[b] we are basically completely ignored. In a lot of situations, it’s fine: honestly, I don’t know how my more attractive friends deal with the onslaught of unwanted attention. People are always approaching them like they owe them something, their time, their attention, etc. and I don’t really deal with any of the prototypical ‘girl cattiness’ that people talk about. No one calls me a tease, or easy, or attention-mongering. Women tend to like me a lot cause i dont offer competition

But it can be lonely, too. Men just like… don’t want to talk to you. They don’t see you. Wingmen, no matter how talented they may be in any other situation, seem to lose all ability to conduct small talk. For many people, I am a chore, a roadblock. I see, here on nairaland , everywhere, this idea that all women are “taken care of,” that men buy them drinks, hold doors open for them, help them lift heavy suitcases and boxes, etc. and I see that amongst my attractive friends. None of that happens for me. I am always served last. attendants forget my order

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I recognize I’m not owed anything, but people just assume that women are showered with that attention for being female. No, women are showered with that attention for being desirable. I am not that—I do not receive that attention.

Don’t get me wrong. Sometimes it’s nice to be invisible … Sometimes I feel like I could be an amazing criminal, because when you’re a woman, no one suspects you, and when you’re ugly, no one remembers you.

But on the other hand, it’s impossible to find a job, No one wants to hire an unattractive women for front-of-house. No one wants you to be the face of their company. And that whole “but attractive women are treated like they’re stupid, so at least you have that going for you” is an absolute myth. People still talk over you, still talk down to you, on the off-chance they talk to you at all

But in general, you’re friendzoned more than you friendzone. My entire life is in the friendzone. People have laughed—openly—at the idea of dating me. To my face. “Her? No way.”

…

I’ve done everything humanly possible to make myself look better, barring surgery, and the particular architecture of my face insures that I’m just never going to be anyone men want to be around.

Silkmoth33:
ommoh!

judeefcc:
i dey feel for the herbie girl boss, see how she and her friends are rejected

KissChris:


You don get blog?

judeefcc:
helping the underprivileged ones boss

judeefcc:
part 2

judeefcc:
hello effc my name is herbie, i and my friends diddy, liss and larem have suffered in the hands of men, hear my story

TrapQueen77:




Boiz come ooo


Gladiator1
Obtsubtle
Jarizod
Traphedges
Firstking01



Don't tell me I didn't mentioned u

thanks babe..i don take my seat for front

Jarizod:

thanks babe..i don take my seat for front

Silkmoth33:
Let the first fugly girl willing to die first stick their heads in the guillotine!

BRIGHTRIVERS:
Its hell in reality but heaven Online.If u are on Facebook you'll understand what I mean

TrapQueen77:




Boiz come ooo


Gladiator1
Obtsubtle
Jarizod
Traphedges
Firstking01



Don't tell me I didn't mentioned u

Gladiator1:
I'm here

nubian999:
I don't get the point of this thread

BiafraBushBoy:
It is very unfortunate that someone like Op is in existence...

No wonder people believe there is no God..

Because they keep asking. if there is God, why should he create someone like Op??

Think about it...

BiafraBushBoy:
It is very unfortunate that someone like Op is in existence...

No wonder people believe there is no God..

Because they keep asking. if there is God, why should he create someone like Op??

Think about it...

Donpoker9:



there is no point, just attention seeking

Lawlahdey:
Haba. . Be nice dear That one is too mush