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Nigerian Men In USA, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by Nobody: 3:05pm On Oct 12, 2016
Not every man can take the disappointing and humiliation from NIgeria wives imported to America. Wives killers on rampage in the US
An Epidemic: Nigerian Men Killing Their Nurse Wives In America “Yes, I have killed the woman that messed up my life; the woman that has destroyed me. I am at Shalom West. My name is David and I am all yours.” Those were David Ochola’s words during his 911 (U.S. Emergency Number) call to authorities after shooting dead, his 28 years old wife, Priscilla Ochola, in Hennepin, Minnesota.

The 50-years old, husband was tired of being “disrespected” by his wife, a Registered Nurse (RN) whom he had brought from Nigeria and sponsored through nursing school only to have her make much more than him in salary – a situation which led to Mrs. Ochola “coming and going as she chose without regard for her husband.”
The couple had two children – four years old boy and a three year old girl.

In Texas, Babajide Okeowo had been separated from his wife, Funke Okeowo, with whom he resided at their Dallas home. Upon the divorce, the husband lost the house to his wife, along with most of the contents therein, as is usually the tradition in the U.S. Divorces where the couple still has underage children.
Mr. Okeowo, 48, divorced his wife because not long after she became an RN and made more money than him, she “took control” of the family finances and “controlled” her husband’s expenditure and movement.
The husband could no longer make any meaningful contribution to his family back in Nigeria unless the wife “approved” it. He could not go out without her permission. Frustrated that his formerly malleable wife had suddenly become such a “terror” to him to the point of asking for in court and getting virtually everything for which he had worked since coming to the US thirty years prior, the husband got in his vehicle and drove a few hundred miles to Dallas to settle the scores.

He found her in her SUV, adorned in full Nigerian attire on her way to the birthday bash organized in her honor. She had turned 46 on that day. Mr. Okeowo fired several rounds into his wife’s torso while she sat at the steering wheel, mercilessly killing her in broad daylight.

Also in Dallas (they sure need anger management classes in Dallas), Moses Egharevba, 45, did not even bother to get a gun. The husband of Grace Egharevba, 35, bludgeoned her to death with a sledge hammer while their seven year old daughter watched and screamed for peace.
Mrs. Egharevba’s “sin” was that she became an RN and started to make more money than her husband. This led to her “financial liberation” from a supposedly tight-fisted husband who had not only brought her from Nigeria, but had also funded her nursing school education.

Like Moses Egharevba, Christopher Ndubuisi of Garland, Texas, (these Texas people!) also did not bother to get a gun. He crept into the bedroom where his wife, Christiana, was sleeping and, with several blows of the sledge hammer, crushed her head.
Two years before Christiana was killed, her mother, who had been visiting from Nigeria, was found dead in the bathtub under circumstances believed to be suspicious.

Of course, Christiana was a RN whose income dwarfed that of her husband as soon as she graduated from nursing school. The husband believed that his role as a husband and head of the household had been usurped by his wife.
Mr. Ndubuisi’s several entreaties to his wife’s family to intercede and bring Christiana back under his control had all failed.

If the circumstances surrounding the death of Christiana’s mother were suspicious, those surrounding the death of a Tennessee woman’s mother were not. Agnes Nwodo, an RN, lived in squalor before her husband, Godfrey Nwodo, rescued her and brought her to the US. He enrolled her in nursing school right away. Upon qualifying as a RN, Mrs. Nwodo assumed “full control” of the household. She brought her mother to live with them against her husband’s wishes. Mrs. Nwodo quickly familiarized herself with US Family Laws and took full advantage of them.
Each time the couple argued, the police forced the husband to leave the house whether he had a place to sleep or not. On many occasions, Mr. Nwodo spent days in police cells. Upon divorcing his wife, Mr. Nwodo lost to his wife, the house he had owned for almost 20 years before he married her.
He also lost custody of their three children to her, with the court awarding him only periodic visitation rights. Even seeing the children during visitation was always a hassle as the wife would “arrive late at the neutral meeting place and leave early with impunity.”

Mr. Nwodo endured so many embarrassing moments from his wife and her mother until he could take it no more. One day, he bought himself a shotgun and killed both his wife and her mother.

Caleb Onwudike’s wife, Chinyere Onwudike, 36, became a RN and no longer saw the need to be controlled by her husband. Mr. Onwudike, 41, worked two jobs to send his wife to her dream school upon bringing her to the US from Nigeria. After four years, she qualified as an RN. Once she started to make more money than her husband, she began to “call the shots” at home. She “overruled” her husband on the size and cost of the house they purchased in Burtonsville, Maryland. She began to build a house solely in her name in their native Umuahia town of Abia State, Nigeria, without her husband’s input whatsoever.

