Hello Bella please make me anonymous, I love my boyfriend so much but he just keeps cheating, what do I do? I can’t tie him down so he won’t see other women, I know it isn’t his fault, he just can’t resist other women and they keep tempting him.


I am the church type, no makeup, I don’t wear clothes all these girls are wearing now, I don’t like going out, and we’re in a no sex type of relationship because I am born again but he isn’t, I want to marry and win him for Christ.


I have preached and counseled because I know we wrestle not against flesh and blood but principalities in higher places, I know we will end up together, I have seen visions and pastors have also told me, but what I want from you is how to make him stop cheating I am becoming a laughing stock in our community.



Talk2Bella



First of all, there was never a relationship between you two, you only think there is a relationship because you love him and that to me is false. As a born again Christian, you are not even supposed to be in a relationship characterized by present day standards, you ought to focus your energy on winning souls for Christ and not deceiving yourself.


When two people love themselves, things are involved, they are emotionally attached, they also express their love for each other by certain actions that portray such love such as charity, physical presence, communication, and above all, intimacy.


Now first of all, you are a woman, you have to look presentable; you also have to have a good dress sense! If you want your man to quit chasing other presentable ladies and you don't look presentable then I don't see any bad why the community has made a jest of you. Second, you mentioned you don't even go out, how then do you both communicate? Like seriously?


I'm not against your decision for not trying to dress indecently but when it comes to looking presentable, everyone owes themselves 100 percent attention to it. Also, If your definition of being born again is by believing you are self-righteous then you need to have a rethink about that.


Third, you should quit seeking visions and revelations from pastors about choice of life partner that is totally false as far as I’m concerned.


If you want a Godly kind of relationship, then please associate yourself with those who have the fear of the Lord.



Goodluck.


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You have to look good to make a nigga stay.. + cook real nice chicken sauce

stiflerdrug:
You have to look good to make a nigga stay.. + cook real nice chicken sauce

Efo Riro

Talk2Bella:


Efo Riro

Mmm wah does that mean please?

I dont know

Not bad a reply @ talk2bella

Not only efo riro alone oo... She doesnt have to dress anyhw b4 she look presentable

All she need is to dress the christian classy way

What happen to ur moniker?

TrapQueen77:




What happen to ur moniker?

Nothing o
Sometimes nairaland won't lemme post with that

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Ure born again...but u love a bad boy! Oya clap for urself, now come and go and be going! God is proud of u already....but hey I tot He sed in His words dat a child of God shuldnt roll with unbelievers....I guess u didn't read dat part...keep trying to win his soul sogbo....arindi.

Don't be unequally yoked with unbelievers.. But I guess the lady is trying to be the Holyspirit.

Wisdom is indeed profitable to direct.. Foolishness everywhere

Why do I have a feeling that this story is cooked up just to draw traffic to someone's blog?

Anyway, why not write it as a diary, a fictional one?

People will still read it na

the problem now is that this girls will still go to pastors for visions n revelations,will still dress crappy n will stil blindly love the dude..whyhe has her mumu button..FINISH

Hm hm hm, don't beg him for money and cook for him with your money... And don't forget to always give him 3 square pussymeals on a daily

I dont know what to say....I really don't blame her bf ...what does she expect?

eyinjuege:
Why do I have a feeling that this story is cooked up just to draw traffic to someone's blog?

Anyway, why not write it as a diary, a fictional one?

People will still read it na

Shebi is only feeling that you feel?
No it wasn't cooked
It wS stylishly prepared

Hmmm, well, since you said you are convinced that he's the will of God for you, i 'll advice you keep praying cos nothing can change him except God...not even the advice here.

The story is funny though ....bella, that person that sent you this story is a bloody troll

eyinjuege:
Why do I have a feeling that this story is cooked up just to draw traffic to someone's blog?

Anyway, why not write it as a diary, a fictional one?

People will still read it na

PulloutGameA1:

Bella lemme buy you a drink.

Time and place

ItsQuinn:
The story is funny though ....bella, that person that sent you this story is a bloody troll

Wasn't funny fa

I am the church type, no makeup, I don’t wear clothes all these girls are wearing now, I don’t like going out, and we’re in a no sex type of relationship because I am born again

why won't her bf not cheat on her?

Talk2Bella:


Wasn't funny fa