sosa993:





look I don't disagree with the op, she raised nice points which certainly works for her. I pray for my man..... but always trying to hard with manuals like this always makes me laugh.


I don't know sef, everyone has their lives to live

motherfucker:
The emboldened finally captures what I have been suspecting. It is okay to be careful. Do not over do it. It could backfire because the other might sense it and read a different meaning to it and if it is a case of where he has been very opened to you in all his dealings, you might end up losing that great guy. caution.

herbie27:
You're seriously not getting it.
I don't need those Laveda's do's and don't cos i don't do those stuffs she stated...so i passed her down and saw what you wrote which was laughable to me...seriously!, fasting and praying for bfs?. You will get tired of fasting eventually.

About heart break, i have been and it's in the past, in an amazing relationship now, i don't reason with my pussy like some of you do so you're free to call it whatever you like.
Pride!.
Bragging!.
Blah! Blah!! Blah!!!, i sincerely care less cos i make my choices.

herbie27:
@ the bold, I sincerely don't follow do's and don't...live my life how God directs me and ask him to grant me my heart desires cos i have a lot of them.
As for relationships... Men are actually different so i won't bother myself trying to impress any...if he loves me the way i'm with all my short comings then we're good to go.

DissTroy:




[color=red] ALL women fall in love for selfish reasons, even the most noble woman.

If you ask any girl who's registered her presence on this thread why she fell in love with her boyfriend or why she'd fall in love in the future, she'd reply with one, two or all of the below:

1. He makes ME laugh and happy.

2. He respects ME.

3. He listens to me , shows concern about me and gives ME attention when I need it.

4. He makes me feel special and like a top priority in life.

5. He looks like someone who'd fit into the kind of future I WANT.

Notice I deliberately left out financial benefits? I want to keep the argument straight.

Every woman's reason for falling in love is conditional. She doesn't set out to better the guy's life but she's out for how he fits into her agenda.


She might be the most loving and faithful girlfriend in the world but her reasons for loving you are selfish all the same.

The moment you stop making her laugh, happy or making her the center of your world (even if you're still faithful and rock her bed like never before), she'd start thinking of someone who'd make her feel the way you used to.


Men, on the other hand, love selflessly when they fall in love.


It tastes like quinine when you absorp it but it's the truth all the same. [/b]

Laveda:


Herbie you know, what works for you might not work for the other.
What's even bad in praying for who you call your man? Afterall its for the betterment of you too.

Its her opinion afterall, drop the argument girls.

herbie27:
You're seriously not getting it.
I don't need those Laveda's do's and don't cos i don't do those stuffs she stated...so i passed her down and saw what you wrote which was laughable to me...seriously!, fasting and praying for bfs?. You will get tired of fasting eventually.

About heart break, i have been and it's in the past, in an amazing relationship now, i don't reason with my pussy like some of you do so you're free to call it whatever you like.
Pride!.
Bragging!.
Blah! Blah!! Blah!!!, i sincerely care less cos i make my choices.

herbie27:
Now you made the point.
Her opinion and i stated mine then she went rogue.

I will repeat myself again, your man has different definitions now and hope you know that.
Your bf isn't your man...could be anybody's man. so why will i be fasting and praying for him for our betterment when anything can happen in the relationship?.

My Fiance...my man, there's a ring on the finger so won't mind praying for him.

My Husband...my man fully, i will do anything for him.

Hope you get my point.

motherfucker:
success in life has a manual and I believe you would agree with me on that. If you read my post above, you will see where i stated that LOTS of girls know nothing about keeping a man and therefore, a post like this will set the wise ones straight and weed them out of the "waiting list" or "queue".

I also gave instances with reasons for why I wouldn't take back 3 girls in my life because of the way they handled past issues. It is same way men sieve through to know whom to settle down with. It is a man's world, we own the purchasing power, we select, we mine, we extract and we explore... it will always be US making the decision of whom we want to settle down with.

