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Re: What Are Your fears Of Getting Married Or Being Married? Singles ONLY by erabe(m): 7:26am On Oct 07, 2016 |
never seen nairalanders so open minded and soft on a thread like this. Marriage is really a serious business, may God guide everyone to the right partner 1 Like |
Re: What Are Your fears Of Getting Married Or Being Married? Singles ONLY by TrumpDonald2: 8:23am On Oct 07, 2016 |
timpaker: We share the same bro...especially 4 and 6. Thanks for sharing...now I know am not alone in this. Feeling relieved ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: What Are Your fears Of Getting Married Or Being Married? Singles ONLY by goodnewscliff(m): 8:48am On Oct 07, 2016 |
ONE FACT WE ALL SHOULD KNOW...THERE AINT NO RIGHT PATNER IN MARRIAGE because WE COULD BE SO WRONG AT TIMES...SINCE CHANGE IS CONSTANT, U SO CALLED INITIAL RIGHT CAN BE A WRONG.!!! ITS LIKE A BUNCHA COOKIES IN A PLATE...JUST PICK ANY AND MAKE HE OR SHE THE RIGHT PERSON..JUST MAKE SURE OF SOME IMPORTANT POINTS LIKE LOVE(IF SOMEONE LOVES U,, HE WILL DO ANYTHING TO MAKE U HAPPY) TRUST ADAPTABILITY FORGIVENESS....all other small small qualities go follow...e sweet e bitter...just make him or her d right person....it cant b perfect## 1 Like |
Re: What Are Your fears Of Getting Married Or Being Married? Singles ONLY by vicdall(f): 9:12am On Oct 07, 2016 |
Chukazu:Me 2. I'm afraid of sexual incompatibility |
Re: What Are Your fears Of Getting Married Or Being Married? Singles ONLY by free37: 9:15am On Oct 07, 2016 |
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Re: What Are Your fears Of Getting Married Or Being Married? Singles ONLY by febby419(m): 9:17am On Oct 07, 2016 |
Men! Sometimes I wonder if marriage is a curse or blessing With d rate of failed marriages, I am so scared of getting married. No privacy No freedom Expecting to make her happy when I am not in d mood D nagging What if she stops loving me n starts managing me What if I marry d wrong person, imagine d hell u will pass through on daily basis What if she changes after marriage, n u will be like 'was I blind when I married her, abi Na jazz' D thought of not being alone n doing d things I want to do alone all by myself God please connect everyone with there right partner to avoid stories that touches d heart later, Amen. 4 Likes |
Re: What Are Your fears Of Getting Married Or Being Married? Singles ONLY by mhizzpatra(f): 10:51am On Oct 07, 2016 |
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Re: What Are Your fears Of Getting Married Or Being Married? Singles ONLY by silentangel: 12:09pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
Scared of child birth. |
Re: What Are Your fears Of Getting Married Or Being Married? Singles ONLY by 4dor: 12:35pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
CoCoLav: Can we say your present environment triggered this fear? If you were in your natural 'habitat', would you still be scared of this? |
Re: What Are Your fears Of Getting Married Or Being Married? Singles ONLY by Dantee005(m): 12:48pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
Melonny:Lol..Lawd have mercy on us... |
Re: What Are Your fears Of Getting Married Or Being Married? Singles ONLY by CoCoLav(f): 12:53pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
4dor: Nahhh.. The fear has always been there but could not be expressed because of my 'natural habitat '. I can now express it and not be judged. 1 Like |
Re: What Are Your fears Of Getting Married Or Being Married? Singles ONLY by mamawin(f): 2:31pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
Ifakiland:when you cheat, does that correct anything? prevention is better than cure. marry right, that's better |
Re: What Are Your fears Of Getting Married Or Being Married? Singles ONLY by tolor: 2:53pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
Shym3xx:I've come to understand that regardless of how successful a woman is or how tough she think she is, she still remains a woman. The basic characteristics of womanhood will keep popping out from time to time. Now back to the topic My greatest fear with this marriage of a thing is that I may get tired of the person. I don't know why that keeps happening but maybe it's testament to what you wrote up there that the only thing they bring to the table is sex, sex and sex. Where can I see that lady that would be my mate in Playstation, hanging out with the boiz loving football like hell and getting high with me ![]() God help me..... ![]() ![]() ![]() modify; I've been thinking, is it possible for someone to have a contract marriage; let's say for like 15 years and if there is no need to renew the contract after that time, we both go our seperate ways, with some settlement of course.... ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: What Are Your fears Of Getting Married Or Being Married? Singles ONLY by Titilayooni(f): 4:35pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
