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If You Were In His/her Shoes... by Mimzyy(f): 9:38am On Oct 18, 2016
A wife asked her husband to drop her off at a friend's house where a wedding reception was taking place. He responded that he would be too busy throughout the day in the office, and gave her some money to use as taxi for transport.

He left for the office. The wife took a taxi to the wedding reception,there she met a fine Girl and they got talking to each other.
Soon they became friends. In the evening when everyone was leaving, the Girl asked the Woman how she was going home. She replied that her husband was too busy in the office to pick her up so she would use a taxi.

The Girl responded; "My boyfriend brought me here and would be coming to pick me up. I just spoke to him on the phone and he's on his way.
Why don't you join me in his car and we would drop you at your house"The woman agreed. A few minutes later, her husband's car arrived. The Girl jumped into the front passengers seat of the car and asked the Woman to sit at the backseat, which she did confused and perturbed. Then the Girl introduced her new friend to her boyfriend. When the man turned around to greet the woman, he recognized her as his wife. Nothing much was said along the way.

He dropped the wife at home first as planned and proceeded to drop the Girl at her house.

The question now is: If you were the wife, what would you do when your husband returns home?
If you were the husband, what would you say to your wife when you return home?


#COPIED

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Re: If You Were In His/her Shoes... by lezznjr: 9:46am On Oct 18, 2016
Mimzyy:
A wife asked her husband to drop her off at a friends house where a wedding reception was taking place. He responded that he would be too busy throughout the day in the office, and gave her some money to use as taxi for transport.

He left for the office. The wife took a taxi to the wedding reception,there she met a fine Girl and they got talking to each other.
Soon they became friends. In the evening when everyone was leaving, the Girl asked the Woman how she was going home. She replied that her husband was too busy in the office to pick her up so she would use a taxi.

The Girl responded; "My boyfriend brought me here and would be coming to pick me up. I just spoke to him on the phone and he's on his way.
Why don't you join me in his car and we would drop you at your house"The woman agreed. A few minutes later, her husband's car arrived. The Girl jumped into the front passengers seat of the car and asked the Woman to sit at the backseat, which she did confused and perturbed. Then the Girl introduced her new friend to her boyfriend. When the man turned around to greet the woman, he recognized her as his wife. Nothing much was said along the way.

He dropped the wife at home first as planned and proceeded to drop the Girl at her house.

The question now is: If you were the wife, what would you do when your husband returns home?
If you were the husband, what would you say to your wife when you return home?


#COPIED
The wife should have sought explanation right there in the car without giving room for ambiguity and lies.
Re: If You Were In His/her Shoes... by Mimzyy(f): 9:48am On Oct 18, 2016
lezznjr:
The wife should have sought explanation right there in the car without giving room for ambiguity and lies.

She was too perplexed for words i presume and she probably did not want to create a scene.

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Re: If You Were In His/her Shoes... by lezznjr: 9:52am On Oct 18, 2016
Mimzyy:


She was too perplexed for words i presume and she probably did not want to create a scene.
Well, there was enough time lag during the course of the journey. She would have summoned up courage. That's her marriage and future!

And there are ways to interrogate without creating a scene.
Re: If You Were In His/her Shoes... by Mimzyy(f): 9:58am On Oct 18, 2016
lezznjr:
Well, there was enough time lag during the course of the journey. She would have summoned up courage. That's her marriage and future!

And there are ways to interrogate without creating a scene.

The man was driving, don't forget. For all we know, the girlfriend might be the violent type plus she was in the front , what if the wife had raised an eyebrow and the girlfriend attacks the man?
Re: If You Were In His/her Shoes... by SalomonKane: 9:59am On Oct 18, 2016
Mimzyy:
A wife asked her husband to drop her off at a friend's house where a wedding reception was taking place. He responded that he would be too busy throughout the day in the office, and gave her some money to use as taxi for transport.

He left for the office. The wife took a taxi to the wedding reception,there she met a fine Girl and they got talking to each other.
Soon they became friends. In the evening when everyone was leaving, the Girl asked the Woman how she was going home. She replied that her husband was too busy in the office to pick her up so she would use a taxi.

The Girl responded; "My boyfriend brought me here and would be coming to pick me up. I just spoke to him on the phone and he's on his way.
Why don't you join me in his car and we would drop you at your house"The woman agreed. A few minutes later, her husband's car arrived. The Girl jumped into the front passengers seat of the car and asked the Woman to sit at the backseat, which she did confused and perturbed. Then the Girl introduced her new friend to her boyfriend. When the man turned around to greet the woman, he recognized her as his wife. Nothing much was said along the way.

