babyfaceafrica:
No fears,what will be will be

That's a bad mentality.... Wat will be could changed

Fairgodwin:
My ONLY fear is the fact that I won't be able to stay alone anymore. The fact that I won't be able to sleep alone and wake innocently alone. Oh I so much enjoy being alone and spending time with myself all by myself.

you sound selfish... learn to share the beauty of your mind and experiences with people. cos when it's all over, we would wish we had enough physical contact.

getting married to someone that grows out of shape and become unattractive

jeff1607:
I know money, financial status, mental preparedness and more are necessary in marriage but putting all that aside what are yours fears? Mine has a lot of what ifs


what if in the long run it gets boring with everything looking like a routine with the fire that was present initially, will she try to rekindle it? As we know most ladies (not all) tend to wait for the guy to everything to spice it all up, from kinky gossips or just gisting.

What if she doesn't have time for me and probably loves the kids more?

what if love making becomes more like a chore or routine, would she try to spice it up and become more adventurous?

what if am no more would she be able to handle everything all on her own ( men die before that wives).

what if she changes during the course of marriage ( like show her true colour or character)


what if she can't bear the usual hustle and bustle in marriage and decides to quit? ( marriage isn't all smooth)


Experienced minds can help out here and you can share yours too.

#nuffsaid

Honestly, i'm scared of myself....not my partner

Afraid of marrying late, marrying someone who I'm not crazy about, not being cared for, becoming a housewife, not maximizing my potentials cos of marriage, being maltreated,my heart belonging to someone else

Chukazu:
getting married to someone that grows out of shape and become unattractive

Blimey!

Why so mean?



You're right tho. When you get hitched with an early bloomer who would most likely lose it in her 30s. Then you tend to miss out on the late boomers who start life in their 30s and the young blossoming into supreme beauties. Hell nah, trill nyggahs wanna stay macking.

stubbornman:

That's a bad mentality.... Wat will be could changed

nah,what will be will be,that's why a lot of things are unexplanable,some people read a lot but fail,some people don't real too much but pass,some people have aborted 10 times but they will still have children,some people were virgins when they got married ,but are still childless after 15 years...que sera sera

I got only one fear and that is the fear of being cheated on. That one would break me for sure.

scent9:

yh i rilly do hav d fear of marriage. I'm scared of pregnancy, d whole process in it I'm nt sure I'll b able to go through such & secondly sex, i have phobia for it, don't just knw wat to do.

everything you need to be pregnant and bear children has been deposited in you from the day your moma gave birth to you, so when the time comes it would happen natural... As for sex, it's normal

Fear of marrying a liability. Fear of marrying someone who doesn't who is not afraid of breakup cos I no 1 marry 2 wives n I don't want my children to xperience single parent. Fear of marrying a woman who will later turn to a bomblast in d house or troublemaker. Fear of marrying a woman who is a free sharer. As dis will make man life span short

babyfaceafrica:
nah,what will be will be,that's why a lot of things are unexplanable,some people read a lot but fail,some people don't real too much but pass,some people have aborted 10 times but they will still have children,some people were virgins when they got married ,but are still childless after 15 years...que sera sera

Its a mindset bro...I don't believe in this philosophy..... Things are always bound to Change

grandlexuz:


That is where compromise plays a big role my brother. Every man is scared of that day when he finally catches his woman with another. It is unthinkable to many men. However when it finally happens it burns down your pride and puts you to the floor..Lol My first marriage ended after I found out the woman I could swear for was being banged by an elderly man. It was the biggest shock of my life. However I was willing to forgive her. It was the shame and guilt that took her out though! My brother man no die man no rotten.

but why are women like this??

the day I caught my ex I also could have sworn that she would never do something like that.

stubbornman:

Its a mindset bro...I don't believe in this philosophy..... Things are always bound to Change

if you say so,just know that if you force change a element there are dire consequences

The fear of sharing my loving husband with other ladies,

jeff1607:
I know money, financial status, mental preparedness and more are necessary in marriage but putting all that aside what are yours fears? Mine has a lot of what ifs


what if in the long run it gets boring with everything looking like a routine with the fire that was present initially, will she try to rekindle it? As we know most ladies (not all) tend to wait for the guy to everything to spice it all up, from kinky gossips or just gisting.

What if she doesn't have time for me and probably loves the kids more?

what if love making becomes more like a chore or routine, would she try to spice it up and become more adventurous?

what if am no more would she be able to handle everything all on her own ( men die before that wives).

what if she changes during the course of marriage ( like show her true colour or character)


what if she can't bear the usual hustle and bustle in marriage and decides to quit? ( marriage isn't all smooth)


Experienced minds can help out here and you can share yours too.

#nuffsaid

My number 1 fear is living with a stranger for the rest of my life. With the kind of ladies we are left with, i can't shake the feeling that it's not going to work out.

jeff1607:


Am guessing the fear of complications, CS etc right? Have u read up epidurals? Might calmur nerves

bros were u born in may? Ur signature

samuel051:
scared of bringing in another persons child(wife) and innocent children to d world to suffer what i suffered, because you just cant predict Nigeria's economy...