FTBOY:as in...anytime I think of that,marriage scares me the more,,the 2 parties just have to make up their mind to make their marriage work no matter what..my parents divorced when I was 6 months,am 26 now...over the yrs,I keep asking"what happened to the love they shared that even conceived me?" it affected me psychologically but I overcame it with God...I don't want my children to go through that @ all... 2 Likes |
Re: What Are Your fears Of Getting Married Or Being Married? Singles ONLY by Titilayooni(f): 4:39pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
Laveda:It is well babe,don't worry God will give us the strenght to pull through the life contract Lol |
Re: What Are Your fears Of Getting Married Or Being Married? Singles ONLY by BCMI(f): 4:40pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
Anuoluwapo3054:. Bro u need more of him |
Re: What Are Your fears Of Getting Married Or Being Married? Singles ONLY by Shym3xx: 4:59pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
tolor: Same here: I get bored of people in general easily as well. There are times when I just want my own space in solitude to do something different. With women, most of them are wired to view things from a perspective that's different from the way you see things as guy and ya struggles. Coupled with the fact that they don't offer anything apart from sex, despite the fact that it's a tad stressful to deal with them and they're the supreme space cloggers. And there are times you could care less about sex and that's what makes them easily dispensable cos you can always find a next woman to offer you sex when you need it. The holy-grail is being lucky enough to find a woman that's like you and can also see the world through ya eyes, with alluring attractiveness that will never fade away. And that's a tall order in a lifetime, unless you're extremely lucky. The other option is to find just any chic that's better than what you're used to and settle. Lol. There are tons of chics out there who love playing video games (the coa/cao on NL or whatever her handle is, is one of them). I do play FIFA and Madden with chics sometimes and they're quite good. Ditto chics that love sports and you can burn with occasionally (you don't want a weed head tho, cos that's peak lol). Personally, I love chics that love sports (especially the ones I'm into) and hip-hop. You know with that, you won't have a problem watching sports all day - not some hoodrat and IQ-reducing reality TV nonsense lol. Tahhh, you don't need a contract for that - you just need a chic you can converse with on a level. There are loads of chics who wouldn't mind it, as long as you're willing to play ya role. Cohabitation won't be a bad option, if that's what you want. You just have to stay away from chics who have nothing else to talk about apart from marriage. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: What Are Your fears Of Getting Married Or Being Married? Singles ONLY by mamawin(f): 5:28pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
Fairgodwin:bro, wen you fall in love, you will never want to spend a second without her. trust me, it's like that. |
Re: What Are Your fears Of Getting Married Or Being Married? Singles ONLY by Fairgodwin(m): 5:35pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
mamawin: Okay, if you say so. But the truth is, I get bored easily and I get to withdraw easily (into my own shell) so to speak. 1 Like |
Re: What Are Your fears Of Getting Married Or Being Married? Singles ONLY by mamawin(f): 5:42pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
Shym3xx:honestly you should not have problem after marriage, because you already know what you want. I tell you there are many ladies out there that fit your description. where the problem starts in most cases is for somebody like you to marry a lady who doesn't like most or all those things you love. I read a lot and I love music, all genres. I knew marrying somebody that hate books or music will be a problem. but above all, everything must be discussed before marriage. one should not be shy or afraid, you sit down and talk or at least by observation. don't mind me poking my nose in your affairs o.lol |
