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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Coldfeet(f): 10:41am On Oct 15, 2016 |
Ammy5565:Moderation is key in whatever you do especially during pregnancy. In my opinion one hour in a stretch is too much and yes could bring on labor, just reduce the frequency and length of each walk. At bolded get yourself familia with the mamas that are frequent here and cc them when next you need your question answered asap no one will intentionally ignore. |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by realdentist(f): 10:45am On Oct 15, 2016 |
Ammy5565:Lol. the ignoring is not intentional. sometimes I prefer to finish reading all answers already given so that if someone has already said what I want to say, I won't bother repeating it. but by d time I'm tru I would hv forgotten to answer even if others haven't. . that's what happened here. 28 weeks is too early naaa. why not wait till you're full term (37 weeks), in case contractions start and baby comes o. |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by jazzyjazz: 10:46am On Oct 15, 2016 |
I can only talk about the first issue. Other sabi mamas will put mouth in the other one or add to what I have said 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by jazzyjazz: 10:54am On Oct 15, 2016 |
Pls ma, mamas here don't ignore. Truth is, some mamas may not have answers and some may want to avoid giving responses that they are not absolutely certain of, so they just leave it to those who can respond. For example, a FTM certainly can't give answers to some questions because she has not experienced it yet. Also, the mama's that may have answers may be offline and busy with their little ones and families. So be patient. When the sabi mamas are online, they will certainly respond. It also helps if you cc our mamas that have put to bed before Ammy5565: |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by jazzyjazz: 11:03am On Oct 15, 2016 |
You and ma'am sugah have said it all!!! AlphaHandMaiden: |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by jazzyjazz: 11:04am On Oct 15, 2016 |
I also bought this type of cot. Mainly ncos I can collapse and travel with it as I and dh intend to travel a lot after lo is born. If you think you need another mattress, then I think you can get it in one of these vitafoam or mouka foam shops lexajen: |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by jazzyjazz: 11:07am On Oct 15, 2016 |
Pls mamas how can I deal with mood swings? I had lots of them in my first trimester and it has creeped back in now that I've entered 3rd trimester. I find it so hard to deal with. And I hate to throw all these emotions at dh. Any suggestion would help Cc all sabi mamas |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by BellaElla(f): 11:07am On Oct 15, 2016 |
Ammy5565: Hahahaha. I used Obio Cottage Hospital. I don't know anyone that has used military hospital so I don't hv an idea. What part of ph r u @. |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by realdentist(f): 11:09am On Oct 15, 2016 |
Mnit, you're not being paranoid. You're only thinking ahead, which is what every wise woman would do. It's not about him providing for you now, but about u and d children being taken care of in the eventuality of his not being around. and with the in laws already stopping the court wedding, I wouldn't count too much on them. I think u need to employ a lot of diplomacy in this issue. My own approach (just an advice) would be to sit him down and have a heart to heart with him. Tell him all my fears, exactly as they are. And plead with him to include my name or the children's names on the property documents. Use every kind of diplomacy u can possibly think of. U're more powerful than u think o. Just don't use force or anger, else he'll become more resistant. If all this fails, look for an elderly neutral person (not ur parents or his) he respects and seek advice. If after following their advice he refuses, let them talk to him themselves. Of course while u're doing all these, you're praying. 7 Likes |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Mnit: 11:20am On Oct 15, 2016 |
AlphaHandmaiden....<br> Thank you so much for contributing <br> My money is not involved in any of the properties and that is not even an issue.<br> 2ndly....the church that wedded us is a registered church so i dont know if that count.<br> My major concern is not even about now but abt d future.<br> <br> @sugah.....b4 we married,his brother has been his next of kin and he has'nt change.<br> <br> Jazzyjazzy..... i did change of name on news paper n had an affidavit to support it .i dont know if it is same as you explain. |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Ammy5565(f): 11:29am On Oct 15, 2016 |
BellaElla: I stay at elekahia my dear. U know i almost used obio, even went there for enquiries. I was discouraged by the crowd, heard their crowd is nt here at all. I know a lady that had to wait outside during labour as there was no space for her to deliver but i heard they are very good and their facilities are top notch. Hope u had a nice experience with them? I'm beginning to regret nt using them oh, cuz everyone i know seems to prefer them. |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by jazzyjazz: 11:34am On Oct 15, 2016 |
Is it a |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Ammy5565(f): 11:37am On Oct 15, 2016 |
Coldfeet: realdentist: jazzyjazz: Thanks mamas for taking time to respond. Felt ignored cuz i asked 2days ago but only got 1 reply, no hard feelings tho. Just needed the clarification asap so as nt to make mistakes. Maybe i'll hav to reduce the walks to 30mins and maybe 3times in a week. I hope it wont be much tho. Appreciate u all. Jazzy baby, whats for breakfast? 1 Like |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Akorkor(f): 11:38am On Oct 15, 2016 |
Mnit:First of all, my question is are you working or supporting your husband in anyway? The landed property acquired did you input some part of your money in anyway? If yes, then you are not being paranoid,you have right as much as he does to the name written on the document. If no, then please let him rest; he may decide on whoever names BC he desires to put on the document. Also about court marriage issue, I think they have used corner for you. Just cry to God silently to change his mind and he will dance to your tone on that because I believe there is nothing God cannot do. In all we need JEHOVAH in our home. And may the lord help us |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by gandyluv(f): 11:41am On Oct 15, 2016 |
