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Re: Guidelines To Be That Model Girlfriend by kinglekan: 11:36am On Oct 17, 2016
mhisbliss:
[size=45pt] k mr ancestor i dont have time for this, [/size]

If you like type in font size 100, doesn't change the fact that you goofed, Mrs FOETUS. grin grin

Will you get off my mentions and stop ridiculing yourself further. undecided undecided

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Re: Guidelines To Be That Model Girlfriend by misspicy(f): 11:40am On Oct 17, 2016
kinglekan:

Eba mi kilo fun sha ....To ba loun le te oju mi mole, emi gan ma so fun pe mio gbadun grin grin

Mo ti gbo sha, boya okan wa wahala mi ni sha but ko try sha. smiley

Re: Guidelines To Be That Model Girlfriend by kinglekan: 11:41am On Oct 17, 2016
misspicy:
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Warrapun? grin grin

Re: Guidelines To Be That Model Girlfriend by vikkeee(m): 11:45am On Oct 17, 2016
Diddyydiva:
Really,


Gist me smiley
Ah ah its obvious NA she does not want to agree with you and same goes for you. You guys should just merge your points into one shikina.
Re: Guidelines To Be That Model Girlfriend by Nobody: 11:47am On Oct 17, 2016
misspicy:

Lol,I trust you wink

Only God knows where they all migrated from,both male and female goats grin


#bringbackoutoldromanceland
Lol,u r wicked.
Re: Guidelines To Be That Model Girlfriend by Nobody: 11:48am On Oct 17, 2016
selfmadeOLX:


You my dear are the definition of someone who has values, knows what she wants and won't settle for anything less cool

My kind of woman smiley
Thanks for the compliment.

Just can't be swayed by their opinions.
Re: Guidelines To Be That Model Girlfriend by Nobody: 11:48am On Oct 17, 2016
selfmadeOLX:


You my dear are the definition of someone who has values, knows what she wants and won't settle for anything less cool

My kind of woman smiley
Thanks for the compliment.

Just can't be swayed by their opinion.
Re: Guidelines To Be That Model Girlfriend by DemonMonkey7(m): 11:49am On Oct 17, 2016
Diddyydiva:


I believe everyone has the right to his or her own opinion, either right or wrong . Its a matter of choice to change or opinion or not when you are corrected.


Sir Hope Aisha no dey that other room wink grin
now you're talking! my dear .. Aisha dey the oza room o.!

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Re: Guidelines To Be That Model Girlfriend by Nobody: 11:52am On Oct 17, 2016
motherfucker:
hahahahahahah.... grin grin grin grin Anyway, it is your opinion. You are not in a serious relationship IMO and you are clearly playing safe cos of fear and therefore holding back things you should naturally do because you do not trust your relationship
Serious relationships!, lol...have had one or two but thank God i didn't go further with them(engagement), would have had regrets in marriage.
A girl is just being careful. grin
Re: Guidelines To Be That Model Girlfriend by Nobody: 11:52am On Oct 17, 2016
misspicy:

Why you see type mountain before grin
mountain kor,when I no be cele member grin


As long as you pray for the sick,poor and even Nigeria,there is nothing stopping a lady from praying for her boyfriend.
And if I fast for myself, I can equally include my boify too.... lobatan,oro ti o to ja ni,but the babe seem like the rude type,that's why I just free her,mi le je ki omo ti o gbadun kan fimi koroso grin
grin grin ehehehegrin grin

Some babes ehn.... What's bad in praying for your boyfriend, I pray for my friends and family so why won't I pray for someone I claim to love. Someone I would probably spend the rest of my life with.

If you cant wish him well, why date him?

Wonder why my ex still begs me to come back, because he noticed some changes in his life since we broke up.

The lady is right to some extent but then again why not do your own part and leave the rest for God.

These guys aren't fools, A friend once told me 'If I date a lady for six months and I notice no positive changes in my life, I will dump her'


If she cant pray for her boyfriend how will she pray for her husband.

Rome was not built in a day nah?


Omo yee Ni isoro nla. grin ko ma bayii. Emi ko Ni mo bi grin

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Re: Guidelines To Be That Model Girlfriend by sosa993: 11:52am On Oct 17, 2016
I love the financial stability part, I remembered I opened a thread back then about girls who have nothing to offer than to beg from guys. God thaat day I was lashed in fact some girls even cursed my existence. Now its funny this same set of girls now know how important it is to be financially okay. I guess people learn everyday.


herbie27 no vex, I understand your POV , I wouldn't wanna stress myself too much on a guy am not so sure about. The best thing in life is to let things flow naturally, no manual .and nothing, because if you like do all those things listed above he will cheat, and you'll be surprised this same guy you are following all this manual for would call you fake and move on with life.

