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Re: My Serial Cheating Husband Keeps Begging For Forgiveness by Dyt(f): 5:05pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
toyetade: It happened to you don't mean it will happen to someone else It's people like you that prefers to die by cutlass in the name of being married Oshisko 5 Likes |
Re: My Serial Cheating Husband Keeps Begging For Forgiveness by Nobody: 5:07pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
Okay truthsayer007: |
Re: My Serial Cheating Husband Keeps Begging For Forgiveness by Dyt(f): 5:07pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
Akinaukwa: Ngokafor: |
Re: My Serial Cheating Husband Keeps Begging For Forgiveness by YabaLeftist: 5:11pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
Nothing can be done to change an incorrigible adulterer. Sorry. My fear is that you are at a high risk of contracting any of the horrible STDs out there. Advise him to use a condom and pray to God to arrest him in the most dramatic fashion. 2 Likes |
Re: My Serial Cheating Husband Keeps Begging For Forgiveness by Naturalle(f): 5:22pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
Kai... na wa! @Op, if I were him, I will so CHEAT on you. I will cheat on you so hard to even ask for further help to cheat on you the more. Look at you... your hubby sleeps around for 5 years and when he comes back you cook food and then spread your legs for him. You are his enabler. You are enabling him to cheat on you. What is unclear to you or what u haven't seen is the myriad of women who have been infected by philandering husbands. They go to hiv clinics weekly or get treatment for hbp n other std's. Is it by force to suffer just so that the men on nairaland who are telling u to pray will say you are a good woman? If u still decide to wallow in ur misery, pls close ur legs and stop allowing that man to eat his cake n have it. The Lord is your strength either ways. 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Serial Cheating Husband Keeps Begging For Forgiveness by Reginasam: 5:24pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
Some of we ladies cause all dis problem to ourselves,wen u guys were courting u always dress sexily,u guys hang out together bt now dat u are married u will jst relax wen he ask dat u both should hang out u will complain dat u are tire or wen he is asking for his right u will say u are tire sometimes Dey will wear trouser to bed sometimes Dey wouldn't shower before sleeping now tell me Wat do u expect d man to do wen u don't meet his need and anoda mistake is wen u guys were courting did he show dis attitude if yes den u are to blame urself becos if he couldn't change during courtship den he wouldn't change wen he is married and also check d life styles of his frds too if Dey are also doing d same thing,thirdly check urself if u hv fail on ur duty bt if u hv nt den sit him down talk to him make him understand ur pains too, tell him to go for a test before u can allow him touch u and also follow him up with prayers bt if with all dis and he fail to change my dear walk out of d marriage for good nt wen u are death becos if u keep on complaining abt him he wil get tire and will be force to hit u. |
Re: My Serial Cheating Husband Keeps Begging For Forgiveness by Style007(m): 5:26pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
madam. I will advice you to have a heart to heart talk with your husband. I know people will tell you that you should not disturb yourself that who wants to cheat will cheat... ignore that type of advice he is your husband and you know her more than all of us put together do. you can help him, as you said he apologize to you whenever you confront him. it shows he still have conscience and their is still hope for him to change. no marriage is perfect it is only when one tell you about his/hers that u will know men are polygamous by nature. but cheating in marriage is very bad. there is this Igbo proverb that says "all dogs eats shit but its only the one that eats and didn't clean the mouth that people see" NOW THE ADVICE tell him how bitter u are. and how his actions are affecting you negatively. explain to him about how he can contact infections 'he knows that but still tell him' be emotional, cry if you feel like. beg him to forgive you if you have done anything wrong to him... after all this 'if he have conscience he will beg you to forgive him' forgive him with hot se.x ....yes now try to look out for things u guys should be doing together. bath together even if u have done yours before he came back, still bath with him.. be more romantic. be naughty sometimes, send him naughty messages sometimes if he is at work. call him on phone and tell him u miss him... look for places both of you will be going together... be it gym,wedding, outing, party.... does he like football dress sexy and follow him to field... start looking good for him. be classy but dress like a married woman.. when u are with him dress the way people will compliment ur look... it will make him happy and proud of you some of his friends that knows his bad ways may even join to advice him like "so u have this pretty wife and still chase girls" all those words will go a long way to change him I know all these are what he suppose to be doing but dear understand marriage is a two way thing not a bf and a gf kinda relationship... their is a huge difference between a girl and a woman..... BE A WOMAN...... CHEERS pardon my errors I have no time to proof read 2 Likes |
