RiloKiley:


Dearie, you are new age too. Which blades or needles or other sharp objects would he share with his kids?

Once again, apologies but
Your story is made up.

VikingsOO7:
We live in a society where getting a divorce comes with some sort of stigma. We will rather pray fast and lament, than using our God giving brain in making simple decisions.

anonimi:


You sef!
The two highlighted portions above are at variance with each other.
You may wish to review them.
Cheers.

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Thanks, Quintee

onatisi:

Religion has caused lots of problem in the Nigerian society. 99% of problems ppl take to be spiritual are just problems due to lack of wisdom and knowledge. If ppl will be honest with themselves and search themselves very well they will see that the solutions to their problems is right in front of them. I wont be surprised if someone comes along and says that the man needs deliverance from evil spirit,just watch

Even God will be laughing at us. He took his time in giving each and every one of us a brain. Yet we run to Him for things we can do ourselves.
May God help us.

VikingsOO7:
Even God will be laughing at us. He took his time in giving each and every one of us a brain. Yet we run to Him for things we can do ourselves.
May God help us. [/b]

anonimi:


Cc: ItsQuinn

sisisioge:


OK o, no probs. By the way, my sis and I still share razor blades...we try not to but we still do. Ambosisi children and parents. It is well! Enjoy your day buddy.

anonimi:


Knowing for certain that he is clean will take some 3-6 months for HIV.
Thereafter, there is no guarantee that he will REMAIN clean.
Is that not too much wahala with DEATH risks for a childless marriage of just five years?


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5minsmadness:


Better a nagging wife than a dead one.

You would be surprised napa's husband sees her as the quiet type. She herself described her lifestyle as triangular. It is possible communication (real heartfelt communication) is an issue, maybe she hardly complains or raises hell when she catches him cheating.

More nagging talking on her part might open the way for him to express his true feelings.

@napa pls note that his behavior is his fault alone. No one is balming you for anything. We are simpky trying to come up with a solution that will be best for everyone, you and him included.

Joavid:
A married man goes to the extent of traveling out of the country to cheat ?? just to Bleep??

haaaa

op, among other advice, help him help yourself in ways you can to make sure you don't get deadly STD's.

Sukkot.

Teespice:
according to toks2008, he said that you should keep forgiving your husband till he's tired of the union and he walks out.

so dearest op, keep forgiving him.

Joavid:
A married man goes to the extent of traveling out of the country to cheat?? just to Bleep??

haaaa

op, among other advice, help him help yourself in ways you can to make sure you don't get deadly STD's.

Sukkot.

Dyt:
I can't believe what I am reading on this threwad
This is most ridiculous


For five years?
Different women?
Your husband is a serial killer ma'am

And you are being adviced to pray, check yourself and ask questions?


Oh God have mercy

A CHEAT IS ALWAYS A CHEAT
THAT MAN WONT FECKING CHANGE
CHOOSE TO DEAL WITH DISEASES, EMOTIONAL TORTURE, MENTAL INSTABILITY, AND WHAT NOTS OR THE HECK LEAVE


Hypocrites will flood me with mentions now
Awon oloriburuku
As if they can take it

napa:
We've been married for five years and he has cheated all through these years. He keeps late nights without any tangible reason. He travels in and out of Nigeria for the purpose of meeting different women, he chats dirty with different women. He calls random women at home e.t.c. He is also very quick to apologise and promise to turn a new leaf anytime I confront him with evidences.
The issue here is I'm getting really fed up of his kind of life style, I feel he is taking me for granted and just playing on my emotions because he knows there is nothing I can do after his apologies. He too relaxed with me and feels he can do anything and get away with it. I work and he does too but he knows I live a triangular kind of life. From work back home then to church, I'm more of a homely person. I'm beginning to think it's my fault for him not getting on his toes. I don't intend reporting him to any of his family members because he won't be chastised.

I need candid and matured advice please.

napa:
We've been married for five years and he has cheated all through these years. He keeps late nights without any tangible reason. He travels in and out of Nigeria for the purpose of meeting different women, he chats dirty with different women. He calls random women at home e.t.c. He is also very quick to apologise and promise to turn a new leaf anytime I confront him with evidences.
The issue here is I'm getting really fed up of his kind of life style, I feel he is taking me for granted and just playing on my emotions because he knows there is nothing I can do after his apologies. He too relaxed with me and feels he can do anything and get away with it. I work and he does too but he knows I live a triangular kind of life. From work back home then to church, I'm more of a homely person. I'm beginning to think it's my fault for him not getting on his toes. I don't intend reporting him to any of his family members because he won't be chastised.

I need candid and matured advice please.

napa:
We've been married for five years and he has cheated all through these years. He keeps late nights without any tangible reason. He travels in and out of Nigeria for the purpose of meeting different women, he chats dirty with different women. He calls random women at home e.t.c. He is also very quick to apologise and promise to turn a new leaf anytime I confront him with evidences.
The issue here is I'm getting really fed up of his kind of life style, I feel he is taking me for granted and just playing on my emotions because he knows there is nothing I can do after his apologies. He too relaxed with me and feels he can do anything and get away with it. I work and he does too but he knows I live a triangular kind of life. From work back home then to church, I'm more of a homely person. I'm beginning to think it's my fault for him not getting on his toes. I don't intend reporting him to any of his family members because he won't be chastised.

I need candid and matured advice please.

anonimi:
If you don't have children still, based on your old posts, you should seriously consider divorce.
You are taking the risk of having STDs, including HIV/AIDS, from him.
Ask yourself, why would you want to continue putting yourself in such risks deliberately

napa:
We've been married for five years and he has cheated all through these years. He keeps late nights without any tangible reason. He travels in and out of Nigeria for the purpose of meeting different women, he chats dirty with different women. He calls random women at home e.t.c. He is also very quick to apologise and promise to turn a new leaf anytime I confront him with evidences.
The issue here is I'm getting really fed up of his kind of life style, I feel he is taking me for granted and just playing on my emotions because he knows there is nothing I can do after his apologies. He too relaxed with me and feels he can do anything and get away with it. I work and he does too but he knows I live a triangular kind of life. From work back home then to church, I'm more of a homely person. I'm beginning to think it's my fault for him not getting on his toes. I don't intend reporting him to any of his family members because he won't be chastised.

I need candid and matured advice please.

Toks2008:


You nailed it. Most Ladies have the wonderful heart of forgiveness but guys have a terribly hard mind which made Jesus allow them to divorce their wives on same adultery that a lady is expected to keep forgiving him for.