all I know is just follow the natural flow, no need for rules, because the more you over do things the more you look too desperate.



we ladies love manual sha........ lmao
Re: Guidelines To Be That Model Girlfriend by Nobody: 11:54am On Oct 17, 2016
mhisbliss:
you and analysis like 5&6,good morning
tongue

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Re: Guidelines To Be That Model Girlfriend by Nobody: 11:58am On Oct 17, 2016
motherfucker:
You are missing the point. Here is what I can deduce from her responses

1. She is not in a serious relationship, one that is likely to lead to the alter

2. She has not met a guy who is committed to her

3. She does not trust her relationship with the guy she is with, nothing is certain is certain and she feel it might lead to nowhere

4. She has a good heart but just playing safe, not giving much effort so that when it happens ( she subconsciously expect a break up) she would not feel much hurts.

I expect her not to admit to the points raised here by me but she knows I speaking what might not be obvious to people.
She has the right to her opinion, ruling out mine and trying to impose her warped opinion on me is the problem.

I care less how she handles her relationships,

I will be a cheerleader if things go well and will also be a shoulder to cry on if things so sour.

I don't force people to see things my way.

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Re: Guidelines To Be That Model Girlfriend by Nobody: 11:59am On Oct 17, 2016
sosa993:
I love the financial stability part, I remembered I opened a thread back then about girls who have nothing to offer than to beg from guys. God thaat day I was lashed in fact some girls even cursed my existence. Now its funny this same set of girls now know how important it is to be financially okay. I guess people learn everyday.


herbie.27 no vex, I understand your POV , I wouldn't wanna stress myself too much on a guy am not so sure about. The best thing in life is to let things flow naturally, no manual .and nothing, because if you like do all those things listed above he will cheat, and you'll be surprised this same guy you are following all this manual for would call you fake and move on with life.

all I know is just follow the natural flow, no need for rules, because the more you over do things the more you look too desperate.



We ladies love manual sha...Imao
@ the bold, I sincerely don't follow do's and don't...live my life how God directs me and ask him to grant me my heart desires cos i have a lot of them. grin
As for relationships...Men are actually different so i won't bother myself trying to impress any...if he loves me the way i'm with all my short comings then we're good to go.
Re: Guidelines To Be That Model Girlfriend by motherfucker: 12:00pm On Oct 17, 2016
herbie27:
Serious relationships!, lol...have had one or two but thank God i didn't go further with them(engagement), would have had regrets in marriage.
A girl is just being careful. grin
The emboldened finally captures what I have been suspecting. It is okay to be careful. Do not over do it. It could backfire because the other might sense it and read a different meaning to it and if it is a case of where he has been very opened to you in all his dealings, you might end up losing that great guy. caution.

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Re: Guidelines To Be That Model Girlfriend by Nobody: 12:01pm On Oct 17, 2016
judeefcc:

see your life, i tease most times with all these talk but you cheesy you show public stupid*y look at this rubbish thread that you created is there is bigger clown than you, una go dey do nonsense up and down and still form decent rubbish person
Is like something is wrong with ur head undecided undecided mumu boy.
Re: Guidelines To Be That Model Girlfriend by Nobody: 12:01pm On Oct 17, 2016
kinglekan:


Eba mi kilo fun sha.....To ba loun le te oju mi mole, emi gan ma so fun pe mio gbadun grin grin

Mo ti gbo sha, boya okan wa wahala mi ni sha but ko try sha. smiley
hehheheheh grin grin

Ema so wipe e feel eh, Ati ti gbo sha . Ko ni wahala yii mo

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Re: Guidelines To Be That Model Girlfriend by SalomonKane: 12:02pm On Oct 17, 2016
Winnelyn:

oh well that's not the issue on ground now
Be that as it may, care to share your tale, or perhaps you prefer sharing privately, outside the annoying gaze of juvenile public eyes. smiley grin
Re: Guidelines To Be That Model Girlfriend by Nobody: 12:04pm On Oct 17, 2016
prettythicksme:
Is like something is wrong with ur head undecided undecided mumu boy.
shut up black girl insulting people yeye person
Re: Guidelines To Be That Model Girlfriend by Nobody: 12:05pm On Oct 17, 2016
vikkeee:

Ah ah its obvious NA she does not want to agree with you and same goes for you. You guys should just merge your points into one shikina.
Thats for the audience to do smiley smiley

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Re: Guidelines To Be That Model Girlfriend by motherfucker: 12:05pm On Oct 17, 2016
sosa993:
I love the financial stability part, I remembered I opened a thread back then about girls who have nothing to offer than to beg from guys. God thaat day I was lashed in fact some girls even cursed my existence. Now its funny this same set of girls now know how important it is to be financially okay. I guess people learn everyday.