He dropped the wife at home first as planned and proceeded to drop the Girl at her house.

The question now is: If you were the wife, what would you do when your husband returns home?
If you were the husband, what would you say to your wife when you return home?


#COPIED
frankly, if I was the husband I wouldn't be that stupid. Nope!. I ask questions for a living.

I would have asked the wife and girl friend where they're going, name of the place, address, occasion etc.
Re: If You Were In His/her Shoes... by southernbelle(f): 9:59am On Oct 18, 2016
That's a very strong woman there.
It will even be better if she doesn't bring up the issue when the man gets home, just let it hang in the air.
smiley

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Re: If You Were In His/her Shoes... by SalomonKane: 10:00am On Oct 18, 2016
lezznjr:
The wife should have sought explanation right there in the car without giving room for ambiguity and lies.
Bro, the mane (husband) is a very big fool!. Plain and simple.
Re: If You Were In His/her Shoes... by Mimzyy(f): 10:05am On Oct 18, 2016
SalomonKane:
frankly, if I was the husband I wouldn't be that stupid. Nope!. I ask questions for a living.

I would have asked the wife and girl friend where they're going, name of the place, address, occasion etc.


Well , what if you did not ask and you found yourself in this guy's shoes?
Re: If You Were In His/her Shoes... by SalomonKane: 10:09am On Oct 18, 2016
Mimzyy:


Well , what if you did not ask and you found yourself in this guy's shoes?
That's the thing. I can't find myself in the guy's shoe because I'm very prudent.

If I want to do something 'bad'
I damn well make sure I cover my ass. grin
Re: If You Were In His/her Shoes... by Mimzyy(f): 10:09am On Oct 18, 2016
southernbelle:
That's a very strong woman there.
It will even be better if she doesn't bring up the issue when the man gets home, just let it hang in the air.
smiley

The man will be very uncomfortable if she does that grin. Matter of fact, he will be too scared to have a meal prepared by her.
Re: If You Were In His/her Shoes... by lezznjr: 10:09am On Oct 18, 2016
Mimzyy:


The man was driving, don't forget. For all we know, the girlfriend might be the violent type plus she was in the front , what if the wife had raised an eyebrow and the girlfriend attacks the man?
but the wife was in no position to gauge the temperament of the girlfriend having just met her.

Even if girlfriend is is disposed to violence, all girlfriends have this sudden immobility of speech and action when they face the wives of boyfriends. Stolen goods caught in your hands grin

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Re: If You Were In His/her Shoes... by Delicious22: 10:11am On Oct 18, 2016
southernbelle:
That's a very strong woman there.
It will even be better if she doesn't bring up the issue when the man gets home, just let it hang in the air.
smiley
Meaning you're pleased with his actions and give him the license to do more right? cool
Re: If You Were In His/her Shoes... by lezznjr: 10:12am On Oct 18, 2016
SalomonKane:
Bro, the mane (husband) is a very big fool!. Plain and simple.
Lolz! Maybe the girlfriend is still new to have blunted his sense of caution.
Re: If You Were In His/her Shoes... by southernbelle(f): 10:14am On Oct 18, 2016
Mimzyy:


The man will be very uncomfortable if she does that grin. Matter of fact, he will be too scared to have a meal prepared by her.

You are in the spirit. cheesy cheesy
Re: If You Were In His/her Shoes... by SalomonKane: 10:15am On Oct 18, 2016
lezznjr:
Lolz! Maybe the girlfriend is still new to have blunted his sense of caution.
Remember I once told you, "pussy_ is _pussy"? grin it's a mental thing bro. Treat all pussy_ equally and see them as the same.

That's the surest way to avoid stories that touch the heart.

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Re: If You Were In His/her Shoes... by Berbierklaus(f): 10:16am On Oct 18, 2016
southernbelle:
That's a very strong woman there.
It will even be better if she doesn't bring up the issue when the man gets home, just let it hang in the air.
smiley
Then give him the boldness to do as he likes.
This is Nigeria,a certain percent of husbands feel its their right to cheat unquestioned,don't say he will feel guilty,coz I know a number of men who would use that opportunity to bring in another wife.

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Re: If You Were In His/her Shoes... by southernbelle(f): 10:16am On Oct 18, 2016
Delicious22:
Meaning you're pleased with his actions and give him the license to do more right? cool

If you do a thing like that and your wife acts as if nothing happened, you will take her silence as a license to do more, eh?

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Re: If You Were In His/her Shoes... by Delicious22: 10:18am On Oct 18, 2016
southernbelle:


If you do a thing like that and your wife acts as if nothing happened, you will take her silence as a license to do more eh?
Berbieklaus just gave you the perfect reply i have in mind.
Re: If You Were In His/her Shoes... by Bestlily(f): 10:20am On Oct 18, 2016
If I were the woman







I would do nothing......