Re: My Serial Cheating Husband Keeps Begging For Forgiveness by QuietHammer(m): 5:28pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
ItsQuinn: You and silly advice are inseparable. Take the good lady's advice; stick to the romance section 4 Likes |
Re: My Serial Cheating Husband Keeps Begging For Forgiveness by bettercreature(m): 5:30pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
napa:I hope he is not the same alcoholic addict you were talking about on January 25, 2015,anyway I will advice you to be very patient with him he will change soon,I have a brother like that,he didn't care about his wife or his entire family until his early 40s just be patient some guys are like that. Some times its a problem when you marry a young rich guy especially one that has lot of time to flex around.be patient it won't be long he will come back home |
Re: My Serial Cheating Husband Keeps Begging For Forgiveness by Excelboi(m): 5:34pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
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Re: My Serial Cheating Husband Keeps Begging For Forgiveness by Nobody: 5:35pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
No QuietHammer: 1 Like |
Re: My Serial Cheating Husband Keeps Begging For Forgiveness by Nobody: 5:36pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
Dyt:I've just checked your profile and find out you are into gambling and pool, so you are not my type to discuss with. |
Re: My Serial Cheating Husband Keeps Begging For Forgiveness by Nobody: 5:44pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
Teespice: you're so right. I hate divorce. But the op's hubby is something else. he's calling girls in her presence and traveling out to cheat abi I didn't read well ni if Na me, I will dust my belongings and run from that marriage. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Serial Cheating Husband Keeps Begging For Forgiveness by Dyt(f): 5:48pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
toyetade: I dont deal with people with low self esteem Get well soon 1 Like |
Re: My Serial Cheating Husband Keeps Begging For Forgiveness by Maxvasia(m): 5:54pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
Well my candid contribution is that it is obvious that there is something you are not doing right as evidenced by you, bringing ur marital issues which are meant to be sacred, to the public, which in turn is a good enough reason why he is stupid to have married u in the first place. You need self introspection and reorientation. Marriage is supposed to be sacred to u and not a matter to be discussed on Nairaland with people u dont even know. |
Re: My Serial Cheating Husband Keeps Begging For Forgiveness by NemzySeries(m): 5:55pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
do a research & findout wat doz galz are giving him dat U're not.......ur triangular bearing might b a factor as ωєℓℓ tho not supporting him & maybe u shd b more crious & straight 4ward wen u take decisions |
Re: My Serial Cheating Husband Keeps Begging For Forgiveness by repogirl(f): 6:01pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
Wow...this is hard. Plsssss don't mind any idíot chastising you that you are not doing this or that. You are not to blame in anyway. A cheat is a cheat who will find a reason to cheat. If it were me, I would threaten to cheat on him back just to see what he would say. If he says pls don't, then he still has feelings for you and there might be hope for your marriage but if he says that the marriage will end, then you know your marriage needs to end. Finally, it's up to you, you obviously want to save your marriage...so I will advise you to use condom when you are doing it before you contract something from one of his numerous friends, and ofcourse commit it to prayer. There's obviously something wrong somewhere with him. 1 Like |
Re: My Serial Cheating Husband Keeps Begging For Forgiveness by Nobody: 6:03pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
sukkot: if the tables were turned now and it's the man complaining, you won't say Yah is punishing him o you won't say the man is has pot belly and needs to hit the gym. |
Re: My Serial Cheating Husband Keeps Begging For Forgiveness by repogirl(f): 6:06pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
Maxvasia:shut up jare! Do you know who she is? Do you have her name, contact details and picture from anything she wrote up there. If you do, pls go and report to her husband who I am sure you are in support of. Hypocrite, if you have nothing to say, pls keep shut. This is a faceless and nameless place, anybody can talk about their problems. 4 Likes |
Re: My Serial Cheating Husband Keeps Begging For Forgiveness by repogirl(f): 6:10pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
Style007:very good advice 2 Likes |
Re: My Serial Cheating Husband Keeps Begging For Forgiveness by joanana(f): 6:14pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