herbie27 no vex, I understand your POV , I wouldn't wanna stress myself too much on a guy am not so sure about. The best thing in life is to let things flow naturally, no manual .and nothing, because if you like do all those things listed above he will cheat, and you'll be surprised this same guy you are following all this manual for would call you fake and move on with life.

all I know is just follow the natural flow, no need for rules, because the more you over do things the more you look too desperate.



we ladies love manual sha........ lmao
They keep revealing more reasons why they do not agree with the OP lol.
Re: Guidelines To Be That Model Girlfriend by misspicy(f): 12:07pm On Oct 17, 2016
kinglekan:
Warrapun? grin grin
You been dey type Sha all over grin

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Re: Guidelines To Be That Model Girlfriend by sosa993: 12:08pm On Oct 17, 2016
herbie27:
@ the bold, I sincerely don't follow do's and don't...live my life how God directs me and ask him to grant me my heart desires cos i have a lot of them. grin
As for relationships...Men are actually different so i won't bother myself trying to impress any...if he loves me the way i'm with all my short comings then we're good to go.




over impressing sef push this same men away, there's no rules to relationship. I believe if you aren't mean and you are down to heart then that's the ultimate.

why try to impress men always...... not that I don't have a bf myself, but I just flow with him naturally and that's it. no need for manuals sincerely.


please babes don't come for my head ooo....... grabs helmet grin
herbie27:
@ the bold, I sincerely don't follow do's and don't...live my life how God directs me and ask him to grant me my heart desires cos i have a lot of them. grin
As for relationships...Men are actually different so i won't bother myself trying to impress any...if he loves me the way i'm with all my short comings then we're good to go.




over impressing sef push this same men away, there's no rules to relationship. I believe if you aren't mean and you are down to heart then that's the ultimate.

why try to impress men always...... not that I don't have a bf myself, but I just flow with him naturally and that's it. no need for manuals sincerely, because I still don't get it sha.


please babes don't come for my head ooo....... grabs helmet
Re: Guidelines To Be That Model Girlfriend by sosa993: 12:11pm On Oct 17, 2016
motherfucker:
They keep revealing more reasons why they do not agree with the OP lol.




look I don't disagree with the op, she raised nice points which certainly works for her. I pray for my man..... but always trying to hard with manuals like this always makes me laugh.


I don't know sef, everyone has their lives to live
Re: Guidelines To Be That Model Girlfriend by misspicy(f): 12:13pm On Oct 17, 2016
sosa993:
I love the financial stability part, I remembered I opened a thread back then about girls who have nothing to offer than to beg from guys. God thaat day I was lashed in fact some girls even cursed my existence. Now its funny this same set of girls now know how important it is to be financially okay. I guess people learn everyday.


herbie27 no vex, I understand your POV , I wouldn't wanna stress myself too much on a guy am not so sure about. The best thing in life is to let things flow naturally, no manual .and nothing, because if you like do all those things listed above he will cheat, and you'll be surprised this same guy you are following all this manual for would call you fake and move on with life.

all I know is just follow the natural flow, no need for rules, because the more you over do things the more you look too desperate.



we ladies love manual sha........ lmao
This must be Esosa grin

I remember that thread of yours very well,and I was even the one that started bashing you grin but not because you adviced ladies to stop asking guys for money.

You directed your sermon to Nairaland girls using your female offline friends as an example. My input that day was that you should have directed your sermon to those friends of yours, you then went ahead to make it look like girls on Nairaland are beggers grin.

Nobody is giving relationship manuals here,if you had read my initial post and that of the OP we indicated that this is not an exclusive,because what worked for A might not work for B.

These thread is just an advice for every girl out there.
you can take it or leave it,no be fight grin

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Re: Guidelines To Be That Model Girlfriend by Laveda(f): 12:16pm On Oct 17, 2016
nwamehn:



I've seen some of ur comments on certain issues and then this thread, if all u say including the points u raised on this thread are all as a result of experience, then experience must really be a fantastic teacher. Keep it up, pls.

Thank you.
Re: Guidelines To Be That Model Girlfriend by Laveda(f): 12:18pm On Oct 17, 2016
kinglekan:


Well tbh even guys make ladies think this way. You hear things like "if you really love me you would give me the cookie". I ain't here to preach tho, but if sex isn't priority for you as a lady, don't let a guy brainwash you into thinking that he would love you more after "being with you".

Most ladies don't even know what they want, some are just too bored of their own company and jump into any available relationship, some ricochet from one breakup to the next available guy there to console them, others just think at a particular age they should have some guy they call a bf. If your own company bores you to death, then how do you intend to keep a guy in a relationship for long? If you don't love yourself, how do you expect someone else to love you? If you don't know your value, how do you expect a guy to value you?

