I have known my fiancé for six years now and we have been engaged for four years.


Two years into our relationships I started pressuring him, told him I needed to know where the relationship was headed to and he should come know my parents and siblings that two years was enough for him to know what he wanted in this relationship.


I pressured him so much, threatened him with breakup, my last relationship had ended badly and I didn’t want this one to just go down the drain, it wasn’t long after this he proposed, met my people, I met his, we threw a big party and finally moved in together.


It’s been four years after that day and he’s never uttered a word about marriage plans, not a single word, I have been patient enough, wearing this ring with pride, I finally got engaged with the hope that I’d be wedded in a few months or maybe a year and its four years later, please how do I breach the marriage subject to him.





P.S money isn’t the problem



Talk2Bella.



He wasn’t ready for any commitment and you pressurized him, in your little mind where did you think this was going to end? He wasn’t ready to let you go at the moment hence he quickly proposed so he could keep you and now he doesn’t know what to do with you.


Is communication lacking in your relationship? If no why haven’t you been able to ask him why for the past four years he hasn’t made plans for the wedding, or is he expecting you to wear that ring forever?


Wake up and smell the bacon, its either he doesn’t want to marry you or there’s something important holding him back, why don’t you be the dutiful fiancée and find out what it is, instead of jumping into conclusion, wearing that ring forever or just being agitated about a wedding that might never take place.

http://www.talk2bella.com/2016/10/i-have-been-wearing-his-engagement-ring.html

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Talk2Bella:
I have known my fiancé for six years now and we have been engaged for four years.


Two years into our relationships I started pressuring him, told him I needed to know where the relationship was headed to and he should come know my parents and siblings that two years was enough for him to know what he wanted in this relationship.


I pressured him so much, threatened him with breakup, my last relationship had ended badly and I didn’t want this one to just go down the drain, it wasn’t long after this he proposed, met my people, I met his, we threw a big party and finally moved in together.


It’s been four years after that day and he’s never uttered a word about marriage plans, not a single word, I have been patient enough, wearing this ring with pride, I finally got engaged with the hope that I’d be wedded in a few months or maybe a year and its four years later, please how do I breach the marriage subject to him.





P.S money isn’t the problem



Talk2Bella.



He wasn’t ready for any commitment and you pressurized him, in your little mind where did you think this was going to end? He wasn’t ready to let you go at the moment hence he quickly proposed so he could keep you and now he doesn’t know what to do with you.


Is communication lacking in your relationship? If no why haven’t you been able to ask him why for the past four years he hasn’t made plans for the wedding, or is he expecting you to wear that ring forever?


Wake up and smell the bacon, its either he doesn’t want to marry you or there’s something important holding him back, why don’t you be the dutiful fiancée and find out what it is, instead of jumping into conclusion, wearing that ring forever or just being agitated about a wedding that might never take place.

http://www.talk2bella.com/2016/10/i-have-been-wearing-his-engagement-ring.html

How i wish all this cheap girls in N/L will read this........ most of them were married on credit................. am serious

4 years? And he's financially okay?

Well...

If u re tired of wearing it. Den throw it away nah.

Who hold u?


#YOLO

In jenifa's voice, she yaff turn lord in the rings

Cooked up story.

makelove2m:





How i wish all this cheap girls in N/L will read this........ most of them were married on credit................. am serious

its not about whether a girl is cheap or not, its about the society placing a time stamp in the lives of the girl child

Babe you pressurised him to engage you!

You made him throw a big engagement party for you, SMH!

Babe you no try at all!

Babe you are really disturbing that innocent homeboy!

AngelAhnie:
Cooked up story.

but you read it

u see the way Amara casted out Lucifer from Castiel's body in Supernatural that's how i'd eject you outta my thread

This is serious for 4years.

richommie:
If u re tired of wearing it. Den throw it away nah.

Who hold u?


#YOLO

lie lie o, to some girls that engagement is like marriage, they aff come to stay

tukdi:
Babe you pressurised him to engage you!


You made him throw a big engagement party for you, SMH!


Babe you no try at all!


Babe you are really disturbing that innocent homeboy!

innocent boy kor

can someone really be pressurized? into marriage for that matter

makelove2m:





How i wish all this cheap girls in N/L will read this........ most of them were married on credit................. am serious

I thought it was about money till she wrote it wasn't

Talk2Bella:


lie lie o, to some girls that engagement is like marriage, they aff come to stay

And u re among dem shey?


#YOLO

AngelAhnie:
Cooked up story.

Salt no dey am sef

richommie:


And u re among dem shey?


#YOLO

who dash me ring

Tallesty1:
Salt no dey am sef

e never even done sef

This one don come with her fake story again

Na me go still Bleep am last last...Even though she no fine at all

Talk2Bella:


who dash me ring

Wait..u don throway ,the one Wey I give u?


#YOLO

Most times its difficult to take that walk.

You have seen the signs more than you can count and you have seen that things aren't just moving the way they should and this definitely isn't going to bring you peace, yet you seem stuck.

Once you have reached a point of considering if you should leave the relationship or not, then something isn't right. Most likely, it's better to take a break, clear your head and see what happens.

A Broken engagement is better than a broken marriage.

Do not toy with your happiness no matter what you think.

Listen to Toni Braxton sing you "LET'S IT FLOW"

If all that this relationship brings you is pain, anxiety, suspicion, sleepless nights, then for your own good, LET'S IT FLOW.

Be bold and don't be afraid to LET'S IT GO.

Everything will be alright.

http://nursescountry..com/2016/10/get-your-job-done-fast-and-also-earn_18.html?m=1

Gladiator1:
Just four years n she's already complaining. I know some that were engaged for a decade. Afterall, she pressurized him

10 YEARS

richommie:


Wait..u don throway ,the one Wey I give u?


#YOLO

I use am gamble

Talk2Bella:


I use am gamble

Dat diamond ring? I buy dat tin 34m. . .why u do dis to me nah?
And no be say u Sabi gamble.


#YOLO

Talk2Bella:

innocent boy kor
can someone really be pressurized? into marriage for that matter

My dear bella, there is nothing that scammers cannot do o!

Man btw 40 and 45 needs a young lady for marriage.Interested ladies shd send details to 07054222205.

Aderola15:
In jenifa's voice, she yaff turn lord in the rings

She moved in with him after the engagement, why will he marry her eh when she has already start doing wife duties for him?.

herbie27:
She moved in with him after the engagement, why will he marry her eh when she has already start doing wife duties for him?.

She should start fasting oooooo

You didn't talk about the sex life

You didn't talk about the sex life