BellaElla:tankx dear..I was also force to seat on stool |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by jazzyjazz: 11:46am On Oct 15, 2016 |
My sister I'm not even in the mood today. First trimester mood swings has been dealing with me since I woke up so tey I de vex for food sef Na garri with groundnut I manage take sha But I go soon hammer semo and afang soup Ammy5565: 1 Like |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Zheemub(f): 11:48am On Oct 15, 2016 |
Mint dear, please av a talk with ur husband. Let him at least include his kids name on his properties. Keep praying, God will change his mind on d next of kin issue. It's a big issue if u aren't his next of kin. |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Mnit: 11:51am On Oct 15, 2016 |
realdentist:my dear...i hv sat him down n talk to him yet no improvement.all he keep saying is that am i wishing anything bad happen to him. he doesn't like d idea of someone reporting him also. to think that we went to uk for vacation this August n he was like we shldnt let his family knows.his reasons was he dont hv money for der demands. |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Nobody: 11:55am On Oct 15, 2016 |
proudmom38:congratulations |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Ammy5565(f): 11:59am On Oct 15, 2016 |
jazzyjazz:Awwww, sowee dear. I have absolutely no idea how u can feel bera but maybe u can take urself out to some place u love. That should help brighten ur mood. Dont dull with the semo and afang soup oh, so u no go eat pesin Pele |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by sugah: 12:01pm On Oct 15, 2016 |
Akorkor:I don't think this is a right attitude towards marriage. Its a marriage not a biz partnership. Two shall become one...that should include family, finances, properties etc. 9 Likes |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by AlphaHandMaiden(f): 12:02pm On Oct 15, 2016 |
See some responses in red below. lexajen: 2 Likes |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Ammy5565(f): 12:05pm On Oct 15, 2016 |
Pls lexajen, i really love that cot. Does it have a name? And pls how much did u get it?? |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Mnit: 12:11pm On Oct 15, 2016 |
@ akorkor.....yes am working.although I started working January this year so all this while I hv been a stay at home mom.havin his kids n takin care of the home.so my dear we both hv everything even if my money is nt der cos I made all the sacrifices.beside I earn 80k monthly while hubby earn btw 800k-1m monthly.i even hv to struggle to spend my money on d house cos he ensure he provides everything. @ zheemub.....i hv oooo all he keep saying is that he will and I shld gv him time |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by peggygee: 12:11pm On Oct 15, 2016 |
Mnit: My dea if u have not been saving money for ur self, pls start doing so frm whatever hubby gives u, obviously ur inlaws are controlling and hubby is trying to be diplomatic so he won't hurt u. Why on earth will they dictate wat u guys shud do or shudnt do in ur home? Dnt let this bring choas into ur home, pray fervently that hubby shud listen to u, and ur inlaws shud hands off ur marriage. Pls that NOK issue is serious o, let him change it ASAP o, not because u wish his dead or anything, hubby shud knw the kind of family he has, n therefore do everything to protect u, u are his family now o, his parent n siblings r expended now. He needs to understand that. Apply wisdom dea, stay calm, all will be well. 2 Likes |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by sugah: 12:13pm On Oct 15, 2016 |
Lexajen you don't need another mattress... That first layer is the mattress. Don't know if its the same size as mine, but I use a pillowcase (100% cotton) as a bedsheet for it....I.e I put the mattress inside the pillowcase like a pillow so there are no loose clothings to prevent suffocation. |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Akorkor(f): 12:13pm On Oct 15, 2016 |
sugah:Well that's my opinion. May not be good for everyone |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Akorkor(f): 12:20pm On Oct 15, 2016 |
@Mnit, I understand what you are going through. But let me be sincere with you some men cannot just be forced to do somethings especially if you don't have any input in it and some men are easy like that. My 2 cent is start trying to save for your children because on a normal day you don't need to coarse him to put your name on the document is what is need but if he doesn't then pray he change is mind. Also, NOK is important. |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Nobody: 12:25pm On Oct 15, 2016 |
Mnit: Try and get ur marriage registered, it's very important. I have been married for 5yrs now and it has not been so easy with extended family from both sides, u guys might not get the full potential of ur marriage if extended family is involved in decision making in ur home. Talk to ur husband as a wise woman, you got all the powers. |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by peggygee: 12:28pm On Oct 15, 2016 |
Mamas abeg is it true that after an episiotomy during kpekus air will be coming out of the jajaina? Abeg wat is the best way to prevent this biko, Cox I overhead some people discussing this, tho I didn't hear their solution. I don't want to experience this biko. Any solution? 1 Like |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Nobody: 12:28pm On Oct 15, 2016 |
Mnit: Are you for real?! Pls pray hard o and try hard too to make sure (now or later) that your name or children's names enter those property documents! Or that he makes you or one of your children his next of kin which should be the case now that you are married. My God, can't you see what's happening here? The family wants to 'secure' their future with regard to their son's/brother's estate/benefits. Your hubby should consider you guys too. Sometimes, the family you think would take care of your wife and kids if God forbid something happens, can turn around and cheat them. They stopped ur court wedding? Ok, check if the certificate(s) the church gave you includes one from a registry. That is the same as one you would have gotten from a court wedding like someone up there said. My church gave us two certs -one from the registry and another from the church. My sister, you don't need to use force o but keep at it till your own future and that of your kids are secure. Best wishes. You guys would live long together in peace. Note- I doubt change of name in newspaper is sufficient to cover you or prove you were a legal wife and 'benefitee' to any money/estate. 3 Likes 1 Share |
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