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Nigerian Man Based Abroad Has Oyinbo Gf But Wants 2 Marry Nigerian Wife. Advice by Missolivea: 9:08pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
Nairalanders I'm in need of your advice here. Please let advice be mature because every advice is important to me. I met this guy in church December last year and we got talking. He actually came home to visit because he is based abroad. So he went back to his base and kept in touch. He calls me often and we chat often. Along the line he made his intention known which is to date me. And I considered everything, he's being abroad and all. So I said ok let me pray about it. Then he told me that he has an oyinbo live-in girlfriend who has been very good to him, in fact she has helped him out of trouble with the authorities severally because of illegal business. So he's that indebted to her. So I asked him what he wants with me then. He said that he's telling me because something might come up along the line to make him marry the oyinbo girlfriend considering that she can help him out with the authorities. But that he seriously wants to marry a Nigerian girl. So nairalanders this is my dilemma. Should I or should I not? It seems that some Nigerian girls actually do this knowingly. Please mature advice is needed. Thank you all. Lalasticlala mynd44 ishilove seun pls help move this to FP. I created a new acct for this purpose Y'all might want to see this https://www.nairaland.com/3424731/why-nigerian-men-come-back/2 |
Re: Nigerian Man Based Abroad Has Oyinbo Gf But Wants 2 Marry Nigerian Wife. Advice by Nobody: 9:10pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
So the oyinbo lady is for Green card abi? My Nigga 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Man Based Abroad Has Oyinbo Gf But Wants 2 Marry Nigerian Wife. Advice by Ishilove: 9:14pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
You registered today and you want front page coverage? Kwantinue 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Man Based Abroad Has Oyinbo Gf But Wants 2 Marry Nigerian Wife. Advice by Nobody: 9:15pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
LOL. Stories.... Look lady, at least he was honest and upfront with you about this "oyinbo" girl. (the things I learn from nairaland...oyinbo=white.) Anyway, it's really up to you if you want to embark on this journey of sharing this guy with another woman- albeit probably using this poor white lady for green card or as he mentioned "jail get away card". |
Re: Nigerian Man Based Abroad Has Oyinbo Gf But Wants 2 Marry Nigerian Wife. Advice by Nobody: 9:22pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
Arrest the guy.. Na scammer 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Man Based Abroad Has Oyinbo Gf But Wants 2 Marry Nigerian Wife. Advice by Missolivea: 9:36pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
Ishilove:Sister you ought to know how we operate here. We don't use our original accounts for sensitive posts. Thanks all the same |
Re: Nigerian Man Based Abroad Has Oyinbo Gf But Wants 2 Marry Nigerian Wife. Advice by Nobody: 9:50pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
Don't date Him He's a gold digger |
Re: Nigerian Man Based Abroad Has Oyinbo Gf But Wants 2 Marry Nigerian Wife. Advice by Missolivea: 9:52pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
KissChris:Gold digger is a good qualification for this. Seems the oyinbo lady is living in a fool's paradise with him |
Re: Nigerian Man Based Abroad Has Oyinbo Gf But Wants 2 Marry Nigerian Wife. Advice by Nobody: 9:56pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
Missolivea: Yeah.... You've not spent enough time with Him Online chatting is not the best way to know someone He might eventually cheat on You too 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Man Based Abroad Has Oyinbo Gf But Wants 2 Marry Nigerian Wife. Advice by Luckylife(m): 9:59pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
If you are ready to bear any consequences that may arise from you marring him, eg been treated like house maid or the racist white woman giving both of you order in her country or you acting as an abandoned wife , your life and destiny in your hand . But my sincere advice if the guy was force to marry the white because his staying there depends on her, that a very bad omen . Move on with your life you worth more than second wife in another man country . Your right man must surely come . |
Re: Nigerian Man Based Abroad Has Oyinbo Gf But Wants 2 Marry Nigerian Wife. Advice by Nobody: 10:00pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
Missolivea: he proposed to you and you said ok ""let me pray about it "" have you now prayed about it and what did God minister to you in that regard after the prayers, did the possible out come not reveal to you through prayers |
Re: Nigerian Man Based Abroad Has Oyinbo Gf But Wants 2 Marry Nigerian Wife. Advice by Missolivea: 10:02pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
carmag:My dear I didn't want to go deep into the outcome of that prayer but it was not an outcome that said definitely go ahead |
Re: Nigerian Man Based Abroad Has Oyinbo Gf But Wants 2 Marry Nigerian Wife. Advice by Missolivea: 10:04pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
KissChris:True talk. |
Re: Nigerian Man Based Abroad Has Oyinbo Gf But Wants 2 Marry Nigerian Wife. Advice by Nobody: 10:16pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
kingcheezypuff Lets hear yer thoughts |
Re: Nigerian Man Based Abroad Has Oyinbo Gf But Wants 2 Marry Nigerian Wife. Advice by Nobody: 10:16pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
Missolivea: you can give it a trial (IF) you are desperate having in mind it aren't gonna be smooth sailing..it's going to be a win win situation |
Re: Nigerian Man Based Abroad Has Oyinbo Gf But Wants 2 Marry Nigerian Wife. Advice by vicstar(m): 10:21pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
..at the end of it all they feel they will always come home and settle |
