Prince16:


Mon ami, I feel u, and I know where u are coming from/going (figuratively, that is), but I just stated d facts as written. It's now left for us to (dangerously) debate our 'personal beliefs' vz "Scriptural assertions". What will help us (u, I and them) out is: do we believe d scriptures is God's words/God's inspiration? The answer 2 ds 'basic' question is d key!

(Proverbs 14:12 KJV) There is a way which seemeth right unto a man, but the end thereof are the ways of death.

bayelsaowei:
oya na either the woman should never contemplate marriage or be ready to be single forever if she ever thinks of a divorce from a chronic cheating idiot....

coolcharm:
How can this people claim to be of God when they cannot practice Forgiveness and Love which are foundational to the Christian faith?

With what guts and conviction will they teach their congregation to forgive one another as Christ forgave the church?


When Men and women of 'God' cannont exhibit forgiveness and love which are fruits of the spirit, and coin out terms as 'irreconcilable difference' then you know that the devil has finally worn prada!

And so, my dear friends, just as you have always obeyed, not only when I was with you but even more now that I am absent, continue to work out your salvation with fear and trembling. Philippians 2:12

Let's focus on living a an acceptable life before God and leave all these bling bling and hyper prosperity pastors alone.

Prince16:

if u read my post carefully, I only stated what d holy script inferred. Whether she's a sinner or not is not mine to make/say. Do u believe what d scriptures infer as (earlier) stated?

If, after all u've seen from the scriptures-both from Christ and Paul, u feel her decision to remarry is RIGHTEOUS while her ex-husband is alive contrary to Scriptural assertions, .......... then I 'handz up'!

Topgainer:

You gave your own inference.
Mt 19:9 you quoted
Matthew 19:9 And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery.
If the whosoever divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery except she was divorced on account of her committing fornication. It is simply saying that he is guilty of of committing fornication ie adultery if he divorced his wife and remarried for anyother reason except...
the same woman who is sent away except on the condition that she was adulterous if she marries another man is guilty . If adultery is involved the man and woman divorced are free to re - marry is expressly implied.
But the problem with you folks is that you are quick to isolate only the divorced path and throw away the sequel which explained that the reason the people(the man) divorced was to go and marry another from that passage. Divorce and remarriage were inseparable in the discourse
Jesus didn't say any other thing about the fate of the divorced on account of adultery like death of partner. So don't go and add the words of Paul to it because it is a different scenario
Paul says the divorced should remain single except there is a death of a partner. He spoke of the flimpsy excuses that people divorced for in the prevailing Jewish culture of then. For him, such flimpsy excuses should not be entertained. Therefore, if one is separated from one's spouse the person should patiently wait as there could be chances of reconciliation, however, he didn't specifically mention the words of Jesus which dealth on the weightier issue of Adultery, which of course, he, Paul, cannot overrule.

yakubumohammed81:
That's not true

yakubumohammed81:
That's not true

Topgainer:


Quote it properly Mt 5:32, gave reasons for it not to be considered as Adultery

mastermaestro:
[s][/s]


Silence conceals myopia, shortsightedness and bigotry. You should embrace.

coolcharm:
How can this people claim to be of God when they cannot practice Forgiveness and Love which are foundational to the Christian faith?

With what guts and conviction will they teach their congregation to forgive one another as Christ forgave the church?


When Men and women of 'God' cannont exhibit forgiveness and love which are fruits of the spirit, and coin out terms as 'irreconcilable difference' then you know that the devil has finally worn prada!

And so, my dear friends, just as you have always obeyed, not only when I was with you but even more now that I am absent, continue to work out your salvation with fear and trembling. Philippians 2:12

Let's focus on living a an acceptable life before God and leave all these bling bling and hyper prosperity pastors alone.

coolcharm:
How can this people claim to be of God when they cannot practice Forgiveness and Love which are foundational to the Christian faith?

With what guts and conviction will they teach their congregation to forgive one another as Christ forgave the church?


When Men and women of 'God' cannont exhibit forgiveness and love which are fruits of the spirit, and coin out terms as 'irreconcilable difference' then you know that the devil has finally worn prada!

And so, my dear friends, just as you have always obeyed, not only when I was with you but even more now that I am absent, continue to work out your salvation with fear and trembling. Philippians 2:12

Let's focus on living a an acceptable life before God and leave all these bling bling and hyper prosperity pastors alone.

coolcharm:
How can this people claim to be of God when they cannot practice Forgiveness and Love which are foundational to the Christian faith?

With what guts and conviction will they teach their congregation to forgive one another as Christ forgave the church?


When Men and women of 'God' cannont exhibit forgiveness and love which are fruits of the spirit, and coin out terms as 'irreconcilable difference' then you know that the devil has finally worn prada!

And so, my dear friends, just as you have always obeyed, not only when I was with you but even more now that I am absent, continue to work out your salvation with fear and trembling. Philippians 2:12

Let's focus on living a an acceptable life before God and leave all these bling bling and hyper prosperity pastors alone.

