Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / NewStats: 3,201,381 members, 7,978,217 topics. Date: Thursday, 17 October 2024 at 10:14 PM |
Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Romance / Should I Continue My Relationship With An Atheist? I'm Confused (9451 Views)
She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist / I Want To Break Up With Her But I'm Confused. / I'm Confused On Who To Choose, Help Me Out (2) (3) (4)
(1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (Reply) (Go Down)
Re: Should I Continue My Relationship With An Atheist? I'm Confused by Seun(m): 4:13pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
Acidosis:The richest man in Ota makes money by telling people things that aren't true and 'confiscating' their income. I don't want that type of wealth 17 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Should I Continue My Relationship With An Atheist? I'm Confused by Nobody: 4:17pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
SpicyJosBabe: Please don't tell me all you've got to offer as a mother is religion or religion-based, please don't ....You can be a good mother without instilling the fear of a sky monster in your children. All you have to do is make them have an undying love and passion for humanity. Make them to love people regardless of race, color, creed, situation or circumstance. Whatever will hurt the society should be away from their minds. And my wife is agnostic, though it wasn't my criterion before we got together. I didn't really care about her religious beliefs. And No she is not a Nigerian, I would have loved to marry one but I couldn't get a 'good' one. I wouldn't advise him to lie if he had to answer your mom's questions about his beliefs. I just believe that what will be will eventually be! The ball is in your court though. 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Should I Continue My Relationship With An Atheist? I'm Confused by ElsonMorali: 4:22pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
SpicyJosBabe: I'll advice you to run for your life dear. A godless person will always remain a godless person. Unless of course you don't value your faith. Believe me, one day he's going to tell you to stop worshipping your God if you want to remain married to him. It's quite impossible for someone who doesn't love God to truly love his wife. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Continue My Relationship With An Atheist? I'm Confused by firstking01(m): 4:22pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
Seun:This is your advice is so so effing wrong |
Re: Should I Continue My Relationship With An Atheist? I'm Confused by hahn(m): 4:22pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
SpicyJosBabe: According to google atheism ˈeɪθɪɪz(ə)m/Submit noun disbelief or lack of belief in the existence of God or gods. |
Re: Should I Continue My Relationship With An Atheist? I'm Confused by hahn(m): 4:23pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
HungerBAD: According to google atheism ˈeɪθɪɪz(ə)m/Submit noun disbelief or lack of belief in the existence of God or gods. |
Re: Should I Continue My Relationship With An Atheist? I'm Confused by hahn(m): 4:24pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
HungerBAD: She was a Christian. She is now agnostic. You can say she is searching for the truth on her own 1 Like |
Re: Should I Continue My Relationship With An Atheist? I'm Confused by firstking01(m): 4:24pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
MasterofNL:Asif you can escape the judgement of GOD, dey there dey decieve yourself until trumpet sound |
Re: Should I Continue My Relationship With An Atheist? I'm Confused by sexymoma(f): 4:25pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
stephenmorris:Who is talking about pastor chris here |
Re: Should I Continue My Relationship With An Atheist? I'm Confused by simplex2: 4:50pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
You finally had the chance to fall in love with an atheist and you are complaining. Atheists don't worship god, so he will direct all his worship on you; you will be loved, cherished, adored, revered, cared for, pampered and literally worshiped! 15 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Should I Continue My Relationship With An Atheist? I'm Confused by firstking01(m): 5:14pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
