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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by benjsniper33: 11:14pm On Sep 21, 2016 |
HARDDON: HARDDON , she told me on three to four occasions that if she is to have sex with anybody without having a feeling of guilt on her wedding day that person will be ME . Then after some time (weeks) we got intimate , we were both naked, I have fingered,pressed and sucked every thing but when it was time for me to penetrate she held back, this scenario has happened more than once , the last time it happened (August 26), I asked her why, she said she is sorry and that she is emotional and that if I do it with me she will get loose and give other guys , like she won't be able to control herself, she claimed she is a virgin . But when I fingered her my middle finger all went into her womanhood. She afterwards offered to give me a Mouth Gig that night. So indirectly she has cleverly proposed the no-sex move , allowing me to suck and finger her womanhood ,handle and squeeze her breasts but not wanting me to penetrate her Pvssy As at now we are on a three month IT holiday and as of now we are 3 weeks apart we still have 2 months to go being apart before we resume for the next semester. So HARDDON I need the raw advice and brutal solution |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by benjsniper33: 11:20pm On Sep 21, 2016 |
WackyJ1: May God bless you my Dear brother, I have taken note of all you've said and I have begun applying them. If I come across any confusion I will get back to you asap. Thanks a lot brother, you've done well |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by codedprince20(m): 10:47am On Sep 22, 2016 |
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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 12:01pm On Sep 22, 2016 |
okwypascal: Solution? Just one: Practice! Write down possible places u r likely to meet ladies Think up 10 possible sassy n fun lines u can use n write down Go tru d list every morning b4 u step out Then make sure u use them as d day goes We hv dealt extensively on this under d APPROACHING LADIES.....read it up 2 Likes |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by benjsniper33: 10:01am On Sep 26, 2016 |
WackyJ1:. Wacky I have done all you've said, I disciplined myself and for like 3-4 days now I haven't spoken to her on phone or whatsapp, the last time we spoke was 4 days ago, I texted her around 9pm to asked how her day was and if she's fine , she replied "Yaaaa" then I asked her if she is live on whatsapp so we can chat, she said "No" (that was unlike her cos before she is always waiting for me online) . Then I got angry, controlled my anger and texted back, I said "Ryt , gudnyt, don't bother to text or call back forth" (that was a rather confusing message) Then I tot she sensed fire in the mountain then she texted me on whatsapp and tried to chatup but my response was monosyllabic, I didn't even show any interest of wanting to talk to her anymore. She sensed this and then went ahead to call me , she tried to discuss but I was monosyllabic in response once again, then she said she wants to go to bed, I said "goodnight" And that was it, since then I didn't call neither did she. Your brutal criticism and advice I need Wacky, hoping to hear from you asap. Thanks |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Nobody: 11:34am On Sep 26, 2016 |
(she says Hey, I've seen you at __________ ) "Oh, so you were checking me out then?" (If girl's been around a while) "Are you shy or something? Because I've been standing here for around ten minutes and you still haven't said Hi to me." (blah blah) "Every time I go some place women get all shy around me, since I'm such a good- looking, sexy man...As you can see." C&F openers with push/ pull: "You're kinda CUTE…I think that you'll make a NICE new GIRLFRIEND! Hey WAIT…I need a girl who can cook…you can't?? OK, we're broken up… Actually wait, you DO smell good…very alluring…actually WAIT!! I'm allergic to that perfume…Oh man, we are SOOOO broken up!" (In line at fast-food restaurant) "Damn…I-AM-SICK of this fast food…do you know how to cook? No?? Ok we're broken up then, I'm going to find a woman who can cook…" (while she cracks up, talk to another chick, then come back) "OK, so you can't cook… well, what else do you have going for you Are you adventurous?" "You look familiar…I know! You look like my FUTURE ex-girlfriend!" Then follow up with a push-pull routine about how she could never by your future ex girlfriend because…but maybe you'll change your mind because…etc… Specific street openers: "Hey, are you good at accepting compliments from complete strangers?" (yeah) "Sweet, me too. You go first, compliment me." Go up to a girl, start walking next to her, and say "Have you ever walked with a more sexy man?" OR "Does it upset you to be walking with such a sexy man because nobody's looking at you and everyone's looking at me?" "Look at this! When you woke up this morning did you ever think you'd be walking beside/ talking to such a HANDSOME man, right here on (X) street? Your day just got a lot better!" (In rain, walk up next to her and put umbrella over both of you) "Here, have some coverage. Hey, I just saved your bad hair day from getting worse, you owe me! Give me your number." (If she balks or gives attitude-odds are she won't give it to you so quickly-pull the umbrella away from her teasingly) "Aww look at you, getting all wet again! I've got the umbrella, I'm the one wearing the pants in this