Worst FEAR

richywhales:

Worst FEAR

am telling you. bro

Melonny:
will I really sleep(remain faithful) with just one woman for 20-26 years after marriage? it's like eating beans everyday for 26years.
God help us...

Bad guy

Scared of APC scam chanji

Fear of marriage itself.

I have seen a lot of marriages fail before me and it's really scary as I do feel mine might crash too.


I don't get my love get lost in marriages ooo after few years.

Some people obviously won't get married with the way they already see marriage as a burden. No one is perfect naturally, challenges are bound to come up. It's quite normal.

As for me i have very few fears which i know i and my hubby will always overcome. One is combining marriage with my career, balancing my family life and all that comes with it. Pregnancy, family issues both from my side and hubby 's side. They could give you headaches.

Anyways all these are secondary, with God been on our side its surely going to be a sweet marriage. I don't get bothered with the men cheat talks. Cheers to my future, our future life can't get any better.

I would definitely play my part well even before settling down. Whatever comes up we would surely fix it by being patient, selfless, tolerant, self endearing above all God fearing.

Dear ladies, a man who doesn't fear God will beat you, cheat on you, spite you and still hate you and act like all is well. Make a good decision today.

toby2:
bros were u born in may? Ur signature

Not in may, july

Mzjacy:
Scared of not making the right choice cos I don't believe in divorce

checked your pic. your friends and you are fine
is that faculty of natural and applied sciences in the background
looks like it. i use to go there b4 b4

Ifakiland:
Am actually scared of marrying the wrong woman. Cos gals av a way of changing after wedding, d angelic make up filled face turns into a pimples colony early in d mrn in bed with u....den she starts getting fat, skipping baths, nagging, etc.
I'm also scared am gonna cheat on my wife...if she stops been d gal I fell in love with after wedding!

Skipping baths?? Damn homie, how does she expect head if she don't shower?? Will soak her in dettol if I have to.

Shym3xx:


Hugh Hefner yano.

I'm not Hugh Hefner. Once you've been around a lot of women, you'd know that the overwhelming majority of them, regardless of the ideology they hide under or achievement, don't have much to offer you apart from sex. Hence most conversations with women are always centered around what you're bringing to the table as a guy - not them. And when you also consider the fact that it can be stressful dealing with them at times and loyalty is foreign to them cos they're naturally wired to living in the moment - it's always better to do what makes you happy and focus on yourself.

If you're the type that likes the company of different women and you tend to appreciate the alluring diversity of the beauty of womanhood - why put yourself in a box when you can be free as a bird? Conversely, if you want to sign some documents and be committed to the stress and disrespectful nature of one woman clogging up ya space (a lot of women don't even know how to talk and the more they get comfortable around you, the more disrespectful they tend to get), for the rest of ya life, for one puzzy - do you. It's a free world.

I concur with shym3xx on this one

What if i can't hv my space? What if he beats me up? What if we cnt mk it work at sm point? What if he starts cheating? Child birth? It scares d hell out of me! God help me o!

Barigaboy:
Fear of marrying a liability. Fear of marrying someone who doesn't who is not afraid of breakup cos I no 1 marry 2 wives n I don't want my children to xperience single parent. Fear of marrying a woman who will later turn to a bomblast in d house or troublemaker. Fear of marrying a woman who is a free sharer. As dis will make man life span short

I laughed out loud when i read this comment

Chai

I have read most of the comments here, we are all scared of one thing. The WRONG choice.

Jaii:

checked your pic. your friends and you are fine
is that faculty of natural and applied sciences in the background
looks like it. i use to go there b4 b4

tnks, yeah it's natural and applied science

My fear is that I might wake up oneday n find out that, that twinkle I see in his eyes whenever he stares @ me isn't there any more . 2) waking up again to find out I made a mistake in saying yes to stay with him forever *signs*

The gift of the Magi. Setting was xmas time. Lovely story.

grandlexuz:


[b]Yeah very true! Selflessness is the watch word. When both parties are willing to put the other infront, there is always room for improvement and compromise.

A Very Poor Man Lived With His Wife.

One day his wife, who had very long hair asked him to buy her a comb for her hair to grow well and to be well-groomed.

The man felt very sorry and said no. He explained that he did not even have enough money to fix the strap of his watch he had just broken.

She did not insist on her request.

The man went to work and passed by a watch shop, sold his damaged watch at a low price and went to buy a comb for his wife.

He came home in the evening with the comb in his hand ready to give to his wife.

He was surprised when he saw his wife with a very short hair cut.

She had sold her hair and was holding a new watch band.

Tears flowed simultaneously from their eyes, not for the futility of their actions, but for the reciprocity of their love.

MORAL: To love is nothing, to be loved is something but to love and to be loved by the one you love,that is EVERYTHING. Never take love for granted.[/b][i][/i]