Too funny 1 Like |
Re: Help! I Am Going Back To Nigeria To Find A Wife! by ibx1976: 10:33pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
grandstar:Thanks for the advice. I can confirm I played the above card once and the person involved refused. That was back in the day when "ground never level". To this day I still wonder if it was the truth I spoke or that I was not handsome enough Nevertheless I still trust my missing rib is in naija |
Re: Help! I Am Going Back To Nigeria To Find A Wife! by Dyt(f): 10:34pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
chrisj2: Awwwww He wanna get hooked sisisioge |
Re: Help! I Am Going Back To Nigeria To Find A Wife! by Dyt(f): 10:36pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
ibx1976: Finally Fate has brought us back after how many years Come Come Come to me |
Re: Help! I Am Going Back To Nigeria To Find A Wife! by sisisioge: 10:37pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
Hmmmm... Read enough. It's quite exhilarating to know that men are getting more vocal about the singleton situation these days. Gone are those days when being single past twenties is a stigma for women alone...hallelujah! @ OP, if you are truly searching...may God help you find the right person. Searching and finding the One is indeed an ultimate search! Geskia, I wish you success. |
Re: Help! I Am Going Back To Nigeria To Find A Wife! by sisisioge: 10:38pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
Dyt: Babes! Stop nau...u don pursue the dude go sleep now |
Re: Help! I Am Going Back To Nigeria To Find A Wife! by Dyt(f): 10:39pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
Re: Help! I Am Going Back To Nigeria To Find A Wife! by sisisioge: 10:49pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
Dyt: Chai, ID you no dey language savvy! Bobo don already give him details but no look my face, yet you come say my I still begin dey chase am Kai, u no sabi how these butty bobos dey do? Biko, na my 100% daddy Ejima I dey find jor. But you try...well done you fit redirect your enthusiasm towards finding my baba Ejima biko thanks babes |
Re: Help! I Am Going Back To Nigeria To Find A Wife! by wristbangle: 10:55pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
Fresia01: . Am just kidding. Didn't mean what I said. |
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