Diddyydiva:
Herbbie Herbie my little naïve darling.

What can I do with you?

Just move on , huh


Been through with you since last night

Laveda:


How. Would you know the man who'll marry you? Everything starts from somewhere, the married people you see today, some started off as just friends.
Like I always tell my friends, always give that guy the benefit of doubt you don't know where that little 'friendship' would get to.

How do you date someone you don't see a future with? In as much as I know all relationships don't lead to marriage, I know we all wish to be with person we love.

My boyfriend, that period we are dating. Is my man.

And you may not be his woman.

herbie27:
And you may not be his woman.

herbie27:
Lol.
Maturity is not matured by age, it's been proven that as one ages the mind goes to a state of Tabula rasa.

I feel you should go through the bbm guy's comment like 7 times for comprehension purpose.

Have a nice day!.

Laveda:

you never can tell.

Diddyydiva:
I hope you wont play the victim's card if I finally bounce on you cos you are starting to irk me with your rudeness .

Why not start by answering my questions on the first page then I will dish out more questions to slap you out of your delusions.

Why ignore TS.OM's post?

See young lady if you can't express yourself, get your mind straight then pls go twerk on a Cactus plant.

herbie27:
Well rehearsed lines...so like nairalanders.

You piqued yourself in the first page by sounding rude.

I don't owe you explanations, so you should go to the bbm guy's post.

And lastly!, keep throwing your best shots...you look too old for childish stuffs like e-brawls.

You.. You like trouble ehn

herbie27:
I do.
It happens...so no need claiming your bfs woman.

OBTSubtle:


You.. You like trouble ehn

herbie27:
Well rehearsed lines...so like nairalanders.

You piqued yourself in the first page by sounding rude.

I don't owe you explanations, so you should go to the bbm guy's post.

And lastly!, keep throwing your best shots...you look too old for childish stuffs like e-brawls.

judeefcc:
and diddyydiva is killing her

nubian999:
Nice points lav eda.

Diddydiva:
Playing the card already?
You started rudely by ruling out my points just incase it escaped your mind.

I still maintain my rule, I wont have a brawl with you. At least for the sake that I will be a mother someday


If I throw my weakest shot, girl you will hate me forever. Trust me


Like I said earlier, if you don't have anything sensible to say in a polite way just fvck off my mentions ( sorry I used the censored word on you) you caused it.

Jesu Kristi

Diddyydiva:
Playing the card already?
You started rudely by ruling out my points just incase it escaped your mind.

I still maintain my rule, I wont have a brawl with you. At least for the sake that I will be a mother someday


If I throw my weakest shot, girl you will hate me forever. Trust me


Like I said earlier, if you don't have anything sensible to say in a polite way just fvck off my mentions ( sorry I used the censored word on you) you caused it.

Laveda:


Thank you, Nubian.

OBTSubtle:
Let me quickly catch up...


I like cat fights..

Diddyydiva:
Playing the card already?
You started rudely by ruling out my points just incase it escaped your mind.

I still maintain my rule, I wont have a brawl with you. At least for the sake that I will be a mother someday


If I throw my weakest shot, girl you will hate me forever. Trust me


Like I said earlier, if you don't have anything sensible to say in a polite way just fvck off my mentions ( sorry I used the censored word on you) you caused it.

Diddyydiva:
Playing the card already?
You started rudely by ruling out my points just incase it escaped your mind.

I still maintain my rule, I wont have a brawl with you. At least for the sake that I will be a mother someday


If I throw my weakest shot, girl you will hate me forever. Trust me


Like I said earlier, if you don't have anything sensible to say in a polite way just fvck off my mentions ( sorry I used the censored word on you) you caused it.

nubian999:


You're welcome sweetie and I hope you're well

Diddyydiva:
No fights


Sorry eh

Twerking on a cactus plant seems like a good idea..

She gon be all spiked up and shiiii

OBTSubtle:


You.. You like trouble ehn