exceltech:Hahahahaha, a typical question of an atheist, everything about you is revolved round this world forgetting that the spiritual controls the physical...life is way more than just your physical looks and achieves… Now, 5 reasons why as a christian i'm better than you atheist… 1.I hear directly from God, i know you are already doubting owing to the fact that satan has blindfolded your heart and mind to even believe that there's a God in heaven let alone Him speaking to a mere mortal… 2.I pray and HE(GOD) answers 3.I live a supernatural life, like a stated earlier the supernatural controls the natural...if i start telling you my ordeals with God i swear you won't believe me, so no need . 4.I have direction in life and i know where i'm going after now....when i say direction it's nt just knowing the roots from your house to lecture hall, i mean nothing can attack me spiritually, before you even summon me in your witchcraft coven God as usual will show me ahead of time, it's part of the supernatural life i was talking about at point 3 5.I'm better than you as a christian because i still have a life to live after now… This is just a clue to the few things "i" enjoy or have enjoyed ever since i came to believe and serve HIM.... Note, the aforementions above is workable or accessible to only those who trust and believe in HIM genuinely and serve Him whole heartedly Come on, ask me another question....i full ground for una wey be atheist today, my heart goes to ronal4life my real G, i just wish he 'll see life beyond this atheisty something or whatever....i even delibrately skipt qouting scriptures sef you you won't say i'm a religious bigot…you berra raise your two hands up and surrender to GOD, or you wanna become the second saul on his way to damascus??, when after his encounter with the holyghost was given a new name "paul"??,...are you ready young man?? 1 Like |
Re: Should I Continue My Relationship With An Atheist? I'm Confused by Nobody: 5:18pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
firstking01:come and open thread in religious section for me and you |
Re: Should I Continue My Relationship With An Atheist? I'm Confused by firstking01(m): 5:20pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
exceltech:Hahahahaha, a typical question of an atheist, everything about you is revolved round this world forgetting that the spiritual controls the physical...life is way more than just your physical looks and achieves… Now, 5 reasons why as a christian i'm better than you atheist… 1.I hear directly from God, i know you are already doubting owing to the fact that satan has blindfolded your heart and mind to even believe that there's a God in heaven let alone Him speaking to a mere mortal… 2.I pray and HE(GOD) answers 3.I live a supernatural life, like a stated earlier the supernatural controls the natural...if i start telling you my ordeals with God i swear you won't believe me, so no need . 4.I have direction in life and i know where i'm going after now....when i say direction it's nt just knowing the routes from your house to lecture hall, i mean nothing can attack me spiritually, before you even summon me in your witchcraft coven God as usual will show me ahead of time, it's part of the supernatural life i was talking about at point 3 5.I'm better than you as a christian because i still have a life to live after now… This is just a clue to the few things "i" enjoy or have enjoyed ever since i came to believe and serve HIM.... Note, the aforementions above is workable or accessible to only those who trust and believe in HIM genuinely and serve Him whole heartedly Come on, ask me another question....i full ground for una wey be atheist today, my heart goes to ronal4life my real G, i just wish he 'll see life beyond this atheisty something or whatever....i even delibrately skipt qouting scriptures sef you you won't say i'm a religious bigot…you berra raise your two hands up and surrender to GOD, or you wanna become the second saul on his way to damascus??, when after his encounter with the holyghost was given a new name "paul"??,...are you ready young man??... |
Re: Should I Continue My Relationship With An Atheist? I'm Confused by yorhmienerd(m): 5:26pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
Firstking01 You earned my respect today. AS FOR spicyjosbabe, you have a conviction that God exist right? Think about the future not the present |
Re: Should I Continue My Relationship With An Atheist? I'm Confused by exceltech: 5:27pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
firstking01: What about you doesn't reflect about the world, money , business, job, women attention, fame, dancing in church or talking to yourself ? Now, 5 reasons why as a christian i'm better than you atheist… That is called hallucination. Any evidence for that ? No you don't , you do every thing that all average person does, sleep, wake, gossip etc. but if you think am wrong just state one verifiable thing you possess that is "supernatural". First of all there is nothing like spiritual attack, that is a made up concept to make you feel better than others. You don't know that, don't gamble your life on unfounded assumption.
