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Re: He Lost His Job, His Wife Left Him By Joseph edgar by doveda: 12:18pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
Need I say more |
Re: He Lost His Job, His Wife Left Him By Joseph edgar by ajalawole(m): 12:18pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
Bro, i feel ur pain. But no ediot is worth dying for, put urself together and move on cuz life is too sweet. I can bet with buhari infected ears that she will surely come back to beg u for forgiveness, but bro don't back down. Move on with ur life? 1 Like |
Re: He Lost His Job, His Wife Left Him By Joseph edgar by Nobody: 12:20pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
we all have the freedom to make our opinions heard.. until you are in the pot of soup, you don't truly appreciate the circumstances and conditions under which these things happen. The Gringe is a Stingy Slimy ba$@#tard who speaks through the roof of his mouth and tightens his butt to sound british 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: He Lost His Job, His Wife Left Him By Joseph edgar by Bizibi(m): 12:22pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
By their comments.......ladies before are a whole lot better than now,it keep reducing everyday. thank God there re still good ones out there |
Re: He Lost His Job, His Wife Left Him By Joseph edgar by Onegai(f): 12:24pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
thorpido: You don't get, I started counting threads a while back bashing women or telling them to change for the better. Then I tried comparing it to threads extolling women. The ratio was 10: 0. Not one male moniker thought to say "hey, we have great women", it was all just insults and putting down in nasty and petty manner. They don't even realise how bad is to constantly feed yourself negative ideas about a gender, it means when you eventually do get married, you will go in thinking it is a battlefield, that every little issue will become an avenue for a vicious fight. With that mindset, your marriage is dead on arrival. You cannot keep saying "she is evil and bad" and then think you will meet a pretty girl, marry her and one day NOT say the same thing about her. You are what you consume. Do you know I met some guys on NL who are married and they said they're disgusted by Family section guys? I've met 3 now who call them "small boys" and one went to say I should stop coming to this section because my mind would be poisoned. No-one is saying the blogger's friend's wife didn't do wrong, all we are saying is "why is it only the wife, only the mother we hate everytime?" Even on Child Molestation threads, they will blame the mother of the victim and random girls for not agreeing to sleep with the perpetrator. On a Domestic Violence thread, it is the victim's fault for marrying a wife beater and annoying him, oh she must have been chasing his money and didn't see "them good guys". On the thread where the NYSC guy's mother sold akara or food to send him to school, filled with comments like "our girls cannot do this". There are so many women contributing positively to their families, they are not celebrated, but the menfolk go on to publicly "try and teach them and hope they will hear word". It's madness. 21 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: He Lost His Job, His Wife Left Him By Joseph edgar by eyinjuege: 12:27pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
VikingsOO7: He's pleading with women to be like his mother, but the question is aren't women still supporting their homes financially? More women support their spouses compared to those that don't when they get into financial difficulties. A lot of women hustle for the school fees of their children, women have been doing that and are still doing it. They make sure there's food at home, the kids are well cared for and dress neatly despite the challenges their husbands face financially. He makes it sound as though all the sacrifices these same women have made and are still making mean nothing. As if they don't. I've been privileged to have access to a lot of people in my line of work, and I will say it that most women always go the extra mile for their families. Is it the one that always takes out cooperative loan, and borrows money about in order that her family can complete their building project? At the end of the month, she's left with nothing to go home with. Is it the one that always wants to be the first to collect the monthly thrift contributions because school fees period is coming? Is it the one that the husband has been jobless since I've known the family, and yet the children are going to the best schools, she uses the latest models of cars (given to her by the office) which is changed every four years and she's allowed to buy it for peanuts and she does it and automatically changes her husband's car every four years too. She's still as humble as ever, and you can see/palpate the respect she gives her husband who equally holds her in awe. These are all professional women with good jobs btw. Even the pepper seller hustling is doing it to help their partners 11 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: He Lost His Job, His Wife Left Him By Joseph edgar by EfemenaXY: 12:27pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
