Nothing to fear in my marriage. It's just the fear of commitment and responsibilities.

Funny comments

Titilayooni:
Afraid of been tired of the love we initially shared....

As a guy, this also is my fear.

Hu dey fear?

afraid of poverty. any other thing na wash.
money money money

I actually have none because I am going to trust God .

without him I have tons of fears and excuses but from meeting her(from the first day ) to the Altar I will be growing and improving myself

Fear of shyness...undressing in front of my partner and sharing things

ItsQuinn:
I don't know about other women but this is my own fear

So you want to be walking freely....

Lack of "freedom" and "mamaput"! Mama Nkechi and i have an understanding that transcends the physical........... Then "hello where are you"?

my brother my babe na still 17 waiting for her to clock dey fear me.

My biggest fear is ending up with a woman who thinks she is a deity that needs sacrifices you cannot afford. I don't want to die earlier than I should. There's a reason why mortality rate is higher among men than women.

emmykk:
So you want to be walking freely....

Yes I like my freedom

Life in general is a huge 'WHAT IF'..... but it doesn't stop one from trying.

Everyone has fears, it's best not to focus on it but do your own part instead.

Abeg my fone was just stolen can the person get rid of all locks i activated including anti-theft?

Mine is financial instability...just that! I can't stand seeing my darling wifey and my loving children pass through financial burden. This can kill my fastly.

Alimony

The fear of emulating her parents’ marriage (distance, fighting, loveless marriage)..

Scared of not marrying the right man.....

Fairgodwin:
My ONLY fear is the fact that I won't be able to stay alone anymore. The fact that I won't be able to sleep alone and wake innocently alone. Oh I so much enjoy being alone and spending time with myself all by myself.

somethings are better done & enjoyed alone.... even tho I may seek help or company at times, I still love been on my own & living life without seeking another's opinion. We share the same fear

Dreamwaker:


Then you will have to fall back in love again or even back flip in love

How does thar happen

Marriage! The only institution you get your certificate first before going into the whole wahala, program, union, school, etc.
My only fear no get answer cux you can't live with women and you can't live without women!

I've long convinced myself that I can't stand a partner talk less of getting bloody married! Just broke up with a girlfriend god! it got suffocating I couldn't breath! I can't stand those things it's clearly not for me and I won't delude myself into thinking otherwise I wasn't born with that gene, getting married, having kids too much trouble! with the state Nigeria is right now it's safer to face this hellhole alone, and I cherish me some alone time. Can't imagine sharing my bed for the rest of days..i love sleeping alone my bed is sacred! then being someone's emotional and mental dustbin for the rest of our lives..Marriage is too demanding it should be banned!!!!!!! ;DI've long convinced myself that I can't stand a partner talk less of getting bloody married! Just broke up with a girlfriend god! it got suffocating I couldn't breath! I can't stand those things it's clearly not for me and I won't delude myself into thinking otherwise I wasn't born with that gene, getting married, having kids too much trouble! with the state Nigeria is right now it's safer to face this hellhole alone, and I cherish me some alone time. Can't imagine sharing my bed for the rest of days..i love sleeping alone my bed is sacred! then being someone's emotional and mental dustbin for the rest of our lives..Marriage is too demanding it should be banned!!!!!!!

telemapreye1:
Fear of shyness...undressing in front of my partner and sharing things

see this one.

LMAO abeg open yansh jare. make I chook my hand jo

I've long convinced myself that I can't stand a partner talk less of getting bloody married! Just broke up with a girlfriend god! it got suffocating I couldn't breath! I can't stand those things it's clearly not for me and I won't delude myself into thinking otherwise I wasn't born with that gene, getting married, having kids too much trouble! with the state Nigeria is right now it's safer to face this hellhole alone, and I cherish me some alone time. Can't imagine sharing my bed for the rest of days..i love sleeping alone my bed is sacred! then being someone's emotional and mental dustbin for the rest of our lives..Marriage is too demanding it should be banned!!!!!!! !!

ItsQuinn:
I don't know about other women but this is my own fear

Who b dat person for your dp ooo

Na dat one b my fear

What if it turns out that she isn't the person that I thought she was.
I mean a lot of stories of marriages on the verge of divorce scares the hell out of me.
Will I be faithful to her till death. Every now and then you'll always come across people that are more beautiful that the other. These things scares the hell out of me.

Hmmm...I'm afraid of plenty things.

I'm afraid he might turn out to be a vampire. A wife beater, a selfish azzzhole...

I'm afraid of divorce. It's very very important I get it right. For very personal reason, divorce is actually to be avoided like a plague. I most likely would just rather the guy don't turn push to shove for me. He should biko not let that hit our table.

I'm afraid of plenty house chores. The guy shouldn't turn me to his maid biko...I can't do all those darn chores alone!

I'm afraid of us falling out of love. Jeez! I'm a cat, I'm the all-over-the-guy kinda girl. I can't imagine being with someone I don't wanna hug a 100times a day. Omg! KO le work mehn!

I'm afraid he might cheat on me...if he does and I know. Whew, guy don kill me be that.

I'm afraid of not having kids...I love em lil people like kilode. The small noses, small hands, big hearts, beautiful eyes...omg! I must have them! I think I would die if I don't get them. My fertility isn't questionable o, I'm just saying. Plus thank God for fertility treatment!

I'm afraid of growing old alone. I'm afraid the guy might decide not to be my friend anymore in our sixties. What if my bobo doesn't wanna be my friend any more? What if what if?

Oh, I'm afraid he might become so bossy and treat me like he's my ancestor. Yeah we know he's the boss but pls, what if the guy demotes me from the second in command position to God knows where?

What if he stops listening to me...

What if his mom gives me hell...

What if he decides to disrespect my family...

What if what if what if he just turn out to be an SOB! After all, naa man I wan marry.

LuvU2:
How does thar happen

I can't say that on here, it's too graphic

to find out out my wife never loved me and only married me because of reasons best known to her

that will be scary!

dejavubobo1:

somethings are better done & enjoyed alone.... even tho I may seek help or company at times, I still love been on my own & living life without seeking another's opinion. We share the same fear

I believe so

Ifakiland:
Am actually scared of marrying the wrong woman. Cos gals av a way of changing after wedding, d angelic make up filled face turns into a pimples colony early in d mrn in bed with u....den she starts getting fat, skipping baths, nagging, etc.
I'm also scared am gonna cheat on my wife...if she stops been d gal I fell in love with after wedding!

guy you and i have a lot in common

telemapreye1:
Fear of shyness...undressing in front of my partner and sharing things

Sharing things?? Are you stingy or what?

Lol... Lot of funny comments.