Don’t you get tired when people ask you this question? But here I am asking you, why are you single? Most people don’t know being single sometimes is a choice, but what’s a choice without a purpose or a reason? If you don’t know why you’re single then you need to know why no one is asking you out.


Everyone these days is single, a guy comes up to you and says he’s single, you know this very pretty girl and she tells you she’s single and you open your mouth in awe because you don’t believe such a beaut could be single.


What is the reason behind that decision you’ve taken to be single


Work?


Heartbreak?


Sexual preference?


Finance?


Time?


Lack of a dating type?


Honesty?


Location?


School?


Waiting on someone to notice you?


Age?


Gender?


Lack of interest?


Self-Searching?


Character?


Family Background?


Tell me your reason and purpose, being single is no fun without a purpose, it sometimes lead to depression, envy, suicidal thoughts and lonesome nights.


You begin to question yourself and your existence, most people who always scream team single {without a purpose} are dying inside, they need that companionship, someone to talk to, someone to listen to, someone to touch, someone to play with, they just need someone and most times because there’s a lack of someone they begin to give everyone a chance which becomes a cycle and leads to more heartbreak and then we hear the Forever Single Phrase all over again.


You need to know why you’re single, there’s enough people in the world to go around for everyone, heck people are getting married every Saturday, every day, and you’re there scream “SINGLE LADIES” “SINGLE MEN CREW” wake up, you need help ASAP screaming Team No Hoes won’t alleviate the loneliness you feel inside, screaming Team No Dykes won’t make you feel any better, you need a purpose for being single or without that you’re just someone who isn’t able to get a man or a woman.


While I was in the University, I didn’t date, not that I didn’t have a play companion, I just didn’t want anything serious because I wanted to finish school without distractions and I saw that as one, and when I finished school I said nah, I need a job before I’d date, no one wants to date a liability, when I finally got a job I was ready to date, I did for a while and realized I wanted more things in life than dating and I went for it.


This isn’t a write-up to make you feel bad, for everything there’s a season and a reason and without these you’re just floating on the plane of reality, not making an impact, not contributing, you’re just sliding in and out without realizing how opaque your life is.


This doesn’t apply to dating alone, why do you do the things you do? What’s the reason behind the purpose that’s motivating you? Don’t forget to drop your comment and encourage someone.


Thanks.


Isabella Ibeji


Talk2Bella

http://www.talk2bella.com/2016/10/why-are-you-still-single.html?m=1

school and it's fun being single

Nobody likes me

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OBTSubtle:
Dating is a waste of time, you spend money and time on someone you might never marry.. The unthankful bitçh still sometimes has the nerve to bitçh to you about little things..


Fuçking annoying..

it's always favourable to the ladies, we must approach them because of our strong sexual innuendos towards them, do some crappy things out of will to satisfy our sexual urges in the process wasting time and resources.

cc: Lalasticlala

Can this get to front page please

Can't remember the last time I was single

falconey:
school and it's fun being single

You know it's not fun being single

Stalker365:
Nobody likes me

I like you

OBTSubtle:
Dating is a waste of time, you spend money and time on someone you might never marry.. The unthankful bitçh still sometimes has the nerve to bitçh to you about little things..


Fuçking annoying..

Who broke your heart? or ate your money

Stalker365:
Nobody likes me

i see you bro...its really hard on us

ItsQuinn:
Can't remember the last time I was single

Hahaha hahaha

Talk2Bella:


I like you

I see..so u wanto yanshhh that boy called stalker abi

Jarizod:


I see..so u wanto yanshhh that boy called stalker abi

Iamhatey:
I'm still single because guys are complicated.

I'm afraid I will be faithful and he will cheat on me.
I'm afraid that he will change to something else.
Im afraid that after all the fvcking and all that, he won't marry me

Fear of the unknown will only limit your chances of being happy

Dem dey share money for relationship?

Jarizod:


I see..so u wanto yanshhh that boy called stalker abi

Hahaha..
Guy u worry oh..

McClaneJohn:
Hahaha.. Guy u worry oh..

Iamhatey:
My problem is the fear.






I'm just scared, very scared

Life's all about risk and any risk without a lesson learnt is a total waste of time

Rells:
Dem dey share money for relationship?

Yels

Jarizod:


why yanshh a 2-inch boy when u can yanshh a 20-inchh ryt

Iamhatey:
I'm still single because guys are complicated.

I'm afraid I will be faithful and he will cheat on me.
I'm afraid that he will change to something else.
Im afraid that after all the fvcking and all that, he won't marry me

is the exact opposite about the females that made me to be single for Now... girls are so unpredictable and very complicated... seriously you more happy when u single... no worries, no quarrels, no stress etc

Cuz i need slim and cute baby with killer curves.


Cool, romantic and matured babes to PM.

Thanks