It is unfortunate that you couldn't state just one real thing that makes you better as a christian other than some jewish mumbo jumbo myths, one would have thought that as a christian there is a special tangible thing you enjoy that others don't and can't. If I were you, I will evaluate myself if my reality isn't different from the average human reality despite supposedly having a "spiritual backing". Of what use is a "powerful" spirituality that can't even pull a strand of hair on your head ? 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Continue My Relationship With An Atheist? I'm Confused by firstking01(m): 5:31pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
yorhmienerd:Bienvenue brother |
Re: Should I Continue My Relationship With An Atheist? I'm Confused by Nobody: 5:38pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
exceltech:you just killed that boy,nice comment bro 4 Likes |
Re: Should I Continue My Relationship With An Atheist? I'm Confused by firstking01(m): 6:22pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
exceltech:If only i can meet you in person as that seems the only way m i can prove those things i wrote to you cos i can see your problem is that you want to see live results...if you meet me in person believe you me you must carry bible and go to church tomorrow evening...shebi you want to see the power of GOD in display ba?...i wonder why there are no atheist in ph, i need to convert them asap...won't say much cos i like using myself as a case study....forget the fact that firstking01 is all over romance section that's me for you...there are 3 areas of life that i'm gifted... 1.Relationship...that's why you see me on romance section. 2.Spiritually ballanced and inclined. 3.Education. And that's the 3 sections on nairaland i'm mostly active.... I said that cos i'm seeing people say i'm controversial, yeah, if your life is easily predicted people won't take you serious and ofcourse you are likely not to have record results with your dealings with people...that's by the way tho... Back to your questiona, i can't prove to you how God answer my prayers without physical proves and that's why i would prefer you meet me cos christians have spiritual pedigree, maybe the ones you 've met are still new babes/converts that 1st peter 2:1 talked about.... Do you know in my family there was a time i was manipulated academically:-??....how God brought me out of that academic shame is still a mystery to me....that's where i came to believe that there's a God in heaven... Bro, meet me in person . |
Re: Should I Continue My Relationship With An Atheist? I'm Confused by Cutehector(m): 6:53pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
Everybody quoting 2 Corinthians 6:14 should just keep shut! Yes, shut it! What nonsense... How many married so called Christians who commit adultery? Huh? All you people knw is to quote scriptures, but when it comes to keeping the commandments, everyone pretends to hide under the "we are human beings" clause. Op please get married to that man! I don't care how you wana do it, just get married to him. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Continue My Relationship With An Atheist? I'm Confused by Nobody: 8:54pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
favoureyo:You are quoting do not be yoked together with unbelievers in an ATHEIST owned forum, I'm sure you probably use facebook also owned by another ATHEIST, and whatsapp too also owned by an ATHEIST...do you not see the irony in what you're doing? Or NL is not yoking with unbeliever ATHEIST Seun abi? The irony is so outstanding, I'm surprised you can't see it o. 5 Likes |
Re: Should I Continue My Relationship With An Atheist? I'm Confused by Nobody: 9:24pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
@ OP who told you the Christian brothers are better? Hypocritical set of people that goes to church on Sunday's and commits all sort during the week. All those wife beaters, cheaters, smokers and so on are either Christian or Muslim And not more morally upright than an atheist. This guy is not criticizing you for who you are, I.e a Christian, he's in love with you for who you are, you can as well love him for who he is. That person talking about prayer, if it could solve all problems in marriage including domestic abuse I bet u wouldn't hear of a Christian couple divorce There's a lot ahead anyway. I wish you the best in whatever you decide 5 Likes |
Re: Should I Continue My Relationship With An Atheist? I'm Confused by Cronnie7: 9:38pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
All the wife beaters and cheats I know invoke Jesus or Allah in their prayers....pple be talking as if belief in a God can make a man a good husband 5 Likes |
Re: Should I Continue My Relationship With An Atheist? I'm Confused by SpicyJosBabe(f): 9:50pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