Bia Op first a cheat will always remain a cheat until you take it to God in prayers . Theres nothing God cannot do. Like some one said hes addicted to sex and he needs prayers. My advice is for you never to sleep with him without protection. Think about your life and the future of your kids. If he demands that you sleep with him without protection tell him to got to lab for test HIV and stds to know that hes clean. I dont understand some men.. you have a beautiful wife at home that loves you with everything and has dedicated her life to be with you forever .....he doest repect and value the sanctity of marriage. Some men cheats but they do it far from home. come on ... this is serious. Lord Jesus i put this husband in your hands cos he doesnt know hwts hes doing to his wife. My dear if it is possible report him to an elder or if hes catholic report him to the priest . hes inflicting the worse torture anyman can do to his woman... emotional torture. Its not fair at all. You are in my prayers love |
Re: My Serial Cheating Husband Keeps Begging For Forgiveness by montezz(f): 6:15pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
ItsQuinn:The way you reason ehn... Family section is not for you dear. Go back to romance section where you obviously belong. 1 Like |
Re: My Serial Cheating Husband Keeps Begging For Forgiveness by Vikky014(f): 6:15pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
Teespice:hahahaha. i know he will avoid dis thread... op please work on your self esteem..he is taking you for granted |
Re: My Serial Cheating Husband Keeps Begging For Forgiveness by mavinkalot: 6:16pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
Hello madam, please madam just believe in what I am about to tell you. I know how it hurts. If I say pray for him or show him love in a particular way, that too is so hard since you are psychologically and mentally losing it. My aunt faced same issue with her husband and she applied my advice. The man changed and even repented. My advice is go look for a movie entitled WAR ROOM. Sit with your hubby in a relaxed time and watch it with him. Madam I said watch it with him. At the end of the movie, what ever is the instantaneous response or behavior from both of you is acceptable. You will be glad at this advice if you heed to it. Just do what I told you. Be blessed. Worst case: make sure you watch it and try and convince him to watch the movie too even if both of you couldn't watch it together. 1 Like |
Re: My Serial Cheating Husband Keeps Begging For Forgiveness by Toks2008(m): 6:19pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
Vikky014: Of all people you should know better that im too intellectual to chicken out...i have already responded so scroll up or check previous pages for my comment. |
Re: My Serial Cheating Husband Keeps Begging For Forgiveness by Vikky014(f): 6:22pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
Toks2008:hahahaha. i dnt hv dt time ooo..make i guess. u told her to keep forgiving him |
Re: My Serial Cheating Husband Keeps Begging For Forgiveness by sevule(m): 6:24pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
You do realize that you have provided a CONDUCIVE environment for your husband to cheat, right? Your husband goes out to cheat, then comes back and you prepare his favourite food for him and probably have sex with him later. Men, your husband has it all good and HAS NO DESIRE to change! For goodness sake why should he change when you have demonstrated that you are nothing more than a doormat? Right now there is ONLY one option and that is SEPARATION. Pack your belongings and move back to your father's house, plain and simple! Do not bother to inform him or he would beg you and your resolve would falter. If he truly wants you he would beg you to come back to him. THEN you have to set down your conditions and let him know that the next time he cheats would be the last time as you would divorce him. I am speaking as a married man and I can tell you that your husband has ABSOLUTELY NO RESPECT FOR YOU. The choice is yours - separate from him now in order to mend your broken marriage OR stay with a non repentant cheat and remain miserable. 5 Likes |
Re: My Serial Cheating Husband Keeps Begging For Forgiveness by Nobody: 6:25pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
See discrimination montezz: 1 Like |
Re: My Serial Cheating Husband Keeps Begging For Forgiveness by Toks2008(m): 6:28pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
Vikky014: When you have time you can check. The mystery of marriage is that it can only work between two forgivers |
Re: My Serial Cheating Husband Keeps Begging For Forgiveness by vallyjohn: 6:32pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
if you know what is good for you,look at him,if you see that change is not forthcoming.... get a divorce, consistent heartbreak shortens life span....you may think you're gifted with longsuffering as a gift of the holyspirit not until he shares h.I.v with you |
Re: My Serial Cheating Husband Keeps Begging For Forgiveness by Nobody: 6:32pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
After reading the comments double standard indeed, most are telling the woman to endure if it were the reverse you will hear otherwise. Pls no time move on if you Ave too, marriage is overrated anyway 1 Like |
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