Re: Nigerian Man Based Abroad Has Oyinbo Gf But Wants 2 Marry Nigerian Wife. Advice by Missolivea: 10:24pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
carmag:Pls expatiate on what you mean by win-win situation in this context. Is it for me, for him or for all parties involved? |
Re: Nigerian Man Based Abroad Has Oyinbo Gf But Wants 2 Marry Nigerian Wife. Advice by Nobody: 10:53pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
BUTCHCASSIDY:He pranced his happy dark Yoruba behind arcoss the ocean and got involved with me but when things get serious he then lets on he wants ta marry from his country ~ I would rip his white kaftan wearin' behind ta pieces 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Man Based Abroad Has Oyinbo Gf But Wants 2 Marry Nigerian Wife. Advice by Nobody: 11:07pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
KingCheezyPuff:hahahaha
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Re: Nigerian Man Based Abroad Has Oyinbo Gf But Wants 2 Marry Nigerian Wife. Advice by Sirmuel1(m): 11:08pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
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Re: Nigerian Man Based Abroad Has Oyinbo Gf But Wants 2 Marry Nigerian Wife. Advice by Nobody: 11:44pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
Missolivea: he has already told you his commitment with another lady who is integral part of his life as long as he remains in that country meaning you should be ready to abide by any condition suitable to him, if he marries you and decide you should stay with his parents while he comes home to spend some couple of weeks with you then returns to his white chick and that shouldn't be a problem to you because he made himself clear at the beginning l hope you're not expecting he takes you along to where ever country he resides...Never.. not when he still enjoy the protection of the white lady |
Re: Nigerian Man Based Abroad Has Oyinbo Gf But Wants 2 Marry Nigerian Wife. Advice by Nobody: 11:46pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
BUTCHCASSIDY:that meme though shut up. ~~ I have actually heard women tell their story of foreign guys doing this . I don't know if the foreign women do |
Re: Nigerian Man Based Abroad Has Oyinbo Gf But Wants 2 Marry Nigerian Wife. Advice by Nobody: 12:04am On Oct 24, 2016 |
What country is he based? If he's getting citizenship through a wife it could take 5yrs or more depending where he is. He is telling you he wants two wives btw he isn't going to leave the white girl trust me. You will remain in your country and he'll come to see you once every few months. His marriage to the white woman will be official whether it's for papers or not so you will be committing adultery so pray on that lol what a joke. Last bullet : Are you that hungry or ugly that you would stoop so low. Isn't this woman a human being who btw doesn't know her soon to be husband is cheating. White girls ain't cheap like you so he will protect her from knowing about you so you'll be the side chick. 2nd in command. Meaning you will always come after her needs. So pray on that you hungry low self esteem ho.e! |
Re: Nigerian Man Based Abroad Has Oyinbo Gf But Wants 2 Marry Nigerian Wife. Advice by Nobody: 12:05am On Oct 24, 2016 |
nubian999:husband hunter |
Re: Nigerian Man Based Abroad Has Oyinbo Gf But Wants 2 Marry Nigerian Wife. Advice by Nobody: 1:14am On Oct 24, 2016 |
KingCheezyPuff:Oh they do lots of them do I have a family friend who did something similar really disgusting |
Re: Nigerian Man Based Abroad Has Oyinbo Gf But Wants 2 Marry Nigerian Wife. Advice by Nobody: 1:29am On Oct 24, 2016 |
BUTCHCASSIDY:it's "really disgusting" because it can happen ta you,ain't it? |
Re: Nigerian Man Based Abroad Has Oyinbo Gf But Wants 2 Marry Nigerian Wife. Advice by khiaa(f): 1:32am On Oct 24, 2016 |
Op if you marry this low-life it will show alot about your character. Alot of Nigerians love to brag and boast about their culture and morals, and then I see topics like this and I think to myself "what morals"? |
Re: Nigerian Man Based Abroad Has Oyinbo Gf But Wants 2 Marry Nigerian Wife. Advice by bitchcrafts: 2:00am On Oct 24, 2016 |
IMO, Yo decision on whether to go ahead with the nuptial ties should largely be dependent on what kind of married life you wanna lead, the kind of parenting you wish for yo kids and the interests you wishing to protect as at now to have felt that surge to go into prayer sessions seeking for some "divine illuminations". However, my honey pie, your destiny lies largely in yo own hands;You're the sole author of it and people will proof-read if u get lucky to have them around you on your funeral . Weigh yo options and most advisably choose ''Best". |
Re: Nigerian Man Based Abroad Has Oyinbo Gf But Wants 2 Marry Nigerian Wife. Advice by bitchcrafts: 2:05am On Oct 24, 2016 |
khiaa:This sorta negative vibe infuriates and gets me utterly weak in the knees. Yes, Nigerian cultures teach good morals and there are a few bad eggs as it should be, So what? |
Re: Nigerian Man Based Abroad Has Oyinbo Gf But Wants 2 Marry Nigerian Wife. Advice by Nobody: 2:06am On Oct 24, 2016 |
nubian999:white girls aint cheap like that but Donald trumps wife is a sugar baby ~ White girls ain't cheap like that but Kim kardasian posses nude/exsposes herself for the dollar. ~ The playboy masion is full of what? White girls. ~~ I dont know how you have the mighty view you do of them based off their race ~~~ ~~ Hi Nubian |
Re: Nigerian Man Based Abroad Has Oyinbo Gf But Wants 2 Marry Nigerian Wife. Advice by Nobody: 2:11am On Oct 24, 2016 |
KingCheezyPuff: True true but white girls don't share their man like these hungry girls. I just get vex when a woman plots with a man to bring down a fellow woman Hey Queen |
Re: Nigerian Man Based Abroad Has Oyinbo Gf But Wants 2 Marry Nigerian Wife. Advice by Nobody: 2:14am On Oct 24, 2016 |
nubian999:King ~~ . You right,I hate it 2. But I'm not entirely sure this is real. ~ Let me see if he called lala |
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