classicB: Cutehector: Thank u so much guyz. I love your points. Morality to a large extent does not depend on religion from what i have observed. There are christians with extremely terrible characters and non christians with a kinder heart or a greater morality. May God help us all to be better people. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Continue My Relationship With An Atheist? I'm Confused by RaptObserver: 9:57pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
you should ask him how he intends to perform the marriage rites. But truth be told, Atheists are not monsters the way some ppl paint it. It is better you ask him to tell you why he chose the path so you can understand him better. You have said, he has all you need except religion, in life we can't have it all. We have seen pastors who beat their wives, some cheat on their wives and some abandon(divorce) them. So being religious is not a guarantee. 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Continue My Relationship With An Atheist? I'm Confused by SpicyJosBabe(f): 10:22pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
simplex2: How do u mean? Are u an atheist or are you married to one? |
Re: Should I Continue My Relationship With An Atheist? I'm Confused by simplex2: 10:53pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
SpicyJosBabe: I'm agnostic, we are close relatives to atheists so I can tell you authoritatively that being in love with an atheist is the best thing that will happen to you. My fiance is a Christian and we don't have any qualms. She drags me to church once in a while but she knows the only God I worship is her and my tithe belongs to her; all special seeds, first fruits, special covenant offering belongs to her. And mehn do I love her? She's my own goddess and I adore her like no other. So my dear, don't let this opportunity slip you by. 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Continue My Relationship With An Atheist? I'm Confused by drmikeadams(m): 11:49pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
kontinu quoting bible. na them go fornicate and gossip pass ; i don see them types for church,,bleeping hypocrites..kontinu been deceived by pastors...huna go sow seed of millions for church yet they can provide for thier family...hhuna pastors go dey buy 2017 model cars huna go use the small one wey huna get dey dash them..religion don finish huna..kontinu, e go be huna like film at the end huna go know say religion na jonsing ..you treat ur fellow human with disdain, u hate thy neighbours yet you run hup han down quoting bible...kontinu deceiving your self' huna go wait for God ,grow white hair reach age of 150 huna no go see am 3 Likes |
Re: Should I Continue My Relationship With An Atheist? I'm Confused by drmikeadams(m): 11:56pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
firstking01:this one dey form john d baptist.. i don die 1 Like |
Re: Should I Continue My Relationship With An Atheist? I'm Confused by Nobody: 12:49am On Oct 07, 2016 |
You should talk to him about this. Find out what he wants and then see if you are looking for the same things. He could tell your mum he's not religious and she might lecture him a little. If you can accept him and respect the fact that he is a grown man who is capable of understanding the world for himself. Then I don't see the problem. But if like most people you're worried about what others will say or think about your husband not being at church or whatever he's expected to do then don't stress yourself and leave him. You need to talk to him find out how life with him would be like. If you can have an understanding where you're loyal to each other and you are both welling to compromise a little then there is hope. I think it's too soon for you to be stressing about his religious views when you don't know each other well enough to know that you are compatible on other levels. Just enjoy him and plan together how you will overcome your religious differences. |
Re: Should I Continue My Relationship With An Atheist? I'm Confused by M2dX(m): 3:53am On Oct 07, 2016 |
how on earth can a fully grow intelligence man won't believe in his Creator? this is unbelievable,, so when you want sleep or to go to bed no prayer,no thanks when you Wake up and when you want to work or travel,,? so the protect he is getting from birth till now is from who? , .please if you cant belief in God because of not seeing him with your kolokolo eyes why not belief from wonderful things he created in this planet earth and in universe? you can't see a beautiful house inside a Forest and concluded that no one build it because you cant find or see the builder. let's think with our head pls.. |
Re: Should I Continue My Relationship With An Atheist? I'm Confused by firstking01(m): 7:08am On Oct 07, 2016 |
drmikeadams:He might even be the john the baptist of our time |
Re: Should I Continue My Relationship With An Atheist? I'm Confused by Acidosis(m): 7:29am On Oct 07, 2016 |
Seun: Try and tell people things that aren't real, let's see the number of followers/money you can gather in 20 years. |
Curvy Nigeria Lady Vs Colombia Lady Twerking, Nigerians Blast Colombians / South African Musician Allows Fans To F!ñg³r Her On Stage / Get In Here And Find Out Your SEXUAL Birth Name (picture)
(Go Up)
Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 100 |