relationship! Be nice to me." In rain, walking past her: "Here, have some coverage…" (walk faster than her so you start passing her by) "Aww look, you walk too slow, and now you're getting rained on again!" "Hey, where do you think you're going?" (to X) "Is THAT where you're going? You have to have greater goals in life!" Girl ignores your opener and keeps walking: "What, did my good looks really scare you away that badly?" "I bet you think you're hot shit." (for the really hard-ass/ hot bitches who ignore you) A couple general C&F openers: "I realize you're probably shy because you get no attention from men whatsoever, so I decided to come over and pay attention to you" "You're KINDA hot. Are you friendly?" " Hey, you're kinda cute for a short girl" C&F openers 11 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Nobody: 11:41am On Sep 26, 2016 |
(Sitting in some fast food place and she's about to walk by) Move out a chair with your foot, and say to the girl " There's a free chair here for you" She's resistant and asks "Oh really? Why should I sit there?" Nonchalantly reply " Well, I don't just want to get your number, I want to talk to you first." 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Presh900(m): 2:39pm On Sep 26, 2016 |
Booked |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Adasun(m): 9:05pm On Sep 26, 2016 |
Harddon,what happen next if u abrutly stop kissing a girl?.u go inside the bathrum and come out,then what??do u continue ur sassy nature or keep da tension.? Secondly,hw do u deal with women dat feeds on attention,this ladies flirt alot bt neva let u into them.they are always looking for a way to attract men and be happy. 1 Like |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 4:34pm On Oct 01, 2016 |
H.I.D Nigeria! 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by WackyJ1(m): 3:06pm On Oct 02, 2016 |
benjsniper33: I didn't see this earlier. I wonder whether to have talked to her since then. I understand that you want her to show you attention like it used to be before and validate you that she still wants you and wants a relationship with you. But the truth is that girls are confused creatures. Capable of doing unbelievable things and confusing us with their erratic behaviors. She still likes you and she still respects you. But that's no longer exclusive to you as before, in the sense that, she is also enjoying attention from other guys and enjoying the company of other guys. Now this might be difficult to do, but next time when you Call her, just chat her up and be lively with her, make her laugh and basically enjoy the conversation with no thoughts at the back of your mind. A simple 7 mins call will do. Then don't call again. It will be very difficult to do and you will feel pains doing it. But it is like withdrawal syndrome. But you have to do it. Jealousy is also a good technique so make female friends and use them as your dp on whatsapp. Let it seem like you're having fun with your life.. 1 Like |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by youngfocus(m): 5:51pm On Oct 02, 2016 |
am nt aving any problem of attracting am girls DAT I wnt.bt am problem is keep the game on.am qstn is dat after show her bf material I dnt mean spending for her ooo like calling wit bf/gf name,babe,dear,sweet heart.wic they are playing along bt wat I notice is dat they did nt knw there place weather we dating or not,they are confuse cos they dnt knw there stand,so I wnt to ask is it proper to stylishly propose to dem like dis.I knw u love me,and u wnt to date me which am still tinking of anyway am cum to my final conclusion DAT u are nw my gf,though av use it one sum1 and it work BT is it advise able sha? 1 Like |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by SOLARPOWER1(f): 7:26am On Oct 05, 2016 |
Special thanks to @harddon for creating this special ministry (though u too spoil...bad boy).I ve been following this thread without commenting but I met a girl recently who was forming too busy for me but after I applied d principle of ignoring her as regards what I have learnt here, I couldnt believe my eyes, she was practically begging me to come to her uncle's house to see her.But something unexpected happened when I went visiting; we were enjoying the conversation with all the funny and cocky lines until she started feeling serious pains, she was crying, she told me it normally happens during her cycle. I caught myself being too nice like going out to get her the drugs she normally use and buying her fried rice and chicken to take the drug.I just felt I had to be human and quit the game a bit, somebody was almost dying in my presence.To complicate issues her uncle who is a medical doctor came around when I was still there and said it is beyond cycle pain that she is experiencing signs of appendicities that she might be operated on. My point here is how do I handle the situation as regards calling and checking on her without being too needy and nice.QUICK RESPONSE PLEASE O.... |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Fkhalifa(m): 4:58pm On Oct 05, 2016 |
^^^^^^ bro just be there for her, call once a while and let it be mostly about her health, suspend all forms of chyking till you see she's better, but subtly show affection and make her see you as a dearly and a fun person. You can also be calling or checking on the bro once a while and let it be mainly about her sisters health for now. My ogas here will still give u more and better advice |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 6:09pm On Oct 05, 2016 |
