If you got married to make yourself and family happy.. only for someone you love to make your life miserable and unbearable? Common

Life is too short to be in a miserable marriage.

Bollinger:


Are you sure you thought through your comment before you wrote them?

Bollinger:

That moral is ridiculously s.tupid.

Abeg no vex, do quick carry your wife go.

TrapQueen77:
These are very sad cases....

nice not sad

Murder is wickedness of the highest order.I am of the view that those who kill should die without mercy when found guilty.However a careful observation of each case would find common similarities on the triggers behind such unjustifiable act of murder of their wives.

That is an established man in the US comes home pick a crude, unculutured and submisive 9ja girl who gets into the US gets more education, starts working in a job, becomes exposed to the American society that gives "unfair power" to women and tries to oppress her husband who helped her to what she became. She starts disrespecting him and misbehaving deliberately so she can drive him out through divorce as a loser of almost everything he has worked for. The man takes it for a while after been driven out through divorce then the thought of revenge through murder creeps in till its executed.

This is the sad state of many Nigerian men who were married to 9ja girls who they brought into the US.When My friend in the States told me this trend of 9ja girls who come over with this mentality. I was surprised if it was really true but unfortunately thats the truth as shown in the cases the OP posted

So one wonders if its not better to marry an already Nigerian American or white girl already used to the US system for which it is less likely such scenerio would play out than to bring a 9ja girl over to the US who becomes a disaster waiting for the right time to happen.

ItsQuinn:
And who says the wife can't be the head of a home? Here is a clear evidence
Matriarchy is gradually happening

with aggressive death

ChristineC:
Sad tales. There's nothing like marrying your friend where you both have mutual respect, not submissiveness because of fear or wealth.

Money changes many people but with a friend things will not simmer down to the level of murder. My opinion though.

That doesn't still guarantee long term happiness together.
Friends killing friends because of money is not a new story.

This should the Igbo men killing their imported wives in America!

I blame the men. No matter the money a woman makes men should never make her feel superior by leaving key responsibilities to her just cos she earns more. Even if the man is dead broke. Never ever get intimidated, or rely on a woman completely with your small jobs and little income you can still be the boss, run ur home and make her come drooling. Respect is earned!

Chanchit:
Moral if this story? Keep your family in Nigeria and let her father pay for her education.

No. The moral of the story is: when you bring them from Nigeria, make sure they don't become RN
They can be CEOs of Google,Coca Cola and the likes NOT RN!!!!

things about marriage should be well calculated with the brain not the heart.
never trust any human.

cbrass:


So in other words you are free to disrespect your husband is that it?

So control = respect?

I wish I never opened.This thread.

My mindset has been altered .


I hope I recover from this alteration.

Unfortunately these are real cases messing up the whole family up. Am a living witness to a recent case though in the UK. The husband is completely messed up and the wife has carried on as there's no karma. When the results starts manifesting then it's time to jump from one prayer house to the other. There's God ooo

Scary! Only God knows what my uncle are enduring over there from their Nigeria wives.

Bollinger:

Are you sure you thought through your comment before you wrote them?

if it gives them peace why not

sdindan:
I like the last one.


Can never take my wife abroad with me never.

Don't worry bro, you can go without your wife.

We in Nigeria would take very good of her

The car would need oil servicing and maintenance which we would take very good care of!!
Just continue to send her the money.

Thank you!!

ItsQuinn:
And who says the wife can't be the head of a home? Here is a clear evidence
Matriarchy is gradually happening

Yes...they can. I pray you become the head of your family.

The women deserve the death they got. Only that the men were foolish. you no fit use otumokpo kill the idiiot wife?

These hoes aint loyal


Well i blame the men for not moving on frm dose jezebels


Its painful losing your house of 20 years but having a woman make u become a killer and animal is more painful. Best move on and leave her for God

Point noted.... Il never train dis ma gal as RN.... Na early child education she dey go read.... Highest 45k per year
Make i see as she go take do shakara for me

I know so sad, her situation was quiet unfortunate actually ....but it's worth a try ....if I was her, I won't restrict my husband's movement, I would give him freedom

NgcoboP:

with aggressive death

Akinwerndey:
Na wa o.... These niggas dickk needs to be chopped off, fried and given to dogs... For God sake na crime make wife hustle get money pass her husband? This is insanity!!!

which part of the story did u read?? a woman u brought to America, suffered to send to school nw graduates and because she earns more than u starts misbehaving and goes for a divorce leaving with all u eva laboured for, is it the story u read? or another one? if yes and u still gave that comment then u re stupid.

neocortex:


That doesn't still guarantee long term happiness together.
Friends killing friends because of money is not a new story.

friends raising a family together is far different from friends bonding over at a club or over a couple of drinks or business partners.
There may be extreme cases though but I think the probability will be really low.

abike12:


So control = respect?

Its sad that folks are not reading in between the lines.

The problem is that those women were no longer resecting their husbands and were no longer subject to them.

Surely,the equality between husband and wife that the western law created is evil.

Amen to that

Freiden:


Yes...they can. I pray you become the head of your family.

Lol this Mbu guy is one psychopath. Chai anger is a very bad thing. Instead of importing these wives, I rather marry an American. Let their ogogoro drinking fathers train them in the local nursing schools.

neocortex:


That doesn't still guarantee long term happiness together.
Friends killing friends because of money is not a new story.

True but theres this level of comrade and understanding if u marry ur frnd that no matter how wicked the mind plays trick on u and forces u to lash out that bond of frndship creeps in and forces one to keep it together. Truefriendship is for a lifetime my brother.

Muder is realy a heinous crime........nd I condem it in its entirety. But ur last line is disputable.....Ladies who go over n eventually earn higher than their hubbies should be cool headed. Some men can forgive a cheating wife but may never forgive a domineering one!!!!!!!

ItsQuinn:
I know so sad, her situation was quiet unfortunate actually ....but it's worth a try ....if I was her, I won't restrict my husband's movement, I would give him freedom

give him. you are courting extreme violence

kingthreat:
Instead of importing these wives, I rather marry an American.

LOL. Worse results.

The OP is as smart and senior NL member. I'm surprised he created this junk- sensational thread

Let liberalization of women continue.

But wait ooo, why are they generalizing this issue(by saying Nigerians are killing their imported wife) when in a real sense it happens to only one side of the country, Nigeria?

There is nothing like love without money as far as people from that particular zone is concern and nothing like love once money started flowing as far as concern.

There joy and sorrows is rooted in EGO

sukkot:
make i buy land for here before recession strike.

contact me if you neee land