Onegai: Case closed. 3 Likes |
Re: He Lost His Job, His Wife Left Him By Joseph edgar by chloe47: 12:28pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
EfemenaXY:God bless you ma for this post. 2 Likes |
Re: He Lost His Job, His Wife Left Him By Joseph edgar by Nobody: 12:36pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
eyinjuege:His message was directed solely to those "fair weather wives" who expect their husbands to be a dangote till thy kingdom comes. Of course we have lots and lots of hard working women. Who work day and night to support their family. But that's not the point here. 2 Likes |
Re: He Lost His Job, His Wife Left Him By Joseph edgar by Shym3xx: 12:41pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
Lol. This is what happens when guys get some loose coins and start chasing pretentious women, who only want to enjoy the goodies, for marriage. Any woman that wasn't there with you when you were shooting in the gym. But only came when you got that big contract, is only interested in the financial buffer you have to offer. And once it goes, she's definitely going to follow suit. Funny story. The guy is a sucker. 1 Like |
Re: He Lost His Job, His Wife Left Him By Joseph edgar by EfemenaXY: 12:47pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
Shym3xx: Many of these guys bring it all upon themselves by believing Love = Money It all depends on how they portray themselves during the dating stage. If they give the impression they've got bottomless pockets and feel the best way to get a girl is by flashing the cash, then they have no one but themselves to blame when things take a financial downturn and the lady walks out. It's all about the standards set at the beginning. 2 Likes |
Re: He Lost His Job, His Wife Left Him By Joseph edgar by juman(m): 12:47pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
Sometimes its better for the wife to leave the husband. Atimes the husband might be too not ready to get things going in the family. |
Re: He Lost His Job, His Wife Left Him By Joseph edgar by PaulIdu: 12:49pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
Dyt: I can't blame any party here because from experience I know 99 percent of Nigerian women marry to take financial burden of their parent and alleviate any small poverty disturbing them , so when the factor that joined them in marriage in the first place is missing they immediate cut rope and tend to move on ..My advise to men is to know the reason why a girl has agreed to marry you, is it because of your job, your looks,your temperament, your ambition or just to prove a point that she can get married.. marry a girl that loves you for no reason and make sure you love her deeply just for that reason .. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: He Lost His Job, His Wife Left Him By Joseph edgar by seangy4konji: 12:50pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
Wetin deh my mind pass all this one. |
Re: He Lost His Job, His Wife Left Him By Joseph edgar by Joy1706(f): 12:51pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
Not all men deserve loyalty. If you were treating me like trash and sleeping around when you had money, and then expect me to stand by you when you're now broke, hahahahhaha ha I laugh in Spanish. The misery I will put you through no go get part 2. Loyalty my ass. By the time I start, na you go pack your bags comot from house. Yes, I'm a very vindictive person and I never forget 9 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: He Lost His Job, His Wife Left Him By Joseph edgar by Dyt(f): 12:54pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
PaulIdu: Ngokafor: 1 Like |
Re: He Lost His Job, His Wife Left Him By Joseph edgar by VictorRomanov: 12:56pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
keepingmum: You re totally off point. His friend whose wife left, was it with his mother he shared the news?? He's discussing a trend which is very common today. I won't say he's right, cos we've not heard the woman's side of the tomorrow. But the point u re trying to make is totally off the mark. 1 Like |
Re: He Lost His Job, His Wife Left Him By Joseph edgar by edstark91: 12:58pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
keep the comments coming.. |
Re: He Lost His Job, His Wife Left Him By Joseph edgar by Nobody: 1:04pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
Joy1706:can you put up your dp so we guys can knw you and try to avoid you 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: He Lost His Job, His Wife Left Him By Joseph edgar by seguno2: 1:05pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
Igi da, eiye fo ni awon obinrin. When a tree's stem breaks, the bird flies away, that is how women are. 1 Like |
Re: He Lost His Job, His Wife Left Him By Joseph edgar by millhouse: 1:11pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
chief coach ..u are sighted |
Re: He Lost His Job, His Wife Left Him By Joseph edgar by Cutehector(m): 1:11pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