Re: What Are Your fears Of Getting Married Or Being Married? Singles ONLY by mamawin(f): 5:48pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
Fairgodwin:I tell you there are many ladies like you. or she comes into your life and remove d boredom, get you out of your shell, or she enters her own shell as soon as you enter yours. marriage is sweet when the foundation is love. |
Re: What Are Your fears Of Getting Married Or Being Married? Singles ONLY by mamawin(f): 5:54pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
vicdall:prayer, my sister. I prayed about mine and it worked. trust me. except you don't believe in prayers 1 Like |
Re: What Are Your fears Of Getting Married Or Being Married? Singles ONLY by thisisolamii: 6:12pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
I think it will be appropriate to ask each other what our fear in marriage is |
Re: What Are Your fears Of Getting Married Or Being Married? Singles ONLY by mamawin(f): 6:21pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
mhizzpatra:I share the sixth one. in fact, one day my husband asked me what he could do that would pain me most, I told him that's if he dies young. he said do I realized that won't be his fault? I told him he should just make sure he doesn't die. funny |
Re: What Are Your fears Of Getting Married Or Being Married? Singles ONLY by Anuoluwapo3054(m): 6:25pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
BCMI:LOL |
Re: What Are Your fears Of Getting Married Or Being Married? Singles ONLY by Shym3xx: 6:27pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
mamawin: Lol. Honestly, I'm not into all the marriage thingy. It's something I've never really cared about, tbh. ![]() I'm just having normal conversations with folks on here. 1 Like |
Re: What Are Your fears Of Getting Married Or Being Married? Singles ONLY by BCMI(f): 8:03pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
Anuoluwapo3054:Interesting... |
Re: What Are Your fears Of Getting Married Or Being Married? Singles ONLY by Vivipop(f): 8:35pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
misscall247:[/b] Thank you.[/b] |
Re: What Are Your fears Of Getting Married Or Being Married? Singles ONLY by Titilayooni(f): 10:01pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
mamawin:He won't die,you guys will grow old together in love and harmony... 1 Like |
Re: What Are Your fears Of Getting Married Or Being Married? Singles ONLY by mamawin(f): 10:28pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
Titilayooni:Amen, thanks. |
Re: What Are Your fears Of Getting Married Or Being Married? Singles ONLY by iRepNaija1: 11:33pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
Ifakiland: I'm sure that the concerns you have about your future wife are the same concerns she has about you. If don't she bathe, offer to run her a bath with nice soaps and bath salts and a shoulder rub. Heck, get in there with her if you want. If she's not dressing the way she used to, buy her a little something or say, "Honey, when you wear such and such, you look so beautiful." Or if she's adding weight, tell her you're going to work out because you've added yourself (doesn't have to be the truth, just saying) and that you'd love to have a workout partner. How do you know you won't get a potbelly? Why are you assuming she'll suddenly deteriorate after the marriage? Why don't you give her the benefit of the doubt before you assume the worst? Isn't that the point of marriage? Anything can be worked on in a marriage, so long as it's not constant cheating, rape, or abuse. So many people here are so eager to get married but don't want to deal with the less than sweet moments. |
Re: What Are Your fears Of Getting Married Or Being Married? Singles ONLY by Nobody: 1:15am On Oct 08, 2016 |
SavageGarden:Honestly sir u more than nailed whenever i observe my parents they just ain't 'truly' happy deep down, i could remember while growing up a very close neighbour cum family friend their father was always chins up and moody,looking at that guy one could tell dat he was tired... i can remember my pop telling me tat if he knew he woldn'nt have gotten married.i think everyone should stop trying to please society or anybody cos they won't b there when the reggae changes to blues 1 Like |
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