SOLARPOWER1: We were first human b4 we took on the cloak of bonding....... 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by SOLARPOWER1(f): 8:14pm On Oct 05, 2016 |
HARDDON: Thanks alot, your gift is that you always have the right words to drive home your point 2 Likes |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by SOLARPOWER1(f): 8:16pm On Oct 05, 2016 |
Fkhalifa: Thanks bro, for d direction |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by youngfocus(m): 9:15am On Oct 06, 2016 |
HARDDON:my qstn is yet to attend to bro |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by benjsniper33: 9:38am On Oct 06, 2016 |
WackyJ1: Copied , will get back to you asap. Thanks a mil bro |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 2:07pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
youngfocus: i realize i have alot to respond to..... hang on, id do it chronologically. |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 8:37pm On Oct 10, 2016 |
Adasun: U dont wano know 1 Like |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 11:29pm On Oct 11, 2016 |
codedprince20: What wud u rather hv? A broken r/ship or a broken marriage? Ansa that b4 i analyse her actions n reaction for u |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 11:33pm On Oct 11, 2016 |
Gyrados: Page 1 is ur reference point, but i shld quickly loint out: The best ice breaker u can hv , is ur ability to think on ur feet( quick wit) n come up with on -da-spot flows based on her body features, cloths, wears, her surounding, what she i doing n anyother thing u can think up. U r not a robot, so avoid pick up lines, they not only boring, they spark air of fakenes off u 1 Like |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 11:42pm On Oct 11, 2016 |
benjsniper33: U drove her off gee. She now sees u in another light, ur not carin attitude drew her close @ first, but this ur needy clingy attitude has mos def driven her off. She has been silently manupulating u n u , unknowinly has been falling for it! 1 Like |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by leckzyb(m): 10:47am On Oct 12, 2016 |
harddon boss i must say tht u are doing a grt job here showing us how to navigate in wowen world i salute. boss u've thought me all i need to knw but i still have one problem, i lack the persistence to take actions i.e i used to feel relunctant talking to or approaching girls. pls how do i solve this problem... thanks |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Unekz(m): 12:22pm On Oct 12, 2016 |
HARDDON:throw more lights HARDON dont seems to get you plz. also in a similar issue with my guy up there. |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 7:40pm On Oct 12, 2016 |
Gyrados: you need not cram ice breakers: all you need is quick wit( ability to think on your feet and come up with lines that draws). you can pick things from her physical attribute( i dont mean u should go dock and compliment her), her wears, make up, hairdo, surrounding, what she is doing, holding, her step just about anything. imagine you meet a group just laughing and having fun, u walk over and in a whispering tone that all can still hear u, ask one of them " does her nose always dance like that when she laughs?" u say that , pointing at the one u like........ or you can say, why are all of you looking like you are from outside the country? your face looks like you are from france, girls 2's eyes looks like they are from iceland, girl 3's head from hungary , girls 1's body from bulgaria...... heck im the only nigerian here! 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 7:54pm On Oct 12, 2016 |
youngfocus: you have a special writing / typing gift , cud you edit it? |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 7:58pm On Oct 12, 2016 |
SOLARPOWER1: arrh, this is coming a bit late...... if she is someone u really fancy, this time is the best time to put your arrows all tru her heart! be there for her generally then when she gets well, withdraw, she wud basically come after you with all her soul then u begin to deploy these drills...... fun fun fun 1 Like |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 8:07pm On Oct 12, 2016 |
leckzyb: in other words, u are shy and lack the approaching liver huh? check https://www.nairaland.com/2893475/dating-drills-guys-only/1#45035607 https://www.nairaland.com/2893475/dating-drills-guys-only/2#45038157 |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by youngfocus(m): 12:47am On Oct 13, 2016 |
HARDDON: yea u are ryte lol to my self wen rereading wat I av typed ,it just DAT most of those word I type is abbreviated It my fone DAT correct it to sumtin else I wil edit it and submit according to nl language |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by youngfocus(m): 1:03am On Oct 13, 2016 |
am nt aving any problem of attracting any girls DAT I wnt.bt my problem is to keep the game on.my qstn is dat,after showing her bf material I dnt mean spending for her ooo like calling wit bf/ gf name,babe,dear,sweet heart.wic they are playing along bt wat I notice is dat they did nt knw there place weather we dating or not,they are confuse cos they dnt knw there stand some time she will be asking me are we dating,so I wnt to ask is it proper to stylishly propose to her like dis.I knw u love me,and u wnt to date me.which am still tinking abt.anyway I av cum to my final conclusion DAT u are nw my gf,though av use it 4 one sum1 and it work BT is it adviceable sha? |
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