http://writeitloud.com/this-is-the-real-reason-why-men-cheat/

Somewhere along the way, you will meet someone who will be more charming or sensitive than the person you’re already with or sexier, more thoughtful, wealthier, better in bed. You will meet someone who will need you and pursue you and go crazy over you more than your girlfriend ever did because no girlfriend is perfect. Your girl will only have 90 percent of what you’re looking for and cheating happens when you look for the missing 10 percent.

Let’s say your girlfriend is moody by nature. You may find yourself drawn to the pretty girl next-door who has a cheerleader laugh no matter what she says such as “I broke my arm yesterday, ha ha ha…” Or because your girlfriend is a couch potato who is always in pajamas and smelling of garlic and cooking oil, you may fall for the CK-One-smelling, colleague who comes to work in a sharp pinstripe blazer, high heels, and a red pencil-cut skirt. Or because your girlfriend’s the type who never shuts up even when you’ve tried using duct tape, your heart may skip a beat when you sit next to a brooding, mysterious quiet girl on the bus.

But wait! That’s only 10 percent of what you don’t have. Don’t throw away the 90 percent that you already do! Add to the 90 percent the 100 percent that represents all the time that you have been with each other, the storms you have weathered together, the many adjustments you have made to better understand each other’s little quirks and idiosyncrasies, the wealth of memories that you have accumulated as lovers, the old sparks that can always be rekindled by the walk on the beach, barefoot and underneath the stars just being with each other.

Cheating happens when you start looking for what you don’t have. But faithfulness happens when you start thanking God for what you already do.

Love is beautiful, and you should know how lucky you are to have found it with one person. It will all be worth it in the end, when it’s just you and your wife holding hands looking back on the wonderful life you had together, you don’t want to mess that up.

Everyone gets tempted from time to time, but part of being an adult is having self-control. If you can’t manage that, again, don’t get into a relationship. Spend some time alone, and grow up & gain some perspective. Don’t be fooled by the saying that ‘all men cheat’, because the woman you are with may just be one of the few who’s determined to be with a faithful man and if she’s worth it, you’ll be sorry to see her go.

http://writeitloud.com/this-is-the-real-reason-why-men-cheat/

So long

makydebbie:
So long

Not worth the time

Nice write up OP. If only peolple can learn to cherish what they have, cheating would be inexistent. A responsible guy has no cause to cheat, it's only for the confused and insecure ones.

Couldn't read the whole thing jus went through d start of each paragraphs and I'm impressed, buh, d topic shld be 'excuses' not 'reasons'.....tnx

Not saying right or wrong.... but men cheat because of ONE basic reason.... one woman cannot satisfy all his ehmmm... desires. A man may want just 5 attributes in a woman.... 1. same faith 2. a humble woman 3. can satisfy him in ehmmm... the other room ... 4. a good cook and 5.a woman with the physical attribute that sexcites him...
long legggs.. whatever.
It is soooo difficult to find all 5 in one woman... so he settles with the one with the most... 3 attributes. Love it or not... the other two must be met. .. he may find them in a single side chick... or one each in different side chicks. Wrong or right...it's the nature of man!

makydebbie:
So long

73... SMA... Jak**de... #fui... I think I know you, Deb.

blogstarr:
http://writeitloud.com/this-is-the-real-reason-why-men-cheat/

Somewhere along the way, you will meet someone who will be more charming or sensitive than the person you’re already with or sexier, more thoughtful, wealthier, better in bed. You will meet someone who will need you and pursue you and go crazy over you more than your girlfriend ever did because no girlfriend is perfect. Your girl will only have 90 percent of what you’re looking for and cheating happens when you look for the missing 10 percent.

Let’s say your girlfriend is moody by nature. You may find yourself drawn to the pretty girl next-door who has a cheerleader laugh no matter what she says such as “I broke my arm yesterday, ha ha ha…” Or because your girlfriend is a couch potato who is always in pajamas and smelling of garlic and cooking oil, you may fall for the CK-One-smelling, colleague who comes to work in a sharp pinstripe blazer, high heels, and a red pencil-cut skirt. Or because your girlfriend’s the type who never shuts up even when you’ve tried using duct tape, your heart may skip a beat when you sit next to a brooding, mysterious quiet girl on the bus.

But wait! That’s only 10 percent of what you don’t have. Don’t throw away the 90 percent that you already do! Add to the 90 percent the 100 percent that represents all the time that you have been with each other, the storms you have weathered together, the many adjustments you have made to better understand each other’s little quirks and idiosyncrasies, the wealth of memories that you have accumulated as lovers, the old sparks that can always be rekindled by the walk on the beach, barefoot and underneath the stars just being with each other.

Cheating happens when you start looking for what you don’t have. But faithfulness happens when you start thanking God for what you already do.

Love is beautiful, and you should know how lucky you are to have found it with one person. It will all be worth it in the end, when it’s just you and your wife holding hands looking back on the wonderful life you had together, you don’t want to mess that up.

Everyone gets tempted from time to time, but part of being an adult is having self-control. If you can’t manage that, again, don’t get into a relationship. Spend some time alone, and grow up & gain some perspective. Don’t be fooled by the saying that ‘all men cheat’, because the woman you are with may just be one of the few who’s determined to be with a faithful man and if she’s worth it, you’ll be sorry to see her go.

http://writeitloud.com/this-is-the-real-reason-why-men-cheat/

man is polygamous by nature ......men who dnt cheat r losing out on a whole life of fun

Originalsly:
Not saying right or wrong.... but men cheat because of ONE basic reason.... one woman cannot satisfy all his ehmmm... desires. A man may want just 5 attributes in a woman.... 1. same faith 2. a humble woman 3. can satisfy him in ehmmm... the other room ... 4. a good cook and 5.a woman with the physical attribute that sexcites him...
long legggs.. whatever.
It is soooo difficult to find all 5 in one woman... so he settles with the one with the most... 3 attributes. Love it or not... the other two must be met. .. he may find them in a single side chick... or one each in different side chicks. Wrong or right...it's the nature of man!

So do we think women find all they want in one man.
But they are meant to accept the one person and overlook the fact that she might not be enough for him.

Interesting

Lleigh:


So do we think women find all they want in one man.
But they are meant to accept the one person and overlook the fact that she might not be enough for him.

Interesting

Noooo... I don't think women find all they want in one man but.... whether we agree or disagree.... the reality is this is a man's world. When the man dashes around to satisfy his other desires... if noted... he's labeled a ladies man, a playa, a gigolo, a Casanova. ..all endearing terms. ... and if we are disgusted by his actions.... then we say he needs to settle down. But should a woman for the same reason take the same actions..... chai!... not a single endearing term for her actions... she is condemned..... labeled ashawo...for life. The fear of this label is what make most women not go after their other desires. The non label is what make ehmmm.... a few of us men do...fair/unfair.

while cheating remember.........a kii so fun Omode ko ma dete, to ba ti le dagbogbe

KunleSteel:


73... SMA... Jak**de... #fui... I think I know you, Deb.

sure you do

You attended SMA college?