But i will ensure he dies a slow and painful death

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Re: If You Were In His/her Shoes... by SalomonKane: 10:21am On Oct 18, 2016
Berbierklaus:

Then give him the boldness to do as he likes.
This is Nigeria,a certain percent of husbands feel its their right to cheat unquestioned,don't say he will feel guilty,coz I know a number of men who would use that opportunity to bring in another wife.
I'm sure you can read minds that's how you came to know how he would feel.

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Re: If You Were In His/her Shoes... by lezznjr: 10:24am On Oct 18, 2016
SalomonKane:
Remember I once told you, "pussy_ is _pussy"? grin it's a mental thing bro. Treat all pussy_ equally and see them as the same.

That's the surest way to avoid stories that touch the heart.
Pussy , no doubt is the most potent drug a man can abuse and pay dearly.

But a married man who has elected to cross the boundaries of matrimony should employ caution for the sanctity of his home.
Re: If You Were In His/her Shoes... by SalomonKane: 10:29am On Oct 18, 2016
lezznjr:
Pussy , no doubt is the most potent drug a man can abuse and pay dearly.

But a married man who has elected to cross the boundaries of matrimony should employ caution for the sanctity of his home.
True that! That's why I'd fault the husband for being a pansy ass nigga cos a real playa doesn't get caught. He's on top of his game.

In this case, the husband is a very foolish man and deserve to be flogged 24 stroke of the cane.
Re: If You Were In His/her Shoes... by Delicious22: 10:30am On Oct 18, 2016
Bestlily:
If I were the woman








I would do nothing......


But i will ensure he dies a slow and painful death
I guess that's a joke right?
Re: If You Were In His/her Shoes... by lezznjr: 10:30am On Oct 18, 2016
Berbierklaus:

Then give him the boldness to do as he likes.
This is Nigeria,a certain percent of husbands feel its their right to cheat unquestioned,don't say he will feel guilty,coz I know a number of men who would use that opportunity to bring in another wife.
What are you talking about?
Re: If You Were In His/her Shoes... by Berbierklaus(f): 10:31am On Oct 18, 2016
Bestlily:
If I were the woman








I would do nothing......


But i will ensure he dies a slow and painful death[b]
[b]How
Re: If You Were In His/her Shoes... by lezznjr: 10:32am On Oct 18, 2016
SalomonKane:
True that! That's why I'd fault the husband for being a pansy ass nigga cos a real playa doesn't get caught. He's on top of his game.

In this case, the husband is a very foolish man and deserve to be flogged 24 stroke of the cane.

As a rule, a married man should tell his mistresses of his marital status.

If he had, the situation could have been easily handled.

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Re: If You Were In His/her Shoes... by Mimzyy(f): 10:33am On Oct 18, 2016
Bestlily:
If I were the woman

I would do nothing......

But i will ensure he dies a slow and painful death

shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked Is that not too extreme?
Re: If You Were In His/her Shoes... by Berbierklaus(f): 10:34am On Oct 18, 2016
SalomonKane:
I'm sure you can read minds that's how you came to know how he would feel.

lezznjr:
What are you talking about?

What will be your reaction if you were the man in the story
Re: If You Were In His/her Shoes... by Mimzyy(f): 10:35am On Oct 18, 2016
lezznjr:


As a rule, [s]a married man should tell his mistresses his marital status[/s].

If he had, the situation could have been easily handled.

Telling his mistress his marital status changes nothing especially if the said mistress is in love with him genuinely.

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Re: If You Were In His/her Shoes... by southernbelle(f): 10:38am On Oct 18, 2016
Berbierklaus:

Then give him the boldness to do as he likes.
This is Nigeria,a certain percent of husbands feel its their right to cheat unquestioned,don't say he will feel guilty,coz I know a number of men who would use that opportunity to bring in another wife.

Lol @ use that opportunity to bring in another wife.

Everyone expects a reaction when they do something wrong, if the man doesn't get the reaction he predicted immediately, he can't be comfortable deep down even if he acts as if he doesn't give a damn.

This will also give the woman time to compose herself and think about what she'll say when it's finally time to have "the talk."

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Re: If You Were In His/her Shoes... by lezznjr: 10:39am On Oct 18, 2016
Mimzyy:


Telling his mistress his marital status changes nothing especially if the said mistress is in love with him genuinely.
Then she should learn to cope or lose the love entirely.

A compromise will be reached. She gets his love and he keeps his home; win-win situation

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