Prince16:

Topgainer:

You gave your own inference.
Mt 19:9 you quoted
Matthew 19:9 And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery.
If the whosoever divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery except she was divorced on account of her committing fornication. It is simply saying that he is guilty of of committing fornication ie adultery if he divorced his wife and remarried for anyother reason except...
the same woman who is sent away except on the condition that she was adulterous if she marries another man is guilty. If Adultery is involved the man and woman divorced are free to re - marry is expressly implied.
But the problem with you folks is that you are quick to isolate only the divorced path and throw away the sequel which explained that the reason the people(the man) divorced was to go and marry another from that passage. Divorce and remarriage were inseparable in the discourse
Jesus didn't say any other thing about the fate of the divorced on account of adultery like death of partner. So don't go and add the words of Paul to it because it is a different scenario
Paul says the divorced should remain single except there is a death of a partner. He spoke of the flimpsy excuses that people divorced for in the prevailing Jewish culture of then. For him, such flimpsy excuses should not be entertained. Therefore, if one is separated from one's spouse the person should patiently wait as there could be chances of reconciliation, however, he didn't specifically mention the words of Jesus which dealth on the weightier issue of Adultery, which of course, he, Paul, cannot overrule.

lofty900:
how did you know the miracles are fake?

meezynetwork:
New generation Christians. Easy come, easy go.

Prince16:


Very slippery path!
If according to u, adultery is d only reason why a spouse can remarry, then based on Matthew 5 28 every couple has committed adultery and as such have 'legal' grounds to divorce and then remarry.

Ugik:
I do not claim to know the bible but I believe that the sanctity of marriage holds a supreme preference in God's scale,little wonder he said it is till death do them part and my take is that the bible is against it and whoever divorces and remarries,hath committed adultery.shes a pastor and should know better

Topgainer:

Popular opinion but not correct. Till death do them path as a meme is not restrictive when adulterous ground is considered.
Someone tried to justify that opinion with Matthew 5:32, I pointed it out to him that he just chose the first statement on divorce but deliberately didn't account for remarriage which was part of that passage.

Africans are a mess of a race little wonder nothing is working. The Europeans and Church that brought Christianity to Africa dissolves marriages justifiably on account of unrepentant adulterous life. They translated the Bible to a language that dull brain Africans will understand, they hold the original texts in Greek, they own Latin as a language. Today Africa (blacks) claim to have the honour of giving the only correct interpretations to the Bible and extrapolating laws thereby.

coolcharm:
How can this people claim to be of God when they cannot practice Forgiveness and Love which are foundational to the Christian faith?

With what guts and conviction will they teach their congregation to forgive one another as Christ forgave the church?


When Men and women of 'God' cannont exhibit forgiveness and love which are fruits of the spirit, and coin out terms as 'irreconcilable difference' then you know that the devil has finally worn prada!

And so, my dear friends, just as you have always obeyed, not only when I was with you but even more now that I am absent, continue to work out your salvation with fear and trembling. Philippians 2:12

Let's focus on living a an acceptable life before God and leave all these bling bling and hyper prosperity pastors alone.

So Mr. Scripture quoter, Who are u blaming now? The woman dat divorces the husband and marry another dat if u people are are sure of ur rumors o or the husband dat she divorced which of dem now is not practicing Christianity? Because the the man of God is still very very single not even ready to re-marry even with his wedding ring still on. Who is not practicing Christianity now. Becareful of ur judgement because these people are Pastor before attract problems to ur own marriage ok?

Topgainer:


Quote it properly Mt 5:32, gave reasons for it not to be considered as Adultery

TonyeBarcanista:
Anita should just drop the pastor title. The kind of Christianity we have today is End Time Christianity. This is why o dislike most of these Churches.

Same people will mount pulpit to preach love and understanding but are serial cheats and highly wicked.

I am 200% sure that Mrs Anita has been seeing this man even before her divorce with Mr Chris Oyahkilome.

Anyway, both Mr Chris and Mrs Anita are serial cheats.

Sanchez01:
The ish that led to the breakup of the two is beyond lack of quality time with one another as most people believe but on grounds of adultery. I kinda like Pastor, not for the curly hair but for his understanding of indepth teachings. I believe the issue is beyond what was dished to the world and the woman was fair to a reasonable extent to just seek divorce and move on without causing heavy damages to Pastor Chris and his church. Divorce isn't a sin in Christianity so far it is sought after on adultery grounds.

However, this negates the love teachings of Pastor Chris and his church. He believes he has a ministry but the main one in his care has failed and all other things are near fail at this time because a pastor whose home crumbles has failed in all ramifications. I can only imagine the type of counselling the duo would give to several people here on, particularly on marriage related issues and tolerating one another.

It is even more disgusting to imagine another man on this woman. This is nothing but sheer embarrassment. There's nothing left for Pastor Chris to preach on Love, forgiveness, marriage counselling and tolerance in marriage. Though I am no God, I sure wouldn't take my marital life to people like him to lead me aright. This is quite shameful.