Mrs. Onwudike came and went “as she liked,” within the US and outside the US. In fact, she once travelled to Nigeria for three weeks “without her husband’s permission” to lavishly bury her father, despite her husband’s protestations that they had better things to do with the money.
Mrs. Onwudike let her husband know that this was mostly her money and she would spend it however she wanted. Through her hard work, she had risen to a managerial position at the medical center where she worked.
Upon her return from burying her father, her husband got one of her kitchen knives and carved her up like a Thanksgiving turkey inside their home on New Year’s Day.

Death is death, no matter how it comes. But the goriest of these maniacal killings is probably the one that happened here in Los Angeles, California.
Joseph Mbu, 50, was tired of his RN wife’s “serial disrespect” of him. The disrespect began as soon as she became a RN. Gloria Mbu, 40, had once told her husband he must be “smoking crack cocaine” if he thought he could tell her what to do with her money now that she made more money than him.

Before she became a RN, Mr. Mbu had been very strict with family finances and was borderline dictatorial in his dealings with Mrs. Mbu. However, Mrs. Mbu learned the American system and would no longer allow any man to “put her down.” When Joseph Mbu could not take it anymore, he subdued his wife one day, tied her to his vehicle and dragged her on paved roads all around Los Angeles until her head split in many pieces.


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Re: Nigerian Men In USA, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by Nobody: 3:16pm On Oct 12, 2016
These are very sad cases.... undecided

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Re: Nigerian Men In USA, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by pickabeau1: 3:47pm On Oct 12, 2016
The nurse syndrome is recycled every year

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Re: Nigerian Men In USA, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by JeffreyJamez(m): 3:48pm On Oct 12, 2016
So you are trying to tell me now that these men killed their wives because the wives made more money than them? undecided....that is what you are trying to make me believe?

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Re: Nigerian Men In USA, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by ever811(m): 3:50pm On Oct 12, 2016
I know its jail terms to kick box a woman over there... ones she starts misbehaving,pet her and bring her to nigeria,for a visit........accuse her with one meaningless offense the moment you sight...WELCOME TO MURITALA INTERNATIONAL AIRPORT.....and her face right right away....

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Re: Nigerian Men In USA, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by Nobody: 5:55pm On Oct 12, 2016
pickabeau1:
The nurse syndrome is recycled every year
It's so sad

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Re: Nigerian Men In USA, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by sukkot: 6:08pm On Oct 12, 2016
make i buy land for here before recession strike.

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Re: Nigerian Men In USA, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by OlajumokeBread(f): 6:08pm On Oct 12, 2016
Another rubbish

Who is the MOD that pushed this stinky shiit to front page ??


You said Nigerian men living in the USA that killed their imported wives and you just mentioned only 4 people

Mention another 4 Nigerian men that killed their "imported wives" and i will deactivate my account


And why wouldn't a man kill his wife when the American government favors women, if you divorce a woman, she takes everything you hand you also pay her every month

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Re: Nigerian Men In USA, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by NaijaMutant(f): 6:10pm On Oct 12, 2016

This is simply an error of generalization

Journalists just trying to write sensational headlines.

Agreed that some Nigeria men have been found guilty but is not peculiar to Nigerian men abeg

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Re: Nigerian Men In USA, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by Nobody: 6:10pm On Oct 12, 2016
na wa oo

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Re: Nigerian Men In USA, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by Nobody: 6:10pm On Oct 12, 2016
And who says the wife can't be the head of a home? Here is a clear evidence grin cool tongue
Matriarchy is gradually happening cheesy grin
kiss

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Re: Nigerian Men In USA, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by Pebcak: 6:10pm On Oct 12, 2016

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Re: Nigerian Men In USA, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by NaijaMutant(f): 6:11pm On Oct 12, 2016
Worried

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Re: Nigerian Men In USA, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by ChristineC: 6:11pm On Oct 12, 2016
Sad tales. There's nothing like marrying your friend where you both have mutual respect, not submissiveness because of fear or wealth.

Money changes many people but with a friend things will not simmer down to the level of murder. My opinion though.

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Re: Nigerian Men In USA, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by Nobody: 6:11pm On Oct 12, 2016
Why kill them? Simply dump their smelly pu$$13$.

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Re: Nigerian Men In USA, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by cold(m): 6:12pm On Oct 12, 2016
Dayum! You can never read the mind's construction on the face. Reason why i've never bought into this 'come home & marry' stuff. The most unassuming lady can turn into a frankenstein on a dime.

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Re: Nigerian Men In USA, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by Chanchit: 6:13pm On Oct 12, 2016
Moral if this story? Keep your family in Nigeria and let her father pay for her education.