That Is why one needs to be absolutely careful of the type of person he or she wants to spend the rest of his/her life with. I will continue to say this and say it again and again, marry someone who has a heart.. a living heart... whether thick or thin, they will stand with you, in times of sorrow and happiness, they will endure with you.. Not beauty, not handsomeness, not riches, but Virtues 3 Likes |
Re: He Lost His Job, His Wife Left Him By Joseph edgar by Shym3xx: 1:14pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
EfemenaXY: You're right. When you meet women looking for meal tickets (most of the women who're like that don't even hide it) and the reason why they're with you is basically cos you can provide/give them what they want. You should know that it's temporary and more of a "business" relationship that will fall apart once you stop feeding the cow. That's a no brainer. As a guy, when selecting a partner, on a long term basis - it should always be about who you're, not what you're. Once a woman is with you cos of ya natural aura, something she can feel, but can't really point to. She'll always be there for the long haul, no matter what happens on the outside. Except you push her away. These guys just get loose coins and start feeling themselves. And the next thing they always do is to buy a wife. 6 Likes |
Re: He Lost His Job, His Wife Left Him By Joseph edgar by Shym3xx: 1:16pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
PaulIdu: You're right. Even with this - the connection is always organic, not forceful. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: He Lost His Job, His Wife Left Him By Joseph edgar by eightsin(m): 1:24pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
eyinjuege: Jeez!! The bolded got me |
Re: He Lost His Job, His Wife Left Him By Joseph edgar by ceecee02: 1:31pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
keepingmum: from your annoying write up I can pick up few things 1. You are not married. 2. You are not close to your parents 3. You didn't read the write up. He didn't tell his wife cause he understood the nature of most modernized and newly evolved women. He said and I paraphrase "I didnt know what her reaction will be" so he didn't tell her. 3 Likes |
Re: He Lost His Job, His Wife Left Him By Joseph edgar by ddjay: 1:38pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
Smoke2015:she must be an RCCG member, adeboyes message is working |
Re: He Lost His Job, His Wife Left Him By Joseph edgar by chibuzorAbia: 1:43pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
Inter tribal marriages are worse when disaster like a job loss occurs. |
Re: He Lost His Job, His Wife Left Him By Joseph edgar by Laredojohn(m): 1:55pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
Hmm it's rather sad, nowadays some gals are ready to be there when the going is good, the moment everything turns the other way round that are ready to bring all sort of principles to twist the vow they took, "for better for worse for richer for poorer, in sickness and in health, till death do us part" they give reasons while the vow can't be followed...I take a clue from my mum and sis, despite all my mum went thru, she endured, provided her life wasn't at risk, now she is as strong as ever, my dad now has no choice than to give her the respect she deserves...how many gals of nowadays are ready to endure hardship, only a few, even in mere relationships we guys know what we have faced from the female folk, kudos to my sis who after barely less than a year to her marriage, her husband lost his job, she never gave up, she stood firm supported her family, endured till everything changed and he started making a living and even doing far more better than his previous job happily living in their home, what if she had left as some will do, what would have become of her Gals of nowadays need learn and know how to endure and keep to their marriage vows provided their life isn't at risk and they would see the best in their man when things change. 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: He Lost His Job, His Wife Left Him By Joseph edgar by demelza: 1:56pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
A so-called man allows his wife to be breadwinner for 8 gaddem years?!!! His only job for 8yrs was waking up to eat afang soup and climbing the woman in the night. And the poster is happy to brag about it. Instead of hiding this family shame! Poster your father is what the igbos call efulefu. God forbid! 6 Likes |
Re: He Lost His Job, His Wife Left Him By Joseph edgar by mecussey(m): 2:06pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
VikingsOO7: Me i wonder how everybody have become interested in the Ops father, mother and afang soup instead of the msg he was trying to pass accross. 4 Likes |
Re: He Lost His Job, His Wife Left Him By Joseph edgar by Nobody: 2:08pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
mecussey:My brother, fear Nairaland women. One just have to be prayerful. Angel Gabriel should pls hurry up and blow that trumpet. 5 Likes |
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