Abeg make I continue to dey read comments jare! lol


kisskiss

You've said it all jare. cool

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Re: Guidelines To Be That Model Girlfriend by misspicy(f): 12:19pm On Oct 17, 2016
Diddyydiva:
grin grin ehehehegrin grin

Some babes ehn.... What's bad in praying for your boyfriend, I pray for my friends and family so why won't I pray for someone I claim to love. Someone I would probably spend the rest of my life with.

If you cant wish him well, why date him?

Wonder why my ex still begs me to come back, because he noticed some changes in his life since we broke up.

The lady is right to some extent but then again why not do your own part and leave the rest for God.

These guys aren't fools, A friend once told me 'If I date a lady for six months and I notice no positive changes in my life, I will dump her'


If she cant pray for her boyfriend how will she pray for her husband.

Rome was not built in a day nah?


Omo yee Ni isoro nla. grin ko ma bayii. Emi ko Ni mo bi grin
The truth is just so bitter.

I think some girls are just paranoid, because this thread is not encouraging girls to impress any man,it is actually the other way round.

The OP raised points like

1)Do not be clingy
2)Don't over demand from your guy.
3)Your pvssy can't keep him
4)Help him grow.
etc.
I think some people have comprehension problems. eg read with their brains upside down,that was why I gave a warning that anyone who intend to quote should hold his/her brains along grin

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Re: Guidelines To Be That Model Girlfriend by Nobody: 12:20pm On Oct 17, 2016
Diddyydiva:
Maybe, or probably just a young delinquent, Or one who thinks the world revolves around her finger.


Break up isn't one persons fault, you may think you are alright and perfect when the other partner yearns for more.

Break ups shouldn't be seen as a disaster but also a pointer to show we aren't there yet.

If she is heart broken like you said then she needs This thread more. To avoid further heart ache and to make herself a better woman.

And i still repeat if she does these points made on this thread and still loose bfs, She should Pray!!!

Pray for herself
Pray for her boyfriend
Pray for their future together!!!




You're seriously not getting it.
I don't need those Laveda's do's and don't cos i don't do those stuffs she stated...so i passed her down and saw what you wrote which was laughable to me...seriously!, fasting and praying for bfs?. cheesy You will get tired of fasting eventually.

About heart break, i have been and it's in the past, in an amazing relationship now, i don't reason with my pussy like some of you do so you're free to call it whatever you like.
Pride!.
Bragging!.
Blah! Blah!! Blah!!!, i sincerely care less cos i make my choices.

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Re: Guidelines To Be That Model Girlfriend by sosa993: 12:24pm On Oct 17, 2016
misspicy:

This must be Esosa grin

I remember that thread of yours very well,and I was even the one that started bashing you grin but not because you adviced ladies to stop asking guys for money.

You directed your sermon to Nairaland girls using your female offline friends as an example. My input that day was that you should have directed your sermon to those friends of yours, you then went ahead to make it look like girls on Nairaland are beggers grin.

Nobody is giving relationship manuals here,if you had read my initial post and that of the OP we indicated that this is not an exclusive,because what worked for A might not work for B.

These thread is just an advice for every girl out there.
you can take it or leave it,no be fight grin






well I still don't even keep female friends, I mentioned my male friends that day not female friends,but most people misquoted me that day. the mistake most people made that day was that they were so angry but they didn't even get I was only trying to give an advice, in my own way.... I didn't even know most girls would flare up.
Re: Guidelines To Be That Model Girlfriend by Nobody: 12:24pm On Oct 17, 2016
motherfucker:
You are missing the point. Here is what I can deduce from her responses

1. She is not in a serious relationship, one that is likely to lead to the alter

2. She has not met a guy who is committed to her

3. She does not trust her relationship with the guy she is with, nothing is certain is certain and she feel it might lead to nowhere

4. She has a good heart but just playing safe, not giving much effort so that when it happens ( she subconsciously expect a break up) she would not feel much hurts.

I expect her not to admit to the points raised here by me but she knows I speaking what might not be obvious to people.
You're wrong on your first and second point.
Re: Guidelines To Be That Model Girlfriend by Nobody: 12:25pm On Oct 17, 2016
misspicy:

The truth is just so bitter.

I think some girls are just paranoid, because this thread is not encouraging girls to impress any man,it is actually the other way round.

The OP raised points like

1)Do not be clingy
2)Don't over demand from your guy.
3)Your pvssy can't keep him
4)Help him grow.
etc.
I think some people have comprehension problems. eg read with their brains upside down,that was why I gave a warning that anyone who intend to quote should hold his/her brains along grin
Some people read comments and not the original post. Instead of digesting all they filter the ones that suit their lives and situations.

This thread is trying to make them a better women but nah seems we have kids who dont want to grow up here.

Let them continue to wallow in their ocean of ignorance/Foolishness. We have said ours, he that has hears let him hear.

No be by force oo

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