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Re: Nigerian Men In USA, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by Nobody: 6:13pm On Oct 12, 2016
Rubbish, There are plenty RN families doing just fine here in the USA...Whomever wrote this trash or endorses it must be extremely retarded_.

What do they all have in common? Stinking Gold-Diggas...They had a plan all along, their husbands labored hard,brought them from the shìthole called Nigeria and at the end if the day, they drain him of his resources and reveal their true character, you know it can only end deadly.


OlajumokeBread:
Another rubbish
Who is the MOD that pushed this stinky shiit to front page ??
You said Nigerian men living in the USA that killed their imported wives and you just mentioned only 4 people
Mention another 4 Nigerian men that killed their "imported wives" and i will deactivate my account

He wants 4^ I want 69...Stupid Sensationalist Journalism but hey it's Nairaland...It's Sociology 101, These "Journalist" will be proud claiming to be a Graduate.


If you want to identify a social problem, you must present statistics, Government correspondents etc not some random cases...I hope your Blog fails as it should

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Re: Nigerian Men In USA, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by Lordaweezy: 6:14pm On Oct 12, 2016
The husband(s) sponsored their travel,paid for their school fees just because the wives became successful than the husband , they started acting bossy and turned to control freaks and making life difficult for the husband. In some cases the husband lost their homes due to the divorce policy. Some women are just ungrateful.

P.S I don't in any way support what their husbands did

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Re: Nigerian Men In USA, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by PunterTim(m): 6:15pm On Oct 12, 2016
Gory!

Lesson:Never let a woman be in control

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Re: Nigerian Men In USA, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by Akinwerndey: 6:16pm On Oct 12, 2016
Na wa o.... These niggas dickk needs to be chopped off, fried and given to dogs... For God sake na crime make wife hustle get money pass her husband? This is insanity!!!

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Re: Nigerian Men In USA, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by Afam4eva(m): 6:16pm On Oct 12, 2016
JeffreyJamez:
So you are trying to tell me now that these men killed their wives because the wives made more money than them? undecided....that is what you are trying to make me believe?
There's a part where the woman starts acting up and trying to destroy the husband's destiny.

What beats me is why a Nigerian in America will kill his wife for something not as bad as what some women in Nigeria do and are still breathing. Is there really something about America that changes people? Is it the gun laws? But we have husbands bludgeoning wives to death.

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Re: Nigerian Men In USA, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by kings09(m): 6:16pm On Oct 12, 2016
Women shaaa. Little wonder guyz choose d whiteys. Wen 9ja women think they r in a 'gender-equal' environment, they begin to misbehave.

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Re: Nigerian Men In USA, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by abike12(f): 6:16pm On Oct 12, 2016
I don't know why a sane adult will think it's his duty to control another living, breathing and functioning adult because he is the husband. I was very hard on a nlder that was claiming he's going to Nigeria to get a wife to bring back with him to the UK for this very reason. These men live in cities with a lot of eligible Nigerian single women but choose to go to Nigeria to import village girls so they can isolate them from their family and friends and control them. Unfortunately for them, the girls eyes will open and then they will resort to killing them as a means of final control. They would rather have a dead wife than a wife that comes and goes as she pleases. As for you girls in Nigeria waiting for their savior with dollars and pounds to come and rescue them, a word is enough for the wise. It's best you go and look for work and a young man in Nigeria to hustle with and build something.

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Re: Nigerian Men In USA, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by TonyeBarcanista(m): 6:17pm On Oct 12, 2016
I'm so speechless
Re: Nigerian Men In USA, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by Nobody: 6:17pm On Oct 12, 2016
sadg
Re: Nigerian Men In USA, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by jerryunit48: 6:17pm On Oct 12, 2016
E don tay now
Re: Nigerian Men In USA, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by alkanes1(m): 6:18pm On Oct 12, 2016
Nurses are well made in the us. I for read nursing sef. It's a sad tale
Re: Nigerian Men In USA, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by omooba969(m): 6:19pm On Oct 12, 2016
The wife who messes with the mind of an angry or violent husband had better pleaded the grave digger for a portion. cool

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Re: Nigerian Men In USA, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by kings09(m): 6:19pm On Oct 12, 2016
Finish ur comment...som1 has to be blamed...WOMEN
TrapQueen77:
These are very sad cases.... undecided

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Re: Nigerian Men In USA, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by Nobody: 6:19pm On Oct 12, 2016
The last one was what you call brutality. Not sure satan can do that feat.

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Re: Nigerian Men In USA, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by sunvick(m): 6:19pm On Oct 12, 2016
Why won they kill emmm.

You don't kill her she sends you to jail for the rest of your life plus paying child support from jail.
Since the women has decided to be wise, the men has resolved to be smart.

Too many fatherless boys these days in America.
#ticfortac

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